Seems you have a celestial magnet. Take it like that. You must ride against all odds then.

You are in a relationship and a new guy comes and suddenly you like him too?Choi!!!!Girls sha
Anyway the church ain't a problem,on a normal day u ar d 1 that is supposed to convert not the guy,do a self assessment of both guys,determine who you love most and select

Lool by the tym u will b thirthy nd still single nd searching, even if u see guy frm brotherhood of the cross amd star or eckankar church, u go marry am...

how did you even date the first guy for 9 months or so, without knowing his church?

Celestial , Redeem, Deeper Life, Catholic, Anglican, Baptist, C A C, Winners Chapel, Etc, We Are One In Jesus. Holding To That Can Deter You Of Getting A Husband Of Your Own. Why Not Explain Things To Your Parents Convince Them That Marrying Man From Another Denomination Does Not Mean Leaving Christianity. I Pray God To Intervene

I understand hw u feel but dnt leave d guy u love because of religion,if u decide 2 move wit d other guy,toooh ur future is in ur hand

destante:
how did you even date the first guy for 9 months or so, without knowing his church?

Thank u my sista wz just going to ask her d same Question,

Cutehector4u:
Lool by the tym u will b thirthy nd still single nd searching, even if u see guy frm brotherhood of the cross amd star or eckankar church, u go marry am...

Read and comprehend my message very well. I never said the first guy wants to marry me. He has not talked about marriage yet. He's a nice guy but his church happens to be a very big issue for me.

destante:
how did you even date the first guy for 9 months or so, without knowing his church?

I knew about the church months after. We don't reside in the same state that was what made that impossible to know. Thanks for your contribution

Many might not agree but I think religion has a great effect in marriage and shud be taken seriously. Well, If u didn't know his church and u av been with 4 that long I feel u may not know so many other things abt him so take ur time and research on them. Then make ur evaluations.

planetic:


I knew about the church months after. We don't reside in the same state that was what made that impossible to know. Thanks for your contribution

did you ever ask and he lied? I mean you didn't have to live in the same state to know.
And it does seem that's the basis for your wanting to settle with this new guy. Well if you ain't comfy with the church, then I think you may reconsider.

planetic:


I knew about the church months after. We don't reside in the same state that was what made that impossible to know. Thanks for your contribution

You having a long distance relationship but now you've met someone close by. My candid advice is Follow your head and not your heart. No matter how we hide it, that religion will surely be a big issue so pls move on cos you've already fallen for the new guy. Move on pls and let the far guy know its over. Life must go on

Seriously Op I no understand u oo, u talk say u like d first guy by all standards and u come go dey develop feelings for another guy, which kin advice I wan giv u again,

Before I advice u. ..

I'v got one question for u, Do u even "love" any of them at all, cos u only said u like dem?

destante:
did you ever ask and he lied? I mean you didn't have to live in the same state to know.
And it does seem that's the basis for your wanting to settle with this new guy. Well if you ain't comfy with the church, then I think you may reconsider.

He never lied about it. I have related same issue with close relatives of mine,they all kick against it and advises that i move on but i just wanted to seek a neutral opinion about this. I like the new guy a lot and deep down within me,feelings are strong.

Wisegeek01:
Seriously Op I no understand u oo, u talk say u like d first guy by all standards and u come go dey develop feelings for another guy, which kin advice I wan giv u again,

Before I advice u. ..

I'v got one question for u, Do u even "love" any of them at all, cos u only said u like dem?

I love the 1st guy and feelings are very strong for the 2nd. If i wasn't in any relationship,I won't think twice before accepting the new guy.

gift01:
You having a long distance relationship but now you've met someone close by. My candid advice is Follow your head and not your heart. No matter how we hide it, that religion will surely be a big issue so pls move on cos you've already fallen for the new guy. Move on pls and let the far guy know its over. Life must go on

Thank you. Sincerely the white garment church is my big problem. If it ends in marriage,it means i must convert. If it was another,i won't have a problem but the white garment(O.O.O,Celestial,Cherubim and seraphim,etc)happens to be a problem for me.

Nawa oh! This church issue is rampant these days.

Personally, i wont wanna end up with someone I'm not comfortable with his denomination because i know that if the relationship ends in marriage, i will be the one expected to convert to his church.


So Op, its left for you to decide

Mprex:
Nawa oh! This church issue is rampant these days.

Personally, i wont wanna end up with someone I'm not comfortable with his denomination because i know that if the relationship ends in marriage, i will be the one expected to convert to his church.


So Op, its left for you to decide

My sister that's the problem because if he talks marriage now,i will be the one to convert and it means i must start wearing white gown. I made a terrible mistake by not asking questions at the initial stage before even accepting because if i had known,i wouldn't have accepted.

planetic:


Thank you. Sincerely the white garment church is my big problem. If it ends in marriage,it means i must convert. If it was another,i won't have a problem but the white garment(O.O.O,Celestial,Cherubim and seraphim,etc)happens to be a problem for me.

Then move on. The guy will find love. We all suffer heart breaks. We will learn to love

Celestial ke don't even imaging your self marrying that guy first of all them go almost kill you with deliverance (lagimo) secondly your house go be like shrine because of all the candle he'll be lighting daily

The second guy he's to good to be true so you know what b4 you let him get under your skirt make sure there's a ring on your fingers and you already no his pple when you've manage to get all this things you can now let him sleep with you but don't let him go more than 2 rounds and make sure to blow him off this world with your sex skills I recommend cow girl make sure to ride and twist



I think am done here

planetic:


I love the 1st guy and feelings are very strong for the 2nd. If i wasn't in any relationship,I won't think twice before accepting the new guy.

"Never knew one could love without feelings* vice versa

Here's the deal

I won't tell u what to do, but answer these questions*

1. Do u love the first guy to the extent you can convert to his religion (considering your family, and the fact that marrige is foreva and eva) (and that u were kinda mislead at the inception)

2.What exactly are these feelings you have for d second guy, is it love, lust or something else (so that u are not mislead)

3.How much do u know about the second guy (background check, past relationships and whatnot) unless you like Suprises (Darling I've got a 14 year old son).

If u can answer deez u should know ur next move* ciao

Wisegeek01:



"Never knew one could love without feelings* vice versa

Here's the deal

I won't tell u what to do, but answer these questions*

1. Do u love the first guy to the extent you can convert to his religion (considering your family, and the fact that marrige is foreva and eva) (and that u were kinda mislead at the inception)

2.What exactly are these feelings you have for d second guy, is it love, lust or something else (so that u are not mislead)

3.How much do u know about the second guy (background check, past relationships and whatnot) unless you like Suprises (Darling I've got a 14 year old son).

If u can answer deez u should know ur next move* ciao

Well, if i had answered by saying i love the 2 guy,some might say it's not possible and that's the reason why i said I have deep feelings for the 2nd. And am already involved with the 1st guy but not with the second.

I don't love the 1st guy to the extent of converting because if i do,I shouldn't create the thread. I suggested both parties attends a neutral church which he refused and said that can't happen.

I feel something great for the 2nd and like i also said in my previous post that assuming i wasn't involved with another,I sure will grant him an opportunity. For now it's just communication and the foundation so far is ok to commence any relationship.

I don't really know much yet about the 2nd guy but the little i know wouldn't be much of an issue and you cannot know a person completely but rather a gradual process.

planetic:


My sister that's the problem because if he talks marriage now,i will be the one to convert and it means i must start wearing white gown. I made a terrible mistake by not asking questions at the initial stage before even accepting because if i had known,i wouldn't have accepted.

well, i will suggest you pray about it. There is absolutely nothing that God cant do. The Holy Spirit is still in the business of changing lives.

Goodluck

planetic:


Well, if i had answered by saying i love the 2 guy,some might say it's not possible and that's the reason why i said I have deep feelings for the 2nd. And am already involved with the 1st guy but not with the second.

I don't love the 1st guy to the extent of converting because if i do,I shouldn't create the thread. I suggested both parties attends a neutral church which he refused and said that can't happen.

I feel something great for the 2nd and like i also said in my previous post that assuming i wasn't involved with another,I sure will grant him an opportunity. For now it's just communication and the foundation so far is ok to commence any relationship.

I don't really know much yet about the 2nd guy but the little i know wouldn't be much of an issue and you cannot know a person completely but rather a gradual process.

Since ur already involved with the first guy, u can try contacting him again about the issue to see if he could still see reasons with u, if not u know u got to move on (its ur future we're talking about here)

As for the new guy, Try to learn more about him (but not in the sneaky kinda way) before the deep feelings take total control of you, (like u said its gon be a slow process so) "shine ya eye" who knows he may or may not be the "one" for u

"And also . .. put it in prayer*

Its like you are a bit confused about what you want...I don't worship in celestial church but what
wrong with the church.

if you are not comfortable with the guy or where he worship why not opt out before giving another brother a chance

That a guy talks about marriage does not mean he truly wants to settle down or wants to marry you...
it could just be a strategy to win you heart... then use you and dump you

open yours eyes and be wise...am sure you are in a hurry to get married

A woman hs no church until she gets married.

destante:
how did you even date the first guy for 9 months or so, without knowing his church?

intelligent question !God bless you ma

You love them both,certified,now choose between your church or ur state,in anyway I don't intend to choose for u,but I will rather choose a man because he is from my church and not because he is from my state.

Why do you need to convert? Isn't G-d, G-d? What is it that is so fundamental with regards to praising G-d that they do at Celestial that the Anglican doesn't do and vice versa? Isn't the point of worship praising and honouring G-d more than abiding church traditions? Therefore why can't you praise G-d at the anglican church and him at his its not like G-d will burn you if you choose different churches...