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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by kilokeys(m): 6:33am On Sep 24, 2014
cry girls, u folks dont get it at all. is this how u reason?
a counter thread clearly stating that

sex.. is to guys as money is to girls?

lemme clear u ignorant pple of ur obvious stewpidity.

guys are innately designed to crave se,x.. more than women
and also NoTE that it is natural for a Man to give and cater for a lady.


so if u r dating a thing that just wants se.x. u r dating a BOY.
thats ur fault.

real MEN give se.x and MOney.
shallow BoYs Pay for Se.x.


stwpid girls endure/enjoy se.x for money
ideal Ladies date for companionship( with or without se,x or money)

Real ladies date serious men with futuristic tendencies ( they date when marriage is in view, and the man is ready)

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by naijaboiy: 6:33am On Sep 24, 2014

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:34am On Sep 24, 2014
Ivanspring: Sin of the flesh
As in enh...The so- called sex isn't enjoyable outside marriage... though haven't experienced... It is meant to be enjoyed IN marriage and not OUTSIDE... is that not the reason for all the unnecessary heartbreaks? #wiseupGod'swayisthebest#

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by soldierdollar(m): 6:35am On Sep 24, 2014
Am sure this girl has disgraced all the girls reading this post. grin
They will be like , " are we prostitutes ?" cheesy

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by naijaboiy: 6:35am On Sep 24, 2014
Missmossy:
Hehehe you have noticed it,is it not good? Tell mecheesy
Be contributing small sometimes na wink
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by akatonero(m): 6:37am On Sep 24, 2014
Which one be allowance again? Girl friends association go kill person ooooooooh grin grin grin grin

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by naijaboiy: 6:37am On Sep 24, 2014
kilokeys: cry girls, u folks dont get it at all. is this how u reason?
a counter thread clearly stating that

sex.. is to guys as money is to girls?

lemme clear u ignorant pple of ur obvious stewpidity.

guys are innately designed to crave se,x.. more than women
and also NoTE that it is natural for a Man to give and cater for a lady.


so if u r dating a thing that just wants se.x. u r dating a BOY.
thats ur fault.

real MEN give se.x and MOney.
shallow BoYs Pay for Se.x.


stwpid girls endure/enjoy se.x for money
ideal Ladies date for companionship( with or without se,x or money)

Real ladies date serious men with futuristic tendencies ( they date when marriage is in view, and the man is ready)

You couldn't have said it any better Man... thumbs up cool

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by lawrenceunaa: 6:38am On Sep 24, 2014
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exactly, ladies are the commander when it comes to intimacy undecided
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Pdizzle(m): 6:39am On Sep 24, 2014
freecocoa: Seriously now, kids should stay away from adult things.

Threads like this and the other is an insult to serious minded adults in relationships.
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by iceberylin(m): 6:40am On Sep 24, 2014
lawrenceunaa: exactly, ladies are the commander when it comes to intimacy undecided
ŤĤÁŤŚ ŦŐŔ ŶĔŶĔ ĞÚŶŚ ŃĨ.... wink
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Sunday17: 6:40am On Sep 24, 2014
Not all girls are after money in a rtnship. Am currently dating a girl she spent on me more than I do to her knowing that I have money but she's not freaked with that. In all my date so far I haven't date that kind of girl b4. Buh her parent are ok. I hardly figure out what she gain from me after bed things.. lmao.
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Missmossy(f): 6:40am On Sep 24, 2014
naijaboiy:
Be contributing small sometimes na wink
I use to most times joor,you should knowtongue i just observe for the fun of it.
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by NaLaugh: 6:41am On Sep 24, 2014
Answer = EVERYTHING they should be in the relationship for in the first place.

When i hear girls mention "allowance" in this manner, i feel sorry for them.
Personally, i haven't encountered one (maybe because i don't date hoodrats).

Are you a darn child?
If he should be able to pay your bills, then why can't your lazy a55 pay your bills?

Sex is mutual gratification, so any assertions to this end is inherently flawed.

Both parties should hold themselves equally accountable and bring 50-50 to the table in ALL senses.
Anyone who isn't prepared to do this is only a scraggly vulture perching around to feed on you - except in
this case they don't wait for you to die first.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by fairygeh(f): 6:42am On Sep 24, 2014
Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:42am On Sep 24, 2014
SafetyFirst: You are not a B1TCH because you sleep around with men.

You are a B1TCH because you sleep around with men FOR MONEY.
This is a very wrong notion you have. A woman who sleeps around is a slut. A woman who sleeps around for money is a LovePeddler. None is better than the other. If you hear your fiancee has been sleeping around freely, would you still marry her? Or if you hear such about your sister? Let's be truthful and not tell lies because of Nairaland threads.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by piroskey94(m): 6:43am On Sep 24, 2014
freshness2020: No one should expect anything from each other. Be it the lady or man! It should be based on a free will term! The problem is "expectation".. When ♈όϋ live a life of not expecting anything from anybody in whatever regard, I bet ♈όϋ will live happier!
It shouldn't be on a basis of "as I give, I must get in return".
Let's try and live above that mentality !
true talk

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by daben1(m): 6:44am On Sep 24, 2014
The company, security and most especially s*x
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by kullozone(m): 6:44am On Sep 24, 2014
I nor know y pipu jus dey mek life complicated for demselves...
stick wit sum1 dat ur ok wit
if u can't find any1 den remain single.
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:45am On Sep 24, 2014
A lot o.
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by naijaboiy: 6:46am On Sep 24, 2014
Missmossy:
I use to most times joor,you should knowtongue i just observe for the fun of it.
LoL,,make I join you observe too... cool

Cos this your fellow babe don fall una hands : undecided
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by weselomo(m): 6:46am On Sep 24, 2014
they love d sex more than d guy, they are in such relationship cos dey love d guy and have hope that they will be together as better couple
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by chamboy(m): 6:48am On Sep 24, 2014
fairygeh: Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc
u r one of d best on here

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by kullozone(m): 6:48am On Sep 24, 2014
I nor know y pipu jus dey mek life complicated for demselves...
stick wit sum1 dat ur ok wit
if u can't find any1 den remain single.

this topic has been overflogged naw,I nor even knw wetin push me open d thread sef..
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:49am On Sep 24, 2014
ironheart: this fowls forget the guys writes test for them, do assignments, does the hard labours, help in gathering group work does it and submit, take them on dates with the last money we have and yet eat garri in the hostel. protect them from bullies, perverts and cultist. now I see this fowls ain't loyal. the least you can do is to bleep. guy cos he is not the only enjoying it. its a two way thing. 98% of our ladies wouldnt be graduates if not for a guy around them.
When using percentage stick to the truth. A whole 98% of women wouldn't be graduates without their bfs? That's such a lie. My dear your parents sent you to school and instead of learning you went to become Voltron, defender of women. It's your loss. Some of us had bfs in schools miles away so we did our assignments ourselves and kept low profiles to avoid bullies. Don't stereotype all female graduates because you forgot your reason for being in University which your parents worked hard to pay for.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by kilokeys(m): 6:50am On Sep 24, 2014
naijaboiy:
You couldn't have said it any better Man... thumbs up cool
bro its annoying jare.. for instance, i have been off dating for a long time. why? i dont need a gf. i want a fiancee..
wouldnt it be unfortunate if my future fiancee thinks this way?
.. while i am busy trying to gather resources to make our life comfortable before meeting her, whoever she is...

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Missmossy(f): 6:50am On Sep 24, 2014
naijaboiy:
LoL,,make I join you observe too... cool

Cos this your fellow babe don fall una hands : undecided
Hmmm...wetin concern me naa? Different stroke for different folks,whatever rocks your boat cool
Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:51am On Sep 24, 2014
soldierdollar: Am sure this girl has disgraced all the girls reading this post. grin
They will be like , " are we prostitutes ?" cheesy
she has disgraced only herself. It's a shame when young ladies think this way.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by ramdris(m): 6:53am On Sep 24, 2014
LifeIsGuhd:
Wow!! You went extra miles, am not saying sex in a relationship is bad whether or not he is spending.
All I am against is the phrase; if no sex, then no spending! Finito
And what is wrong with the phrase? It might not b stated clearly the way you dairy it bt it is only logical that if a guy u claim to Love takes good care of u, u shld nt deny him his needs as well. When it comes to getting cash from guys Ladies don't go morals or religion, bt wen it comes to bleeping dey suddenly bcomes religious and gain overnight dignity.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Nobody: 6:54am On Sep 24, 2014
fairygeh: Honestly this post is disheartening, in as much as I am a lady, I disagree with the op.abeg don't let guys view we ladies like i never chop.if you want to have sex with ur guy please do irrespective of whether he gives you money or not....common,only poor girls or better still pr ostitutes expect money in return for sex. Hard working ladies would never expect to gain money from a relationship except trust, happiness,joy,a long lasting relationship,a home,a family etc
Thank you and God bless you. I don't even know what's wrong with some ladies in thie Nigeria.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Kash007(m): 6:58am On Sep 24, 2014
How does this differ from prostitution? Since you have already attached monetary reward as a precondition for a relationship. What wont one read on this thread! Monthly allowance in return for relationship! God help you all to understand the true meaning of a relationship in this morally bankrupt society.

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Re: What Do Girls Gain In A Relationship Without Allowance Or Money From Their Bfs by Kash007(m): 7:02am On Sep 24, 2014
CharmO1: This is a very wrong notion you have. A woman who sleeps around is a slut. A woman who sleeps around for money is a LovePeddler. None is better than the other. If you hear your fiancee has been sleeping around freely, would you still marry her? Or if you hear such about your sister? Let's be truthful and not tell lies because of Nairaland threads.
I read this and I see hope for our future mothers. Thank you

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