acidtalk: OP, I will advice you to go through the below thread and get the Best and Most matured answers to your solution.


Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home, Can You Consider It?

https://www.nairaland.com/905642/marrying-extremely-poor-home-consider

Thank me later. (N.B: You might most likely get childish answers/responses these days in here)

Read the posts at your link and the OP should REALLY heed your advice. There was a very smart comment made about the difference between a poor/literate family and a poor/illiterate one and it is very true.

One a serious note, how is OP's potential father-in-law alright with a young man paying for the home he and his family will live in before marriage? This looks like a recipe for disaster.