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Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Orikinla: No normal woman will continue to live in the bondage of a man that maltreats her and calls it love. It's a psychological thing. Self image. It starts by belittling u. Making u feel like he is d best for u and no other man can love u. This kinda men no the women they can do such too. Mostly very nice girls. Homely girls who just want to be loved. this men can be nice when they really want to and for that moment she will think that he is d best thing that happened to her. And when he maltreats her she believes it's her fault. The guy will say " you made me do this". It's not as easy as u think. Most guys commenting, their sisters might be in very brutal relationships. Love will make her conceal it. Love makes us do crazy things. I just read this morning how a guy killed himself for a woman in calabar. just pray nobody u no falls prey to such people. 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by iphedahyor(m): 8:35pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change.What advice do you expect from me since you've already told him to visit hell with his pleading and money which I think is the best response for him. lolz....I had to pause to check your profile especially your pix while reading this when I got the point where you said you are pretty and bla bla bla. But seriously,what kind of relationship was thatYou dated a guy for over 2 or 3years without the knowledge of his occupation.F.uck on and off,that is not an excuse. .........my advice for you is break every connection between both of you and face your life.What is he pleading or compensating you foris that he wants you backdo you have the intention of going backwhy asking us since you replied him already |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Jeffoo(m): 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
U don dey pick his call abi?....okay o |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by mencade5(m): 8:44pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
2sExy1: What a life... ! Why wouldn't you stay in such relationship when you are seeing money.nice point my brother...u dey mind all these beetches...fvck them. I dont advise them at all. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by sunnysunny(m): 8:46pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
It is only God that can compensate you. Don't listen to your friends. Run for your life cos u will never know the next evil plan he has for you. Run,run,run 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by hushmail: 8:46pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
paranorman: Eya.. Pele.. I understand your Ex's reason for wanting to compesate you. Prob he's gotten remorseful and wants to set things right. I think you just forgive him and move on; if thats want he really wants and nothing more from you, forgive him.. About the money part, i say no. U are worth more than that and beleive me, ur man will come knockin at the door of ur heart and will love u genuinely*. Stick to ur self esteem and nver let one Ex wach dem down the drain... Ur man will come. Just be good. i swear u r paranoid. what? refuse the money? think again. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by ChiFirstLady(f): 8:48pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
My dear jenny,just thank God for what he did for u,move on and don't receive any compensation from him. Since u say u r pretty,a reasonable guy will come for u. No allow am see u again o,if u do,e go chop ur kpomo,and u go turn 3rd baby mama. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by sunnysunny(m): 8:48pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
God dey ooo |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by mencade5(m): 8:49pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
slex: Call me cold or heartless but i dont feel pity for you. Why? You were in a bad relationship for 3 yrs?? He didnt show you care yet you stayed?i ll tell u why u stayed. Cos he told you he works in oil and gas sector. You see your greed of chopping oyel money has landed you in this mess. He had numerois babes with kids outside and he didnt even marry the other two. C mon, u stayed cos of the money you were enjoying thats all . And i guess one bobo who really cares about you was there and u kicked him away cos he is not an oyel worker. Truly some ladies get the guys they deserve.my brother nice points. God bless u jor...that is how they are...i can never in this life advise any lady at all. Like u said, there could be a man then that was good for her, but becos of oyel money she took him for granted...naija ladies ole! 4 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Onyiido: 8:51pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
slex: Call me cold or heartless but i dont feel pity for you. Why? You were in a bad relationship for 3 yrs?? He didnt show you care yet you stayed?i ll tell u why u stayed. Cos he told you he works in oil and gas sector. You see your greed of chopping oyel money has landed you in this mess. He had numerois babes with kids outside and he didnt even marry the other two. C mon, u stayed cos of the money you were enjoying thats all . And i guess one bobo who really cares about you was there and u kicked him away cos he is not an oyel worker. Truly some ladies get the guys they deserve.. The guess is as good as mine. In as much as I'm a lady, it pains me when i see a lady been in r/ship cuz the guy has money. Can't u make money on ur own? Op just forget that guy ooo, delete him from ur life $ start a new one with someone who knows ur worth. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
oshyno: Women and money. Tell me another thing abeg.you hit the point she thought of how big she goin to live wen she finally marry oil money man &remain faithful but she failled women are the cos of their 92% of problems if he come with big car now she go mumu follo am.women & money tufia |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by jamace(m): 8:57pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Hmm. OKAFOR'S THEORY about to be fulfilled! 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Abagworo(m): 9:00pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change.. I happen to know him personally and I must say you're lucky he did not marry you. That guy has no respect or value for women. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by bukatyne(f): 9:02pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
andromida: The idea that this man mistreated you is something you should look into because it takes two to tango you actively participated in the relationship so how can you blame him for everything. This and tell him that he has given you the greatest compensation: Not been married to you Thank God daily, He really loves you. Now move on 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Hehehe .. Militancy is part of the oil and gas biz. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Forwetinnah: 9:20pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
What should you do? Don't tell us you never knew what he was doing to get money, besides the "odu" he told you as an excuse?? Like you said..get him a 1st class ticket to hell and make sure he boards the flight! Nows your turn to be mean...don't contemplate!! |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by thegoodone2(m): 9:21pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
okay |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
mencade5: nice point my brother...u dey mind all these beetches...fvck them. I dont advise them at all.no mind them my brother... Their matter don tire me... |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by slex(m): 9:22pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
mencade5: my brother nice points. God bless u jor...that is how they are...i can never in this life advise any lady at all. Like u said, there could be a man then that was good for her, but becos of oyel money she took him for granted...naija ladies ole! Honourable i hail oo |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by slex(m): 9:26pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Onyiido: . The guess is as good as mine. In as much as I'm a lady, it pains me when i see a lady been in r/ship cuz the guy has money. Can't u make money on ur own? Op just forget that guy ooo, delete him from ur life $ start a new one with someone who knows ur worth. Thank me later. My dear onyiido mos def nobody wants to suffer. We all love to enjoy talk less enjoying our relationship but money is not everything. Money is good but it can bring its own damage. My advice to her is to move on and she should look deep for a guy that really cares |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
FORGET HIM. NO CONTACT AT ALL. My opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by iykedare(m): 9:31pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
andromida: The idea that this man mistreated you is something you should look into because it takes two to tango you actively participated in the relationship so how can you blame him for everything. Brilliant piece. Op, you stayed with a man who mistreated you? I m sure the dude is loaded financially. You guys will rather date a rich criminal than date honest broke man. So why are u complaining? The problem with u girls is your high insatiable love for money. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Danhumprey: 9:34pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
lynpetra: Abeg make I talk my own as e dey my head.Una know say I dey talk as e dey be me. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
jenny2007:By d way wat r u looking 4 wit ur ex, did u two av an unfinishd business or wat, d guy mistreated u, physically abusd u, den he comes in sheeps clothing appologizin n sayn he wana make tinz ryt wit u, n u thinkn of taking heed to he words? Wat is wrong with u? M sure its dat same tin dat made u stay wit him den wen he was beatin ur a$$ dats still makin u tink of considering wat hez sayn, u nid 2 groom ur mind, groom ur thinking, dnt settle 4 less, u ought to knw d difference btwn wats right and what's wrong. Do u want to be used by him again? R u finkin he'll jst give u money n he'll leave? Who told u dat, he will av hez way wit u, use u n dump u, n he'll move on |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Bright2(m): 9:36pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
The koko DON dey hungry am agaain, run as fast as you can with your two like legs close |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by passionate88: 9:41pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
If she said she doesn't know she was dating a militant, she is a BIG liar... |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
andromida: The idea that this man mistreated you is something you should look into because it takes two to tango you actively participated in the relationship so how can you blame him for everything.oil and gas...that's the magic stick.hahaha |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
prettyboi1989:Did u read d thing? No beating. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Engen(m): 9:48pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
paranorman: Eya.. Pele.. I understand your Ex's reason for wanting to compesate you. Prob he's gotten remorseful and wants to set things right. I think you just forgive him and move on; if thats want he really wants and nothing more from you, forgive him.. About the money part, i say no. U are worth more than that and beleive me, ur man will come knockin at the door of ur heart and will love u genuinely*. Stick to ur self esteem and nver let one Ex wach dem down the drain... Ur man will come. Just be good. I agreed too.. One thing I know about abusive men is they tune the abuse down,but change it takes more to change...4give him but "Please don't take his money" if you do he will be consoling himself with the fact that he paid you off... |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: FORGET HIM. NO CONTACT AT ALL.but men with dat kind cash no too dey. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
ferdimako:What is physical abuse? Hunh its laffing 2geda abi? |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
ferdimako: I don't care, personally. |
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