Yes! I would marry a man like my father

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Lovexme:


Madam, please keep your lecture on being a better parent to my kids in future to yourself! Yes, heartbroken if they acknowledge they've been wrong and would want to be better parents.

I never said you or anyone else who 'badmouthed' his or her parent(s) were wrong. Y'all have the right to feel aggrieved which most are doing.

I only felt I wouldn't be a proud parent if the comments I've been reading were what my kids thought of me. Heck, no child should grow up without the parents' love.

I know better..I do not need to be lectured on parenting.

You misunderstood me. Not saying you are a bad father. Just saying you should learn from us so you can be better. The truth is that many parents take a lot of things for granted oblivious to the grave damage they are inflicting on their kids. I'm trying to say that you should pay more attention to those things.

Cool down.

Sweetlemon:

You misunderstood me. Not saying you are a bad father. Just saying you should learn from us so you can be better. The truth is that many parents take a lot of things for granted oblivious to the grave damage they are inflicting on their kids. I'm trying to say that you should pay more attention to those things.

Cool down.

I understood you. I do see a lot of bad parenting going on around me, and I wouldn't want to be that father who his kids wouldn't be proud of. I'm still learning though.


Erm, have you got a chilled bottle of Fayrouz? I could cool down with that.

Sophyrocks:
pffft. Strange beings on this planet earth! #ignore mode activated#

folks like u unncessarily and unwarrantedly increases the tribe of strangers on earth.sure it doesnt occur to you by all these unwise reactions you are demystifying your own self and undoing the much positive thoughts about you as an exceptional lady as you are really showing you may be smart in the mouth but not all round .again i forgive u.

I don't need to read the thread to quickly reply NO and don't ask me why

Never heard about marrying someone like your father or mother....can't even wrap my head around that....having traits yes...marrying....no. But...often heard ...and found to be generally true....guys marry girls who are like their sister and vice versa.

Lovexme:

I understood you. I do see a lot of bad parenting going on around me, and I wouldn't want to be that father who his kids wouldn't be proud of. I'm still learning though.


Erm, have you got a chilled bottle of Fayrouz? I could cool down with that.

Lol! Go and buy ya own.

Originalsly: Never heard about marrying someone like your father or mother....can't even wrap my head around that....having traits yes...marrying....no.

seriously, too creepy, except in certain circumstances.

the way its being discussed on nl, is extremely creepy.

But...often heard ...and found to be generally true....guys marry girls who are like their sister and vice versa.

really?

Sweetlemon:

Lol! Go and buy ya own.

I'll get you a bottle too.

tpia1:


quite creepy, imo.

What's creepy? marrying someone like my father?

YourHealthlabs: Many Nigerian men are highly proctective of their daughters which is natural. It makes their daughters feel very much 'in bondage'.
I believe that's why many ladies here do not really fancy marrying someone with their dad's character. They wanna be 'free'.

The bolded is wrong!! Very wrong assumption. Go through some comments of the females here very well. Some gave reasons why they would never want men like their fathers.

Lagbaja01: seriously, some papa go commit suicide if dem see wetin their lovely daughter wrote about...from d comment so far, it seems 70% of married men are not worth emulating.

Exactly so im afraid.

DrGroove: God forbid evil.... My dad is a wicked man..Wife beater! Can NEVER wish such evil person as my husband. My mother is too soft,nice to a fault, religious and godly, simple and caring.I don't wish my brothers marry such woman else they will kill her with beatings as they have learnt that wife beating is the standard for making a woman respect a man and proving manhood!

Wow!! Hmm.

I will actually. My man has traits similar to that of my dad.

Will always marry anyone like my Mum any day...[color=#990000][/color]

mrceo63:
I wnted to test hw been ban is bt not now.....my frist topic that might reach fp...
cc Obinoscopy, dragnet, Fulaman198, Mukina, skydancer, Maleeq, puskin, honsule, Freiburger, r231, Ngwakwe, Mynd44, OAM4J,Fynestboi,Richiez,olawalebabs help nd unban me! buko!!

he just banned me for nothing!!
lol

98% OF MEN IF NOT ALL WOULD LOVE TO MARRY SOMEONE LIKE THEIR MUM...FACT

fightforchange1:


he just banned me for nothing!!
lol

i was unban dis morning then decied to update my post.. jt post one then i got ban again by same AntispamBot.. d stuff is obsess with banning thing...

i know of someone whom fell in love wt a man all in d name of been her dads copy,he turned her to a punching bag, now they are seperated. its better 2 marry a man/woman u can grow old wt, a man who values home.

standd:

Kindly unquote me
I didn't type that sh*t up there, why on earth did you edit my comment?

sorry about that,that was a mistake.

olulove: 98% OF MEN IF NOT ALL WOULD LOVE TO MARRY SOMEONE LIKE THEIR MUM...FACT

I don't know if you are right or wrong but it would be nice if so many ladies could say the same about their fathers.

Crixina: sorry about that,that was a mistake.

Alright. Kindly edit.

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mrceo63:
i was unban dis morning then decied to update my post.. jt post one then i got ban again by same AntispamBot.. d stuff is obsess with banning thing...

Yea!!
crazy!

Sophyrocks:

What's creepy?

the spin nlers put on things.

ah wil lyk to marry someone lyk my mum. her culinary skills and neatness are superb.

I pray to av sme1 lik my dad as husband nd sme1 lik my mum as mother in law cos dey r d best I could ever hav..

not exactly like him. On a second thought, no

sholasholala: I will like to marry a man who will treat me the way my Dad treats my Mum.

May God bless your dad and grant him many many years to reap the fruit of his labour...Give him this from me

Aint u proud of ur dad

vicdall: not exactly like him. On a second thought, no

YourHealthlabs: Many Nigerian men are highly proctective of their daughters which is natural. It makes their daughters feel very much 'in bondage'.
I believe that's why many ladies here do not really fancy marrying someone with their dad's character. They wanna be 'free'.

Chidozie, how far na?