crackhaus: Oestrogen and progesterone-filled topic & thread... Smh!

The girls are about to get emotional here with a lot of attitude...
I will sit this one out till I'm motivated enough to go supersonic with my counter argument.

*whistling and watching*

realbee:
sista eve did not put a matchete on behind his head looto but if it was a matchete it would hv been beta, d 'weapon' dat eve was danglin on his face was d most dangerous, dat weapon dat was later used 2 kill abacha, and remember they were naked oo! no man will resist at when a lady is usin dat weapon, its more dangerous dan atomic bomb, rememba its dat same weapon dat destroys sordom & gomorra.

Caracta: @mondisweets, I dey your back gidigba.

*spreads mat*

GentleMimi:
And i can smell ur testosterone and ego all the way from here.
I'll rather sleep off the wawawa...Zzzzzzzzzz....

chidaddy1198: Treat a woman nice n u will get the best from her heart. Give her confident, protect n listen to her n u will never regret having her by ur side. Guys stop being dominant always seek to understand then be understood. truly guys r d issue

Mondisweets: I have noticed that a lot of guys (on NL) hardly ever think a man can go wrong in a relationship. For instance, if someone created a thread that his girlfriend cheated on him, guys are quick to insult her and tell him to move on and if a girl creates a thread that a guy cheated on her, most of the guys will probably say that maybe she just wasn't good enough or use the same old "men are polygamous by nature" myth. A relationship will never be happy and healthy if you think its all about making the man happy.

A lot of guys tend to say women don't know what they want, but have you actually sit down to talk to your woman to know what she wants? Just because your grandfather told you that your grandmother liked A,B,C doesn't mean every other woman Goes with the same list. The biggest problem with guys (especially the NL ones) is that they don't take time to know what a woman wants and how she wants it. For instance, guys complain that most girls aren't adventurous, remember we all have different personalities and react to things differently (just because you like watching cage fighting it doesn't mean your woman has to like it too) take time to know what your woman likes. Don't be the boring guys who expects his woman to love playing FIFA while you don't even attempt to do anything she enjoys the most with her.

Most guys would rather leave a relationship when things get tough rather than fixing it. Most guys believe that once they betray a woman's trust and she forgives him, it means that everything just goes back to normal at the snap of a finger, but that is never the case. You take time to build that trust again, your actions will determine if you are worthy of being trusted again. Don't do anything stupid that you know will jeopardize your relationship and expect everything to go back to normal simply because you apologized for your silly actions. it has to go beyond a mere apology, your actions have to prove it too.

Every woman has her own likes and dislikes. The biggest mistake you can make is assuming that what you did for an ex will simply work on any other woman. This is the reason why i believe you have to know your woman before you decide to date. Drop that, "if i don't ask her now another guy will do it before me" mentality, a sensible person worth keeping wouldn't just jump into a relationship with someone she hardly knows. Whats the point of rushing into a relationship and then come back on NL making noise about how difficult women are. Who told you to rush into a relationship with someone you don't know. Don't assume all women want the same things and the same treatment. We differ

you would rather talk about your partner. this is the most immature thing that a lot of guys do, if you woman cant make your favorite dish the way you like it, instead of talking to her about it you would rather go tell your friends how much of a bad cook she is. If you know how to make it better why don't you spend that saturday weekend with her showing her where she is going wrong instead of talking about it to your friends sunday to sunday, which never resolves anything. Same thing goes with sex, if she just lies there like rotten wood, why don't you start telling her want you would want her to do. Stop going to your uncles weekend after weekend asking him for advice, he isn't the woman you are being intimate with, he cant possibly know how she likes it. If you think he knows best,maybe you should consider dating him instead you can make suggestions during the act or better yet if you. Are comfortable with it, have a day you will sit down and talk about what you really want when you making love. Some of you may even be surprised that the reason why she never puts energy into it is because you will just be wasting her time, you never attempt to please her.

being pretentious will not do any good in a relationship. lying about your financial status, occupation or your background will only damage your relationship. Don't go on dates you cant afford simply because you want to please a woman, because once you start big she will be expecting that you maintain the same standards. If you know your are just an ordinary clerk dont try and make it sound like something else big and fancy, because the day she figures how fake you are, she will leave you faster than you can say her first name. Let a girl fall in love with you, nit some cooked up guy you wish you were.

As much as you think you are the captain of the ship, a relationship still requires effort from both parties. Its not just about a woman pleasing her man, but its about both parties pleasing each other

chidaddy1198: Treat a woman nice n u will get the best from her heart. Give her confident, protect n listen to her n u will never regret having her by ur side. Guys stop being dominant always seek to understand then be understood. truly guys r d issue

Logan_Rebirth: Story story story.

God created the world,create Adam,he rest.
He created woman,nobody rest again.
Pls Can we all just agree the world would be a better place without women?

crackhaus: Here is my post from a thread related to this one, edited in very few places but the same in totality.

I'm a lover of women, don't get it twisted...these are just observations, so feel free to crush my self-esteem if you don't like what you see

San Miguel:

Lenu e . Psalm 82:6 "I said, 'You are "gods"; you are all sons of the Most High.' So yes we are gods..

Negation:

You've put down good points, but this is what I've noticed about most of these type of threads on NL - BOTH by men and Women - They are constructed to look rational, but it's really just someone ranting. Man A says why do women do this - Some men concur, some disagree, some women yap Man A (actually, lets be honest; most women with yap Man A). Woman A says why do men...you see where this is going.

If all of this stuff is not enough proof why it's critical (forget about it being important) to 1.) Know thyself 2.) Recognise who you want 3.) Never settle for less then I don't know what will be.

It's just a never-ending circle of the blame-game out here, and both genders are playing it. If science were to prove that we are responsible for what we bring into our lives, expect millions of people to commit suicide that very day; some of us aren't built to live in a world where we can't point fingers at someone else.

addictiv: People should learn that no one is above error n mistakes. Women no matter how controversial they are have had their fair share of the society placing them second rate. Even in instances where a woman is more qualified n competent in a job or role, she is pushed to the back based on sentiments due to her gender. while placing a critical role on a lady my be seen as a risk, if she is given the needed support n guidance to enable her steer through such challenges. She ll come out more confident n can be able to make tougher decisions in due course. Guys should try as much as possible to encourage n tolerate their women. Women should take those little things that re entrusted to them seriously. Cos she who is faithful in little things is always rewarded with bigger things.

Baby mama:

You are taking things too seriously
Do you know some of the people you are referring to are not even men
Many of them are boys wey never even sprout one single bia hia for chin

troy20:
just so sad the women here look up to you.someone who couldnt keep a man...a home becoming a role model to them.your disdain and hatred of men is unbelievable.