Ujujoan:

Stop being a hypocrite. No man wants to marry a liability or an ugly woman; so also, no woman wants to marry a man only to look foward to everlasting suffering and poverty, not to talk of hunger.

If na that one dey pain you, you can go take a hike. Me I don talk my own. If your pepper no rest, shift commot from my side!!!

And na one unfortunate guy go marry you o! . . .hmmm . , . I pity him family and his finances

iceland:

And na one unfortunate guy go marry you o! . . .hmmm . , . I pity him family and his finances

LOL!!

Na you dey call am unlucky oh. I wouldnt waste my pity on him sha, he dosent need it

na2day?:

am sorry but i did like to know  from all the females here, is it ok for a stable guy or rich guy to marry a girl that is poor and her family is poor too

The difference between a man and a woman is; Women always remember where they came from. But men? As soon as a poor man gets rich, he forgets the woman that stood by him when he had nothing. He dumps her for some other woman because he thinks that he is of another level. He disrespects her and she loses value to him. So, if you ask me, women, just go ahead and marry the rich guy. The poor one won't even know you existed the moment he gets rich. So sickening!!!

it does make sense though but for me i prefer average man not rich or poor but i should be able to live a comfortable life

Well it poster made it to be a little spicy but in the end
she explained herself well and i think she made a good
point. But i know girls will use this as an excuse to be
call a gold digger. the truth is the average girls is a
gold digger so guys beware

go girl, u hit the nail right on the head, if u marry a poor guy, ur suffering is double. look at most girls dat married cos of ;ove. they are selling akara on d wayside now

a wonderful piece, its better to marry a rich man and be comfortable, dose gals dat their spouses send dem out of thr country 4 holiday, they dont ve 2 heads, they only loved wit sense

is that how men behave in kenya?  for ur info, women who dated guys they met when they are poor and in a village don't stick with that dude when things get rosy, they switch sides too, so don't give me that BS.

Good Girl:

The difference between a man and a woman is; Women always remember where they came from. But men? As soon as a poor man gets rich, he forgets the woman that stood by him when he had nothing. He dumps her for some other woman because he thinks that he is of another level. He disrespects her and she loses value to him. So, if you ask me, women, just go ahead and marry the rich guy. The poor one won't even know you existed the moment he gets rich. So sickening!!!

thank u for the exposition, highly appreciated  like we say, pepper don rest, all of them don show 

Tranngirls:

Well it poster made it to be a little spicy but in the end
she explained herself well and i think she made a good
point. But i know girls will use this as an excuse to be
call a gold digger. the truth is the average girls is a
gold digger so guys beware

This thread is for lazy girls. I bet when these girls reach forty they will look like 70 years old women. Why? what do u expect? when they are lazy and think life is all about siting down and let their husband struggle for cash. but the unfortunate thing for them is that their lazy ass share their husbands with so many younger, or even older, more intelligent and hard working women.

Have never seen such a thread like this, na waooo

The difference between the rich and  poor is the ideas.The mentality of a poor man is difference from that of  a  rich man. A  poor man works  for money while a  rich man let money works for  him. In summary,  you should not measure any  guy  by  the level of material gains in his possession but, by  the ideas he  got and  how effectively he  has helped  to impart such ideas in  the lives of many people. It's just like  someone  that  has 100 kids and  none of  them are  trained, but the father  has  money, while another  has two kids and  the  two attended  the best  university in  the  world , Who do you think has money among  the  two.

na2day?:

is that how men behave in kenya?  for ur info, women who dated guys they met when they are poor and in a village don't stick with that dude when things get rosy, they switch sides too, so don't give me that BS.

Yes Na2day?!! That is how men behave in Kenya. Trust me!

na2day?:

is that how men behave in kenya?  for ur info, women who dated guys they met when they are poor and in a village don't stick with that dude when things get rosy, they switch sides too, so don't give me that BS.


thank u for the exposition, highly appreciated  like we say, pepper don rest, all of them don show 

Yes Na2day?!! That is how men behave in Kenya. Trust me!

@Good girl f, l do not understand

Webman, I have observed what poor-turned-rich men have done to their women. At least from what I observe here, the man almost always abandons his woman. I have also seen women who fore go wealth for love only to be dumped later. She gains nothing from the sacrifice of dating the broke ass. Don't get me wrong, I am not materialistic, I've never even dated a rich man, but see where dating broke men got me into; nowhere.

then ur men suck. so all the poor kenyan women that later became rich stuck with their poor boyfriends or husbands?

Good Girl:

Yes Na2day?!! That is how men behave in Kenya. Trust me!

Hear the way y'all are talking.You talk as if riches is the only criteria women use in determining who they want to marry.

Broaden up,poeple

@tundysho, l  dey your side  oooooooooooo

@good girl,you got a poor judgement and l will not agree with you.Basically, everybody has  the ability to be  rich, coz God has deposited what we needed  to get rich in us,Helpin each other to climb of the ladder of success is a life is one of  the laws of prosperity, Catch ya  the WEALTH PALACE

webman:

@good girl,you got a poor judgement and l will not agree with UBasically, everybody has the ability to be rich, because God has deposited what we needed to get rich in us,Helpin each other to climb of the ladder of success is a life is one of the laws of prosperity, Catch ya the WEALTH PALACE

Webman, my problem is not poverty, neither is it wealth. My problem is how most men trash their long time women after they get wealthy. I have seen women who stick by their broke husbands/boyfriends only to be trashed by the man when he gets stable. I for one, will surely not sit at home and wait for my husband to bring wealth at home. I'll help him to the best of my ability to build the wealth. I will not damp him if he loses his business or his job or both. But from what I see, at least in this part of the world (Kenya), the man will not take it if it was the woman that lost her job or business. I have observed this. Trust my words.

na2day?:

then ur men suck. so all the poor kenyan women that later became rich stuck with their poor boyfriends or husbands?

Yes Na2day, the ones that I know are still stuck with their husbands/lovers supporting them financially and emotionally, encouraging them that things will get better. None that I know of has walked out on their men based on the excuse of poverty (poverty being relative here). But wait till the man gets back to his feet. The woman will be kicked to the curb.

Nairalanders are rich oooooo. at least we have money (100 bucks) to go to the cybercafe everyday to ''post'' on nairaland and for those of us that work where there is internet connection, we no try.

I'd rather have someone who would give me peace of mind.
@ DEEPT ,MAN I FEEL U JARE

****sighs**** my question is, are the women rich? if they are rich and still with their broke ass husbands and boyfriends, is what i need to know

Good Girl:

Yes Na2day, the ones that I know are still stuck with their husbands/lovers supporting them financially and emotionally, encouraging them that things will improve. None that I know of has walked out on their men based on the excuse of poverty (poverty being relative here). But wait till the man gets back to his feet. The woman will be kicked to the cab.

Good Girl:

Yes Na2day, the ones that I know are still stuck with their husbands/lovers supporting them financially and emotionally, encouraging them that things will improve. None that I know of has walked out on their men based on the excuse of poverty (poverty being relative here). But wait till the man gets back to his feet. The woman will be kicked to the cab.

I think this thing is general.It does not only happen in Kenya but all over the world common in the u.k and u.s.You never can tell.One need to pray to God for a good partner it does not matter if he/she is poor not,if he/she is God sent then you are bound to have a blissful union.

Na2day, yes, the women are rich and have stuck with their husbands. My aunt is a good example. She is a rich, hard-working businesswoman and she still loves and stuck it through with her broke husband who by the way treats her like trash.

huh! well send me ur aunty or one of those rich women, i will treat them right

Good Girl:

Na2day, yes, the women are rich and have stuck with their husbands. My aunt is a good example. She is a rich, hard-working businesswoman and she still loves and stuck it through with her broke husband who by the way treats her like trash.

@na2day? (m), l  beg  my  grand mama still dey and if  you won  marry  her  too , lolz

very funny is there anything like love,honesty trust and faith again.I WANT A REPLY PLS.WHAT IF HE IS RICH BUT TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT AND THERE IS NO HAPPINESS AND JOY IN THE MARRIAGE?

is she rich?

webman:

@na2day? (m), l  beg  my  grand mama still dey and if  you won  marry  her  too , lolz

dem go bear the pain. the guy go treat them as crap but them go manage, the guy will cheat on them, them go manage, stupidity to the highest order

dav234:

very funny is there anything like love,honesty trust and faith again.I WANT A REPLY please.WHAT IF HE IS RICH BUT TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT AND THERE IS NO HAPPINESS AND JOY IN THE MARRIAGE?

webman:


@Good Girl,

There are different types of  people in  the world  with different perspectives about love  itself. l  do  really  believe that  one of  the  core  virtues of love is SACRIFICE,  which  is very hard  in  today's world. Many factors have contributed to  the different stands  of  these people all over world, which are in  terms  of  social, economic , family and  inward behaviors of   those  people that  are  involved in  the act  of love , l will always say  that LOVE IS ABOUT SHARING WITHOUT EXPECTING BACK and  the greatest legacy  of love  is in  its SHARING POWER, Facing a broken relationship is  to allow time to heal the soul and heart of  those that  are  involved ,

That's the talk of a wise man. Do they still exist?