H2O2:

Attention LovePeddler

KarmaMod:

actually it was called "Nigerian Girls are Dirty" specifically Yoruba Girls

of course none of the guys remember that

of course they don't.

j-girl:

See insult! .

u dis girl u r sthg else

Ebony-Silk:

Those two questions are none of your bizness, David. I've never dated naija men.

How then did you know they are stingy, cant seduce women, are unromantic, are dirty, are rude?  

Na wa o . . . you see vision?  

Deshannel:

@david, true talk.

@tope, act of fustration, from stupid topic.
@silk , y dolla sign instead of naira.

Lol. . . . . . Well i pity ur girl sha, since all you contributed to the thread is that ur gf shud give u pockert money
Need i say more, now move

DavidDylan:

this one na example?

Chineke! See wetin i dey talk?

Number 1 example - do you know why the dad said no? Is it because he is stingy or perhaps has no cash at hand and knows ur mum might have some handy? My dad does it sometimes and stingy is not a word i can use to describe him.

number 2: such "discussions" can only take place between 2 children. Adults don't have time for such.

You can vouch for your dad but you cannot vouch for my uncle who I know has money.

Number two happens between two grown up. . . .maybe the man is not grown up in mind, but by age, yes

AN EXAMPLE:

Boy: Daddy, can I borrow $5
Man: No. Go and ask your mother

Girl: Take me out to a nice rest.
Man: How about Miccky Ds?
Girl: Don't worry, I'll pay
Man: Ok, which rest.?  

If you ask me, I think this is an Example of why most unreasonable 9ja women think their guys are stingy:

9ja Woman: Bisi's Sister is getting married next month and she's selling "ankara"

Man: But 1 Bisi's sister only got married early this month and you bought Ankara and gele

9ja woman: Actually, it's Bisi's sister's 3rd cousin getting married not the direct sister. . .

Man: Well, I believe you should be able to sort yourself out this time around, afterall I sorted you d last time

9ja Woman: That does not mean you shouldnt sort me now. . .afterall u are the man

Man: I have gat other things to spend money on and not ankara's and geles

9ja woman: You are just so stingy. . .J-girl's guy is gonna pay for her. . .but me am saddled with this stingy man!

Then she ends up nagging till the ankara is bought.

j-girl:

See insult!
I have dated men who are truly men and just ONE boy who pretended to be a man.
For most of these things, it's not me i'm referring to. I know what my girl friends have experienced.
Nigerian men cannot be endangered because that is an extinction that I would be in support of.
If Nigerian men could be less like the Nigerian men they are now, life will be better.

thank you . . . date congolese men.

DavidDylan:

How then did you know they are stingy, can't seduce women, are unromantic, are dirty, are rude?

Na wa o . . . you see vision?

ughhhhh, you get under my skin.

I mean, I've never dated stingy naija men. shup it jor.

Yes, I see vision, of me throwing cold water in ya face

whatever90:

u this girl u r sthg else

Don't mind this guy sef. I don't know why they think the naija women here are blockheads.
True, some of them spew absolute crap but some of us know what's up.
It's paining them because the truth is sometimes bitter.
Not all naija men are stingy but a lot of them are. . . capisce.

DavidDylan:

thank you . . . date congolese men.

Congolese for what?
Abeg o! I have eyes for actual Nigerian men. . . and I don't mind Ghanians either sha.

Ebony-Silk:

You can vouch for your dad but you cannot vouch for my uncle who I know has money.

Number two happens between two grown up. . . .maybe the man is not grown up in mind, but by age, yes

Good . . . now we agree on something. so kindly change the topic to - My stingy uncle

You all can continue debating why her uncle is stingy. thanks.  

we r still on this issue?   . . .d many things that hav been said about nigerian men on NL sha, i feel sorry for them

chika98:

Lol. That is why i love my igbo men. They know how to take care of a lady.

heheheh ehen ,david's got d igbo blood flowing thru his veins

@ topic

I don't think Nigerian men are stingy. Infact, some of them would even take responsibility for their girlfriend's welfare. Sometimes I wonder if these stingy girls don't have fathers.

DavidDylan:

Good . . . now we agree on something. so kindly change the topic to - My stingy uncle

You all can continue debating why her uncle is stingy. thanks.

lmao!! w/e. . . .
Not only my uncle jare, that was an example

sillyboy:



If you ask me, I think this is an Example of why most unreasonable Nigeria women think their guys are stingy:

Nigeria Woman: Bisi's Sister is getting married next month and she's selling "ankara"

Man: But 1 Bisi's sister only got married early this month and you bought Ankara and gele

Nigeria woman: Actually, it's Bisi's sister's 3rd cousin getting married not the direct sister. . .

Man: Well, I believe you should be able to sort yourself out this time around, afterall I sorted you d last time

Nigeria Woman: That does not mean you shouldnt sort me nowafterall u are the man

Man: I have gat other things to spend money on and not ankara's and geles

Nigeria woman: You are just so stingy. . .J-girl's guy is going to pay for herbut me am saddled with this stingy man!

Then she ends up nagging till the ankara is bought.

Dude, my gosh. You suck in seduction and in explaining why you men are so stingy, what's next.

@ whom it may concern.
If u all claim 2 be fly girls wit lots of cash,y den sud u giv 2 f.ucks if ur man is stingy.

Ps; only broke n gold digging chicks notice stingy men.

stillwater:

@ topic

I don't think Nigerian men are stingy. Infact, some of them would even take responsibility for their girlfriend's welfare. Sometimes I wonder if these stingy girls don't have fathers.

exactly,i had friends then,that their lovers provide them wt everything they want,wtout the men even looking or seein their thighs,its only dis kids or riff raffs like i cal them dat r stingy,d real men are not,they never want their partners to lack anything

Deshannel:

@ whom it may concern.
If u all claim 2 be fly girls wit lots of cash,y den sud u giv 2 f.ucks if ur man is stingy.

Ps; only broke n gold digging chicks notice stingy men.

I'm going to need you to edit and revise that.

stillwater:

@ topic

I don't think Nigerian men are stingy. Infact, some of them would even take responsibility for their girlfriend's welfare. Sometimes I wonder if these stingy girls don't have fathers.

So a married woman should ask her father to give her children money?
Or ask her father to take her out?

Stingy in terms of whot?

money? or  

whatever90:

exactly,i had friends then,that their lovers provide them wt everything they want,wtout the men even looking or seein their thighs,its only this kids or riff raffs like i cal them that r stingy,d real men are not,they never want their partners to lack anything

True. And it is not like the women ask for it. The men offer and get upset when you refuse.

chika98:

True. And it is not like the women ask for it. The men offer and[b] get upset when you refuse[/b].

I'm in that situation,if i refuse wahala,for real ,d real naija men r not stingy,especially the ones that love their partners like die

u see some of them will want to take so care of their partners that even when they go out wt friends they want their r women to beat others

that is why some men u see them dress like shit,u will think they don't have money,sm of them r just simple,if u want to know if they have money take a look at their wives or babes that is where the money is going to

naija men r not stingy abeg

@silk.
What part exactly? Cos most of it discribes u.

Dude, my gosh. You suck in seduction and in explaining why you men are so stingy, what's next.

Whaoo. . . .so na you . . . anyway, I need not master art of seduction cos am seduction myself. And if any lady believes Nigerian men are stingy, they should go for other nationality. . .it's not compulsory they must end up with Nigerian afterall.

Stingy in terms of whot?  

money? or  

It's definately money. . . .when it comes to  . . . ., they will say they dont let them sleep

Ebony-Silk:

I'm going to need you to edit and revise that.
So a married woman should ask her father to give her children money?
Or ask her father to take her out?

I said girlfriend.

sillyboy:



Whaoo. . . .so na you . . . anyway, I need not master art of seduction because am seduction myself. And if any lady believes Nigerian men are stingy, they should go for other nationalityit's not compulsory they must end up with Nigerian afterall.

It's definately money. . . .when it comes to . . . ., they will say they don't let them sleep

Not only in terms of money. . . . I don't take money from naija men.
That should be a written rule.
As far as trust goes, I can't trust a naija man am just dating. . . .esp with money.
The last thing I'd wasn't is a naija man rubbing it in my face about this thing he bought me and that thing and how he used to take care of me.
Abeg, am young, not naive.

Deshannel:

@silk.
What part exactly? because most of it discribes u.

nope, the whole thing. I just can't understand what you wrote. thanks

sillyboy:



Whaoo. . . .so na you . . . anyway, I need not master art of seduction because am seduction myself. And if any lady believes Nigerian men are stingy, they should go for other nationalityit's not compulsory they must end up with Nigerian afterall.

It's definately money. . . .when it comes to  . . . ., they will say they don't let them sleep

Roflmao

whatever90:

I'm in that situation,if i refuse wahala,for real ,d real naija men r not stingy,especially the ones that love their partners like die

u see some of them will want to take so care of their partners that even when they go out wt friends they want their r women to beat others

that is why some men u see them dress like shit,u will think they don't have money,sm of them r just simple,if u want to know if they have money take a look at their wives or babes that is where the money is going to

naija men r not stingy abeg

Funny how someone said they are only stingy to their wives and not to the mistresses. Nothing I no go hear for this site ooo

chika98:

Funny how someone said they are only stingy to their wives and not to the mistresses. Nothing I no go hear for this site ooo

Lol! Sometimes it's true.
They'll do anything for their mistress.
Some naija women sef. . . .too much!!
They really need to stop taking money from this men for everything.
It's ridiculous. . . .

@females. How can u say such about men when u've dated, howmany again? Common u cant jugde a book
By just a paragraph.

Ebony-Silk:

Lol! Sometimes it's true.
They'll do anything for their mistress.
Some naija women sef. . . .too much!!
They really need to stop taking money from this men for everything.
It's ridiculous. . . .

It is called Whoring oneself. Nothing more. The women want money. . the man wants sex. So they both balance each other out.

Not only in terms of money. . . . I don't take money from naija men.
That should be a written rule.
As far as trust goes, I can't trust a naija man am just dating. . . .esp with money.
The last thing I'd wasn't is a naija man rubbing it in my face about this thing he bought me and that thing and how he used to take care of me. Abeg, am young, not naive.

I still dont understand why ladies believe someone will say that. I find it unbelievable. . . as a marra of fact, women are fond of doing stuffs like that. A real man will never rub it in his girls face that he did something for her.

Like some1 said, You ladies should not get into a serious relationship with a dude that aint got his bearings right yet.

And if a man doesnt have should he steal?. . .a young man still being sponsored in school by his parents will be labelled "stingy" simply because he cant afford what sugar daddies are doing for his gf's friends.

chika98:

Funny how someone said they are only stingy to their wives and not to the mistresses. Nothing I no go hear for this site ooo

no mind sisi kill, she no be serious person u see that is why i said i wonder d kind of men some women date,u date a fool,d reward of a fool shall be added unto u,u date a real man,even if u earn more than him,he'll always want to make u comfortable wt d little he has

there is this man that used to be in my dads church "authentic" is his nick name,if u see this man?he dresses like houseboy,very simple,infact u might mistake him for a beggar on d way,but if u see his wife "amaka" if u see amaka na there u go know say authentic na big boy,wants d best for his wife,he himself dey wear fine cloth but dull colours wey be say be like house boy cloth,but na money be that

abeg,so many real naija men out there

chika98:

It is called Whoring oneself. Nothing more. The women want money. . the man wants sex. So they both balance each other out.

That one is just. . . .ugh.
You know, this forum is the first place I've heard of Naija women loving money and "recharge card" too much?
I couldn't believe it. and I still don't.
The naija women I know don't care much for that.
Too much. . . .doing too much!