Nairalanders my boyfriend is a muslim,am a christian, Classic religion story but Honestly i think he is the one for me but I cant convert, neither wud he. We are thinking of leaving things that way, but still i really dont know if its worth it dumping someone for religion basis, someone you can definitely see in your future.?

Is your family going to accept him? If you think they will then cool if not you know what to do.

is it her family that will live with him. emuejev, all i can tell u is that it takes more than love to sustain a marriage.

Emuejev:

Nairalanders my boyfriend is a muslim,am a christian, Classic religion story but Honestly i think he is the one for me but I can't convert, neither would he. We are thinking of leaving things that way, but still i really don't know if its worth it dumping someone for religion basis, someone you can definitely see in your future.?

If you are a real christian, then your mission in his life will be to convert him. Dont say he 'cant' convert. If really God meant you to be his wife, he'll give you the grace to win his soul. Remember there's no connection between light and darkness.

be sure of the future to be carried away by fantasies or rather emosions, no problems with religion but future conflicts from family members and the position of your children be considered pls. be wise in your decisioins

if i wake up and marry a female babalawo mamalawo, is it ma mum that will live with the witch?
just do what u think is right so incase of future problems u have ur self to blame!! but also put ur parents advise into consideration

Emuejevoke(if thats your full name)

Trust me, it never works ok. . . . you will always. . .ALWAYS confuse your kids . . .haba . . . .haven't you heard that you shouldn't be UNEVENLY YOKED? ? ? ? ?

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Believe me it won't work, especially if he's from a strong muslim family background.
I've seen such crash like a pack of card. Religion is a major factor in any marriage.
It could make or mar even the children life style.

But in all the last decision rest with you and your boyfriend. What does he really
think about this whole fuss? Since you can't convert him and he can't convert you.

Think before you leap, marriage is deeper than you can imagine. It's a lifetime
committment.

Well i am not so into the whole religion thing, grew up in a family where we are literally forced to do all night all the time, anyways we agreed on him having his children to his own religion, but all the same it still sucks that one of my most compatible bfs is muslim.

All might seem well now, but when you do get married and start having kids - that's when the real challenge starts. How will you teach your children to pray, what religious gatherings will they be attending? If you decided you're going to be doing both at the sametime (encouraging the kids to practise both Xtianity and Islam), you'll be screwing up their mentality and thereby getting them the more confused about their parents' orientation.

, except both of you dont really care about ur religion, but I think you do, that's why you are here.

Good luck.

It all depends your depth in your christian faith. If u are truly born again then it is wrong for you to marry a muslim. But, if are just a christian by birth/church goer then u can consider marrying him if u feel he is d right one for you.

My dear u have to open your eyes, dont be carried away of wot you are seeing now, no Love is parmenet expect the Love of God in our life, one day the love will fade away, bear it at the back of ur mind that no marriage is a bed of roses. my advice to u now dont marriage him, it is not the will of God in your as a christian, becos the bible says that we should be of equal yoke with unbeliever, as far as I am concerned the muslim are unbeleivers. Shine ur eyes. Be Informed!!! Be warned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well if we do get married, the kids wud be his.
Muslims arent unbelievers, they just dont believe in everything Christians do. Am a very open person to religion, my prev bf was a grail messenger.
Even for Christians, love can fade away and children can get confused, but for an inter marriage the risk of confusion might be high. am not confused about him, just wondered how my folks wud react and all that. Wat is the possibility of finding a 10/10 elsewhere. It is tiring bein in the world of dating

As a woman Your wish should be his command but as a christian talk to the Lord about him surely he s more interested in a lost sheep

Don't do it. It is not what both of u can handle

[tr]Well if we do get married, the kids would be his.
Muslims arent unbelievers, they just don't believe in everything Christians do. Am a very open person to religion, my prev boyfriend was a grail messenger.
Even for Christians, love can fade away and children can get confused, but for an inter marriage the risk of confusion might be high. am not confused about him, just wondered how my folks would react and all that. what is the possibility of finding a 10/10 elsewhere. It is tiring bein in the world of dating[/tr]



I dont really feel u needed suggestions from Nairalanders because you have already made up your mind on what u want to do. Just do as your mind tells you. Good Luck