deeobserver209: It beats my imagination to see guys seriously looking for relationships online especially here on Nairaland.
Online relationships is a complete sellout. It's better to waste your time playing computer game online than waste your life on e-relationships.

We had a couple who started their relationship via nairaland

But the last time i checked,,,,,am a lady buh no "like"" on my pictuure yet.

I see nothing wrong with number 2, absolutely nothing! I even find it cute

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing


Guys actually do silly poo that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( abt a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes ( fumble apart oooo, how many ladies profile pix betters mine?) Likewise some handsome dudes I view their profile by d reason of their sensible comments only to see mouth-opening nice profile pix but surprisingly, u would see little or no Likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture of wack quality and she got 65 likes under 24 hours and I was lik WTF !!! Secondly, the rate at which Nairaland guys sef dey fall person hand sef no be am at all, countless times, I have seen some dumb threads like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on... Thirdly, d rate at which guys follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys belittling their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that dey would get likes frm few ladies.. long... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?

I wonder o!!!

I quite agree with the OP. I also think that displaying your phone number or your BB pin on your footnote is a sign of desperation.

I wonder wat girls tink they rilly are. Or is it because of d hole in between their legs? Rubbish! I can do without dat shit wen a girl is tryin 2 make me go against my wish. I refuse 2 be foolish because of dat everlasting wound in their legs. I can be very foolish because of money, but not 4 a hole...Neva. Money matas most.

Girls, Nigeria girls, should also learn how not to play this yeye needless hard to get game. If you like try to form hard to get, if the guy sees you cheap, your hard to get changes nothing.

Thanks @Op for this.However, number 1, if i may ask, are you freaking kidding me? That is not possible except the Girl don't have it. If you think am joking, asked Mikel Obi.

Vixen101: I see nothing wrong with number 2, absolutely nothing! I even find it cute

Why would you? After all you are a Lady.

Trendline: The one I can considered the most annoying one its seeying a guys commenting on every single picture a girl upload on facebook....with some cheap flatering.

Chei you have said it all.I hate this, but what did girls achieve from someone commenting on their fb or liking it? So tay, one girl just called only to ask me to comment on her pic.

So going out of your way to be nice to a lady nowadays is wrong...? Lesson learnt.
Tomorrow if I refuse to let a lady take my spot on the queue or open the car door for her, hope you people won't say I'm inconsiderate and unromantic.

A confused society, Double standard

guys i see notin bad for one to apreciate sumbdy for accepting ur friendshp requested, bcuz i apreciatd but sex for acceptd my requestd so wit d reason u gave, i disagreed wit u,

the only i no guys do wic is very, they we drop dia contact, eg pin, number etc wen she's nt online, is nt gud even me do it

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing


Guys actually do silly poo that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( abt a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes ( fumble apart oooo, how many ladies profile pix betters mine?) Likewise some handsome dudes I view their profile by d reason of their sensible comments only to see mouth-opening nice profile pix but surprisingly, u would see little or no Likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture of wack quality and she got 65 likes under 24 hours and I was lik WTF !!! Secondly, the rate at which Nairaland guys sef dey fall person hand sef no be am at all, countless times, I have seen some dumb threads like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on... Thirdly, d rate at which guys follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys belittling their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that dey would get likes frm few ladies... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?

Good make up, at last u sef don get more dan 100like now......oya smaile

lirusehn: like seriously numb 3 (saying thanks wen a lady accepts them on Facebook) sucks. I hate it like hell.

It's really so dumb actually,I can't remember doing that

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing


Guys actually do silly poo that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( abt a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes ( fumble apart oooo, how many ladies profile pix betters mine?) Likewise some handsome dudes I view their profile by d reason of their sensible comments only to see mouth-opening nice profile pix but surprisingly, u would see little or no Likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture of wack quality and she got 65 likes under 24 hours and I was lik WTF !!! Secondly, the rate at which Nairaland guys sef dey fall person hand sef no be am at all, countless times, I have seen some dumb threads like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on... Thirdly, d rate at which guys follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys belittling their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that dey would get likes frm few ladies... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?

When I joined NL,I went straight to the literature section I followed no one and nobody followed me I only began to follow writers that were very good and the first person I picked was even a guy... Guys can be very funny at times you know

And some guys would never learn, that's why U find a whole lot of ugly & dump gals feeling unneccesary fly...

Reiyvinn: Marieolae's DP:

Uploaded August 31, 2014

63 New LIKES + 118 Old LIKES = 181 Total LIKES

Joined: August 10, 2014.

Jezorse kuraizt!! Why na? Why are guys thirsty like this na?

so becos the simply pressed the like button, it means their thirsty. I dnt get you . Cos its not as if it will show me that reiyvinn liked my picture.

Reiyvinn: Marieolae's DP:

Uploaded August 31, 2014

63 New LIKES + 118 Old LIKES = 181 Total LIKES

Joined: August 10, 2014.

Jezorse kuraizt!! Why na? Why are guys thirsty like this na?

so this thing was bothering you so much that at 12.02 am you had to post this. So becos they simply pressed the like button, it means their thirsty. I dnt get you . Cos its not as if it will show me that reiyvinn liked my picture.

tosyne2much: woman wrappering say wetn happen... Ladies na d least tin wey dey my mind... I get dem plenty if dats u wanna hear

That's the more reason you're "woman wrappering" It's Never Enough...lol

Sometimes number 1 is unavoidable. No 2 is arguable(because i do it as a preamble). No 3 is despicable. No 4 is debatable(the earlier the better). No 5 is condemnable. No 6 is laughable(ashawo no too cost if na sex u want) and No 7 is unacceptable. Overall, the thread is quite commendable.

Sorry oo! But if u ask me... This is a very stupid post. And coming from a guy makes it more useless.

Very true!
Stop sending Nigerian babes
They're not worth it
Kenyans, togoleese, cotonoueese, Ghanians are all finer and better behaved
Naija babes are boring and unnecessarily proud

lirusehn: like seriously numb 3 (saying thanks wen a lady accepts them on Facebook) sucks. I hate it like hell.

Me too bro, i feel it's childish.

Vixen101: I see nothing wrong with number 2, absolutely nothing! I even find it cute

Yes its cute when its coming from partner
But most girls find it annoying
Especially during the wooing period

shegsky:
Attack ko, Midfield Ni .

Lol

Missmossy: I loff this thread b)

See ur mouth

temigracie: .....thats too harsh....

taaaa shatapu

Some Nairalander dudes,mumuing themelves since 2006

dagentility: So Op,if guys stop doing all these you mentioned, which other ways do you want them to be romantic.

so staring at your thin backside is ur definition of been romantik, hiaaaan SMH

iyke926: I'm guilty of 1 and 2. But then 90% of black men love appreciating boot-y.

buh seriously, not staring at doz backsides sounds gay to me

LaurelP: Guys can be very annoying at times.
I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it

2.Calling a girl and saying "I just want to hear your voice": To me this is just dumb! And that's why that girl can never call you. She assumes you don't have a life. Guys, even if you're jobless at d moment, pls find sth to do even if its free, a hobby or volunteer work just to fill the time. Than to waste your time wanting to hear a girl's voice.

3. Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

4. Asking for a girl's number just too early: Many guys feel very fulfilled getting a girl's digits. Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up not calling them at the end of the day. Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits like most would do.

5.Always wanting to please ladies: I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, its just that some guys take it too far. They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady. Come on! That she's not all smiles doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried. Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

6. Giving out large sums of money for sex: For God's sake guys, you won't die if you don't have sex. Stop acting as if your whole life depends on sex. Some guys would abandon their parents and siblings and be spending large on a girl who hasn't added nothing in his life save for the sex. Guys pls learn!

7. Agreeing to whatever the ladies say in order to become a gentleman: We see this on NL here sometimes. Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true, but because they're ladies.


There are many of them.... Pls add yours

Hmm...ON POINT!...*Sips Tea*

LaurelP: Guys can be very annoying at times.
I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it

2.Calling a girl and saying "I just want to hear your voice": To me this is just dumb! And that's why that girl can never call you. She assumes you don't have a life. Guys, even if you're jobless at d moment, pls find sth to do even if its free, a hobby or volunteer work just to fill the time. Than to waste your time wanting to hear a girl's voice.

3. Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

4. Asking for a girl's number just too early: Many guys feel very fulfilled getting a girl's digits. Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up not calling them at the end of the day. Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits like most would do.

5.Always wanting to please ladies: I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, its just that some guys take it too far. They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady. Come on! That she's not all smiles doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried. Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

6. Giving out large sums of money for sex: For God's sake guys, you won't die if you don't have sex. Stop acting as if your whole life depends on sex. Some guys would abandon their parents and siblings and be spending large on a girl who hasn't added nothing in his life save for the sex. Guys pls learn!

7. Agreeing to whatever the ladies say in order to become a gentleman: We see this on NL here sometimes. Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true, but because they're ladies.


There are many of them.... Pls add yours

Hmm...ON POINT!...*Sips Tea*