Hannibal:

My dayz. . . . . .Did u really say that??

God forbid, if this guy misplaces his priority and puts the babe in the family way, women would be complaining that she was made to suffer.
Everything should be planned out . . . . You would be surprised that the babe in question is still an undergraduate.
I don't know why most of em are in a hurry these days.
You meet a babe and within a month, she is showing u the kind of wedding dress she wants.

Ruby_Pearl:

@poster
you thinking of settling with 2 women then?

truth2:

do women even know what they want?

truth2:

do women even know what they want?

truth2:

do women even know what they want?

truth2:

do women even know what they want?

Ruby_Pearl:

@oyinye
Kedu!

Gonorrhea:

@poster

marriage no be by force naw!

getting cold feet at the thoughts of marriage

Hannibal:

My dayz. . . . . .Did u really say that??

God forbid, if this guy misplaces his priority and puts the babe in the family way, women would be complaining that she was made to suffer.
Everything should be planned out . . . . You would be surprised that the babe in question is still an undergraduate.
I don't know why most of em are in a hurry these days.
You meet a babe and within a month, she is showing u the kind of wedding dress she wants.

damola1:

am not a player, but my girlfriend of so many years asked me when will it happen.

I simply told her the plain truth, I have known you for approx. 7yrs, I love you very dearly, I have never kissed another lady's lip all these years, however, I need you to understand that I will love to meet other women before I settle down, because that's the way I feel, well, she only told me, I sincerely hope you settle down with me, thats all.

I don't want to feel caged in a marriage, neither do I want to start messing up in such a wonderful committment, she's worth all that, however, it's best I simply straighten my head before I settle down.

Life is too short for me to be unhappy, I don't play games either, so, as simple as it comes, thats it!!!, I still have never shown serious interest in any other lady, so she's got like 90% chance we can close the deal anytime!!!!

damola1:

am not a player, but my girlfriend of so many years asked me when will it happen.

I simply told her the plain truth, I have known you for approx. 7yrs, I love you very dearly, I have never kissed another lady's lip all these years, however, I need you to understand that I will love to meet other women before I settle down, because that's the way I feel, well, she only told me, I sincerely hope you settle down with me, thats all.

I don't want to feel caged in a marriage, neither do I want to start messing up in such a wonderful committment, she's worth all that, however, it's best I simply straighten my head before I settle down.

Life is too short for me to be unhappy, I don't play games either, so, as simple as it comes, thats it!!!, I still have never shown serious interest in any other lady, so she's got like 90% chance we can close the deal anytime!!!!

onyinye2:

Nnem Ruby, ka al di?

Ruby_Pearl:

YEA, HOW DO YOU SAY "WHAT?"

rubi:

I don't think the girl is an undergraduate for a lady to ask for marriage something has gone wrong somewhere either she do not trust the guys moves or she is ripe take it from me

Hannibal:

Are u kidding me??
Girls get on the marriage vibes as early as 18 these days. . . .
There's nothing wrong with a girl looking out for herself but then things should move stage by stage!!!
This lass should allow her man get a good job first. . . . get a nest before thinking of commitment.

onyinye2:

what----gini

Ruby_Pearl:

I meela  

damola1:

@ onyinye2

We are not all the same, and from the first day, she understood we are free birds.

Ruby_Pearl:

that means?

rubi:

There is nothing wrong in a man settling down first I admire that aspect but it depends on individual definition of settling down acquiring the whole world? both can start the journey together or instead let her go when he is ready they can talk if only the lady will still be available.

damola1:

@ onyinye2

We are not all the same, and from the first day, she understood we are free birds.

@ rubi ,

thanks.

damola1:

@ onyinye2

We are not all the same, and from the first day, she understood we are free birds.

@ rubi ,

thanks.

Cristalz:

@poster
As lovingly as possible,explain to her that you love her,but heck,its too early to start making serious commitments because you haven't even got your feet on the ground yet,and neither has she. Its a crazy world out there o,not like within a Uni. Perhaps she doesn't know that.

Besides,if shez still in school or is also a fresh graduate,whoz to say shez not going to fall for someone else during her service year? Or meet some other rich,well-made dude and leave you heartbroken. She should slow down,simply build on making your love stronger and let what will be,be.There are some things you just don't force.