BTT:
Convince them. It may take time but they will come around if they SEE your resolve.

Don't ever go ahead without their nod.

My $1m.

Princecalm:
What do you do when your Dad or Mum detest of the one you love so dearly?.Will you just ignore and go on with the wedding.

Misogynist2014:
Discard her. So many babes out there seeking for my hand in marriage . If a man dates a lady for love, he is a gunner. You should date a lady out of pity.

But I think if you date a lady out of pity, thousands will pity you at the end of the relationship























That sounds manly

Ilekere:
I don't know about Love o, but strong like

They say:

"This is not the best time, I don't want to talk about it"
"I don't have time for that right now. Just pray harder"
"Face your studies"
"Americans do not know how to love. Find yourself a proper Nigerian man"
"Pray harder for the right person."


She'll get over it

carsellerz:
That like asking for what breaks the parental love and join marital love. I think d parent shud let the fellow take his destiny in his hand. period.

moneymaker24:
Depends on the gravity of the love oooo. I remember when i was crazy in love with my first love. My parent didn't like her but i really didn't care o. Not like i was been disobedient or sorts but parents just need to understand that there are some love situations they can't have a control over. If na wife matter....... Biko na who wan dey live with the wife for the rest of him life? Parent or me??

pashaun:
I don't know, but remember parents are usually right. They see things you overlook.

Lucasbalo:
The bottom line is that your parents have no right to dictate to you whom you should marry. I have the utmost respect and love for my parents for all they sacrifice for my siblings and I. The only time I had a disagreement with my mother was when I was getting married. Her main objection was I was not marrying from her tribe and that I was too young (23). I sat her down and told her I am done with my education , have a good job and that I like to do things earlier in life. She didn't reason with me but pop was very understanding. Went and got married anyway,. Dad was in Chicago for the wedding and mum wasn't. Its been a blast of a marital life for me and wifey and the girls. Bottom line, it's your life and your decision to make. It does mean you don't love your parents. I sure won't dictate to my children who to choose for marriage.

Atmmachine:


Are you married to an American ??
& What was your Mum's reason for not attending the wedding ??

Lucasbalo:
Married to an African born in America. I guess she was against it because she wants me to marry a particular girl from Lagos. Plus she thought I was too young. 20 years now and the marriage is still as good as the first day of marriage.

Atmmachine:



#Good luck bro.

bunmioguns:
Convince them.... There is nothing you can do without your parents blessings ..