Bunchersstab: :-
*Kisses her soft & succulent lips*

Ummmmmmm!!! It feeeeeeels soooooo goooood!!!!

khiaa:

Ummmmmmm!!! It feeeeeeels soooooo goooood!!!!

You are the best & will alwaz remain d best

khiaa:


Hello my love!!

When is my baby gonna sleep

Bunchersstab:

When is my baby gonna sleep

Honey it's only 6:20pm here.

Bunchersstab:
You are the best & will alwaz remain d best

Thank you Daddy, but you do this too me.

khiaa:

Honey it's only 6:20pm here.

It's 2:30 am here.

Bunchersstab:
It's 2:30 am here.

Ok, then you should get some rest.

khiaa:

Thank you Daddy, but you do this too me.

Yes i will do it to you my dear, just you & only you.

khiaa:

Ok, then you should get some rest.

Dat will be much leta.

Bunchersstab: Yes i will do it to you my dear, just you & only you.

Hahahaha! You are a smoooooth one.

Bunchersstab:
Dat will be much leta.

Now!!

Hahahah

khiaa:

Now!!

Honey, i will by 3:15am

Bunchersstab: Honey, i will by 3:15am

Good!

khiaa:

Good!

Tnx alot

EnlightenedSoul: I assume you're speaking of the unwanted kiss. If it's impending, you dodge. If it's already happening, then you'll want to quickly and effectively pull away & break the kiss. Your obvious aversion will plainly get the message across. Otherwise, use your words.

I wasn't going to comment before but seeing how this thread is going, some people need to think first. The op's question can be seen from different perspective. Your suggestion is good and a bit reasonable than slap. A guy kisses a girl, she gave him slap. He has gotten pleasure, she gets pain from slapping(do you know how painful it is to actually slap someone especially when it comes from reflexes ) there could have been factors also in place:
1. They were probably in an enclosed area where peope can't see them ( except if he is your bf/ spouse that wants to. Show his passion for you openly or he is a mad man who forgot his way to the mental clinic pick one)

2. They were probably sitting or standing extremely close. (Yeah he is my friend what's there? If it is a must Just be cautious. Not overparnoid, its a probablity)

And many others. So before anyone thinks of slap check yourself first.
P.s: I never said that that I wouldn't slap a guy if he tries such, things happen of course and one might not think straight at that present moment. That's why we have to self control not just ladies, guys too I'm just trying to be more objective and seeing things from different perceptive. I don't believe an act of violence can change any thing,(except of course in extreme cases like rape and domestic abuse where one as to defend themself) one just have to be careful .if you don't avoid some of this things it can even lead to rape. Some people are driven by lust even after the slap they still won't gree! You just have to make your stance, like they say prevention is better than cure.

faithugo64: Nairaland ladies can slap oooo. Men are in trouble oo

NL ladies harsh like this

joywendy: I wasn't going to comment before but seeing how this thread is going, some people need to think first the op's question can be seen from different perspective. Your suggestion is good and a bit reasonable than slap. He kissed you you gave him slap. He has gotten pleasure you get pain from slapping(do you know how painful it is to actually slap someone specially when it comes from reflexes ) there could have been factors also in place:
1. They were probably in an enclosed area where peope can't see them ( except if he is your bf/ spouse that wants to. Show his passion for you openly or he is a mad man who forgot his way to the mental clinic pick one)

2. They were probably sitting or standing extremely close. (Yeah he is my friend what's there? If it is a must Just be cautious. Not overparnoid, its a probablity)

And many others. So before anyone thinks of slap check yourself first.
P.s: I never said that that I wouldn't slap a guy if he tries such, things happen of course and you might not think straight at that present moment. That's why we have to self control not just ladies, guys too I'm just trying to be more objective and seeing things from different perceptive. I don't believe an act of violence can change any thing,(except of course in extreme cases like rape and domestic abuse where one as to defend themself) one just have to be careful .if you don't avoid some of this things it can even lead to rape. Some people are driven by lust even after the slap they still won't gree! You just have to make your stance, like they say prevention is better than cure.

Yh, I agree.
Trust me, the rejection is humiliation enough for most people. You may feel embarrassed and uncomfortable with the situation, but he might feel worse, wounded ego and all. No one needs a slap on top of that. We should avoid violence.

I've been in situations where I've had to dodge and maneuver my way out of it, but I've never had to slap anybody. If a guy continues to force it on you despite your dodging or pulling away from him, is when you should resort to defense. God forbid.

With a bf/spouse it's even easier to maneuver your way out of, but then why would you? Gosh, I miss him

he wouldn't try unless he wants a slap

EnlightenedSoul:

Yh, I agree.
Trust me, the rejection is humiliation enough for most people. You may feel embarrassed and uncomfortable with the situation, but he might feel worse, wounded ego and all. No one needs a slap on top of that. We should avoid violence.

I've been in situations where I've had to dodge and maneuver my way out of it, but I've never had to slap anybody. If a guy continues to force it on you despite your dodging or pulling away from him, is when you should resort to defense. God forbid.

With a bf/spouse it's even easier to maneuver your way out of, but then why would you? Gosh, I miss him

yeah true talk! please tell our dear ladies here,shouting slap from different corners.
True, avoid violence.

Awww so sorry about that, cheer up!
I don't know what you mean by 'miss him'
But I guess you are talking about a past relationship or so,if it is I advice you let go because there are better days ahead and more happy moments. It may not seem easy but that's the best thing. Though not bad to miss him for a while, but dwelling on it is the worst thing to do to yourself. Above all love yourself and be happy.

joywendy: yeah true talk! please tell our dear ladies here,shouting slap from different corners.
True, avoid violence.

Awww so sorry about that, cheer up!
I don't know what you mean by 'miss him'
But I guess you are talking about a past relationship or so,if it is I advice you let go because there are better days ahead and more happy moments. It may not seem easy but that's the best thing. Though not bad to miss him for a while, but dwelling on it is the worst thing to do to yourself. Above all love yourself and be happy.

Exactly.

Thanks, dear. It's not that bad. Moment of weakness smh He's working overseas. Still very kind of you

Romantic slap i guess

EnlightenedSoul:

Exactly.

Thanks, dear. It's not that bad. Moment of weakness smh He's working overseas. Still very kind of you

yeah, you are welcome anytime. Lol it's not, sometimes you just have to let it out than denying it. It helps, oh I see. Then avoid all the talk above except the one on not dwelling on it too much and being happy.Communication is the key too, It's my pleasure ma'am.

missyhorlah: wetin do xtar?

missyhorlah: wetin?

she don teach you "story for the gods"

IrishKez: No guy can just come and kiss me. There must have been a thing going on between us for him to try it. Say, there'd been a unspoken chemistry between us for him to suddenly initiate that.
My cent!



Disclaimer: I haven't kissed before o
Waiting for the right man and time

na only right man?.. You still sleepy. Modify your comment later.. Please

@op... Mind you...Not every lady is kissable.. And as for those. Hot slappers!!! Pout, snap, and post.. Let's check out your manchi power!! So you were saying?

MissMalia: Y d HATE...Do u av 2 comment.*Hiss

pls don't let me start with you

khiaa:

How can someone be shy over the internet? lol Chucky dumped me, he loves someone else.

Baby bear you know that is not true, you and I are meant to be forever.

KingTom:
His loss

You even believe her sha, our love no fit quench na.

khiaa:


Hahahaha! You are a smoooooth one.

Someone is playing with fire.

onstelly:
Hehehehe
OP I will return d kiss if I like the guy and he is cute but if I don't like him I will give him a hot SLAP

if I see you I go kiss you. Cos I too fine