princefunmi:

You know I read your post again and after taking a second look, I must say some of your points seems to show you know very little about the female psyche.

Point No 2: I'm pretty sure you suck with girls. If you didn't you would realize that Girls actually like this one. Really! A guy calls a girl just to say I wanted to hear your voice means the girl has actually being occupying the guys mind long enough to warrant a desire to hear her voice. Last time I checked, that's the sort of thing that make a a girls cheek flesh turn pink. Assuming ofcourse the guy is not such a jerk that he does that constantly without spice of variation.

Point No 4: When you get the girls number is unimportant. What you do with the number is what counts. Infact the more you delay in getting the girl's number, the more at risk you are of falling over the "friend zone" precipice.

Point No 7: Have you got a problem with that. how do you even know that its the guys that click the like button. Unless you mean to say thats what you do.


Sorry to say, but you seem to me to a female chauvinist.

CoolHunk: Oops! I did something silly just now. But I'm not telling.

Daffar:

To make it worse, instead of sending it straight to D̶̲̥̅̊ lady's inbox, U̶̲̥̅̊ see them writting it on her timeline so everybody can c it... It suckgzzzz like hell

IdJack: Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

Bros you are right...I nearly blocked my very good friend on facebook for thanking a lady for accepting her...I was like 'WHAT' are you okay..you are writing the thank u message on her wall and the lady just type 'kk'.

It is high time we respect ourselves as guys. In doing that; all these ladies will run and follow us like bee running after honey. I trust myself...I dont give a fu*k who these ladies are..I am handsome, have some bucks and confident..that is it. That is why i dont commend on ladies post on facebook like that.

A lady i met on facebook , after some days she demanded for #1500 MTN recharge card, that she want to call her bros. I told her she should send me #3000 GLO card let me renew my subscription, that was the last day we chat online.

Please guys let us have ourselves worth; money or no money and things will fall in pleasant place for us...FREE of charge.

mediachirps: If really you did not copied this post from elsewhere, then you're grown to be a real MAN without pretends cause of ladies threats...... You really have hit those key points some guys are using to dice other guys immunity against some bitch ass ladies.

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing


Guys actually do silly poo that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( abt a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes ( fumble apart oooo, how many ladies profile pix betters mine?) Likewise some handsome dudes I view their profile by d reason of their sensible comments only to see mouth-opening nice profile pix but surprisingly, u would see little or no Likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture of wack quality and she got 65 likes under 24 hours and I was lik WTF !!! Secondly, the rate at which Nairaland guys sef dey fall person hand sef no be am at all, countless times, I have seen some dumb threads like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on.. it's not jst funny at all., It is jst d greatest exhibition of stupidity and immaturity) ... Thirdly, d rate at which guys follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys attack or belittle their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that it wld possibly increase dia chances of attention... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?

LaurelP:

I got no problem with u calling ur girl to hear her voice, infact I urge u to do so
But calling a girl u intend to convert and telling her u just want to hear her voice is nonsense
If u got notin to tell her, don't call.

How many times have u successfully gotten a girl's number the day u met her? I'm not talking abt an ashawo, I mean a real chick.

michylabo: Seriously, how old are u guys? So what, if a guy calls a lady just to hear the sound of her voice? So what if a guy get a girls number early? or even if he pays a lot for sex? or even if he thanks her for accepting request on fb? even if he does all she wants?....
Dear OP, no one is born a gentle man. We all learn to be gentlemen. These things u posted just shows how myopic and petty u r....
It is not silly at all to do these things. Not saying i do them all.. dnt even give a hoot if i do them but terming such acts silly tells me u r probably 16 or 17

striktlymi:

To stare may just be pushing it but asking guys not to look (at least a glance) would be to deny the very thing that makes us men. We do it out of impulse.



I think it's cool. Some guys do that when they have nothing much to say to the lady. Probably their way of letting the lady know that they are thinking of her. Better to call and say that than not call at all. Nothing wrong there.



I think it's courteous and gentlemanly to say thank you, even when it's something as trivial as getting added on facebook. Though the world need not know. A private message would do just fine.



I don't think any time is too early to ask for a lady's number as long as it is done politely, such that the lady is not embarrassed in the process.




I agree that one shouldn't do wrong to please anyone (male of female), but we are obligated as men to try and make ladies reasonably comfortable.



That's called prostitution I guess.



Related to point number 5.

Vivipop: ...and somebody finally made some sense! It's very funny to see how easy and condusive it is for some guys to form macho while giving emotional advice to their male friends or on some faceless forum, and when they see that special girl, every "macho-like" rules jumps off the window and they are all soft and whipped.

michylabo: Seriously, how old are u guys? So what, if a guy calls a lady just to hear the sound of her voice? So what if a guy get a girls number early? or even if he pays a lot for sex? or even if he thanks her for accepting request on fb? even if he does all she wants?....
Dear OP, no one is born a gentle man. We all learn to be gentlemen. These things u posted just shows how myopic and petty u r....
It is not silly at all to do these things. Not saying i do them all.. dnt even give a hoot if i do them but terming such acts silly tells me u r probably 16 or 17

princefunmi:

Reminds me of the movie "Hitch"

aljazira: The one i hate so so much is when a lady post her picture(s) and we men will throw our comments in less than 30min with 'looking sweet','enjoyment madam','thats my baby',bla bla bla........the same girl in question will never add any comment about u when u post urs.Guys wake up....V.g.na full world brekete and stop killing urself on 1 lady when she care less about u.Guys pls lets wake up fast.

temigracie: .....thats too harsh....

tosyne2much: may u live long broda.. U jst made a perfect description of my so called friend

Superstar007:

LoL. . What do you do when he acts like that?

Vivipop: ...and somebody finally made some sense! It's very funny to see how easy and condusive it is for some guys to form macho while giving emotional advice to their male friends or on some faceless forum, and when they see that special girl, every "macho-like" rules jumps off the window and they are all soft and whipped.

Centrifuge4: .

tosyne2much: I'm already used to it anyway...I jst keep wondering why he's so dump and myopic in dealing wit ladies.. I dnt get close to him especially wen he's wit a lady cos he wld make u worthless in d presence of dat lady

Debayurr: Men and sons of men.....As long as boyz wud still be men and men would still bore boyz...@ OP We'll still be very guilty of your 1st comment...can u imagine dis image while on a long queue @ GTB?bros so wot shud I b staring @?.Cos I was facing my front and she was obstructing my view...We know its wrong buh its a reflex programmed in our brains...#realist

joelenesleek: come to my house, you deserve a French kiss.

LaurelP:

I got no problem with u calling ur girl to hear her voice, infact I urge u to do so
But calling a girl u intend to convert and telling her u just want to hear her voice is nonsense
If u got notin to tell her, don't call.

How many times have u successfully gotten a girl's number the day u met her? I'm not talking abt an ashawo, I mean a real chick.