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Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2008
switsoman or whatever,

get off the crackpipe. You really wanna compare a brother doing such for a sister to a GIERL doing this for a man?

More often than not, is it NOT the men who go and chat up these women? how often is it the other way around? It makes sense for a dude to help his sister from "stalkers" cos well he's THE DUDE. Man's world, all that rubbish abi?

But for a dude to allow a woman to do such on his behalf? Might as well give him some pantyhoses and a skirt to wear.

Point is these dudes are cowards and sistawoman should let them man up and do their own work.

If say true Naija woman was the type she called yarning dust to, I assure you she'd be at Sabo right now rolling on the floor
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:18pm On Oct 13, 2008
@hannibal

i blive men that can't tell their women off,r not men,really

y r this men not using their girlfriends,ofcourse they r scared ,they don't want the girls to know that they r deceitful bastards
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:23pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

@hannibal

i blive men that can't tell their women off,r not men,really

y r this men not using their girlfriends,ofcourse they r scared ,they don't want the girls to know that they r deceitful bastards

Some men can't just stand the confrontation, the drama, the crying and the whole shebang.
Using ma gurlfriend to scare off a stalker?? Thatz classless now.
I won't let a stalker join witchcraft because of me. . . . .I love me life. grin cheesy
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2008
smtimes its better to use ur girfriend,especially wen d stalker is caling u and shes around,its as simple as " honeyanswer dis call for me" but they wont,they dont want the babes to knw dat theyve been cheating their their backs

its not classless,but a man dat cant tell a girl outrightly dat" im not interested is not a man
Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:29pm On Oct 13, 2008
using gf, sister, friend, brother, blah blah to tell off a dude is classless especially if it's a dude that is hiding behind the opther person's skirt. Like sista's friends
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:34pm On Oct 13, 2008
karma my own anger is ,,,,,,,,,,,,sistawomn was nt there wen they met d babes oooo,after d foolish men have finished using them babes,they will run to her like jelly fish for help


hannibal dis men do it all d time,its not 1nce,2wice but always,if they cant handle the situation then let them lock up their kini haba
Re: Is It Just Me? by lysaa(f): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2008
21st century women have lost their self pride, sense of dignity-worth, lazy to even take up their own responsibilities; of their weakness and stuff. Failing to recognize there's always a strength on the inside to move on when the world 'seems' to be against her (maybe because one guy stopped calling or refused to pick up her calls). What does she do? She cries herself out and resents anyone who doesn't pity her (thats ok) but refuses to move on cos she finds consolation in her self pity. A waste of time and energy I'd say.

A guy isn't giving u the attention u think u deserve is a clear indication that there's a problem and maybe the guy isn't man enuf to say it. But there's already a writing on the wall that our 'educated' sisters couldn't or wouldn't read. . "I DON"T WANT U" everyone around would read but she stays blind to it.

I have seen guys treat women like a piece of rubbish and I could say I know how they reason. Women, ladies, young girls need to wake up and get out of their identity crisis. Wake up and face that odd knowing who u are. If a relationship gets sour, it only shows that something better awaits plus an experience is gained. Don't put all ur weight on a man when u can carry urself. Its scary cos the guy has got a lot to carry too. If he loves u, yes, he'd do anything for u. meanwhile, uve got to be strong for U.
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

smtimes its better to use ur girfriend,especially when d stalker is caling u and shes around,its as simple as " honeyanswer this call for me" but they wont,they don't want the babes to knw that theyve been cheating their their backs

its not classless,but a man that can't tell a girl outrightly that" I'm not interested is not a man

Can't a man's action tell a gurl he is no longer interested??
A guy u have been seeing suddenly stops to pick your calls, does not call again and he stops making himself available is NO LONGER INTERESTED.
Why do women pretend NOT to see the exit sign?

lysaa:

21st century women have lost their self pride, sense of dignity-worth, lazy to even take up their own responsibilities; of their weakness and stuff. Failing to recognize there's always a strength on the inside to move on when the world 'seems' to be against her (maybe because one guy stopped calling or refused to pick up her calls). What does she do? She cries herself out and resents anyone who doesn't pity her (thats ok) but refuses to move on because she finds consolation in her self pity. A waste of time and energy I'D say.

A guy isn't giving u the attention u think u deserve is a clear indication that there's a problem and maybe the guy isn't man enough to say it. But there's already a writing on the wall that our 'educated' sisters couldn't or wouldn't read. . "I DON"T WANT U" everyone around would read but she stays blind to it.

I have seen guys treat women like a piece of rubbish and I could say I know how they reason. Women, ladies, young girls need to wake up and get out of their identity crisis. Wake up and face that odd knowing who u are. If a relationship gets sour, it only shows that something better awaits plus an experience is gained. Don't put all ur weight on a man when u can carry yourself. Its scary because the guy has got a lot to carry too. If he loves u, yes, he'D do anything for u. meanwhile, uve got to be strong for U.

Brilliant!!!! cool
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:39pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

Can't a man's action tell a gurl he is no longer interested??
A guy u have been seeing suddenly stops to pick your calls, does not call again and he stops making himself available is NO LONGER INTERESTED.
Why do women pretend NOT to see the exit sign?

its better to talk it out and make it clear

d girls might be getting d wrong signals,yea

she might be thinking " maybe there is sthg  wrong,maybe sthg is bothering him" don't blame then ,because its not easy to accept the fact that one dude that professed all d love for them d previous night,wants to call it quit

d man has to explain,and explain and keep explaining,sm girls r useless but please u men should not use a married woman aás a weapon i beg u
Re: Is It Just Me? by poposkii(m): 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008
what are saying! i dont understand?
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

its better to talk it out and make it clear

d girls might be getting d wrong signals,yea

she might be thinking " maybe there is sthg  wrong,maybe sthg is bothering him" don't blame then ,because its not easy to accept the fact that one dude that professed all d love for them d previous night,wants to call it a halt

d man has to explain,and explain and keep explaining,sm girls r useless but please u men should not use a married woman aás a weapon i beg u

Jenny. . . . . .some gurls are outrageous.
The deal was a "one night stand" initially but after tasting the magic stick, they still wanna loiter around.
These days, some girls tell men they are ready to play the 2nd fiddle. . . . .
For instance, look at em gurls dating married men. . . . Are u saying they expect the married man to kick his wife out and marry them??
Pleassssssssssssssssssssssssse!!!
Re: Is It Just Me? by KarmaMod(f): 5:42pm On Oct 13, 2008
lysaa:

21st century women have lost their self pride, sense of dignity-worth, lazy to even take up their own responsibilities; of their weakness and stuff. Failing to recognize there's always a strength on the inside to move on when the world 'seems' to be against her (maybe because one guy stopped calling or refused to pick up her calls). What does she do? She cries herself out and resents anyone who doesn't pity her (thats ok) but refuses to move on because she finds consolation in her self pity. A waste of time and energy I'D say.

A guy isn't giving u the attention u think u deserve is a clear indication that there's a problem and maybe the guy isn't man enough to say it. But there's already a writing on the wall that our 'educated' sisters couldn't or wouldn't read. . "I DON"T WANT U" everyone around would read but she stays blind to it.

I have seen guys treat women like a piece of rubbish and I could say I know how they reason. Women, ladies, young girls need to wake up and get out of their identity crisis. Wake up and face that odd knowing who u are. If a relationship gets sour, it only shows that something better awaits plus an experience is gained. Don't put all ur weight on a man when u can carry yourself. Its scary because the guy has got a lot to carry too. If he loves u, yes, he'D do anything for u. meanwhile, uve got to be strong for U.

while I definitely agree with this,

female friends of the dude in question shouldnt be doing their dirty work when infact the dude is tired of girl./ Let him do his crap himself
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2008
poposkii:

what are saying! i don't understand?

who u be ?oh new bie


~Sauron~:

Jenny. . . . . .some gurls are outrageous.
The deal was a "one night stand" initially but after tasting the magic stick, they still want to loiter around.
These days, some girls tell men they are ready to play the 2nd fiddle. . . . .
For instance, look at em gurls dating married men. . . . Are u saying they expect the married man to kick his wife out and marry them??
Pleassssssssssssssssssssssssse!!!

did she say it was a one night stand?

is a married man supposed to have a babe outside in d  first place?as usual direct it back to women

shoould a married man use his fellows mans wife as an escape root to chase them girls off his life?

is a man supposed to use a married woman to wipe off d dust off his shoes?
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:50pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

did she say it was a one night stand?

is a married man supposed to have a babe outside in d  first place?as usual direct it back to women

shoould a married man use his fellows mans wife as an escape root to chase them girls off his life?

is a man supposed to use a married woman to wipe off d dust off his shoes?

A man would use anything to get a stalker off his back.
Mind you, it's not like Sistawoman does this as a profession.
She is only saving the gurls from embarrassing womanhood in general.
It's just the way i would advise a man to cowboy the feck up if he's sucking up to a woman like a wuss.
I would be pissed at any woman who allows men to use her as a door mat too(If i were a woman).
Re: Is It Just Me? by sistawoman: 5:52pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

Jenny. . . . . .some gurls are outrageous.
The deal was a "one night stand" initially but after tasting the magic stick, they still want to loiter around.
These days, some girls tell men they are ready to play the 2nd fiddle. . . . .
For instance, look at em gurls dating married men. . . . Are u saying they expect the married man to kick his wife out and marry them??
Pleassssssssssssssssssssssssse!!!


exactly.  I am last resort.  They have tried to tell the girl they dont want them anymore.  They have not picked her calls or spoken to her in weeks.

sometimes/most times i am just what the sista needs to snap back to reality.

I would rather do it for them then to have thier new girl subjected to the lies that jaded women tell.

Think about it like this.

You have some guy that you stopped seeing for whatever reason, and he keeps calling do you really want your new man to answer that call and hear whatever foolishness he is spitting in his ear or would you rather your brother or best friend answer the call and just let the dude know "jenni has left the building and wont be coming back"  then he can spit whatever lies he wants to spit and it does not effect your current relationship.

No need to involve the new girl in this hot mess.  No need to taint her mind before they have had a chance to make it work.  Let them be, let them build.  it takes all of 5 mins at most to get rid of a stalker.

I have been there, I know these dudes.  They really try to get rid of these women.  Some just dont understand.
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:55pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

A man would use anything to get a stalker off his back.
Mind you, it's not like Sistawoman does this as a profession.
She is only saving the gurls from embarrassing womanhood in general.
It's just the way i would advise a man to cowboy the feck up if he's sucking up to a woman like a wuss.
I would be pissed at any woman who allows men to use her as a door mat too(If i were a woman).

sorry then,men r cowards

saving which gurls?shes helping out her male friends,wtout the guys telling her will she know wat to do,shes doing it for them cos they helped her b4its more like an appreciation profession

its obvious,no denying
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 5:57pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

sorry then,men r cowards

saving which gurls?shes helping out her male friends,wtout the guys telling her will she know what to do,shes doing it for them because they helped  her b4its more like an appreciation profession

its obvious,no denying

So u won't help me out if u have a girl stalking me and making herself a nuisance??
Crying like a baby, moaning, griping and all that when its obvious she doesn't want to accept reality??
Of course. . . . . .You would tell her to go get a life and leave your Hannibal alone. tongue cheesy

Jenni, you are looking at this from one angle.
There are some classless women out there who would drag themselves in mud for a man.
I have been there, i have seen it LIVE.
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 5:59pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

So u won't help me out if u have a girl stalking me and making herself a nuisance??
Crying like a baby, moaning, griping and all that when its obvious she doesn't want to accept reality??
Of course. . . . . .You would tell her to go get a life and leave your Hannibal alone. tongue cheesy

who go help u?

no be u see woman begin pursue?was i there when u were eating the sweet fruit tongue tongue


abeg u dey on ya own grin
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 6:00pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

who go help u?

no be u see woman begin pursue?was i there when u were eating the sweet fruit tongue tongue


abeg u dey on ya own grin

U would help me as a friend.
It's easy for you to say i am on ma own but when the push comes to a shove, you would act the big brova.
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 6:02pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

U would help me as a friend.
It's easy for you to say i am on ma own but when the push comes to a shove, you would act the big brova.

under one condition,dat u send me a naked pics of ya both in bed and also a cam should be planted in the room,cos i will be needing the video too tongue
Re: Is It Just Me? by Sauron1: 6:07pm On Oct 13, 2008
jennikadri:

under one condition,that u send me a naked pics of ya both in bed and also a cam should be planted in the room,because i will be needing the video too tongue

Cheese n Rice!!!!
Isn't that PORN??
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 7:54pm On Oct 13, 2008
~Sauron~:

Cheese n Rice!!!!
Isn't that PORN??

Plantain and coconut!!!! tongue

its called obeying jennys rules cool
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 6:18am On Oct 14, 2008
@ sistawoman

me thinks alot of naija babes dont like u, always attacking u and me thinks it is because u r always open and very expressive, me thinks they are jealous too and me thinks because u r an akata, it makes them mad. u think me thinks right? undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Is It Just Me? by lancevader(m): 6:36am On Oct 14, 2008
GOd si Gramar o?
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 7:01am On Oct 14, 2008
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lance_vader:

GOd si Gramar o?
Re: Is It Just Me? by spikedcylinder: 8:16am On Oct 14, 2008
na2day?:

@ sistawoman

me thinks alot of naija babes don't like u, always attacking u and me thinks it is because u r always open and very expressive, me thinks they are jealous too and me thinks because u r an akata, it makes them mad. u think me thinks right? undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

What a brilliant analysis. undecided undecided
Re: Is It Just Me? by ifelowo(f): 11:02am On Oct 14, 2008
sometimes we(ladies) don't find time to realise the true worth of being a woman
if  you call a guy 3 times without responding, then move on you will find a better one.
guys don't deserve such regards.
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 11:14am On Oct 14, 2008
na2day?:

@ sistawoman

me thinks alot of naija babes don't like u, always attacking u and me thinks it is because u r always open and very expressive, me thinks they are jealous too and me thinks because u r an akata, it makes them mad. u think me thinks right?  undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

how old r u? 12? undecided
Re: Is It Just Me? by switosman(m): 11:58am On Oct 14, 2008
jennikadri
you v made ur point and I understand. well just watch it soon in the future, u r going to be doing the same thing for a man, u will be doing that not for the man's sake ( ie coward) but for the ladies sake because u will be so pissed that a girl has gone this low in her need of a man.
mark my words,
Re: Is It Just Me? by janami(f): 12:46pm On Oct 14, 2008
switosman
that wld be wen she grows grey hair on her teeth grin
Re: Is It Just Me? by jennikadri: 2:00pm On Oct 14, 2008
switosman:

jennikadri
you v made ur point and I understand. well just watch it soon in the future, u r going to be doing the same thing for a man, u will be doing that not for the man's sake ( ie coward) but for the ladies sake because u will be so pissed that a girl has gone this low in her need of a man.
mark my words,
neares future,do u knwo hw old i am,do u knwo if im in my late 50's approaching 60?so wen is d nearest future?wen im busy wt my grandkids?
buahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahha laffing my ass off at this :thrash? undecided
sorry oga,if its still paining u that i do nt agree wt u,sorry but no sorry,I'm already married and blive me my husband will be d first to chase me out of d house if he finds out,I'm not ready to trade my family wt ameboism

so keep wishing cool


janami:

switosman
that would be when she grows grey hair on her teeth grin

ROTFLMSGBO  grin grin grin grin grin  oh gawddd u is a clown grin grin grin grin grin grin abeg tell am my sister cool
Re: Is It Just Me? by na2day2(m): 4:30pm On Oct 14, 2008
me thinks u r brilliant 2, me thinks, it takes one to know one  wink wink me think me thinks right cool cool cool

spikedcylinder:

What a brilliant analysis. undecided undecided

me thinks u r one messed up lady, always negative, most of ur post shows that, me thinks it is because no man wants ur sorry ass so u attack any thing that moves on NL, me thinks it will get better for you if u place ur tongue in the right place. me think me thinks right  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

jennikadri:

how old r u? 12?  undecided

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