Understandable. . . . but it's more complicated than that on my side.
NO, we do not like/love each other.

It serves no positive purpose to visit an Ex-boy/f
Shiznit is unloving, disrespectful and unromantic.

~Sauron~:

It serves no positive purpose to visit an Ex-boy/f
Shiznit is unloving, disrespectful and unromantic.

I dont know about visit but i dont see anything wrong in speaking with ur Ex
Only insecure men feel threatened by that

tope2000:

I don't know about visit but i don't see anything wrong in speaking with ur Ex
Only insecure men feel threatened by that

I don't agree with you on this. DON'T underestimate the power of an Ex! I as a woman won't tolerate any dude talking or hanging out with his ex period!

tope2000:

I don't know about visit but i don't see anything wrong in speaking with ur Ex
Only insecure men feel threatened by that

Of course u can speak to ur Ex on the phone, e-mails and other media to discuss how u would pick ur lingerie n stuffs in his crib.
I have no problem with that but why visit him or take ur emotional issues to him??
Does that make any sense at all?

~Sauron~:

Of course u can speak to ur Ex on the phone, e-mails and other media to discuss how u would pick ur lingerie n stuffs in his crib.
I have no problem with that but why visit him or take ur emotional issues to him??
Does that make any sense at all?

my ex is my best friend. . . i guess u r not man enough to deal with that.

HR.hotness:

my ex is my best friend. . . i guess u r not man enough to deal with that.

LMAO! How does that work? because i really don't get it

chika98:

I don't agree with you on this. DON'T underestimate the power of an Ex! I as a woman won't tolerate any dude talking or hanging out with his ex period!

True but when I'm say I'm through, my dear I'm through with that person
I don't go back to where i have puked
But that doesnt mean i can't talk to him once in while, just to say hey

~Sauron~:

Of course u can speak to ur Ex on the phone, e-mails and other media to discuss how u would pick ur lingerie n stuffs in his crib.
why visit him or take ur emotional issues to him??
Does that make any sense at all?

Hmmm . . . . . i woud find it rather uncomforatble to talk to my EX about emtional issues
Thats what i have my new guy there for, isnt it?

tope2000:

Hmmm . . . . . i woud find it rather uncomforatble to talk to my EX about emtional issues
Thats what i have my new guy there for, isnt it?

Thank U.
DeepZone thinks it's normal and proper to take ur emotional issues to your Ex.
Can u imagine??

HR.hotness:

my ex is my best friend. . . i guess u r not man enough to deal with that.

Ya Ex is ur best friend because u are PROBABLY single or u guys still SHAG behind the curtains.
How can anyone's Ex be her best friend?
Cheese n Rice!!!

tope2000:

I don't know about visit but i don't see anything wrong in speaking with ur Ex
Only insecure men feel threatened by that

Thank you jare

chika98:

LMAO! How does that work? because i really don't get it

this is becoming a  habit with u oh. . .  

anyways, to ans ur question, we met when his friend recruited him to help get into my pants, they didnt suceed, we became friends, then dated, broke up and made up a number of times, finally accepted that we were lousy in a relationship, so cut all d crap and kept all d fun. . .  10yrs summarized neatly in 3 lines

HR.hotness:

my ex is my best friend. . . i guess u r not man enough to deal with that.

it has nothing to do with being a man or a kid. If i were married to you and my ex was my best mate whom i spent friday nights clubbing with, would you be woman enough to deal with it?

~Sauron~:

Ya Ex is ur best friend because u are PROBABLY single or u guys still SHAG behind the curtains.
How can anyone's Ex be her best friend?
Cheese n Rice!!!

just becos u cant handle it doesnt mean others cant as well

HR.hotness:

this is becoming a  habit with u oh. . .  

anyways, to ans ur question, we met when his friend recruited him to help get into my pants, they didnt suceed, we became friends, then dated, broke up and made up a number of times, finally accepted that we were lousy in a relationship, so cut all d crap and kept all d fun. . .  10yrs summarized neatly in 3 lines

In other words, y'all became FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT!!!
Cheese n Rice. . . . . .Talking about EATING one's cake and still HAVING IT.
Your Ex must be the luckiest man in the world. . . . . . Is he seeing anutha chic??

HR.hotness:

this is becoming a  habit with u oh. . .  

anyways, to ans ur question, we met when his friend recruited him to help get into my pants, they didnt suceed, we became friends, then dated, broke up and made up a number of times, finally accepted that we were lousy in a relationship, so cut all d crap and kept all d fun. . .  10yrs summarized neatly in 3 lines

I just like to ask questions. Sorry

So basically. . friends with benefits then huh??

DavidDylan:

it has nothing to do with being a man or a kid. If i were married to you and my ex was my best mate whom i spent friday nights clubbing with, would you be woman enough to deal with it?

yup, cuz i'd make her my best friend too and be out ther clubbing with u guys. . .  ther r other ways to handle thses things u knw?

~Sauron~:

Thank U.
DeepZone thinks it's normal and proper to take ur emotional issues to your Ex.
Can u imagine??

Hell nah
Women are usually vulnerable when discuss stuffs like that o
And ur EX will def know how to use that vulnerability against you, the next thing u know. U in his bed

HR.hotness:

yup, because i'd make her my best friend too and be out ther clubbing with u guys. . . ther r other ways to handle thses things u knw?

huh?

ur idea of marriage get k-leg.

HR.hotness:

just because u can't handle it doesnt mean others can't as well

Of course, anybody can handle any schitzo.
Isn't that the reason some people are dubbed "smart" and some are dubbed "stupid"??

HR.hotness:

this is becoming a habit with u oh. . .

anyways, to ans ur question, we met when his friend recruited him to help get into my pants, they didnt suceed, we became friends, then dated, broke up and made up a number of times, finally accepted that we were lousy in a relationship, so cut all d crap and kept all d fun. . . 10yrs summarized neatly in 3 lines

lucky dude.

chika98:

I just like to ask questions. Sorry

So basically. . friends with benefits then huh??

lol. . . thats ok, its what mkes u u innit

friends with benefits. . . only when we r both single. . . he is seeing someone now so we r just friends again

tope2000:

Hell nah
Women are usually vulnerable when discuss stuffs like that o
And ur EX will def know how to use that vulnerability against you, the next thing u know. U in his bed

U have just explained the principle of Okafor's Law.

HR.hotness:

lol. . . thats ok, its what mkes u u innit

friends with benefits. . . only when we r both single. . . he is seeing someone now so we r just friends again

So, what you're saying is, if you're both single you can't be friends because he might try to get you in his bed.

But once you're both dating or one of you is dating, you can be friends. hmm

~Sauron~:

U have just explained the principle of Okafor's Law.

What the hell is that?

HR.hotness:

lol. . . thats ok, its what mkes u u innit

friends with benefits. . . only when we r both single. . . he is seeing someone now so we r just friends again

Ok. I thought as much. I hope you lot will stop being friends when you get married because this "friendship" ain't a real one. Not that i believe in men and women being friends anyways.

tope2000:

What the hell is that?

Okafor's law states that a babe BANGED previously is always BANGABLE provided some certain conditions are MET.

HR.hotness:

lol. . . thats ok, its what mkes u u innit

friends with benefits. . . only when we r both single. . . he is seeing someone now so we r just friends again

Hmmmm i dont dig that arrangement but wateva rocks ur boat sha

~Sauron~:

Okafor's law states that a babe BANGED previously is always BANGABLE provided some certain conditions are MET.

Lmao

Who came up with this law?

tope2000:

Lmao

Who came up with this law?

Naija players.

Ebony-Silk:

So, what you're saying is, if you're both single you can't be friends because he might try to get you in his bed.

But once you're both dating or one of you is dating, you can be friends. hmm

u're getting it all wrong. . . we r best friends first and anything else second.

when we r single and bored and hav nothin better to do we reintroduce d complications that remond us why our relationships were crappy and then stop!  

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DavidDylan:

huh?

ur idea of marriage get k-leg.

i make my own rules. . . esp as d conventional ones arent working out so well for alot of pple  

~Sauron~:

Naija players.

Hmmmm. . . . . im sure u r part of the naija players that came up with it

chika98:

Ok. I thought as much. I hope you lot will stop being friends when you get married because this "friendship" ain't a real one. Not that i believe in men and women being friends anyways.

it is real  

tope2000:

Hmmmm. . . . . I'm sure u r part of the naija players that came up with it

I am not a playa. . . . .I don't have playing boots.

HR.hotness:

u're getting it all wrong. . . we r best friends first and anything else second.

when we r single and bored and hav nothin better to do we reintroduce d complications that remond us why our relationships were crappy and then stop!  

In a lay man's term. . . . . . .When u guys are single, u hook up and shag each other's brainz out.
When one of y'all or both are in a relationship, y'all are casual friends.
Thatz a very comfortable arrangement.

Tope2000, what are u waiting for?? Hook me up tomorrow.