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Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
switsoman or whatever, get off the crackpipe. You really wanna compare a brother doing such for a sister to a GIERL doing this for a man? More often than not, is it NOT the men who go and chat up these women? how often is it the other way around? It makes sense for a dude to help his sister from "stalkers" cos well he's THE DUDE. Man's world, all that rubbish abi? But for a dude to allow a woman to do such on his behalf? Might as well give him some pantyhoses and a skirt to wear. Point is these dudes are cowards and sistawoman should let them man up and do their own work. If say true Naija woman was the type she called yarning dust to, I assure you she'd be at Sabo right now rolling on the floor |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:18pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
@hannibal i blive men that can't tell their women off,r not men,really y r this men not using their girlfriends,ofcourse they r scared ,they don't want the girls to know that they r deceitful bastards |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:23pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: Some men can't just stand the confrontation, the drama, the crying and the whole shebang. Using ma gurlfriend to scare off a stalker?? Thatz classless now. I won't let a stalker join witchcraft because of me. . . . .I love me life. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
smtimes its better to use ur girfriend,especially wen d stalker is caling u and shes around,its as simple as " honeyanswer dis call for me" but they wont,they dont want the babes to knw dat theyve been cheating their their backs its not classless,but a man dat cant tell a girl outrightly dat" im not interested is not a man |
Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:29pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
using gf, sister, friend, brother, blah blah to tell off a dude is classless especially if it's a dude that is hiding behind the opther person's skirt. Like sista's friends |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:34pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
karma my own anger is ,,,,,,,,,,,,sistawomn was nt there wen they met d babes oooo,after d foolish men have finished using them babes,they will run to her like jelly fish for help hannibal dis men do it all d time,its not 1nce,2wice but always,if they cant handle the situation then let them lock up their kini haba |
Re: Is It Just Me? by lysaa(f): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
21st century women have lost their self pride, sense of dignity-worth, lazy to even take up their own responsibilities; of their weakness and stuff. Failing to recognize there's always a strength on the inside to move on when the world 'seems' to be against her (maybe because one guy stopped calling or refused to pick up her calls). What does she do? She cries herself out and resents anyone who doesn't pity her (thats ok) but refuses to move on cos she finds consolation in her self pity. A waste of time and energy I'd say. A guy isn't giving u the attention u think u deserve is a clear indication that there's a problem and maybe the guy isn't man enuf to say it. But there's already a writing on the wall that our 'educated' sisters couldn't or wouldn't read. . "I DON"T WANT U" everyone around would read but she stays blind to it. I have seen guys treat women like a piece of rubbish and I could say I know how they reason. Women, ladies, young girls need to wake up and get out of their identity crisis. Wake up and face that odd knowing who u are. If a relationship gets sour, it only shows that something better awaits plus an experience is gained. Don't put all ur weight on a man when u can carry urself. Its scary cos the guy has got a lot to carry too. If he loves u, yes, he'd do anything for u. meanwhile, uve got to be strong for U. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: Can't a man's action tell a gurl he is no longer interested?? A guy u have been seeing suddenly stops to pick your calls, does not call again and he stops making himself available is NO LONGER INTERESTED. Why do women pretend NOT to see the exit sign? lysaa: Brilliant!!!! |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:39pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: its better to talk it out and make it clear d girls might be getting d wrong signals,yea she might be thinking " maybe there is sthg wrong,maybe sthg is bothering him" don't blame then ,because its not easy to accept the fact that one dude that professed all d love for them d previous night,wants to call it quit d man has to explain,and explain and keep explaining,sm girls r useless but please u men should not use a married woman aás a weapon i beg u |
Re: Is It Just Me? by poposkii(m): 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
what are saying! i dont understand? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: Jenny. . . . . .some gurls are outrageous. The deal was a "one night stand" initially but after tasting the magic stick, they still wanna loiter around. These days, some girls tell men they are ready to play the 2nd fiddle. . . . . For instance, look at em gurls dating married men. . . . Are u saying they expect the married man to kick his wife out and marry them?? Pleassssssssssssssssssssssssse!!! |
Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
lysaa: while I definitely agree with this, female friends of the dude in question shouldnt be doing their dirty work when infact the dude is tired of girl./ Let him do his crap himself |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
poposkii: who u be ?oh new bie ~Sauron~: did she say it was a one night stand? is a married man supposed to have a babe outside in d first place?as usual direct it back to women shoould a married man use his fellows mans wife as an escape root to chase them girls off his life? is a man supposed to use a married woman to wipe off d dust off his shoes? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:50pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: A man would use anything to get a stalker off his back. Mind you, it's not like Sistawoman does this as a profession. She is only saving the gurls from embarrassing womanhood in general. It's just the way i would advise a man to cowboy the feck up if he's sucking up to a woman like a wuss. I would be pissed at any woman who allows men to use her as a door mat too(If i were a woman). |
Re: Is It Just Me? by sistawoman: 5:52pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: exactly. I am last resort. They have tried to tell the girl they dont want them anymore. They have not picked her calls or spoken to her in weeks. sometimes/most times i am just what the sista needs to snap back to reality. I would rather do it for them then to have thier new girl subjected to the lies that jaded women tell. Think about it like this. You have some guy that you stopped seeing for whatever reason, and he keeps calling do you really want your new man to answer that call and hear whatever foolishness he is spitting in his ear or would you rather your brother or best friend answer the call and just let the dude know "jenni has left the building and wont be coming back" then he can spit whatever lies he wants to spit and it does not effect your current relationship. No need to involve the new girl in this hot mess. No need to taint her mind before they have had a chance to make it work. Let them be, let them build. it takes all of 5 mins at most to get rid of a stalker. I have been there, I know these dudes. They really try to get rid of these women. Some just dont understand. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:55pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: sorry then,men r cowards saving which gurls?shes helping out her male friends,wtout the guys telling her will she know wat to do,shes doing it for them cos they helped her b4its more like an appreciation profession its obvious,no denying |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:57pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: So u won't help me out if u have a girl stalking me and making herself a nuisance?? Crying like a baby, moaning, griping and all that when its obvious she doesn't want to accept reality?? Of course. . . . . .You would tell her to go get a life and leave your Hannibal alone. Jenni, you are looking at this from one angle. There are some classless women out there who would drag themselves in mud for a man. I have been there, i have seen it LIVE. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:59pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: who go help u? no be u see woman begin pursue?was i there when u were eating the sweet fruit abeg u dey on ya own |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 6:00pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: U would help me as a friend. It's easy for you to say i am on ma own but when the push comes to a shove, you would act the big brova. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 6:02pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: under one condition,dat u send me a naked pics of ya both in bed and also a cam should be planted in the room,cos i will be needing the video too |
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 6:07pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
jennikadri: Cheese n Rice!!!! Isn't that PORN?? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 7:54pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Plantain and coconut!!!! its called obeying jennys rules |
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 6:18am On Oct 14, 2008 |
@ sistawoman me thinks alot of naija babes dont like u, always attacking u and me thinks it is because u r always open and very expressive, me thinks they are jealous too and me thinks because u r an akata, it makes them mad. u think me thinks right? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by lancevader(m): 6:36am On Oct 14, 2008 |
GOd si Gramar o? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 7:01am On Oct 14, 2008 |
lance_vader: |
Re: Is It Just Me? by spikedcylinder: 8:16am On Oct 14, 2008 |
na2day?: What a brilliant analysis. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by ifelowo(f): 11:02am On Oct 14, 2008 |
sometimes we(ladies) don't find time to realise the true worth of being a woman if you call a guy 3 times without responding, then move on you will find a better one. guys don't deserve such regards. |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 11:14am On Oct 14, 2008 |
na2day?: how old r u? 12? |
Re: Is It Just Me? by switosman(m): 11:58am On Oct 14, 2008 |
jennikadri you v made ur point and I understand. well just watch it soon in the future, u r going to be doing the same thing for a man, u will be doing that not for the man's sake ( ie coward) but for the ladies sake because u will be so pissed that a girl has gone this low in her need of a man. mark my words, |
Re: Is It Just Me? by janami(f): 12:46pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
switosman that wld be wen she grows grey hair on her teeth |
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 2:00pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
switosman:neares future,do u knwo hw old i am,do u knwo if im in my late 50's approaching 60?so wen is d nearest future?wen im busy wt my grandkids? buahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahha laffing my ass off at this :thrash? sorry oga,if its still paining u that i do nt agree wt u,sorry but no sorry,I'm already married and blive me my husband will be d first to chase me out of d house if he finds out,I'm not ready to trade my family wt ameboism so keep wishing janami: ROTFLMSGBO oh gawddd u is a clown abeg tell am my sister |
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 4:30pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
me thinks u r brilliant 2, me thinks, it takes one to know one me think me thinks right spikedcylinder: me thinks u r one messed up lady, always negative, most of ur post shows that, me thinks it is because no man wants ur sorry ass so u attack any thing that moves on NL, me thinks it will get better for you if u place ur tongue in the right place. me think me thinks right jennikadri: |
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