tosyne2much: am so sowi Temigracie... That was my first time of being rude.. Twas a slip of typing.. *modified*

why are u saying am sorry?is she the one u are referring to....u are the reason why they created this thread.....woman bedshit

damola311: I hate that number 3 like hell...... And they will still blow incorrect grammar i.e 'thanks for accepted me as your friend'

bwahahahahahahahaha egbon nor use laff tear my belle oooo

MarshRiley: *in RileyFreeman's voice*Alot of guys are suffering from B*tch dependency that's why they do all this,expecially thanking a girl for accptn ur request on Fb...that's gay

Too much Boondocks...

But I just can't stop looking @ every asses,arse staring is vokkin' good.

Djicemob: I hate the fact that there are lots of cvnt suckers on NL.

U see guys getting a b0ner jus cos a girl mention him,wether she insults him or not.
*U see guys asking for a girl's pin on NL not minding if she's on BBM or not.
*Some clowns even open threads exalting a NL female moniker.
* Sending PMs to girls they don't know .
* Checking out and commending DPs of every chick dat comments on a thread.Like is she gonna like u jus cos u commended her DP?

u ar on point bro.. They place so much hype on some ladies.. Most times, I wonder how these ladies feel

striktlymi:

To stare may just be pushing it but asking guys not to look (at least a glance) would be to deny the very thing that makes us men. We do it out of impulse.



I think it's cool. Some guys do that when they have nothing much to say to the lady. Probably their way of letting the lady know that they are thinking of her. Better to call and say that than not call at all. Nothing wrong there.



I think it's courteous and gentlemanly to say thank you, even when it's something as trivial as getting added on facebook. Though the world need not know. A private message would do just fine.



I don't think any time is too early to ask for a lady's number as long as it is done politely, such that the lady is not embarrassed in the process.




I agree that one shouldn't do wrong to please anyone (male of female), but we are obligated as men to try and make ladies reasonably comfortable.



That's called prostitution I guess.



Related to point number 5.

You, my friend, are a pothead.

LaurelP:

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it ;

It's called natural delight. Sometime when I see this, I'll be like wow! No wonder ARSEnals hold weapons

HARDDON: to add: guys stop wanting to sleep with every girl that comes ur way. that a lady visits u , doesnt mean she wants a lil som som .
sure, some would Luv som wild times d first time , but use ur head n read d mood, test d waters gently , if it rumbles below, rage out. but master ur self, open d door for her, pull off excuse ur self after offering her water, no wine , no alcohol, go freshen up, roll back, show her d kitchen n restroom , then flip on d laptop and off to work.

u wudnt know how it feels like to be the one repelling d other . be in charge of ur d1ckszzz for once pumpkins !
u r an eagle , stop living like chickens !


also, stop paying for gurls' attention, it ain't worth it. the best that would afford u is a name tag "MUGU"



btw, where is that Durchess of a sexy secretary?

d first tym am actually smiling while reading ur post.
FYI I jz resigned , tired of ds boring sec job go gt yasef anoda sec

@OP u try well well. NO.3 is the one I hate the most. Why do I gotta thank a babe for accepting a simple friend request? I wonder what these girls must be thinking of such guys. I've even slammed sm1 cuz of this b4.
@temigracie what did u say?

temigracie: ...lol...one of those things Naija girls hate about Naija boys....some guys need to upgrade for real....


.....Later you see them opening a counter thread now, they will not accept they are wrong most tyms and try to make amends.....

.....Anyways, ayaf sed my mind oooo....He who has ears let him hear.....

Raymondif: why are u saying am sorry?is she the one u are referring to....u are the reason why they created this thread.....woman bedshit

what I posted iniatially was so so rude and am pretty sure u wld pick offence and rebuke me for that if u saw it... So I had to quickly modify b4 guys go see am... No vex egbon mi

over 90% of us do found wanting in number 1.
i think for others it depends on age and occupation.
u cant expect a busy man like me to even have time to call anyone let alone girl just to hear her voice..."NA CELIN DION"?
for the facebook stuff, it gat to do with age and expossure. new users seems unaware that stuffs posted on timeline r for public view.

joelenesleek: come to my house, you deserve a French kiss.

I won't mind one too.

tosyne2much: what I posted iniatially was so so rude and am pretty sure u wld pick offence and rebuke me for that if u saw it... So I had to quickly modify b4 guys go see am... No vex egbon mi

ok guy man orie wam be

If to say U de close to me now l for danm 14yrs inprisonment n blow U 7 hot kisses! Can U pls publicise more dan dis nairaland so dat som guys in d cage can b liberated plssssss

LaurelP: Guys can be very annoying at times.
I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it

2.Calling a girl and saying "I just want to hear your voice": To me this is just dumb! And that's why that girl can never call you. She assumes you don't have a life. Guys, even if you're jobless at d moment, pls find sth to do even if its free, a hobby or volunteer work just to fill the time. Than to waste your time wanting to hear a girl's voice.

3. Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

4. Asking for a girl's number just too early: Many guys feel very fulfilled getting a girl's digits. Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up not calling them at the end of the day. Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits like most would do.

5.Always wanting to please ladies: I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, its just that some guys take it too far. They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady. Come on! That she's not all smiles doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried. Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

6. Giving out large sums of money for sex: For God's sake guys, you won't die if you don't have sex. Stop acting as if your whole life depends on sex. Some guys would abandon their parents and siblings and be spending large on a girl who hasn't added nothing in his life save for the sex. Guys pls learn!

7. Agreeing to whatever the ladies say in order to become a gentleman: We see this on NL here sometimes. Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true, but because they're ladies.


There are many of them.... Pls add yours

Ur head is there...tnx for d heads-up.

@ OP I perceive u re a gay nt a guy..All ds tins makes a man..A man tills in evry form n is always soft wit ladies..The prob we face in our marriages ds days is dt we have many males few men..We expect d women to love us, toast us,like our pages, trip for us, clothe us, flaunt around us, feed us, accommodate us, buy properties for us, wed us, work fr us, produce children fr us n wen we married, climb us to have sex (Not saying its wrong) but men are jus becoming mere males...We forget dt d pride of a lady has always bn reserving their emotions fr marriage n d forming aspect.. We can hear our fathers tell beautiful stories of how much it cost dm to make our mothers accept their proposals n Hw much dy had to Impress her..
Please guys drs nothing wrong with tripping fr a girl n trying to express ur God's given emotions through calls or liking her posts or pix..
Jus b urself...
Jus b d man
Take d lead
If shes too decent to gv in cheaply, TILL Sincerely till u gt her as ur bride..

abdulwastecx:

why do u need to be that submissive. .. just because she is a lady

what I posted iniatially was so so rude and am
pretty sure u wld pick offence and
rebuke me for that if u saw it... So I
had to quickly modify b4 guys go
see am... No vex egbon mi

Adikam: you re guilty of no 3 wen adepimbe accept u

loolz

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing

As if you are not guilty.

Abegggiii, talk to the hand......

No1. Me I dey do that one wellaa. Na me get my eye and I can look wherever I want. Whoever doesn't like it should go and hug transformer and fry. The women are gracing us with different shapes of behind and they showcase them in nice skinny jeans, spndex tighties and mini skirts.

If any guy tells me he doesn't stare at least stylishly, na thunder go fire that person mouth.

onihaxy: Hmmmmmmm

Guess you are good @ dat 3 lol

joelenesleek: come to my house, you deserve a French kiss.

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fighting over a girl with a fellow guy. even wen its obvious she ain't into you.

That number1, though sometin must kill a man.

Ifecoded: as far as am concerned num 3 is d only point here, we dont think same way and u cant expect us to act in same manner. Thats y a beautiful lady to me may nt be as beautiful to yu as i had tot, guys are configured that way. Even pastors appreciates ladies that re well dressed attymz, 99.9per cent ladies gossip, its dia traits u cant take it away frm dem. And for every six guys u walked past on d road three are thinkin abt sex

bwhahahahahahahahahahaha egbon I don almost wake my ppl for house ooooo

tosyne2much: u ar on point bro.. They place so much hype on some ladies.. Most times, I wonder how these ladies feel

Sometimes these female monikers are actually guys.I feel shame for these cvnt suckers atimes.I guess thats y we have more female monikers now, most guys are nw impersonating to be girls cos of the attention.I bet the actual girls feel like queens whenever the come on NL, away from reality.

landg: @ OP I perceive u re a gay nt a guy..All ds tins makes a man..A man tills in evry form n is always soft wit ladies..The prob we face in our marriages ds days is dt we have many males few men..We expect d women to love us, toast us,like our pages, trip for us, clothe us, flaunt around us, feed us, accommodate us, buy properties for us, wed us, work fr us, produce children fr us n wen we married, climb us to have sex (Not saying its wrong) but men are jus becoming mere males...We forget dt d pride of a lady has always bn reserving their emotions fr marriage n d forming aspect.. We can hear our fathers tell beautiful stories of how much it cost dm to make our mothers accept their proposals n Hw much dy had to Impress her..
Please guys drs nothing wrong with tripping fr a girl n trying to express ur God's given emotions through calls or liking her posts or pix..
Jus b urself...
Jus b d man
Take d lead
If shes too decent to gv in cheaply, TILL Sincerely till u gt her as ur bride..

you re doomed. if u ain't careful.

Richy4: Your number 6 point, no guy will ever tell you he was spending fire over a girl. And when they are talking in the mist of their fellow guys it will be as if the opposite was the case.

Just wait to hear him when the relationship crumbles,You go taya to hear how much he spent.

lol

When You message a girl once or
twice and she doesn't reply, don't message her again... She's not
the only girl on your list, try someone
else. But some guys no jst go wan gree

Djicemob: Sometimes these female monikers are actually guys .I feel shame for these cvnt suckers atimes.I guess thats y we have more female monikers now, most guys are nw impersonating to be girls cos of the attention.I bet the actual girls feel like queens whenever the come on NL, away from reality.

gbaaaaaam I swear u have said it all..may u live long... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?.

tosyne2much: Guys actually do silly thing that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( bout a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture and she got 65 likes under 24 hours, WTF !!! Secondly, the rate at which Nairalanf guys sef dey fall person hand sef dey somehow, countless times, I have seen some dumb thread like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on... Thirldly, d rate ar which guy follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys belittling their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that dey would get likes frm few ladies.. Smh

#Bringbackourdiginity

Give me ur whatsapp number... It's really annoying... Simply say, give me ur mobile number... Guys pls don't use this tactics again...