during a discussion with your fiancee, she suddenly asks you "would you love me more than your mother?"

Definately, we are aware of some mothers who are wicked, but in a case where a real Mother is involved, would u love your fiancee more than ur mother?

Funny thing, i read somewhere today that a man is attached to his mother

and until she dies, his wife wont have that special place the mum has.

there will be exceptions, of cos

Gamine:

Funny thing, i read somewhere today that a man is attached to his mother

and until she dies, his wife wont have that special place the mum has.

there will be exceptions, of because

Now, we aint talking of when the mother is dead, we are talking of while the mother is still alive, is it normall to love your fiancee much more than ur mother, to the extent that you do things to please ur fiancee at the detriment of your mother?

The best is to have love for both of them thats it.

At the detriment of another.

That is foolishness, innit?

fiancee not wife

my hubby love his mum alot, i remember him saying after his mum, then me, which is fine with me, don't mind coming in second, his mum is cool anyway.

wihout a shadow of doubt, its my mum

i know that no other woman can ever love me as much as my mom does.

Fiancee and ma sweet mother?? No comparison.
Ma MUM comes first.
Let Fiancee put her mum first too, me don't care!!!!

I CANNOT believe that there is competition or comparison.


I am hoping that the kind/type of Love a son has for his mother is DIFFERENT from the type/kind of love a man has for his fiancee or wife.

A man doesn't make love to his mother and I don't understand this nonsense comparison.

A woman definitely fills up a gap that a mother does not fill. So I reeally do not understand this comparison > pls explain further .

[size=28pt]serious nonsense comparison. . . . . . . .the poster obviously doesnt have a mother[/size]

Fiancee and mothers?
You people want to cause wahala.
As long as the guy ain't married to the woman, it should be his mother first. Any lady that wants to be put first before the guy's mother has serious issues.
After marriage, it's mandatory to move the mother to the second position.

Most guys are still attached to their mothers.
Bunch of babies!

j-girl:

Fiancee and mothers?
You people want to cause wahala.
As long as the guy ain't married to the woman, it should be his mother first. Any lady that wants to be put first before the guy's mother has serious issues.
After marriage, it's mandatory to move the mother to the second position.

Most guys are still attached to their mothers.
Bunch of babies!

[size=28pt]anoda biarch widout a moda[/size] !
@ poster
u should tryin hittin ur head on the wall like 200 times then go see ur fiancee and see wat she says about ur wedding

why should a woman even ask anyone such a question.
Has she no self esteem?
The love a man has for his mother is a totally different kind of love from that which he has for his woman and they should not compete.
I love my dad very dearly but I don't love him like I love my man.
My love for my dad is everlasting, cannot be broken and is familial love
The love for my husband is everlasting,cannot be broken and is familial and sexual.
I can't compare the 2.

@ Joseph6

u should tryin hittin your head on the wall like 200 times then go see your fiancee and see what she says about your wedding

LOL!!!

post=666
u see dead pple

Queenisha:

why should a woman even ask anyone such a question.
Has she no self esteem?
The love a man has for his mother is a totally different kind of love from that which he has for his woman and they should not compete.
I love my dad very dearly but I don't love him like I love my man.
My love for my dad is everlasting, cannot be broken and is familial love
The love for my husband is everlasting,cannot be broken and is familial and sexual.
I can't compare the 2.

are u sure about dat?

That is a difficult question. I'll get back to you on that

madamkoko:

I CANNOT believe that there is competition or comparison.
I am hoping that the kind/type of Love a son has for his mother is DIFFERENT from the type/kind of love a man has for his fiancee or wife.
A man doesn't make love to his mother and I don't understand this nonsense comparison.

Exactly my sista, you love one 1 way & you love the other ANOTHER way _{abi, any1 of you out there want to tell me that you look at your mum . . .and goes . . .OMG . . .she's so beautiful . . . .oh how i love her so ? ? ? ?}

ofcourse beauty yep i love her so much yep, but sexy aaaaaah

Joseph6:

[size=28pt]serious nonsense comparison. . . . . . . .the poster obviously doesnt have a mother[/size]

hey man, wassup with u? my mum any time any day, I love my mum very much, I was asking this question just as a result of some discussions i over heard b/w a guy and his fiancee,

Joseph6:

[size=28pt]another biarch widout a moda[/size] !
@ poster
u should tryin hittin your head on the wall like 200 times then go see your fiancee and see what she says about your wedding

I dont need to do that to know how much my mum loves me, Definately its my mum first, No doubt about that, Her place in my life is so special,

Queenisha:

why should a woman even ask anyone such a question.
Has she no self esteem?
The love a man has for his mother is a totally different kind of love from that which he has for his woman and they should not compete.
I love my dad very dearly but I don't love him like I love my man.
My love for my dad is everlasting, cannot be broken and is familial love
The love for my husband is everlasting,cannot be broken and is familial and sexual.
I can't compare the 2.

True talk

shannon_g:

That is a difficult question. I'll get back to you on that

for how long?

Though happily married to a man i love with all my heart but 4 me to love him more than my mother he would have to wait until God needs her in heaven. Not with my mother singlehandedly taking care of me from 3 months when she lost her husband and remained single until now just for us though she was in her mid 30s then.

This question has no place. Your not even talking of "husband", u talk of "fiancé". Wetin be fiancé? what makes u think fiancé automatically means life time relationship? i dare not even give room for comparism.

Nope, she is stilla fiancee, and could decide to leave at anytime, nothing binding.

ayomifull:

Though happily married to a man i love with all my heart but 4 me to love him more than my mother he would have to wait until God needs her in heaven. Not with my mother singlehandedly taking care of me from 3 months when she lost her husband and remained single until now just for us though she was in her mid 30s then.

Definately, A real mother indeed