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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:31am On Jul 10, 2015
Olarewajub:
It has been a while. Thanks for that reply.


You're welcome smiley
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by RICKYMARIO(m): 1:06pm On Jul 10, 2015
[quote author=Olarewajub post=35625612]How To Find True Love If You're An Introvert (And Hate Dating)

Gr8 point, i thnk d introvert-extrovvert reationship works quite well esp in d aspect of communication(discussions).Many introverts(like me)are not good @ bringing up new topics in conversations, they are only good at contributing to the topic.Probably this leads to the misconception that introverts are boring......
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tspun(m): 1:47pm On Jul 10, 2015
My name is AUSTIN and I'm an introvert

I have being single for like 3 years now, not because I want to but because I easily lose interest to any one I admires, i 'm too obsessed with myself that I barely feel a thing for any girl after a week with her.

Pls I want to know if this is common to all introvert or my case is different, pls help

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:51pm On Jul 10, 2015
tspun:
My name is AUSTIN and I'm an introvert

I have being single for like 3 years now, not because I want to but because I easily lose interest to any one I admires, i 'm too obsessed with myself that I barely feel a thing for any girl after a week with her.

Pls I want to know if this is common to all introvert or my case is different, pls help
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by eipreel(f): 8:26am On Jul 11, 2015
Hi guys,been ages smiley
Olarewajub can you kindly recommend a reliable article on handling depression. Thanks
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:01pm On Jul 11, 2015
eipreel:
Hi guys,been ages smiley
Olarewajub can you kindly recommend a reliable article on handling depression. Thanks
Happy Weekend. I think the most effective management is psycotherapy. http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/understanding-depression.aspx
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:02pm On Jul 11, 2015
eipreel:
Hi guys,been ages smiley
Olarewajub can you kindly recommend a reliable article on handling depression. Thanks
https://www.psychology.org.au/publications/tip_sheets/depression/
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jul 11, 2015
eipreel:
Hi guys,been ages smiley
Olarewajub can you kindly recommend a reliable article on handling depression. Thanks

Do we function alike? I mean you and I... on a serious note here.. I can guess what is causing yours here, though I pray I will be wrong this time.

YES... I have been depressed lately (It is more frequent lately).. My family don't know about it yet cos I'm hoping it will pass soon.

I wish I can provide a resource here but I'm afraid I am a victim here.

It's ironical I try to help others but I can't help myself on this issue.

I can't say my thoughts to the world. So I'm suggesting this.. A circle to discuss explicitly on "depression" ....

*Modified : This post was modified from the previous one. Guess I was not putting on my thinking cap before writing the former writeup.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:05pm On Jul 11, 2015
tspun:
My name is AUSTIN and I'm an introvert

I have being single for like 3 years now, not because I want to but because I easily lose interest to any one I admires, i 'm too obsessed with myself that I barely feel a thing for any girl after a week with her.

Pls I want to know if this is common to all introvert or my case is different, pls help
wow! I can relate to how that initial excitement dwindles within few weeks. @ Leadzeal and every Introverts in the lounge, your contribution is needed.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 11, 2015
Olarewajub:
https://www.psychology.org.au/publications/tip_sheets/depression/

Thanks for the link..

Note my post to eipreel.. I hope I did not break a rule. If I did, Please forgive.

*Modified..
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jul 11, 2015
Olarewajub:
wow! I can relate to how that initial excitement dwindles within few weeks. @ Leadzeal and every Introverts in the lounge, your contribution is needed.

I am using the tactics of a "group talk".. where you talk to people with similar problem. Research shows it helps, read it in a psychology article

*edited
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jul 11, 2015
Olarewajub:
https://www.psychology.org.au/publications/tip_sheets/depression/

Just finished reading through it. Thanks.. most prescribed approach is talking to a professional about it.

Please how do we Nigerians handle this from time to time? Do we really have the facilities and psychologist to help with this?

Honestly, I'm sceptical about two depressed people talking about their problem and no 'professional' or middleman to moderate it.

This lounge is so public, to discuss depression. So @Olarewajub, how can we get a circle running so has deal with this issue. I will appreciate your feedback and I believe the house will appreciate it too.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by eipreel(f): 9:35pm On Jul 11, 2015
Olarewajub:
Happy Weekend. I think the most effective management is psycotherapy. http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/understanding-depression.aspx
many thanks
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 11, 2015
eipreel:

many thanks

angry
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by eipreel(f): 9:42pm On Jul 11, 2015
leadzeal:


Do we function alike? I mean you and I... on a serious note here.. I can guess what is causing yours here, though I pray I will be wrong this time.

YES... I have been depressed lately (It is more frequent lately).. My family don't know about it yet cos I'm hoping it will pass soon.

I wish I can provide a resource here but I'm afraid I am a victim here.

It's ironical I try to help others but I can't help myself on this issue.

I can't say my thoughts to the world. So I'm suggesting this.. A circle to discuss explicitly on "depression" ....

*Modified : This post was modified from the previous one. Guess I was not putting on my thinking cap before writing the former writeup.



smiley i really do not know the cause. I'm just not feeling myself these days. I guess it just comes sometimes
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
Hello guys, leadzeal , olarewajub , jefferyjamez, eipreel & co. Hope you are all fine.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by eipreel(f): 10:59pm On Jul 11, 2015
iamayodeji:
Hello guys, lead.zeal , ola.rewajub , jeffery.jamez, ei.preel & co. Hope you are all fine.
hello Deji,been unavailable at that other end.trust you doing fine
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 12:40am On Jul 12, 2015
eipreel:

hello Deji,been unavailable at that other end.trust you doing fine

Was beginning to wonder what might have happened. Its good to hear from you. am doing fine too.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 12:48am On Jul 12, 2015
eipreel:
hello Deji,been unavailable at that other end.trust you doing fine
M ok. nice hearing from you.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:28pm On Jul 15, 2015
iamayodeji:
Hello guys, leadzeal , olarewajub , jefferyjamez, eipreel & co. Hope you are all fine.
I'm by Gods grace.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:30pm On Jul 15, 2015
leadzeal:


Just finished reading through it. Thanks.. most prescribed approach is talking to a professional about it.

Please how do we Nigerians handle this from time to time? Do we really have the facilities and psychologist to help with this?

Honestly, I'm sceptical about two depressed people talking about their problem and no 'professional' or middleman to moderate it.

This lounge is so public, to discuss depression. So @Olarewajub, how can we get a circle running so has deal with this issue. I will appreciate your feedback and I believe the house will appreciate it too.

Sorry for the late reply. Will get back to you soonest on this.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Disneyboy: 7:50pm On Jul 24, 2015
hello every one
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by donifez(m): 7:49am On Jul 28, 2015
eipreel:
Hi guys,been ages smiley
Olarewajub can you kindly recommend a reliable article on handling depression. Thanks

I don't know if this is coming late, This is what i do when depressed "I read good quotes online", I stroll around in the evening and sometimes i chat with a friend that understands me( might be a fellow introvert). I hope this helps.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kemiola89(f): 11:17am On Jul 28, 2015
Hmm! 60pages already What have I missed?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ayokunlei(m): 12:33pm On Aug 01, 2015
Depression is my biggest regret...
And I notice if one is a very serious type, such person will also suffer from a very serious depression.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by donifez(m): 11:45pm On Aug 03, 2015
ayokunlei:

Depression is my biggest regret...
And I notice if one is a very serious type, such person will also suffer from a very serious depression.

It should not be termed "regret",you made it look like you are the cause of your depression.


I love your siggy.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:15am On Aug 19, 2015
Amazing book and a must read for introverts. Just finished reading this book and the time spent was worth it.

Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 19, 2015
Olarewajub:
Amazing book and a must read for introverts. Just finished reading this book and the time spent was worth it.

Have you watched this movie“the social network”
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:50pm On Aug 19, 2015
kevinberry:

Have you watched this movie“the social network”
Nope. Hollywood?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 19, 2015
Olarewajub:
Nope. Hollywood?

Yep,you should watch it,you will shed tears,it all about the creation of facebook,friendship,greed,betrayal..
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:53pm On Aug 19, 2015
kevinberry:


Yep,you should watch it,you will shed tears,it all about the creation of facebook,friendship,greed,betrayal..
I've read the plot on Wikipedia. Would have love to watch the movie, it's a pity i don't have mb to download any movie.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:48pm On Aug 19, 2015
social network is a good movie, I don't think its as emotional as somebody suggested though.
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BTW, congrats to those who successfully read Susan Cain's book , am sure you are a fully transformed by now.

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