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Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by bimzy1212(f): 10:46pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Nice 1 |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 10:52pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
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Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 11:18pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
I like that list!!! Great Job OP!!!! and its seriously for the ladies who really want to settle down in life. However, I have my 2 kids, they have their father, and I'm very happy single. I went through a couple of bumps these past few years, but if you think about it, the only reason women are "supposed" to want to settle down is to have kids. So, if that's you, and you want to conform to what society tells you is good, then go ahead sha!!! I am always happy whenever I see my gfs get engaged, married, have kids, etc. We push each other to be successful financially, and I personally love the freedom that being single affords. I can purchase anything without having to consider another person, I can go wherever I want to go. I can decorate my house, choose my church, choose my food, everything according to my tastes, and not have to deal with another human being bringing headache to my life. I had my son, and then my daughter, I work in my career, starting business, home everything, why do I need a man again? And, in case of my own intimate desires pop up, which they do, I simply go and date the marvelous gentlemen in my city who aren't looking for anything too serious, they end up being great business contacts as I don't go about burning bridges! The fact that I am making, is that it's not someone else's responsibility to make you happy. Being joyful, prayerful, full of gratitude and grace, loving at all times, showing compassion, and truly pursuing your god-given destiny are ACTIONS we must all take, no matter the social, economic or geographic situation we are in!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by tana4gud(f): 11:20pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Nice write up! |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 12:07am On Aug 29, 2014 |
@ Op after I read all this lengthy article of urs how can I turn to a woman?? I wan turn to woman abeg. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by nenergy(m): 12:20am On Aug 29, 2014 |
nikkypearl: OP, its always nice to give credit to the sources of your materials.. http://www.elitedaily.com/dating/making-it-count-10-things-every-girl-should-learn-while-single/644502/ 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 1:30am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Girly stuffs I suppose. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:12am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Interesting. But I hope you know not every single woman spends her time thinking of the reason she is single. Some single women are single by choice just saying. 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by lockupman(m): 5:55am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Consoling yourself. Whether you admit it or not, deep down inside you, you know there's a vacuum. That's not the kind of life you wished for but life only took its twist on you. It's cool to console yourself and move than just giving yourself high BP and feeling sorry for yourself at the same time. vivalableue: I like that list!!! Great Job OP!!!! and its seriously for the ladies who really want to settle down in life. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by AdeniyiA(m): 7:36am On Aug 29, 2014 |
jennylove7575: Exactly op.....men can't bash me, I bash men..more so I have my own pepper....SingletonFYI the OP is married, better get your acts together. Don't be a Singleton 'gbelepa'wo' 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Anny45: 7:43am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Hmmm,this is a very interesting write up,very encouraging too 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by File71(m): 7:52am On Aug 29, 2014 |
awesome share. thanks 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 8:15am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Op as a fashion designer,I believe you should be able to differenciate between 'Waist' and 'Waste'.... Nice write up by the way. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by deavicky(m): 8:42am On Aug 29, 2014 |
onstelly: Nice one, I have always believe so much in making my own moneynot believing alone make the money ur believe no concern us. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by nikkypearl(f): 8:47am On Aug 29, 2014 |
peppyluv02: Op as a fashion designer,I believe you should be able to differenciate between 'Waist' and 'Waste'.... Thank you ma!but u sud knw itz a typo error!and I am not into designing no more!I am an Architect! Wait oo!y are the guys vexing ? Guess the thread hit them kinda!! *runs outa thread* 2 Likes |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by jennylove7575(f): 9:42am On Aug 29, 2014 |
AdeniyiA:Elder AdeniyiA..advice noted...looking for husband activated.. 3 Likes |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by jennylove7575(f): 9:51am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Lordlexyy: Hope u don't soak the pillow wet at night? Op nice one at no 6 applicable to both genders.how do people soak pillow wet at night ? Make me understand. 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by nikkypearl(f): 10:07am On Aug 29, 2014 |
jennylove7575: Elder AdeniyiA..advice noted...looking for husband activated.. Jenny jenny!u av rlly changed oo!on a normal good day!u will have cuss the guy big time! I smell something |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by jennylove7575(f): 10:14am On Aug 29, 2014 |
nikkypearl:I woke up on the right side of the bed today..it is his lucky day...I have taken note of him, he will fall into my trap another day..no be nl? For that thing he called me, I've given him a carry over... he must hear from me soon. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Lordlexyy: 10:55am On Aug 29, 2014 |
jennylove7575: how do people soak pillow wet at night ? Make me understand.Jenny, Just craving for your attention. By the way, i take seriously ladies who make their own money. Would be fun knowing you. What do u think? |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by AdeniyiA(m): 11:03am On Aug 29, 2014 |
jennylove7575: Elder AdeniyiA..advice noted...looking for husband activated..OK, we can secretly nd in 'cameraly' discuss that |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Lordlexyy: 11:06am On Aug 29, 2014 |
vivalableue: I like that list!!! Great Job OP!!!! and its seriously for the ladies who really want to settle down in life.Do you really have to bring God into your whoreful sex escapades? You will do well to keep your frustrated and prostituting life to yourself without polluting others. Who is interested in what you do and how it makes u happy? You abandone your kids for some carnal life and you have no self respect but to vent it here. This is Africa and this is allien to us. Disgusting. Shio. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by AdeniyiA(m): 12:51pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
nikkypearl:you can't understand ... |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 1:26pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Consoling myself? What does that mean?You are right, it's not the plan I had, my plan was so much worse than this. But, I was blessed to find motherhood and I went back a few steps. Or is it that I use my brain as an IT professional to develop myself into who I am now, and not go and find a man to just run my life etc. I'm sorry that I live in a place where the need to be married is the least of all ambitions a woman has. Or is it because I get along swimmingly with the kids father, who supports my ambitions as I support his? I live in a world where a failed relationship is not the end of one's life. I challenge you to accomplish what I have, in the same circumstances and you will see that I'm congratulating myself and thanking God himself for the blessed life I live. lockupman: 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by edogho(m): 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
jorhney:and finally u proved him right. MUMU!!! |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 1:55pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Lordlexyy: Do you really have to bring God into your whoreful sex escapades? You will do well to keep your frustrated and prostituting life to yourself without polluting others. Who is interested in what you do and how it makes u happy? You abandone your kids for some carnal life and you have no self respect but to vent it here. This is Africa and this is allien to us. Shio. Who said that I abandoned the kids? Who live in my house, and I feed send to school care for etc. I am an IT professional, sorry but run tings is what is popular with women in your country. I mean all I see on this forum are men complaining about women always wanting cash. I have my own money from my own legal and established consulting firm. My kids father is actively involved in their lives, in fact we live walking distance from each other. He takes them every other weekend, and if I want to go go on a date, as a grown woman, am allowed. Who said anything about whoring around, or is it that all you know is opening legs to get your home provisions. You claim piety, but you are the first to operate in jealousy and skank ways. I am sorry that my brain can be used for constructive purposes on how to leave a legacy for my family and yours is on how to achieve full ashawo status. Am sorry that you have to go and disrespect yourself and beg men for change to feed your kids while I have a valid and respected career and all my money was earned with intelligence and respect. Am so so sorry that your parents cry about your uselessness while mine enjoy the fruits of their labor. Sorry that you are stuck in your poor man mentality and cannot understand the entrepreneur spirit that I proudly possess. One day when you're body is all finished with all the men running thru it I'll be more than happy to pick you from the gutter and show you how to start your own corner shop. Now, excuse me as I wake up and enjoy the company of my children. At last glance, my fridge is full, my kids healthy, my home in a safe community and this company cheque I need to cash is more than your father made in his lifetime. God is Good! 1 Like |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Lordlexyy: 2:15pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
vivalableue:God is good and you run your mouth like a rushing tap! Baby, i'm a full grown man incase you think in your little mind that i'm a 'runs' girl like. God is good and you still hasn't fathom the respect of a single motherhood, you go about deceiving married men, collecting their money and you come here making claim you are a professional. Wake up from your day dream and get your ass working for something legitimate. My concerns are those kids with you, hope they see or hear any vices. And who the hell is talking about what babes do here? Huh, after all they are not that shameless to flaunt their sexual life on a public forum. You need to grow up and understand the God you often called. No offence. Still love u baby. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by pedro08: 2:24pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Any independent lady shud not look at my side,because spending makes me believe am in control. |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 2:34pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Lordlexyy: God is good and you run your mouth like a rushing tap! Baby, i'm a full grown man incase you think in your little mind that i'm a 'runs' girl like. God is good and you still hasn't fathom the respect of a single motherhood, you go about deceiving married men, collecting their money and you come here making claim you are a professional. Wake up from your day dream and get your ass working for something legitimate. My concerns are those kids with you, hope they see or hear any vices. And who the hell is talking about what babes do here? Huh, after all they are not that shameless to flaunt their sexual life on a public forum. You need to grow up and understand the God you often called. No offence. Still love u baby. A married man? What kind of foolishness is this? I have never been with a married man in my life. OK so am ignorant to your culture, let me explain mine to you. Then you can do the same. Where I live, women work, we go to school, earn a degree and find employment. We can start businesses, pm me and I'll give you a link to something called LinkedIn. You will see my profile, associates, work history etc.. Now, as for dating, I have an active social life, from going to the gym or networking in the start-up community in my city, to attending the various festivities etc. I sometimes meet vibrant, young singles like myself, who are too focused on career than to selfish and commit to a very serious relationship. It's called maturity, you took the words intimacy (I didn't say séx, rather intimacy) and misconstrued it to mean prostitution. Are you OK? How one can go from point A to Z reveals a lot about their character. I never claimed to be perfect, but for crying out loud, if financial independence in the form of ownership of a business is crude morals, then your whole generation is doomed. That I, a black woman, will be an employee to the "man", over my dead body. I teach my kids in achieving excellence and not subjection. To use their brains and not their bodies. To leave legacy and not shame. Is it that you cheat on your wife that you are so quick to mention married men...? Please, don't let the devil win, salvage your marriage as it bring you blessing. I will never condone adultery, I will never condone prostituting. You took what I said and twisted it. One of the main reason why I made my original comment, men give headache! 2 Likes |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by kazman117: 2:46pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
nikkypearl:OP abeg no kil our ladies o. Hw many woman wil bear wit al dese rules nwadays esp pt no 9 |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Mcbussy(m): 2:54pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
AdeniyiA: Cameraly?! ...choi!...boiz drop these kinda "inglishes" when they wanna run shows |
Re: 9 Important Independence Lessons Every Girl Should Learn While She 's Single by Nobody: 3:55pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
ichidodo: Chei! Op you can lie o..bro, how far and where have you been? |
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