Teespice:
So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.

let's hear different views.

Jealousy is a sign of protecting what you have and never wants any one to come around it

Most jealousy tends to be risky because its born out from emotional reactions

SmellingAnus:
Do you still want your man the way you wrote above

Has someone ever be obsessed over you?

Let a sleeping dog be

It can never be

ochon:
Personally, I can't date or marry any girl that doesn't have a tinge of jealousy for me, and vice versa.

Small jealousy or moderate jealousy is needed, it shows one cares about his or her significant partner. Jealousy is man's nature, so it's nothing to be ashamed of.

However excessive or over-the-top jealousy, is a no-no for me. It kills my love for a girl faster than a marksman bullet to his target. When a girl gets overtly jealous over little things, or even ask I cut off my female friends that have been there before she came, without any CREDIBLE reason(s), then I'll have to find my way out of that relationship. Most times, it leads to headaches from the nagging partner.

But one partner should try his or her best to be open about his or her dealings with opposite genders, to reduce his or her partner's chances of getting overtly jealous. Don't give him or her reasons to get overtly jealous.

Normal jealousy - a welcome development

Excessive jealousy - hell to the NO!!

Marksman's bullet...

Yes it is natural to be jealous.
But it should be controlled like we control sexual urges at the wrong timing

Personally, I do think jealousy is an inseperable part of the feeling known as " love " They go together. It's beyond human understanding, even if some claim never to feel jealous of their partner giving some other person too much attention and flirting. They actually feel jealous to whazve degree. No matter how little, it is still jealousy.
You want them for yourself alone. This means they are worth it.

BTW you are such a beautiful dark ebony woman. The best kind of that complexion range.
You look like Yvonne Jegede in your p.pic. A prettier version of her.

Amuga:
you can't love someone and not be a little jealous of what goes around the person.But some people jealousy are too extreme that they become a monitoring spirit.

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