mydex93:
IiTs nt possible

Literally on point!!!

Annypie:
its possible to love sm1,and nt be sexually attracted to d person..exclusive to agape love.i wuld never wana get intimate wt sm1 i dnt love though,i just feel love nt matter hw superficial shuld be a prerequsite 4 sex. BTW shebi they say sex is different 4rm makin love ni

Well, according to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary (Warri version), they are all the same. Just semanics.











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dovelike:
But in the books I read,it comes together. Pls pls don't spoil my fantasy for me.

which books what are their names ?? hehehe she wont.....so whats your opinion on the topic anyway?

eko la ku ro ni eko, eko o ko la. Both sex and love work together depending on d intention of both party.

Op, it's not possible to love someone (as in relationship) and not DESIRE him/her.. U express yr love by doing those things - kisses, hugs, cuddles, d whole hog! Unless u are frigid or u are deliberately suppressing d emotions. If u don't feel those desires n experience those stirrings, then that's not a love relationship.....more like brotherly love......u don't view each other as a couple.....then it's ok.
But having those desires is one thing, how u act on them is another!
My humble submission

temigracie:
...hanhan!!!....


What will now give the love fire, as in real FAYA??.....


..liking someone already, you start having some silly thoughts...Talkless of loving someone.....

I know u hv received plenty faya in ur kpekus

possible

austelright:
My current gf gave me the condition that no sex before marriage that it goes against her religion, i agree to it because i loved her genuinely & we dated for 1yr and 2mths. despite her decision i was having it elsewhere because i love sex, i only agree to it because i don't want to loose her. A day came we were in the room & we started kissing to an extent she became so wet that she asked me to do it, that she has punished herself more than enough and deny me her body, that she can't cope any longer and don't want me to look outside which i was doing. Guys trust me na i gave her the way she never wished to ve it. The rest is history because. Any day she comes around unless we have visitors that is the only time we wont ve it. My advice is its difficult to cope with true love without sex unless both of u don't spend quality time together.

yes u are right, but is good that she was the one that requested for it, she will always respect u for keeping your word. Secondly, she will understand how much u love her and also she will believe that u have control over yourself.

Na wa oooo! Dis 1 Is categorically a question for di gods! Hian! quote me any where, No man will love a lady who has no breast nor the perfurated burns downstairs! the ladies are jst clamouring for chop and stay. U taste the food, abeg finish am oo. We men are naturally born dogs. Make guy dey on top hole dey dig am like say in dey find diamond, oloun if another woman pass the bedside in go whistle " woaw! See the mother to ma unborn children. Na our hormones dey do us dis strong thing. If u ask me y, hu I go ask

bosun11:




which books what are their names ?? hehehe she wont.....so whats your opinion on the topic anyway?

Romantic books. My opinion is that I think it comes hand in hand. Though there are different kinds of love. If you mean the kind of love that is meant to have intimacy,then intimacy should be felt.At least the thought of it with that person should not sound replusive and without excitement.

evegran:
Erm I guess its possible, but not possible for me. I'm sorry if I'm not attracted to a guy, I cannot be in love with him. Being attracted to him means I wanna Bleep his brains out, not hold his hands and talk about rapture. Duh?! I just can't be in love with someone when there's no chemistry. Liking the person- yeah. Loving the person without love making-attractions, urges. Ah hell no!

this is a real babe talking...that urge must be there...gbam!!!

izaray:
@Poster, dnt let any body deceive u, cos many people have been into a relationship,

dat involves sex, and still end up getting married.

Your prayers should be, God should lead to d right person!

Tho, some guys can still love u and do witout sex o,

but is very rear to get in dis century

Rare

dovelike:

Romantic books. My opinion on is that I think it comes hand in hand. Though there are different kinds of love. If you mean the kind of love that is meant to have intimacy,then intimacy should be felt.At least the thought if it with that person should not sound replusive and without exxitement

alright miss...i concur

bidexmat:
Na wa oooo! Dis 1 Is categorically a question for di gods! Hian! quote me any where, No man will love a lady who has no breast nor the perfurated burns downstairs! the ladies are jst clamouring for chop and stay. U taste the food, abeg finish am oo. We men are naturally born dogs. Make guy dey on top hole dey dig am like say in dey find diamond, oloun if another woman pass the bedside in go whistle " woaw! See the mother to ma unborn children. Na our hormones dey do us dis strong thing. If u ask me y, hu I go ask

bros wetin u take this night ?? na question i ask oooo.........................................

if i wanna touch her and she doesn't want sex ...well i can withdraw because sex aint love..its just a means of expressing it...but if she's not a virgin , then its mandatory i enjoy the intimacy with her and dig deep till i find my diamond !!!................y would i care for my lady and take care of her and wont have that extra intimacy...i got blood running through my veins mehn................

BTW:SEX IS NOT LOVE BECAUSE A MAN COULD TOUCH A LADY HE LOVES NOT, WHEREAS LOVE MAKING INVOLVES LOVERS ONLY...My Opinion Though


so my answer is YES

[s][/s] funny

@OP.......Is it possible for a girl to love and not ask for money?

Many hypocrites with useless philosophies here. How will u love someone and then you don't have the desire to be intimate with that person



HOW?

Yeah it's possible because sex and love are two different things.
You see! The question raises another jurisprudential issue. Can you love without giving? Or can you give without love? The answer is in the negative. You can't love without giving for the later is inherent in the the former. But What you give is dependent on your thought. If you are deeply in love, no matter your religious apostasy and moral heritage, canal imagine and feelings as human will eventually come up. How you manage it is dependent on your spiritual maturity, self control. Temptation can't But come!

chibwike:
Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...
*modified*

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faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

There are different types of love. (I won't go into that now)

A man can’t love a woman and not hope to have sex with her. The only women a man will not have romantic feelings for are his blood relatives, while other women are on the menu.

Some women can possibly love (not romantic one) a man without romance attached.

It’s easier for a woman to keep a man in friend zone and still don’t feel like f*ucking him. But what women don’t realize is that the men in the friend zone will jump at any slightest opportunity to f*uck them. It’s a secret that I’m reveal to you ladies now.
Men don’t like being placed in friend zone with women. They dread it. For him, it’s either you’re his girlfriend or wife or a secret lover or a one night stand.

A friend zone relationship can possibly develop into a full-blown romantic one, but only if the woman wants, because the man has been inboard since he set his eyes on you.

To answer your question directly; For a woman the answer is, Yes. But for a man, the answer is, NO.

it is not possible o. because, when you love someone truly, you are will be ready to do anything for that somebody. so when that somebody wants sex, my dear, you can't resist, cos u just can't say NO.


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You love someone because the feelings is there and the "attraction" why wont they desire to have sex with each other.

Ana akogheri

dasparrow:


Because it doesn't. That is why a guy can whisper sweet things to you one minute, have sex with you the next and call you tomorrow telling you that what happened the night before was nothing serious. Men don't need to love you to have sex with you. Many see women's vargina as a sperm* receptacle that's all. No emotions and feelings involved whatsoever. They are just satisfying nature's urge. A person who truly loves you does not need to have sex with you to prove their love for you. There are many ways of showing a person you love them without asking for their private part. In fact, a person who truly loves you will not ask to defile your body. They will rather do the honorable thing and ask for your hand in marriage first and once you both are married, then sex with follow. Its how God intended it.

Love means selfless giving, you loose up your defences if you really love. And se.x is there to smooth it. So why can't it happen if the need be. A lover that denies you se.x dosent love, because you need it, except you are an eunuch

bosun11:


bros wetin u take this night ?? na question i ask oooo.........................................

bosun11, If I should give u a constructive answer, u won't be able to take it so beta I make it sound or look mild by making a funny buh true joke out of it. Ur question is glaringly a rhetorical question. N pls u dn't need that question u asked me above. That's demeaning and very rude sire. Bosun ti o je ni o. Ose

eph12:
Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.

Sex is the ritual that solidifies feelings of love. Love is I complete without sex

Etetejake:
That type of luv died with Romeo and Juliet.

romeo and julliet actully bleeped countless times

It is possible, it happened with my first love, Never had the urge for her.

3cycle:

S.hit happens, it doesn't stop us from loving.

that sexual urge is instinctive! If you love someone and u re nt sexually attracted to dat personi s either both of u are chronic S.Us or una be virgin wey neva f**k b4 experiencin first love! If you want to see tru love, u see dem in older married couple...but early birds av passion and youthfulness