MizMyColi: and mi Guapo is become a prophet!!!

See?! That ministered to me

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and.timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.


President Roosevelt

Thanks for the words of encouragement;am really moved;[b]Thanks for the words of encouragement;am really moved;[/b]Thanks for the words of encouragement;am really moved;

MizMyColi: Thank You Sir.

You should do this more often

Idowuogbo: Even the smoothest road is full of stones.Confidence is half victory, do not try to fit in, you were born to stand out.

Now this is touching coming from badosky.
Aren't we first of all human!


MizMyColi why are you writing like a feminist which I know you aren't? Don't tell me the odds are in men's favour. Need me encouragement in that angle too.
Nice write up by the way.

softsparkyy: May we never let the things we dont
have or can't have spoil the enjoyment and
happiness of the things we have or can have.

Your happiness is in your hands.

Nwanyi oma, I kuru ya mkpo n'isi!

softsparkyy: This MizMyColi is one of the reasons I visit nairaland often.

God bless you MizMyColi.

me too...including mzmariah

Acidosis:
Market Woman No derail dis thread abeg

You're the one derailing.
Drop your own words of inspiration cos she has.

Ishsoph:

Nwanyi oma, I kuru ya mkpo n'isi!

Nwoke oma,kedu ka imere?

Idowuogbo:
Upcoming

lol..you'll get there

#Excerpts

Don't fall into the trap of believing that if you could change your partner, your relationship would be better. You are, at the very least, jointly accountable for the relationship.

Let go of the childlike notion that falling in love means finding someone who will be responsible for your happiness. You need to take responsibility for your own happiness.

If your relationship is distressed, the most important person for you to change might be yourself. Once you identify the payoffs you are subconsciously seeking with destructive behavior, you can choose to remove them from your life.

Nothing could be further from the truth. There is no definitive "right way" to be a good spouse, good parent, or to handle any relationship challenge that life throws you.

Do what works for you rather than following some standards you might have read in a book or heard from a well-meaning friend. If what you and your partner are doing is generating the results you want, stick with it. If both of you are comfortable with the principles that work, you can write your own rules.

Remember not to be rigid about the way in which you accept your partner's expressions of love. There is no "right way" for someone to love you. The fact that your partner expresses feelings differently doesn't make those feelings less genuine or of less value

Nobody's perfect. As long as your partner's quirks are non-abusive and non-destructive, you can learn to live with them.

Instead of focusing on your partner's shortcomings, remember the qualities that attracted you in the first place. Perhaps some of these idiosyncrasies were part of the attraction? Just because a behavior isn't mainstream, doesn't mean that it's toxic to the relationship.

Be careful to distinguish the difference between a partner with quirks and one with a serious problem. Serious problems that are destructive and abusive include substance abuse and mental/physical abuse. Unlike idiosyncrasies, these are not behaviors you should learn to live with

softsparkyy:
Nwoke oma,kedu ka imere?

A dim mma nne m

As long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

Marian Anderson

Nice one Airbornlacer
Nearly wrote airborne disease

Enthusiasm is the best protection in any situation. Wholeheartedness is contagious. Give yourself, if you wish to get others.

David Seabury

Ishsoph:
You're the one derailing.
Drop your own words of inspiration cos she has.

okay




Life na Jeje o

MizMyColi: I'm sure you'll get one here Sir.

Meanwhile, you could say something to inspire hope and courage in us

Do not work too hard to attract the opposite sex
Work so hard at being a better you and the right person will be attracted.

Never focus on who leaves the starting line first. Rather, focus on working on yourself to beat them before the race is over. A race is not determined by who starts first, but who gets to the finish line in due time.

KiddaBlingzz.

I give you love, love i give unto you. Give me same, and the world will be a better place.

KiddaBlingzz

Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending and
Speak without offending.

Acidosis:
okay

Life na Jeje o

Stay quiet and benefit from other commenter's encouragement. After all you're a victim of mizmycoli's post.
Aren't you the dude the received 'K' for a response to 'I love u' to a babe?

I see myself a pen, i write to change, try to erase and you do so in vain.

KiddaBlingzz

Ishsoph:
Stay quiet and benefit from other commenter's encouragement. After all you're a victim of mizmycoli's post.
Aren't you the dude the received 'K' for a response to 'I love u' to a babe?

ahahahaha

Not everyone Ɣ☺ΰ̊ love, loves Ɣ☺ΰ̊ in return. Not everyone Ɣ☺ΰ̊ trust Iڪ worth of u̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ trust.
But not everyone lies,and not everyone leaves.
Putting u̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ heart in hiding hurts you---Not them.
Don't lose †ђξ best in Ɣ☺ΰ̊ b'cos of †ђξ worst in them.

xynerise: Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending and
Speak without offending.

Pa Antelope has come
Y'all should listen.
He's married with kids and the oldest young man in romance section.