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Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Sarimah(f): 7:07am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Unibenstudent: What will make someone uncontrollably jealousit depends..some people get jealous over little things...especially guys |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by peter4d2(m): 7:08am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Tryin |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by dytbabe: 7:10am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Reminds me when I was seeing this guy He will always be like, I love u bt this ur craziness is killing me Yes I nagged his head outta his body, I was so obsessed with him. I had a drm one night he was with another lady, woke up and that same midnight I called and started ranting that he better watches his back that I will kill any woman that tries to take my place, nigga was slpn yes the amount of anger in his reaction cld brk the walls of jerico I woke up next morning and cldnt blv all I said to him, I started pleading 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 7:15am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Sarimah: it depends..some people get jealous over little things...especially guysok,well maybe the guy knows the girl has the potential to cheat xo he keeps checkmating her,,so how much of jealousy is supposed to keep u in a relationship? |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Sarimah(f): 7:19am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Unibenstudent: ok,well maybe the guy knows the girl has the potential to cheat xo he keeps checkmating her,,so how much of jealousy is supposed to keep u in a relationship?a little bit of it |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Sarimah: a little bit of itlols,I guess u will like a guy who can cope with your ability to make friends easily and be rest assured that he is still the king of ur heart
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Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by DGKN: 7:24am On Sep 24, 2014 |
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Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by dytbabe: 7:31am On Sep 24, 2014 |
DGKN: Trust me I am the queen of nags when it comes to it Infact I barged a very cool name CRAZY JEALOUS WOMAN 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by gudluckgreat(m): 7:39am On Sep 24, 2014 |
dytbabe: eleojo23: People get jealous because they feel a certain fear of losing the person they love to someone else. But if one is getting overly aggressive for no reason, then it's not healthy. There is some kind of insecurity when someone is over jealous. Someone who grew up with self confidence and love rarely have blind jealousy in their character unless there is an obvious reason to panic. It now becomes defending your 'territory' eleojo23: People get jealous because they feel a certain fear of losing the person they love to someone else. But if one is getting overly aggressive for no reason, then it's not healthy. There is some kind of insecurity when someone is over jealous. Someone who grew up with self confidence and love rarely have blind jealousy in their character unless there is an obvious reason to panic. It now becomes defending your 'territory'I heard that in 700 BC |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 24, 2014 |
slimmy05: Where is Joenice? another debate for you.Absolutely. Before I say Jack Robinson, you already called my name. I slept like a baby last night. Did you sleep well last night too? Hope you're fine today. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by charlesditro: 7:45am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.Ask GOD I believe he defined it. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by EJanni(f): 7:46am On Sep 24, 2014 |
without Jealousy how can you protect your own? Ofcourse jealousy is a sign of love. But it should be moderate o! |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Chukwutobi: 8:00am On Sep 24, 2014 |
If my God is jealous, who am I not to be? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by jahbiz: 8:01am On Sep 24, 2014 |
ochon: Personally, I can't date or marry any girl that doesn't have a tinge of jealousy for me, and vice versa.U have spoken my mind. God says he is a jealousy....... because he loves us and don't want to share us with other gods. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Teespice(f): 8:18am On Sep 24, 2014 |
adonbilivit: nah, jealousy is for the weak and its a female trait this is not a female bashing thread and as such I won't like such sexist comments. jealousy is not a trait known to females alone but to males as well even though females tend to show that more as a result of the way we are wired. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Teespice(f): 8:22am On Sep 24, 2014 |
lurvy: [size=15pt]@ OP, I see...So an argument from your room actually made front page?? well, I wanted to get more views and opinions. location should not be the issue. that said, you have anything to add? |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by adonbilivit: 8:22am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Teespice:it is what it is anyway. my apologies |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by beckyomas(f): 8:25am On Sep 24, 2014 |
You guys have said it all, it all boils down to a healthy one but some guys wouldn't agree that they are jealous sha. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 8:25am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.Of course, being jealous in a relationship is good. It shows "indication of interest" which is what keeps relationship going and is paramount. Unfortunately, most people don't like it. Because it makes them feel weak and insecure. Another problem is competition. In other words, competition is a fact of life, and not an obsession. We treasure more what is hard to obtain and this is why women love to play games most times when they are in love with a man. To them, it is part of life and a way of knowing how strong the man really is emotionally. Another drawback is nobody wants to lose, perhaps what is rightly belongs to them. For instance, I am not a jealous type when i'm in love with somebody. Instead, I turn it around whenever she tries to make me jealous. Because I am not wussy. I give her the go ahead and doing so, she will realize that I am not a wuss and I probably do not care. Not that I don't really care for the woman. It's just a way of showing her that she cannot really make me feel emotionally weak. Hence, she would think that I have had enough of her and want to leave her for another woman. 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by ifyfaith: 8:50am On Sep 24, 2014 |
justi4jesu: Well my opinion is that jealousy is a sign of affection in the sense I assume you're referring to. Very well said[b][/b] |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by dre11(m): 8:52am On Sep 24, 2014 |
A little jealousy is healthy for the relationship.... Where there is no jealously..... There is no love Because we are human and we tend to protect what we get in our own way..... And by this way we get a bit jealous when the one we do care about/love is giving someone/something his full attention and not ours... But to much of it is bad.... This is as a result of insecurity and inferor complex of the one showing that seed of much jealousy |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by wuramini(f): 8:53am On Sep 24, 2014 |
CAPITAL YES even GOD is jealous wen he see us doing bad :oCAPITAL YES even GOD is jealous wen he see us doing bad |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Marverick(m): 8:54am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Being jealous shows u hv genuine intreast in somebody,but overdoing it mks u look emotionally needy and desperate,a big turnoff 4 many peeps |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 8:55am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Jealousy is a sign of love .....daniel said in the bible , for I am jealous for you ... thats why he would not defile himself. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by justi4jesu(f): 8:57am On Sep 24, 2014 |
ifyfaith: tanx |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 9:02am On Sep 24, 2014 |
EJanni: without Jealousy how can you protect your own? Ofcourse jealousy is a sign of love. But it should be moderate o!yeah, exactly!!! |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 9:03am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession. Anita oyakhilome in d making |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Teespice(f): 9:08am On Sep 24, 2014 |
pussyaddict: smh by their handles you shall know them. swerve to the left if you have nothing useful to say. |
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