1one:

Why... Are you a ritualist? Why are you being all hush hush about it... Why don't you want anybody to know.. Or you're not sure of how you feel for her yet? You're now resulting to Facebook stalking..If you can't walk up to her, then get her number and call her.. It doesn't get any easier than that.. Call her and talk to her.. There's no shame in letting people know about it except there's something you're not telling us.. Heaven help the girl I would love and decide to date/court oo because Ahhh.. The whole world would know .

snowprince07: ***guy we are talking abt green light not how to find a gehl on fb

pich4real: and d funniest thing is dat if u dont honor their so called green lite,they will just hate u, abi to honor green lite na by force?

OrlandoOwoh:
Read again.

glitest:
Prudent ke?....You no serious

1miccza:

Yes naaaa no be only you dey speak grammar?

Kinkybraids: Im loving this Topic...the comments are too funny

Personally I think the following are 'green light' moments

1. When you look across the room and your eyes lock and she doesn't look away but challenges you and smiles... its hard to keep eye contact so if she does then its a clear sign she wants you to come say hi

2. My personal favorite is coming up with excuses to always talk to him... like borrowing a book, or something that I will have to return to you. If she is always doing this then its a sure sign

3.When you are talking to a guy and as you laugh you tap on his arm ...

4. If she is always looking sexier than normal when she has to meet with you then its obvious she is trying to impress you...

5. I really think the smile says it all... I personally have this 'unique' smile that i only show when im with someone I like. Its sort of a shy smile...like im 'blushing' ... I think many girls use this

Lastly my personal favorite when she offers to pay for stuff...including your stuff, girls dont mind using the money of guys that they dont like but when a girl likes you she will try to make sure you dont spend unnecessarily.

Amefrica: Well, lemme share my experience...

Just 2 days ago, I was in a hall - just got done with my lectures and I was sitting enjoying the WiFi, minutes later a very pretty blonde girl sat in my front. I faced my business..

She took out her books, and started to read (I supposed), minutes later, I caught her stealing glances at me and like, I pretended not to care, she raised her head and started eating/licking the end of her pen. This is the greenest light I've ever seen.

I didn't wanna mess up, cuz all these oyibo people fit do anything, make she nor accuse me for assault or something. She started twisting her head and rolling her eyes, I was feeling uncomfortable, I needed to pee. I faced my laptop, she took out a note and started writing/drawing on it - I wouldn't know what she was writing.

I stood up, to go ease myself, my laptop, books and bags were there, before I got back from the washroom, this lady was gone. Mehhnn, I felt so bad. I went to my apartment in disappointment and told my guyz what happened - my friend told me to start scattering my bag and notes, that she might have dropped a note or something..

I scattered everything and guess what, I saw a little piece of paper with "I really like you, from Alicen" on it, she con draw some little love symbols on it. Man, this girl didn't put a contact address/phone or something, how painful?!

I've been surveying the particular hall we met, since that day, but haven't seen her. She might have felt disappointed or something..

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That is what I see most of the time from them

snowprince07: *****ok lemme analys
1)she showed u greenlight=good idea
2)u searchd her on fb u no see her=none of our business
all we need 2 know or hear is d green light part d rest na ur own casala

chemystery: My ex once revealed to me that the time we had our first eye contact, she gave out a smile hoping that will give me some courage to walk up to her but i was just so dull and clueless until she had to come initiate a chat.

I replied her "OK, they wrote 'mind-reader' on my forehead abi?". I wonder why most ladies can't come up to at least start a talk with us if interested. I don't mean you should woo the guy o. I've sometime ago chat with some ladies about this and they also told me that one way or the other they give guys greenlight(s) but guys are just some silly and clueless dumbass who can't decode simple signals.

I Want to use this opportunity to urge our nairaland ladies to share with us some of their greenlight tactics so we can at least learn in case of next time and also to your own benefit cos that guy you have been eyeing or greenlighting might visit this thread and learn too. Lol.

chemystery: curse is a type of prayer just as darkness is a type of light(black light)

chiahmakar: lol! you are a handful, face your studies ooooo!!

I really am facing it!

jahbiz: Even if a lady gives m green light plus pink, if I don't like you, I won't see you let alone of your useless light.

AfricanApple: Lol, u are so anxious for a gal to give u green light. wetin u won use am do

dechandel:
Green light kor orange light ni

Nl guys pls share your colour experience

glitest:
I tey you sey i know English?

1miccza:

Nooo you te me say na Latin you dey speak now

Godditex: Real Niggaz don't wait for ladies green light, rather, they flash their own light thereby becoming the centre of attraction for the ladies.....That's my way!

chemystery: see question o. i wan use am illuminate my bedroom. As if if dem give you you no go happy.

chemystery: some guys sef... Dem too dull and clueless abi? Hope you didn't keep flashing the light and telling him you have a boyfriend? Cos a gal once did that to me until one of her friends came to tell me secretly she has no boyfriend. I'm so sure that was what you did! If not, you should have told him plane-blank that you ain't taken.

CuteTiana:

well, I did tell him, but he didnt believe that someone of my personality would not have a man behind her. So while he waited to ascertain if I had someone or not, another person stole my interest, and when he finally came to terms with what I had earlier told him, I was gone.

AfricanApple: I've always rejected every green light a girl has given me, what do I need it for. let them feel what we also feel when they reject us. green light ko, yellow light ni

chemystery: chai! But that guy dull o... On the other hand, ihn fit be say you shine am low-voltage green light! Moreover, you should have halted the other guy cos there's someone you are waiting to notice your greenlight. Lol

glitest:

U see your life?...Na Chinese me fit dey speak na

1miccza:

Oya speak am make u put green light naa