Deshannel:

@females. How can u say such about men when u've dated, howmany again? Common u can't jugde a book
By just a paragraph.

it is no longer cover, na paragragh now abi ?

Ebony-Silk:

That one is just. . . .ugh.
You know, this forum is the first place I've heard of Naija women loving money and "recharge card" too much?
I couldn't believe it. and I still don't.
The naija women I know don't care much for that.
Too much. . . .doing too much!

I think na chics in naija.

whatever90:

no mind sisi kill, she no be serious person u see that is why i said i wonder d kind of men some women date,u date a fool,d reward of a fool shall be added unto u,u date a real man,even if u earn more than him,he'll always want to make u comfortable wt d little he has

there is this man that used to be in my dads church "authentic" is his nick name,if u see this man?he dresses like houseboy,very simple,infact u might mistake him for a beggar on d way,but if u see his wife "amaka" if u see amaka na there u go know say authentic na big boy,wants d best for his wife,he himself dey wear fine cloth but dull colours wey be say be like house boy cloth,but na money be that

abeg,so many real naija men out there

I don't think any good dude would want less for his wife.

sillyboy:

I still don't understand why ladies believe someone will say that. I find it unbelievable. . . as a marra of fact, women are fond of doing stuffs like that. A real man will never rub it in his girls face that he did something for her.

Like someone said, You ladies should not get into a serious relationship with a dude that aint got his bearings right yet.

And if a man doesnt have should he steal?. . .a young man still being sponsored in school by his parents will be labelled "stingy" simply because he can't afford what sugar daddies are doing for his girlfriend's friends.

An angry man would. Anger is not by age.
If angry to the the point of barely keeping it to himself, he'll let it out.
He'll do anything to hurt the woman.
I've seen men behave like boys and boys behave like men.

If a man does not have, he should not steal. If he does have, why be stingy?
A young man still sponsored in school by his parents should date a woman who does not ask from him what he cannot grant her.

In my terms, stingy is being selfish.

All dis women, find sometin better 2 attack we men wit pllllllzzzzz cos stingy sounds so rediculos.

Ebony-Silk:

In my terms, stingy is being selfish.

I agree. Applies to both man and woman.

chika98:

I agree. Applies to both man and woman.

It sure does

thread closed.

DavidDylan:

thread closed.

and who gave you the power?

Thread is still in progress jare

In my terms, stingy is being selfish

Thank God you said "in your terms. . . . .Because they are actually two different words with different meanings.

Another thing that must be noted about the word "stingy" is that, that word is very much relative.

Now, RXN, Morenike. . .Ebony Silk. . . . .please can you please define to me in just 2 sentences what qualifies a man as being stingy?. . . not the kind of dialogue you gave earlier ooo . . .but what it means to you.

@ silk Says who?

in MY terms: selfish/greedy

Deshannel:

@ silk Says who?

dude, you're still here?
oya for you, thread close. fimisile jor

i don die O, which country dis poster com frm because she nor dey yarn like naijarian at all. Maybe she com frm mali. Com dey form rubbish 4 here. No vex me abeg . Am a gentleman

Deshannel:

i don die O, which country this poster com frm because she nor dey yarn like naijarian at all. Maybe she com frm mali. Com dey form rubbish 4 here. No vex me abeg . Am a gentleman

How do Nigerians sound?
Are you like the some of those white mofos who thinks black are supposed to sound uneducated?

Ta lo n vex e.
mi tie ti bere, o nsunkun. abeg, waka

Will you stop bullying the guy. . . .mama seduction

Chineke kpo pa gi okun.

Why are MOST ok ok, ALMOST all Naija men so stingy?

For the sake of myself and my sistas, I'm wondering why so many of them possess this characteristic, and if there's anyway we can prevent it?


Naija men, the ball is in your court, explain yourselves.

I am afraid that I have to agree with you because my bf was as such and so is his friends. I dont like it alot and therefore I go tell it off to their faces. Some accepted it and some did not make them go vex like a school girl.

My bf is improving alot and changing because he knows Im doing the ame thing for him. Things which he does not like about me, would try very hard to change so he should do the same for me.

I guess to tell them and giving your honest opinion is what you can do and its up to them whether if they wanted to except the fact or not.

Deshannel:

Chineke kpo pa gi okun.

Thank you. The less understandable, the better

sillyboy:

Will you stop bullying the guy. . . .mama seduction

not me o.
who has time for a whiny stingy naija man?

*soliloquizing* i tink this poster is retarded.

*soliloquizing* i tink this poster is retarded.

Deshannel:

*soliloquizing* i think this poster is retarded.

Deshannel:

*soliloquizing* i think this poster is retarded.

Ok, thank you.
If I start my own now, they'll say I cause trouble.
Anywaz, thank you. Have a nice night.

*soliloquizing* i think this poster is retarded.

Must you say that rubbish twice?. . . . ."retarded Bozzo"

help me ask am o.

Deshannel:

*soliloquizing* i think this poster is retarded.

you are stupid?how old r u?

@ Ebony, (the poster)
U're a f''cking gold digger. How many people do you give stuff and money to?
Its better to give than to receive. Get u black ass up and go get a job. Low life, awoof, dependent scum.

must u fight?

Gaggi:

@ Ebony, (the poster)
U're a f''cking gold digger. How many people do you give stuff and money to?
Its better to give than to receive. Get u black ass up and go get a job. Low life, awoof, dependent scum.

l.m.a.o!!
another stingy one on the prowl.

acidrop:

must u fight?

You know how they are. Typical Naija man

I pray I'll live to see the day that a positive thread about Nigerian men will be created on Nairaland.

I think most men decide to be stingy to avoid being call mugu

Kosi big deal, shebi na our money una want? make una sef become 'cheerful givers'-in kind-, after all to whom much is given, much is expected- ONYE-OSHI.

StephenP:

I pray I'll live to see the day that a positive thread about Nigerian men will be created on Nairaland.

Same as me

They never stop the constant bashing and raw castigation of Nigerian men

Nowadays i just ignore it all, who send!

Mehn, I love my naija men. I got so many good things to say about them it hurts me to type it



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