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Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by tamunobello: 11:02am On Oct 13, 2014
OP, yea maybe kid-guys (like undergraduates or stil serving in NYSC). Pls modify: THE FIRST THING THAT ATTRACTS MEN IS A WOMAN'S BEAUTY AND THAT LAST JUST SECONDS. THE REAL THING THAT HOLDS DOWN THEIR ATTENTION IS THEIR FEMININITY (AND THAT MEANS HUMBLE, GENTLE, WOMAN-LIKE, NOT RAISING SHOULDERS OR CLAIMING EQUAL RIGHTS WITH MEN). Even tho real men wil give a submissive and woman-like woman her full rights, a woman dat starts acting assertive from the outset is a BIG TURN OFF. And 90% of ladies are like dat!

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Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 11:11am On Oct 13, 2014
buoye1:
U mean eyeball?I swear I love that so much


YES
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by MrsGoodness(f): 11:20am On Oct 13, 2014
ELGREF:
Anyway I like natural look, like temigracie, mrsgoodness etc
thanks kiss
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by chiharriet(f): 11:20am On Oct 13, 2014
Its true shaa
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by sunnedee: 12:49pm On Oct 13, 2014
Davidairmarshal:
i dont like ladies with big eyes. it's a turn- off ..
You don't know what you are missing bro..
Oh! Dollie.... Wish my guy here can see you

Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by sunnedee: 12:52pm On Oct 13, 2014
tamunobello:
OP, yea maybe kid-guys (like undergraduates or stil serving in NYSC). Pls modify: THE FIRST THING THAT ATTRACTS MEN IS A WOMAN'S BEAUTY AND THAT LAST JUST SECONDS. THE REAL THING THAT HOLDS DOWN THEIR ATTENTION IS THEIR FEMININITY (AND THAT MEANS HUMBLE, GENTLE, WOMAN-LIKE, NOT RAISING SHOULDERS OR CLAIMING EQUAL RIGHTS WITH MEN). Even tho real men wil give a submissive and woman-like woman her full rights, a woman dat starts acting assertive from the outset is a BIG TURN OFF. And 90% of ladies are like dat!
You nailed it man!

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Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by fruqsy(m): 1:50pm On Oct 13, 2014
Penart:

i think you mean light skinned
lols yeah light skinned...mistake.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by fruqsy(m): 1:54pm On Oct 13, 2014
Bennymontana:
[quote=fruqsy-Love charcoal black gurls....just imagine ow pink the possy will be looking in the midst of all that darkness..... grin
lols,my brain is too busy to imagine that joor.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by BAYKEM(m): 1:59pm On Oct 13, 2014
Ladies, Just maintain ur dignity. Too much make-up renders u fake. Be ur natural self (u look simple and original when u do). Put up ur standard. Let no man make u inferior. Dont give in to pride. Let not ur beauty deceive u. And when u meet the Mr Right, Honour and respect him. I can see u in a happy, lovely and enviable home. it is well with u
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 3:11pm On Oct 13, 2014
Jennydoris:


The last time I checked, women have been rocking synthetic hair before this madness of Brazilian and Peruvian hair came into existence. Whether it's cheap or pricey what matters is keeping it clean and well kept.
Meanwhile, thanks for advertising your goods.

You need to mix up with the right kind of people, Synthetic is not it.
it is like attending a corporate meeting in bathroom slippers
visit http://www.hairconnexions.com today and for once, look good.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 3:17pm On Oct 13, 2014
tamunobello:
OP, yea maybe kid-guys (like undergraduates or stil serving in NYSC). Pls modify: THE FIRST THING THAT ATTRACTS MEN IS A WOMAN'S BEAUTY AND THAT LAST JUST SECONDS. THE REAL THING THAT HOLDS DOWN THEIR ATTENTION IS THEIR FEMININITY (AND THAT MEANS HUMBLE, GENTLE, WOMAN-LIKE, NOT RAISING SHOULDERS OR CLAIMING EQUAL RIGHTS WITH MEN). Even tho real men wil give a submissive and woman-like woman her full rights, a woman dat starts acting assertive from the outset is a BIG TURN OFF. And 90% of ladies are like dat!

haha. i thought i am the only weird man who share this view.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by norbethcimala20(m): 4:18pm On Oct 13, 2014
Yap! That is true
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by justmag(m): 4:19pm On Oct 13, 2014
Agreed but The Purse tho Nahhhh!! I could careless about a purse!!
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Ephemmm: 6:14pm On Oct 13, 2014
DailyNews:
if truly u are a guy, u can't deny the fact that what attracts u first to a lady is her physical beauty (face, eyes, lips, smile, legs, shape, and sometimes voice). You notice those things first b4 noticing her character. Though character and manner is what will make a man stick with a lady or run after being attracted to her via her looks.

So to say, all men notice a woman's looks first b4 any other quality, so ladies try and look naturally good not artificial with all those red lip paint n eye lashes n big wig/weavon that makes u look so disgusting 2 reasonable men but appealing to randy men!

For somebody like me, I can only propose to you after knowing you for a while: may be that is the reason why I don't date much ladies. I find it difficult to be running after ladies at the first sight. So, the inner qualities in ladies will attract me most. I proposed to the lady I am dating now long after we have gone in our own ways after we live close for a while. So, it all depends on someone's personality and it may be wrong for you to generalize.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by lepasharon(f): 6:14pm On Oct 13, 2014
blackmen only care about the bum,nothing more
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Oct 13, 2014
Ephemmm:


For somebody like me, I can only propose to you after knowing you for a while: may be that is the reason why I don't date much ladies. I find it difficult to be running after ladies at the first sight. So, the inner qualities in ladies will attract me most. I proposed to the lady I am dating now long after we have gone in our own ways after we live close for a while. So, it all depends on someone's personality and it may be wrong for you to generalize.
Your own better o, me I only see people I admire on d highwaycheesy don't always fancy people around me or those in my church/vicinity cos I'm always suspicious of their intentionsmiley
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Ephemmm: 6:27pm On Oct 13, 2014
DailyNews:
Your own better o, me I only see people I admire on d highwaycheesy don't always fancy people around me or those in my church/vicinity cos I'm always suspicious of their intentionsmiley



Don't mind me; I am a chronic introvert: I always analyse the first perception before taking action. That is why I am a slow decision-maker.

Kudos to my friend is has been trying to neutralize me nowadays sha.
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by ZEPHYREN: 6:31pm On Oct 13, 2014
If me sha bust anywhere see any girl omo na the miliki side I go first look and if the place dry like a lanky man's own me I go just bounce leave your side
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Oct 13, 2014
Ephemmm:




Don't mind me; I am a chronic introvert: I always analyse the first perception before taking action. That is why I am a slow decision-maker.

Kudos to my friend is has been trying to neutralize me nowadays sha.
I am happy for u o. Me, I mostly admire ladies I see when I'm on d move or in a strange place; any lady that becomes my friend, that ends my attraction/admiration for her. Same with those around me or where I am well known. Dnt knw y
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by chibwike(m): 7:39pm On Oct 13, 2014
Jennydoris:





Ok. So where are we meeting
We are meeting at VGC
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by mydex93(f): 7:42pm On Oct 13, 2014
Davidairmarshal:
i dont like ladies with big eyes. it's a turn- off ..
DurrRrrrhhhh
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Mclick(m): 7:50pm On Oct 13, 2014
Chairman I dont like masquerade girls, simple intelligent and friendly
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by AdeniyiA(m): 9:05pm On Oct 13, 2014
IF i am attracted to her NATURAL facial look,then I'd check her toe nails and fingernails nd then judge her with my criteria ...

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Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by TonYzeallY(m): 9:11pm On Oct 13, 2014
Slim,a bit tall wit well curved n fitted hips..brite smile,well textured hair. I dnt lik her if she s over perfect lik sister Geniviv,Tiwa Damage,Ponto Dike n company...hehehehehehe...sabi sabi girls
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by AdeniyiA(m): 9:14pm On Oct 13, 2014
DailyNews:
I am happy for u o. Me, I mostly admire ladies I see when I'm on d move or in a strange place; any lady that becomes my friend, that ends my attraction/admiration for her. Same with those around me or where I am well known. Dnt knw y
consciously or otherwise ,you believe too much familiarity breeds contempt and that some might start demanding or wanting what you're not ready to give probably due to personal encounter...
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Freegud(m): 9:29pm On Oct 13, 2014
i dnt lyk women wit makeup, wen i see a woman i wil luk @ her appearance nd shape..... i bushit women wit makeup expecialy with eye lashes or wot ever it cal, nd alxo women wearing trouser...... (hmmmmm, bt i lyk women wit medium bress) lol
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 13, 2014
Shyna112:
what i look 1st are
1. Appearance
2. Her breast [Big one o, if its small i no go look
3. her facial beauty
4. She must be tall not short
5. Curves/ Hipps
6. Her boom boom, she must get serious boom boom]
hahahahahahaa! @"boom boom" we guyz sha grin
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by OpraMenu(m): 7:15am On Oct 14, 2014
pasqal09:
Most of these are incorrect.

write ur own
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by San2ski(m): 7:44am On Oct 14, 2014
AdeniyiA:
IF i am attracted to her NATURAL facial look,then I'd check her toe nails and fingernails nd then judge her with my criteria ...

That's for both of us dude.
Nice clean fingers/feet/nails always gat me falling shocked sad sad sad angry angry
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Ephemmm: 7:56am On Oct 14, 2014
DailyNews:
I am happy for u o. Me, I mostly admire ladies I see when I'm on d move or in a strange place; any lady that becomes my friend, that ends my attraction/admiration for her. Same with those around me or where I am well known. Dnt knw y


But from your point here, until a lady portray qualities beyond her physical appearance, your mind will not be at peace with her, and I know you will not be able to tell her your deepest secrets.

This shows you are now more matured than yesteryears. All what you need to know is that there is no perfect lady in this world and you will still need to work on her even if you will marry your mother in one aspect or the other.

Therefore, U are in the same shoe with me. Work on your personality a little bit: discover your talent and upgrade it:form a moralistic standard for yourself which you will never go beyond: be ambitious in relationship with ladies but don't be desperae and I can tell you authoritatively that you will soon discover that hidden "gold".

In fact, they will be running after you like money: I pray to God to bless you with good work too.

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Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by Jennydoris(f): 8:51am On Oct 14, 2014
chibwike:
We are meeting at VGC


Where is that
Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by IamK2I(m): 9:11am On Oct 14, 2014
lepasharon:
blackmen only care about the bum,nothing more
And this is something you don't have

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