thandii1: Let the female folks rest for a week on this nl na (okay, I know that's asking for too much... a day or two? The advice, complaints, observations, suggestions, deductions, inference....

Can we all focus on the men, children, pets for a week.

Life sure isn't all about women. When will we stop this taking of panadol for other people headache(women mostly).

okotv: simple but let me remind you that a woman will always create trouble where there is non so preach it brother...preach !!!

thandii1:

I know, I followed the thread and the one that even led to it. Its just tiring reading advices left right and centre from both genders to the female folks.

Men need advice too, let's shift the goal post for this week and let the women breathe.

Charles4075: Ladies this, Ladies that.. Ladies are in deep trouble on NL

Kachisbarbie: If only they can pass their points across subtly...I just might begin to understand their fight/cause @feminist and co

sandijey: Hmmmn. If only what we read here or the advises we give here is obtainable in our real life dramas. Op, you see dis nairaland ehhn. People like to dey pretend gan. Sometimes it would look like I dey bash woman but na woman pretend pass. The miss 2 goody shoes, the feminist, the ones that act like they don't care. Internet In itself is just a pretentious world. . The men are not left out. The ones that will abuse u one minute and then send u pm d next minute.


Let everybody be giving advise and opinions my dear. It won't stop women from being women or men from being men. Like u rightly said nobody is less a human being.

Arsenate: bro, misery loves company. no one loves singlehood. humans, just like lions, are very social animals. there's always an innate longing for companionship. trust me man, all these single girls are miserable. they are just looking to convince other girls to join them in their hellish lives.
and yes, Genevieve, monalisa and the likes, are all unhappy. they all cry at night. I know so

Tallesty1: Exactly and these ladies make it sound like being single is the best thing on earth.


If they are that happy being single then why talk about it all the time.

I only pity the girls that listen to them

sandijey:


Exactly. Most times when people fight against something or talk against something too much. Check their closet! AsweartoGod I am yet to see a real feminist. No be Internet we all day. Do we no their personal lives. Just like all those crazy hard core girls who like to dey form mugu for man in the closet. Na dem dey give advise pass.

3cycle: Bae has spoken
Yes no man is less, but don't settle for someone who doesn't measure up to your standards!

sandijey:


Being single ke..... I put it up the other day. Na so I go catch bouquet for my friend wedding. In fact ehnnn. I no no who send me work. since that day,i cannot tell u what my ears have heard....... if they like being single. it's fine. If they don't like it, it's also fine. Don't just go shoving it down our throats o. Some people came to this world to marry, some to make money, some to be single, some to be childless. I came to be fruitful and multiply.

laplace12:
I am not bothered about a frustrated woman forming feminist opinion for herself, but preaching it to younger gals is what I won't tolerate.

If you have problem finding a life partner, accept it, work on it or give no fvk if you like.

Tallesty1: Often times when I come online I do see comments and posts by single ladies (Mostly by men haters aka feminists) advising young girls against getting married, To be independent etc. Marriage doesn't stop a woman from being independent and your decision about marriage is not my business but bashing men to make your point is what I can't take.

I cried when I saw this topic from one female version of a male chauvinist on front page

https://www.nairaland.com/1912571/why-nigerian-ladies-should-never.

It says that Nigerian girls should never settle for less - always settle for the best. How can she classify some men as "less"? No human being alive is less. Rich or poor, Tall or Short. We are unique in our own different ways.

Love and marriage as far as I'm concerned is a partnership with give and take from both sides. Ok, you that cannot settle for less please what is your contribution in this partnership? What are you gonna bring in Boobs and vagina . honestly, this is the reason most girls are still single. They are waiting for the best even when it is clear that they do not deserve the best.

To the singles that preach being single Nowadays, being married is clearly a choice. It is ok if you want to get married and stay married, it is also ok if you want to stay single but it is not ok to discourage other girls from getting married. How is that your business!
What they decide to do with their life has nothing to do, has no effect on what you do with yours so let them make their own decision.

This is why I hate feminism. They don't mind their business. The OP may not be a feminist but this is how it starts. When she turn 40 and no man is interested she will start hating guys. While the legitimate women' rights movements are promoting marriage and equality Nairaland Feminists are attacking guys, girls and marriage. Most times I fail to get what their problem really is. If you don't wanna get married then stay single, buy a cat that will lick plates for you when you are old and mind your own business. Stop breaking up the traditional role of the woman in a family and society, it negatively affects the children of a family and the future generation at large. It also causes confusion among men and women as to where they stand in the family.

I understand you are angry because you have tried and failed but please allow other girls to make their choice.

Ivanspring: Can another woman actually convince me to remain single if i'm willing to marry? Well, to those that are weak willed and easily brainwashed, i say its a pity. As for me, nobody can tell me to do what i don't want to do. Abi na jazz?