Came across this on a blog:

*Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it
may appear at first. For starters, most of them
want to be true to their spouses, but for that
extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.

*Respect him as you would want him
to respect you

*Remind him from time to time why
he's your man . In other words, take the
time to make him feel special as if he's
the only one in your life. Tell him how
handsome he is every now and then.

*Validate your man on a daily basis.
Whether he works outside of the house,
is currently unemployed or a stay-at-
home Dad, (if you're married) your man
still needs to feel like a man. You know
he is, make sure he knows it as well.

*Appreciate all the things he does for
you . It doesn't matter whether those
things are big or small, they are worth, at
the least, a thank you.

*Spice things up every once in a
while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to
his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.
Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often
with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that
you think he might like or clip out comics
from the newspaper and place them on
the fridge, send text or e-mail messages.

*Listen first, and then talk. Let him
finish what he has to say before you
interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure
about what he said. Do not go with the
general notion; all women are nags.
Make a difference. Listen more, talk less.

*Be his biggest supporter! Men don't
like to admit it, but they need
reassurances as well. Showing him that
you support him and are there with him
through day to day struggles will help to
ensure that he doesn't have a need for
someone else to fill that need.

*Don't lose your own self respect. Stop
blaming him for everything and
understand that some things are beyond
your or his control.
Feed him. Men love when a woman
cooks for them like mum does. You don't
have to cook exactly like her but, it's the
action that counts. Women claim men
are dogs but remember if you feed a dog
he will never leave home!!!

*Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day.
Remember they are big kids and when
they got upset when they were younger,
mums held them close.

*When leaving him alone make sure
he has everything needed. Remember
you are already dressed and ready to go
and he is capable of getting those things.
It also shows you care about his needs or
wants as well.

*Don't ever baby him. He will pull away
from you. He needs to feel like he's the
provider. If you're married, take the
family budget to give him what he likes.
It's the effort that counts.

*Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat
and appealing to tour man at all times.
Take your time to get those kinky and
sexy undies, night wears and dressing
that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all he needs in a
woman, he will never go looking for another. Be
everything your man wants.

Dear NLders, how true is this piece?
Personally I believe, he who wanna cheat will cheat regardless of how hard u try to be d best in everything.

Hmmm...like only you know how to do all those things pass,...you wanna stop a womaniser or cheater (can't see the difference thou), all you've gat to do as a lady is "EMPTY HIS BALLS"...cos sex does not interest a man with empty testicles....a wise woman once told her daughter:

Nice article but there is just one thing I know,no one care can decide or stop a man from doing what he wish but if a lady throughly show him love and affection he will forever respect her feelings.

ABIOLAXYZ: Nice article but there is just one thing I know,no one care can decide or stop a man from doing what he wish but if a lady throughly show him love and affection he will forever respect her feelings.

My opinion exactly, no matter how best/hard a lady tries to keep her man, he still goes out dre 2 seek more satisfaction. Whn a guy wanna cheat, drez nothing d gf/wife does dat wil keep him frm doing so. Lailai.

Crocz: Hmmm...like only you knows how to do all those things pass,...you wanna stop a womaniser or cheater (can't see the difference thou), all you've gat to do as a lady is "EMPTY HIS BALLS"....a wise woman once told her daughter:

The truth remains that no man we like to keep eating one soup. At least if u eat egwusi small, u go try ogbono soup or banga soup. My people, no be so?

Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word!

femmefatale: My opinion exactly, no matter how best/hard a lady tries to keep her man, he still goes out dre 2 seek more satisfaction. Whn a guy wanna cheat, drez nothing d gf/wife does dat wil keep him frm doing so. Lailai.

True Talk

#sighs.







When i have my man,he wouldn't cheat on me

Gman4real: The truth remains that no man we like to keep eating one soup. At least if u eat egwusi small, u go try ogbono soup or banga soup. My people, no be so?

Eating from 1 pot is healthier spiritually & physically than eating from numerous pots... Who tell u say 1 pot no fit prepare varieties of soups & delicacies for both s/he; dats y u need to spice-up ur relationship by being creative & innovative with lots of serving menus.

cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word!

That is fallacy, not all men are polygamous. hmmm... can ur cheating hobby chop & clean mouth thoroughly without some of it staining u U beta beg God 2 give u if u are yet to marry a faithful & lover of 1 pot man; but if already married, ur prayer can still make a change of him. C UR POT CAN PREPARE HIM VARIETIES OF SOUPS & DELICACIES THAT HE WON'T NEED TO EAT ELSEWHERE

clemigho:
Eating from 1 pot is healthier spiritually & physically than eating from numerous pots... Who tell u say 1 pot no fit prepare varieties of soups & delicacies for both s/he; dats y u need to spice-up ur relationship by being creative & innovative with lots of serving menus.


That is fallacy, not all men are polygamous. hmmm... can ur cheating hobby chop & clean mouth thoroughly without some of it staining u U beta beg God 2 give u if u are yet to marry a faithful & lover of 1 pot man; but if already married, ur prayer can still make a change of him. C UR POT CAN PREPARE HIM VARIETIES OF SOUPS & DELICACIES THAT HE WON'T NEED TO EAT ELSEWHERE

Hmm..... I seriously wanna blive dre r men who blive 1 pot can make dem varieties of meal. To be honest, av neva met such a guy either in my personal experience or even frm friend's experiences.

Ezibless: #sighs.







When i have my man,he wouldn't cheat on me

Muhehehe in olamide's voice 'story for the gods'
99% of men cheat and its saddening rili

femmefatale: Hmm..... I seriously wanna blive dre r men who blive 1 pot can make dem varieties of meal. To be honest, av neva met such a guy either in my personal experience or even frm friend's experiences.

The fact dat u've not met such a man does not rule out their existence... dre r 1M +1 men dat r contended with eating 4rm 1 pot

Shaakasi:


Muhehehe in olamide's voice 'story for the gods'
99% of men cheat and its saddening rili

did u say 99%
tnx goodness dat we ve 1% of men dat do not cheat. So y can't d 1% be ur own

clemigho:
did u say 99%
tnx goodness dat we ve 1% of men dat do not cheat. So y can't d 1% be ur own

That's how they decide their fate with word of mouth, when it becomes reality, they start to run from pillar to post.

cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word!

You just fell my hand with this.

How could you just wished yourself that?

Who told you all men are promiscuous?

Incredible!

Shaakasi:


Muhehehe in olamide's voice 'story for the gods'
99% of men cheat and its saddening rili

Hmm..dats overblown.

clemigho:
The fact dat u've not met such a man does not rule out their existence... dre r 1M +1 men dat r contended with eating 4rm 1 pot

I am not ruling dir existence out, av just nt met dem yet. I wud, in fact, luv 2 av 1 of d few faithful guys available as my hussy sef. Yoruba wud say, orisa je n pe meji obirin ko si(in oda wrds, no lady wud b hapi 2 av her man shared wt her). Nd until I meet such guy, my opinion of men regardn dis stil stands.

If he likes, let him cheat, if he likes, let him be faithful, he just shouldn't bring home no damn souvenirs...... like a baby, or Gonorrhea......else I may put a bullet through his cheating, two timing skull myself!

@houseofglamour.. Are you kiding with this bullet tin?

Shaakasi:


Muhehehe in olamide's voice 'story for the gods'
99% of men cheat and its saddening rili

I won't dispute that.


The only thing is that the remaining 1% would be mine.

Ah aff FAITH

clemigho:
did u say 99%
tnx goodness dat we ve 1% of men dat do not cheat. So y can't d 1% be ur own

Duuuhhhh
Byeee

cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word!

I v neva cheated and will NEVA do.

Good for u! Keep it up, it will save u plenty stress.

mapist:



I v neva cheated and will NEVA do.

cocoberry: Good for u! Keep it up, it will save u plenty stress.

Lol..been single for a while..tho,i v been cheated on but,i dont intend to revenge.

phlemzy: Hmm..dats overblown.

if 99% PERCENT OF MEN CHEAT
BUT 99% of ladies claim they are in a relationship, then

QUESTION: Who (or what) are these 99% of men cheating with?

Its no rocket science! Do not let a week pass you by without sucking this dck to expulsion !

mapist:



I v neva cheated and will NEVA do.

Hmmm......tell me dat again. Why do I find dat hard 2 blive? Well mayb u r just starting.

femmefatale: Came across this on a blog:

*Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it
may appear at first. For starters, most of them
want to be true to their spouses, but for that
extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.

*Respect him as you would want him
to respect you

*Remind him from time to time why
he's your man . In other words, take the
time to make him feel special as if he's
the only one in your life. Tell him how
handsome he is every now and then.

*Validate your man on a daily basis.
Whether he works outside of the house,
is currently unemployed or a stay-at-
home Dad, (if you're married) your man
still needs to feel like a man. You know
he is, make sure he knows it as well.

*Appreciate all the things he does for
you . It doesn't matter whether those
things are big or small, they are worth, at
the least, a thank you.

*Spice things up every once in a
while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to
his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.
Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often
with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that
you think he might like or clip out comics
from the newspaper and place them on
the fridge, send text or e-mail messages.

*Listen first, and then talk. Let him
finish what he has to say before you
interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure
about what he said. Do not go with the
general notion; all women are nags.
Make a difference. Listen more, talk less.

*Be his biggest supporter! Men don't
like to admit it, but they need
reassurances as well. Showing him that
you support him and are there with him
through day to day struggles will help to
ensure that he doesn't have a need for
someone else to fill that need.

*Don't lose your own self respect. Stop
blaming him for everything and
understand that some things are beyond
your or his control.
Feed him. Men love when a woman
cooks for them like mum does. You don't
have to cook exactly like her but, it's the
action that counts. Women claim men
are dogs but remember if you feed a dog
he will never leave home!!!

*Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day.
Remember they are big kids and when
they got upset when they were younger,
mums held them close.

*When leaving him alone make sure
he has everything needed. Remember
you are already dressed and ready to go
and he is capable of getting those things.
It also shows you care about his needs or
wants as well.

*Don't ever baby him. He will pull away
from you. He needs to feel like he's the
provider. If you're married, take the
family budget to give him what he likes.
It's the effort that counts.

*Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat
and appealing to tour man at all times.
Take your time to get those kinky and
sexy undies, night wears and dressing
that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all he needs in a
woman, he will never go looking for another. Be
everything your man wants.

Dear NLders, how true is this piece?
Personally I believe, he who wanna cheat will cheat regardless of how hard u try to be d best in everything.

yeah a cheat might actually not repent but i think this blog is actually on point tho ...if there is love,communication ,respect i don't see why it would be difficult to make a man love his woman more...cos i blv my wife should be my best friend,my paddy,my queen, my sister,my moms(sometimes),my babe,my pet(sometimes),my muse,my lover,my btch,my lady,my personal freak(for me alone or somebody dies from multiple gun shot wounds... truly speaking wetin man dey find again for woman....speaking for myself sha

Ezibless: #sighs.

When i have my man, he wouldn't cheat on me

Don't be tooo sure. BTW, you sounded like you've got something, maybe like hidden ropes, all ready to restrain him.

runnazz:

yeah a cheat might actually not repent but i think this blog is actually on point tho ...if there is love,communication ,respect i don't see why it would be difficult to make a man love his woman more...cos i blv my wife should be my best friend,my paddy,my queen, my sister,my moms(sometimes),my babe,my pet(sometimes),my muse,my lover,my btch,my lady,my personal freak(for me alone or somebody dies from multiple gun shot wounds... truly speaking wetin man dey find again for woman....speaking for myself sha

Easier said....wait till u r in d shoe nd let's see hw u wear it.

femmefatale: Easier said....wait till u r in d shoe nd let's see hw u wear it.

blv me with those qualities i wouldn't need to cheat on my wife cos its going to be hard to when we are that close in almost every way...i know i'll wear the shoes just fine when i get there...but for now am still free to have all the fun while i can.