freecocoa:
The only reason she lies about is so she is not rejected.

If people were sensible enough to know that, what is considered "bad" should be for both genders, then we wouldn't have women lying about such things.

njokusboy:
...they are also likely to have so many unrealistic expectation, she wants you to fvck like kunle but talk like tayo, listen like Joseph but play like benjamin, she picks all the best habits from her exes and expects you to have them as a result...

freecocoa:
Your own is just to start insulting someone, couldn't you have said what you wanted to without calling me daft?

freecocoa:
Who made you judge of what is bad btw? What you think, is your opinion, not a fact and which physical pathologies are you referring to?

freecocoa:
You don't know zilch about my ways and. I'm sure I get sense pass you.

crackhaus:

What you and the modern pro-equalists don't yet seem to grasp is that men and women are governed by different sets of 'unwritten' rules - trying to balance this out will take years upon years of mental reconditioning to undo the years upon years of mental conditioning.
Some countries only put laws on paper to try to balance it out, but truth is, plenty people are still thinking the same way regardless...even in the civilized western world.
Bill Clinton had an affair, guess who took most of the blame...


A woman doesn't want to be rejected so she lies...whose fault is this?
If she wants the rules to apply without bias, then she better start holding her head high and claiming the prize.

freecocoa:
We are basically saying the same thing, I do know of these unwritten rules, I am only saying it doesn't make sense.

freecocoa:
You are asking me whose fault it is? Take a look at this thread, therein lies your answer.

freecocoa:
even all for chastity, it just should go both ways.

TV01:

Of course I could have, but it's you na, and I just couldn't resist .
Me, judge? You are right,it is just my opinion, but based on lived experience, real data, and the insight of millenia of received societal wisdom.
Read my ealrier post - 1 or 2 before my initial response to you.
I may not know, but I really do care. I'm actually rooting for you Cocoa and it would warm my heart to see you score a home run - get back to God and get that marriage you insist on structuring exactly how you like . But to do that you will need sense, hence my sharing.
Be wise, listen and learn, test and see, ditch the equalist thinking - equal does not mean the same. Don't forget, right or wrong, men know what men want way better than you do.
All the best girl.
Now get off our thread .
TV

TV01:

I told you there was nothing to quibble about, and you are reaching with your assertions; I am not fixated - but I see it as a consideration (amongst others), and not something to be overlooked. Neither have I said virginity makes a woman ideal or necessarily superior. What I have said is ATBE, a virgin to low count will be preferable to a high count. I have also said increased count brings increased risk - and those risks are behavioural as well as physical.

TV01:

Not a meter per se, but promiscuity can engender all kinds of issue, which can potentially rear and prove problematic in a later union.

TV01:

I said I am not being prescriptive, whether one is concerned or not, checks or not, that is their prerogative. I happen to believe it is something to be be given due consideration - and advise accordingly.

TV01:

The deep bonds that form between a couple can be impaired if a woman has repeatedly bonded and unbonded in the past. Do you know women may even carry epigenetic/phenotypical detail from previous lovers (forgive my weak science)?

TV01:

And as already stated, the higher the number of priors, the more likely a woman is to be dissatisfied in a union. And there are numerous health issues that can arise as a result of her sexual history.

TV01:

And you are free to both believe and act on that. I believe it can have an impact, so should be considered.

TV01:

^{I must say I am puzzled at you insistence of totally separating a woman's notch count from her character or behaviour, and also seemingly able to view sexual actions as devoid of moral implications and therefore not a consideration when choosing a spouse?}

TV01:

Maybe not to you, and indeed they may appear somewhat unfair, but you wont get very far swimming against the tide, or trying to buck market sentiment


It's an agreed alliance between men and women, mostly enforced by women. Thinking it's male led is your first mistake. And thinking changing it based on equalist principles will better serve women is your second.


It should, and it may well do for all one day, but even then, the outcomes of non-chastity are not the same or viewed in the same way.

Are you blinking furiously as you start to get it? Hopefully.

I'm done for the day - unless Mrs TV fancies a good pestering .

Now for the last time vamoose - go spread the good news.


TV

freecocoa:
Yea right, Why shouldn't I mention alum and co?, doesn't it help with tightening? And I hear the vagina doesn't even slack, especially not from 'too much sêx' like really slack the way you people make it sound. Viagra is to peenis what alum is to vajayjay.

We are talking about women and suddenly condoms are unheard of, plus what does sperm have to do with anything?

It's just your mind Biko.

freecocoa:
The only reason she lies about is so she is not rejected.

If people were sensible enough to know that, what is considered "bad" should be for both genders, then we wouldn't have women lying about such things.

Timbuktou:



Only sick men use viagra. A steady diet of cucumber and watermelon will make a sexual beast of any man. Quote me anywhere. Alum on the other hand has got severe side effects. Google it. I warn you, the texture is different. We know. We have conducted extensive research. You can only deceive novices.

How many Nigerians use condom with their steady partners? Nigerian women that like skin-to-skin more than flies love poop? Cocoa, I'm a Lagos boy. Please, show me some respect. . Nigerian girls that will keep face like Buhari if they hear "con.." sef?

My mind? See this one o. Have you ever had a peenis? Have you ever tried lesbian love? Dey dia dey believe your illusions. You better go and look for a jew to hook.

crackhaus:

I believe the problem being with a woman with a high body-count (darn, I hate this word), has more to do with the possibility that you might know or run into three or more men who have had sex with her in the past...and trust me, YOU do not want to be in that situation where you overhear three strangers whispering about how your beloved wife used to bounce and scream on their erect c0cks.

crackhaus:

It's not really about her puna having a puna-meter for measuring the radius and circumference of an overused and overworked kitten.

crackhaus:

And hey, if you were Barack Obama having an aspiration for political office (Senate or presidency) in a country like America where politicians are thoroughly vetted to avoid scandals, you definitely would care/consider how high the body-count goes for the woman you wish to marry.

It isn't flimsy, and saying it is doesn't make you seem more civilized or modern.

freecocoa:
Yea right, like alum is the only way to go, I don't even believe the vagina slacks to the point that it becomes 'no longer sweet' especially from too much sêx like I already said.

I don't even understand this texture talk, how does sêx affect the texture of one's vagina? I seriously want to know, does an originally smooth sirfaced vagina become rough or what excatly?

Okay, let's agree that many steady partners don't use condoms but how does sperm affect anything is what I asked?

I don't have a peenis alright but you don't know that I don't have a girl in my bed as I type.

Why should I be with a jew man? I'm not anywhere near being a jew girl.

Timbuktou:


Vajay dey slack madam. Unless na carrot the babe dey collect. If she dey collect dem Njoku own, sorry na her name.

Na wear and tear na. Stop making me repeat myself. I don't know what to say to you anymore. The feel is different, if you like gree if you like no gree. Na you say you no wan marry jew. Person like me go just use side eye look you after the first experience. I go done know how far and my plan to bail done dey ground. I no dey buy five day beans abeg.

Babe, nothing I say will make sense to you. You're not a guy. You cannot understand.

Good for you.

Very well, then.

freecocoa:
The feel is different, and that difference couldn't have been caused by something other than different kobokos Abi? Abegi leave talk, you have not said anything.

Smh, just see the way you refer to a woman, Tim, your babe know say you dey talk like this? So na vajay dey decide who you go marry, I Smh again.

If you say something worth understanding, it would be understood.

Btw, being a virgin or not having much sexual experience is not what makes one "jew".

freecocoa:
Yea right, like that is really obtainable.

I guess you don't know that a guy who's been with many women is seen as badass and a woman who's been with many men, is damaged goods.

Well, Isn't it callous to be inconsiderate?

njokusboy:
If I had my way ehn, walai, I won't marry a woman dat has slept with more than 2 men...
Infact, i'd go for a virgin
What you women have is a lock and you know wat they say about a lock that opens anyhow a woman with so much fvck history usually comes into a relationship with so many inhibitions because of the many heartbreaks, they are also likely to have so many unrealistic expectation, she wants you to fvck like kunle but talk like tayo, listen like Joseph but play like benjamin, she picks all the best habits from her exes and expects you to have them, as a result, she invariably compares you with, one man or the other she has given up the cooch to... and we are yet to even talk about the reason why her past relationships never worked and she had to change them so often
And you people should not talk about women here, dis is a man thread, its clear as daylight dat men and women are not the same, while you people want "experienced" men, we want virgins... if you guys do not like our stance, you should adjust yours and go for virgin boys... we won't complain about it...

ApexTitan:
Boys Night Out thread and you guys keep engaging the ladies directly here. To what end?

freecocoa:
Good stuff ko, like yourself is good.


Mscheww.

freecocoa:
Yea right, Why shouldn't I mention alum and co?, doesn't it help with tightening? And I hear the vagina doesn't even slack, especially not from 'too much sêx' like really slack the way you people make it sound. Viagra is to peenis what alum is to vajayjay.

We are talking about women and suddenly condoms are unheard of, plus what does sperm have to do with anything?

It's just your mind Biko.

bellong:


The woman is shamed for several reasons..

Whether we like it or not, women bear most of the bad consequences from premarital sex.

A woman who have had several donors has higher probability of committing at least two abortions. No man wants an empty womb as wife especially if she was the reason for it.

A woman with many men has potential of harbouring deadly STD virus from her "harem" of men to transmit to the husband. Virus can be in a recessive state in women for longer time than men.

A woman with several men has accumulated different fluid being a universal acceptor from universal donor thereby corrupting the diwn below.

A woman with several men is seen as someone who cannot make right decision hence cannot make a good wife. She knows men abhor a lady with many body count, in your language, yet couldn't say NO when approached. Shows the content of her will, thought process and decision making prowess.

I can list many of the reasons but Njoku and TV already explained others.

5minsmadness:

... exits ghost mode

Just for clarification.
Alum DOES NOT tighten the vagina. It thickens and corrodes the mucosa vaginal walls. It also causes sudden dehydration which causes the vaginal canal to fizzle and shrink (think of a snail you pour salt on) and then atrophy. This results in an inelastic vagina. An inelastic vagina will be prone to being more painful to the woman during sex. It will also tear more often. More tears means more susceptibility to STIs including HIV.
An inelastic vagina will also be hell-on-earth when it comes to delivering babies.

Vaginas are meant to expand with use. That's nature.

Do not use alum to tighten your vagina. You WILL regret it on the long run.

... re-enters ghost mode.

Timbuktou:


I done hear o. Me wey dey get the experience dey tell you as e dey be, you no wan gree because no be wetin you wan hear . Feel free to deny this reality. Arguing with me on this is akin to me arguing on menstruation with you. But hey, youre Freecocoa, innit?

Abeg, you're in the boys room. Don't come and be sensoring speech here. No, no be vajay, na beards. Babe, you're talking to a man who revels in his maleness. I expect my wife to have nothing but the tightest, juiciest vajay that will make me come back for more and more. No apologies about it. Why should I resign myself to a lifetime of kitty mediocrity. See me see trouble o. Nna, Crackhaus come see talk o. This gyal wants to shame my desire of a high-quality, well-maintained kitty.

Ok, ma.

You can be a jew in certain areas and be sharp in others. Nuff said.

Timbuktou:


Nobody wants a neighbourhood bicycle. The more men a woman's been with the less her value. The more women a man's been with, the higher his value. Deal with it.

Timbuktou:



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How many Nigerians use condom with their steady partners? Nigerian women that like skin-to-skin more than flies love poop? Cocoa, I'm a Lagos boy. Please, show me some respect. . Nigerian girls that will keep face like Buhari if they hear "con.." sef?

freecocoa:
Yea right, like alum is the only way to go, I don't even believe the vagina slacks to the point that it becomes 'no longer sweet' especially from too much sêx like I already said.

I don't even understand this texture talk, how does sêx affect the texture of one's vagina? I seriously want to know, does an originally smooth sirfaced vagina become rough or what excatly?

Okay, let's agree that many steady partners don't use condoms but how does sperm affect anything is what I asked?

I don't have a peenis alright but you don't know that I don't have a girl in my bed as I type.

Why should I be with a jew man? I'm not anywhere near being a jew girl.

5minsmadness:

@bolded oh boy
Naivety at its peak
Lemme read further down and hope someone explains it to you.

freecocoa:
You must think you are referring to a "village girl"

Mschew.

freecocoa:
Why don't you just do the honours instead, Abi aren't you one of the experts on vagina matters?

5minsmadness:

More of a naive one.
Reading through the rest of your posts up to this point, I am most probably right.