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Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 10:03pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
freecocoa:Where did you see me saying I saw nippIes , madam I'm not interested in oggling anybody's nippIes OK, I've seen enough to last me a lifetime. Girls think their privates are so damn important. 3 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 10:08pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
cococandy: OK. Really we have the wherewithal to make our own choices but you have to admit a lot of us follow westerners blindly. I'm only assuming but I'm very sure she just wore it to show off her gym suit. For goodness sake it didn't even look comfortable and it was exceedingly tight but she wore it anyway and exposed her cellulite riddled azz for all to behold in the name of 'I don't care what anybody thinks, I did this in the US(or wherever) and so I can do it here. It was embarrassing and disgusting! A GYM SUIT to travel? 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Er...you were og.li.ng all the same. 5minsmadness: Seems pretty obvious that you had a proper eyeful, and in quite a rude, lewid, way too. You obviously have little or no respect for women. None at all. Not with the way you blatantly lusted after her the way you did. Probably turned you on too... 2 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by Fkforyou(m): 10:18pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Describing the hijab as an oversized tent......it`s downgrading |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 10:32pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Fkforyou: Did I mention the word hijab in any of my posts? And before you take that post of mine out of context, can you remind us all what post it was in response to? |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 10:39pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:But its no longer the norm now is it? You don't see ladies wearing leaves for skirts and exposing their naked puppies for men to check if they are of age now do you? Why do you like to argue so much sef? We all know what decency entails. And we all know the whites are at the forefront of promoting indecency and p0rnography and the objectification of the female body as seen in thier movies, music videos, adverts(car adverts, sports adverts, even perfume adverts! Perfume oh!) So why all this back and forth? Abegi! Oh no they aren't. That's why the nudist caps are not open to every tom dick and Harry. That's why they have special nudist camps and special nudist beaches away from the normal camps and beaches because they know not everyone accepts their way of life. What other alternatives were there to communal bathing? Even the Roman did it too. Even in my grandpapi's clay house they had private bathrooms. It wasn't compulsory to go for communal bathing It was done more out of convenience than anything else. What has communal bathing got to do with the topic?
Oh but of course! Please blame me for thinking 'lustful thoughts' after an indecently dressed lady waltzed perpetually before our eyes, exposing her wrinkled body for us to see. I mean, its got to be our sex starved minds that couldn't just let her be to express her freedom! Rubbish! And when you and your future sons decide to take a ppiss up your nearby tree in full public glare, isn't exhibiting your privates? Isn't that indecent too? Or is it just being liberated?You have mentioned this thing before. Do you find men peeing in public particularly arousing ? Anyway I don't do such. Its not gentlemanly. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by coogar: 10:43pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
5minsmadness: jeeez - you mean this has been happening in africa & i completely missed it? do they go on tour? please remind me when they come to the UK.
yes - everyone that bought the colonial mentality & christianity should change their orientation all over again. really, nippleś shouldn't be a sëxual object. sėx organs should be limited to below the waist.
that's exactly the point! you wear trunks to the pool and nobody bats an eye. why then should they bat their eyes when you walk on the street wearing the same trunks. do your sëxual radar die at the pool side and gets turned on when you are on the streets. it then means human perception can be tuned. if you don't want to react to what you see on the streets, you won't..... there's nothing any woman can wear that would move a muscle in me. i have seen everything there is & my mind has been desensitised to such stuff. it's all in the mind coupled with hypocrisy. nothing is moral or immoral about what people wear. it's all about perception.
say what? the last christmas i was in nigeria, i removed my shirt at the airport. the heat nearly killed me and i arrived in the evening. how do people cope with any material down there? boys can wear tank tops & girls cannot? do girls have naturally-built air conditioners installed on their bodies? and when these girls stink of sweat, una go complain. take it easy.....
you surely are....but you can change. ladygogo: really? i have people in manitoba too. but my mission is in T-dot for one weekend. eskimos have nothing on me when it comes to keeping warm. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by Fkforyou(m): 10:53pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:. Ok,what is the mode of dressing for muslim ladies or better still what did they use to wrap themselves from head to toe?,or you don't know its called burqa\hijab and you just decided to call it an oversized tent.....I think my discuss is with you and not everybody,by the way it`s in response to haftob`s post. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:04pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
SAMBARRY:Hurrah for you. 2 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
damiso:Nope. More like this but shorter i.e above knee.
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Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by ladygogo: 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
@ coogar oh really? thats cool. Stay warm and dont let the frostbite bite. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by coogar: 11:25pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
ladygogo: it won't bite.... if it attempts to bite, few canadian chics would suffer for it. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by ladygogo: 11:28pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
coogar: yeah. lol ashewo. i was going to suggest that but it skipped my mind. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:29pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
SAMBARRY:oniraru okunrin.gbeborun. Because you ladies think your nakldness is so important. Mtcheeeeew! 3 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by coogar: 11:31pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
ladygogo: ashewo ke? i don't take any form of payment after the deeds. i only take "thank you" for a job well done. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:32pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:So you are saying as you are fully grown you will choose to wear the first picture that exposes your left braest? Efemena! Pics or you are talking dust! 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:35pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Not at all. Anyone who passed the lagos-ore route this morning will tell you the hell they went through. |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:42pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
@carefreewannabeWAS being the active verb here. It is no longer the norm for Africans to go about naked. Do that and you risk being seen as a lunatic(like the lady of this morning). There was no way I was being hypocritical there. Yes I have moral standards and opinions. No pretense there. And I will not be made to shut up because it is not 'modern' to speak up. What is bad is bad. The west has brought bad moral influences and it needs to stop. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 11:51pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Fkforyou: You know, I get really irritated when people with a hidden agenda best known to them, try to turn a debate into a religious one. This cheap stunt of yours isn't going to work, but let me humor you nonetheless, assuming the real issue here is you not fully comprehending my posts so far: Now, Mr FkForYou, this is an excerpt from 5minsmadness' initial poste: 5minsmadness: And Ms Haftob's post trying to butteress his point about how women not "properly" covered up could be seen as s.ex.ua.l objects: haftob: And my response to her: EfemenaXY: You do understand that at this point, I'm letting her know that it matters not how much a woman covers herself, even if she's completely wrapped up like an Egyptian mummy, any man who wants to get between her legs will still find a way to do so, irrespective of what she wears! And then a couple of posts on, I post two pictures - a painting of a young Nigerian girl in mid 19th century first, dressed in Nigerian traditional attire and a second picture of the same girl swathed in Victorian clothes from the same era. Did I not clearly state what my preference was? Did you see any Christians jumping on my post claiming that my post "degraded" Christianity and or christian women? Seeing as the Victorians were staunch Christians? EfemenaXY: Now does this help make things clearer to you or not? 1 Like
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Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 11:57pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Er...no I wasn't. I have no appetite for celulite infested asses.
VERY being the operative word. And the mention of 'subtle bumps' from her celulite is supposed to portray to your mind just how tight the outfit was. There was no need to oogle anything, she might as well have put herself on a walkway with shining lights everywhere and expose her wares. You'd have to be completely blind not to have seen her! Such a person is obviously seeking attention, not expressing her freedom. Seems pretty obvious that you had a proper eyeful, and in quite a rude, lewid, way too.I think it turns you on to imagine men turned on by staring at women. You've used this line of attack before, when accusing a guy of lusting after a lactating mother who opened her breaasts in the full glare of the church all in the name of breastfeeding. Tough luck. Won't work on me. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by Nobody: 12:08am On Oct 26, 2014 |
5minsmadness: You are a hypocrite when you claim that Nigerians have higher moral standards than other nations. Yes I have moral standards and opinions. No pretense there. And I will not be made to shut up because it is not 'modern' to speak up. What is bad is bad. The west has brought bad moral influences and it needs to stop. Do you wear Adidas, Nike, Vuitton, Dolce&Gabana, Hilfiger, Diesel & co? 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 12:10am On Oct 26, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Who said so? Do they not still dress like that for special ceremonies? Even in your village? Afterall, you did state in your earlier post that it still happens in the remote parts of your village, yes? You seem to have some fixation with whites. Does the Nigerian entertainment industry not do exactly the same? Are they forced to do so with a gun held to their heads? If people like you stop buying papers like the PUNCH to browse at the top.le.ss page 3 ladies on display, wouldn't that discourage the industry from indulging in "indecency" as you so eloquently put it? And what has this got to do with the poor woman you couldn't take your eyes off, at the bus stop? 5minsmadness: But they're still in existence all the same - just like the naked nub.ile girls in your village. 5minsmadness: You brought up the example of male and females bathing together at your village stream - not me. Does both sexes bathing together not constitute communal bathing? If not, then kindly educate me pls. 5minsmadness: Your opinion means nothing to her. It didn't stop her from going about her business, neither did it make her lose a wink of sleep that night, did it? So you obviously are the one with the problem and you therefore need to address your se.xu.a.l frustrations, rather than lash out at unsuspecting women, 5minsmadness. 5minsmadness: Sure, I've mentioned this thing before because it's something men like you did in the past, still do, and would most likely continue to do. I don't see anyone critizing you lot for whipping and shaking your third leg in public for all to see. You lot proudly show your na.kedn.ess when you sight a tree by the roadside, and yet, you have the boldness to come down heavy on a lady that was completely covered up with her vitals all under wraps. So who's being hypocritical here? And for what it's worth, I find the act of a man shaking out his Will.y absolutely disgusting, contrary to what you think. 3 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 12:12am On Oct 26, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Sharrap! You like better thing, abi? And yes, I'd rather let my skin breath than dress up in several layers of blanket under the hot sun, roasting myself alive all in some vain attempt to appear prudish. No sir. 4 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by EfemenaXY: 12:15am On Oct 26, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Lol! I did that? When?? The fact that you even remember shows without a doubt that both scenarios are applicable to you to na, abi? 5minsmadness, you better desist from your wicked ways for the kingdom of the lord is at hand! 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 12:16am On Oct 26, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Dafuq? When did I say that? Do you wear Adidas, Nike, Vuitton, Dolce&Gabana, Hilfiger, Diesel & co?Bahahahahahaahahha. In this case your trap caught nothing because NO I DONT! I have never been a fashion person. Having said that, what has that got to do with anything for goodness sake? So I should watch p0rn and walk nakid because I use things westerners invented? What kind of illogical reasoning is that? Why don't you post unclad pictures of yourself online or make a sextape since you use a phone, an invention of the white man? After all, western ladies do it all the time. Me, I am not a zombie. I have the intelligence to know right from wrong and chose that which will benefit me while discarding as rubbish that which will not. Just because you wear dolce and gabbana doesnt mean you should make the westerners your god. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by Nobody: 12:26am On Oct 26, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Saying that the West corrodes our morality means that our moral standards are higher. Bahahahahahaahahha. In this case your trap caught nothing because NO I DONT! I have never been a fashion person. It is not about fashion. The brands were just examples. Do you wear Western fashion or not? Having said that, what has that got to do with anything for goodness sake? So I should watch p0rn and walk nakid because I use things westerners invented? What kind of illogical reasoning is that? Why don't you post unclad pictures of yourself online or make a sextape since you use a phone, an invention of the white man? After all, western ladies do it all the time. It is your logic. You are saying that wearing a made in the West track suit corrodes our morality. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 12:38am On Oct 26, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Remote being the operative word! And like you said special ceremonies! Or wait o...Em, efemena talk true. When last did you visit Nigeria? You don't think we still dress with leaves do you? You seem to have some fixation with whites. Does the Nigerian entertainment industry not do exactly the same? Are they forced to do so with a gun held to their heads? If people like you stop buying papers like the PUNCH to browse at the top.le.ss page 3 ladies on display, wouldn't that discourage the industry from indulging in "indecency" as you so eloquently put it? And what has this got to do with the poor woman you couldn't take your eyes off, at the bus stop?I'm not aware the Punch newspapers has topIess nudes. Will definitely check it out Thanks! But I'm quite sure they must have copied it from their counterparts abroad! I don't really watch Nigerian home videos either. So... But if they are doing it they are most probably copying their western counterparts too. But they're still in existence all the same - just like the naked nub.ile girls in your village.Deep sigh. You brought up the example of male and females bathing together at your village stream - not me. Does both sexes bathing together not constitute communal bathing? If not, then kindly educate me pls. [quote] It didn't because I said nothing. I chose rather to air my views anonymously on a public forum. Much better than cautioning/embarrassing her in public. I hope she reads this and at least realises not everyone was OK with her choice of clothing(or lack thereof). If anything I have spoken my mind against what I regarded as blatant lewdness and indecency on her part. Silence means consent and I am NOT consenting to indecent dressing. Sure, I've mentioned this thing before because it's something men like you did in the past, still do, and would most likely continue to do. I don't see anyone critizing you lot for whipping and shaking your third leg in public for all to see. You lot proudly show your na.kedn.ess when you sight a tree by the roadside, and yet, you have the boldness to come down heavy on a lady that was completely covered up with her vitals all under wraps.Would you like to see men criticized for whipping out their Willy's in public? Does it bother you that much? Then speak up about it! Nah, I know when someone is writing about what he/she finds disgusting and what he/she secretly loves. I can tell. You find pleasure in the act of guys whipping out their Willy's, don't you? It touches you somewhere in your core so much that you keep obsessing about it. I suspect you are a v0yeur at heart my dear! Don't worry, its nothing to be ashamed of, let it out, its a free world afterall 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by red101(f): 12:43am On Oct 26, 2014 |
foolish thread created by a boko haram member. carefreewannabe: don't mind him. He wears western clothing but hates when women wear it. ask him if he wears agbada to work every morning. 7 Likes |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by red101(f): 12:47am On Oct 26, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: lol thank you www.nairaland.com/attachments/1810959_crawfordintroducinglocketothesobopeople09777244_jpeg2b66da0fe48a1783103de017242a95b2 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by Nobody: 12:54am On Oct 26, 2014 |
red101: Well, maybe the lady he saw had a track suit that was too tight and maybe it was quite unfavorable. You can wear a track suit like this ... ... or like this ... Either way it is about taste and elegance and not about cultural differences. 1 Like |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 12:56am On Oct 26, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:No no no, you are getting me all wrong. I am saying our ladies now wear indecent clothing without shame. And the 'without shame' part comes from westernization. i.e previously someone would have been able to correct her or at least she would have cautioned herself, but nowadays she would wear it knowing fully well how openly indecent it is but use phrases like 'haters gon' hate', 'its my body, I can do with it as I please', its none of your business' , 'its modern/western dressing-get with the program' etc to wave away the fact that she isn't properly dressed. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How The West Corrodes Our Morality by 5minsmadness: 12:59am On Oct 26, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I rest my case. 3 Likes |
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