₦airaland Forum

it isnt abt gender
anyone who at any given time act wholeheartedly ahead of his nor her own interest
makin it their priority to educate d child on what wrong n right help them when they make mistakes
avail yourself n expand to their thinking if thez an error they comitted n help them corect it
know d reason behind their dislikes n likes

ds doesnt cost a penny
n doesnt say which gender

d only important thing is d love is of ur kidz
if it little u wont do much
n if they ur world dt compells u do ur best

kelvinmuffins3:
Ko kan aiye

Fabdedon:
am laughing cos i know d money went away lick chibok girls we dont know when it will come back..lol

hehehe a serious comic

uv gt talent

iv not seen anyone ugly
jst people created differently frm myself
n dt what makes everyone unique in their own special way

what i can say is ugly is seeing someone talking based on physical apearance n assume dt ugly thought

hehehehe
Amen

ColinAdua:
WE NO WAN SEE PANTIES HERE O O O O! WHICH KIN NONSENSE BE THAT!! BY A LADY FOR THAT MATTER!!
SHAME NO DEY CATCH YOU.

#INDECENCY! #SACRILEGE!!

SMALL TIME PEOPLE GO BEGIN SHOW INDECENT PICTURES HERE.

ANYBODY WE TRY AM AGAIN. HOLY GHOST FIRE!!!!!

very true n sad
i dont knw why they have to do all ds lip service
really every proof of leading economy is all spirituall gain n nothing more
they forget we can see all dt going on in politics section dt all ds so called succes is paper dynamics
i wish they can do something abt their country honestly the situation they in is very serious than focusing on SA or any other country ds is a crucial n sickening moment to see so many things hapening at once
Oil sector is falling,election campains are more important,job sectors are crucial

d killings of innocent people is too much
so sad dt one cannot b protected coz their religious ,polics n tribes are diferent

ds obsesion abt SA maybe they doing it to heal their deeply infected wound caused by what hapening around them

ds is d first iv seen a country so divided
not even one mass protest at least for d sake of humanity people jst die n it business as usuall

DieeDiee:
Actty you can't talk sense to a fool -- let these people be. I can certainly understand why they are delusional. You know mos' kuthiwa indlala inamanyala so it's the hunger they are suffering from. Even if they are right, then they have proven that Nigerians aren't the brightest peas in the pod for what intelligent person would leave the land of manna, travel 4464 km to go live in a "violent slum", be so desperate to live in this "violent slum" they go to the extent of being an ILLEGAL ALIEN (even when they get kicked out they find desperate ways to get back in), live as a second class citizen in a shack with 50 other people in this single shack, cleaning toilets and guarding cars in the hot sun all day for R10 (that is 157nairas) per car as a living? As a matter of interest, how can people who live in slum afford to give away 157 nairas just nje because truth be told no-one needs their car to be watched because the parking lot itself is secured? On an average day a South African can give away up to R50 (786 nairas)

so bad we only allowed one vote
u all dersev d crown
all d best

i vote kulboy
cc: Dygeasy

nigeria 's law is a joke

Emmalot121:
Dollars have exchanged hands.

exactly my thought
is there anyhope left for something dt cant be bought
if conscience can b bought what is left ?

better are those dt has passed on
better are Islam terroirist for earning their rewards with mass killing as their ticket to heaven


i weep for christianity who entertain all sort of evil ,for d stomuch sake,n for worldy powers in hope of a better tomorrow which may not come

5min robbery

ohhh
we need to survive one player down

Rainbow Nation uppppppppppppp
goalie

NadiaSA1:
SOUTH AFRICA. .

Mzansi 4 sho!

we owe it to klein
Ranty ranty

but our midle field we really need Jali combination

so far thumbs #S.A Qualified

ooooooooooh myyyyyyyyyy
what a goal

i vote

Tosney2much
Kulboy
K wonder

MrCork:
....sweeery isit too much to ask u ladies to change color??...wots the fuss all about?

...and then u people complain u cant find man on nairaland....serrriously..we giv up!

how can one change their skin colour for d sake of love

i may not know d real reasons behind some of d women dt go for skin bleaching
to some dt i come across their condition is frightening dt i feel bad n cant even ask why they took such decision

a have darkcolored cousin n shes beatiful her confidence is 100% percent compared to mine

but anyway in your life preferences you entitled. to what best for you
but go easy on ds women they beautiful not ugly

sorry for ur breakup

hmm
dear someone dt loves you truthfully will take very long time to find nterest in someone else
n there will not go after a person close to you except for help to mend your relatioship

so if your guy hasnt asked you to fix your relationship

better forget abt him n move on
someone dt trully love you will come along
with dt said plz dont rush into any relationship n dont look for it
it will find you

lastly choose your friends wisely

ds op
sounds like hes arlergic to darkskin
i hope no one in ur generation is dt kinda dark
incase your kidz inherit dt

forgive him
n then i.will make it clear dt his free to start a new life with his family
i mean start afresh n i will consider him invalid

Jesusloveyou:
if tbj is not a man of God,then he is a man of sa(TAN) or Jona(TAN).then let TAN pple persecute him,if found guity.again-if u don't leave it for God,then leave it to saTAN.or jonaTAN.

you're one of d reason people criticise christianity
your d reason people say christianity is worse than an islam suicide bomber
you know why coz their ways are visible shown n known
i only asked you which God
concerning d Scoan if hope u hv not sold your conscience but if not tell me


how is this a political issue?
you cannot fool me with d words u typed
Jona(Tan) Satan.




i only asked you which God

u free to entertain politics
but dont do dt under d pretence using God's Name

Trafford:
Clap for yourself... The building was still under construction you say?... I'm sure your kind r d ones spreading all sorts of fallacy. Confirm before saying what you don't know

listen here i dont entertain worshipers of men
dont quote me senselesly

you free to
keep feasting on d Devil's table dt he has prepared for you at d expense of innocent blood knowingly

tell ur Gods n your gullible flocks dt building was not under construction im sure they will compensate you coz they feast on lies

Jesusloveyou:
Anybody can write to claim responsibility.boko haram wil write soon.so why attacking d man of God.if SA lawyer believe mend did it,why d insult on tbj.or he also bribe d lawyer.whether it was bad structure or control demolition,u pple should leave d matter to God.

u say tbj is d man of God n dt we shud leave d matter to God

if i may ask which God u talking abt ?

dear i did not qoute you did i or mention ur name?
d best was to ask ur question

i dont hv to say you d one irritating yourself.
if without askin u assume i meant to irritate you
what for?

BluIvy:
I wish I knew what you were saying or whom you are responding to, because I am the one who said i do not believe this to be true but i believe they are trying to absolve SCOAN of responsibility for the disaster.

I just created scenarios of it what the claim could be true and tried to work out why?

Please do not irritate me, read to understand not to react.

i dont think it was an attack for SAfrican Citizens nor anyone for dt matter

d building was still under construction while people. were being lodged there
dt a huge risk alone
lastly d building itself had added floors
can u tell me if. adding floors n accomodating people with construction undergoin at d same time wont b disastrous.

you right abt d negetivity status dt Nigeria hv
yet dwelling on dt isnt a way forwad
youv got to see beyond all dt n realise dt ones mistakes made by one indivisual doesnt label d rest as same i mean b honest iv only seen his followers suporting him not d entire nation
n if your opinion were to b reverse wud you say d same abt his followers in SA are they culprits too

why travel all d way to Nigeria isnt God omnipresent?how long has ds man feasting in desguised of christianity doesnt it tell you that some people read d bible like a news paper ? if d scripture talking abt being blind n dull ears to
i wud not view ds as a Nigerias attack towards SAfricans
dt very inhuman an a dangerous mindset
we all need to learn in handling problems like human being

op
no woman is ugly
all are beautiful in their own way
it only things dt they engage themselves to

some people live in their own shells
some lack self esteem n dt hapen to both gender

All women are beautiful

u funny dt all i can say to
iv made myself clear dt your critics n envy doesnt change us

yet u rockin back n forth blame game as who started it


i realise im wasting mytime replyin you here. as if mylife depends on it
you entitled to your speech
hv a nyc life

craziebone:
eiyah! I can hear the tone in your voice.

Well, let me tell you that all these you see here are just banta. We don't hate or envy you, neither do we hate or envy ourselves. Once again, what you see here is pure banta and that's all. If you cannot handle it, as i can already see, i think the best thing is for you to leave this section and go to other sections maybe...jokes, family, religion, career, romance etc. There is no medal for anyone who wins the arguement, if at all there will be a winner. So, there is no point staying on.

I want you to think about it yourself. Do you think it is worth it to read things that will get you upset when in fact, you could spend that time on other things which will help you.

unfortunately speaking abt travelling is a void statement im sorry to say dt
coming on ds site was through those related pop up links
was browsing on Lake holidays accomodation wanted something similar n price comparison
holiday season is all abt travelling
i remember viewing d menu
n browsed shockingly i had no idea n this is d first time iv came upon ds pathetic image of some Nigerians n iv noticed dt d only time you actually admit d errors of yourselves is d section on politics where you bashing each other,tribal,religious,n worst of all political sentiments
dt is how bad it is
so who are we anyway to expect better treatment when you fail to tolerates
iv travelled to some other African countries n overseas yet not once iv experience ds envy
on ds site theres other foreign nationals too n i dont see them behaving like this

craziebone:
I laugh when i see somepeople here acuse us of hate. Why don't you go to the 1st page and tell me who started being antagonistic of the other. Why don't you just go to the first page and quote the first two posts of Kruger and lets see if it wasn't militant and antagonistic. Now that we returned the favour, you are coming here to acuse us of hate. Why don't you just deal with your own mess or better still, eat it up?

even a todler can reason better than this

what d poster said it totally different to all of you guys replied
u just cant stand anything good abt SA
even thou u try to swallowing it with your biased responses yet u cant digesting it

migration issues isnt abt Nigerians only we have lots of other foreign nationals n they dont display this kind of hate
for a country dt accomodates millions of Nigerians this kind of envy is uncalled you
but i dont blame you since iv noticed dt mostly d countries dt disgust some of you are d same countries dt accomodates millions of your countrymen n women.

learn to respect other people as you respect yourself

i feel sorry for them really
honestly after oil industrial
im left with no choice but to think
dt
this hate and envy is second looming economy they posses so far. paralised mentallity of fear

there are some good humbly nigerians
we apreciates d respect they have for us
yes xhenophobia was not something dt shud have hapened n dt doesnt stop foreigners seeing good in SA

fighting illegal structures n improving Rainbow Nation is what we strive for yet it cant hapen overnight.

DieeDiee:
You are so right, that's all it is - hate. They flee to our country in droves to chase after the good life we have, call us names because we have it good without having to con someone or prostitute some poor woman or ruin some poor youth's future. If Nigeria has such a great economy why do we South Africans have an illegal immigration problem? No South African would be so desperate they would be willing to be a second class citizen in another country. You don't see South Africans running to Nigeria for an education. I have a Nigerian friend who had to come to SA to buy stuff for her wedding in SA. I also have business with a Nigerian. To send me documentation eg she has to use private courier company and they always take about a week to arrive where as I use the government postal services and she get things from my side within 72 hours, sometimes our skying gets interrupted because of power outages and the likes - problems we don't have in SA.

you nailed it

theres so much of brainstorming of hate which they can use to better Nigeria as whole
this status of empty chest beating while d rich are thinking abt themself n d poor increase daily

Life is so good n fair in SA
no amount of critics can change dt
d time of fleeing to other contries. because of oppression is gone diferent race,culture,religion of this
rainbow nations values is what makes us unique n too diferent for some peoples liking
wev seen worse dt y freedom is for all Citizen

DieeDiee:
Let me try to sum all of you up:

1.) To the ones puntering about Nigeria "has the biggest economy", biggest according to what category? Economic activity? If that's the case then of course it would have a larger activity because as you also keep pointing out there's a larger population.
2.) Someone said something about the GDP and the population of the two countries and used it as an excuse that SA has a lower population and therefore a higher GDP. Uhm... GDP stands for GROSS DOMESTIC PRODUCT. Product being the goods produced. Domestic meaning with the borders of a country. Gross means unadjusted count. I would break it down further but I simply don't have the energy and seeing as you think a lower population = higher GDP then... Anyway your argument fails on two points:
A) GDP measures the production of a country during a specified period. Population is a minor factor in the sense that a high population with little or no education/skills would be meaningless hence a country like Sweden, for eg, with its small population and little export economy can still have a high GPD and per capita rate.
B) Even if we were to give your little argument a bit of benefit, how then do you explain China with its 1.63 billion population, high GDP and high per capita?
3.) Steinhoff is a South African company - side note you cannot discredit Anglo-American. It is a South African company and has been ever since the gold rush in the early 1900s and is owned by a SA family.
4.) Crime, crime, crime: first off crime in SA is petty and "violent" crime (ie murder) almost always is contained amongst people who know one another. That SA has the highest is hogwash punterred by white people to discredit blacks, and no this is no conspiracy theory, independent scientific study after study has shown that SA people are not violent at all. If you up to reading reports and statistic analyses then a good start up point would be the HRSC website you will have plethora of evidence refuting claims SA is violent and crime ridden. (In actual fact I used to date a foreigner who never understood why I never lock my doors, sometimes I'd go away and come back without having locked and I always told him its because I know nothing will happen. I live alone and I even sleep with my sliding doors open that's how safe SA is but obviously as with anywhere else in the world there are hotspot areas in the country but regardless we don't have Boko Harams and no kidnapping for money/hostage dramas - y'all should stop watching TV you take it too literally.)
5.) I keep hearing a billion naira this a billion naira that. You seem to be forgetting that the naira has as much value as the Zim Dollar so a billion naira is about what? 1 SA cent? Please let us keep things in context. This is why I started off with question 1. Nigeria is economically stronger or has a bigger economy in terms of what context? Just because a newspaper article proclaimed it does not make it so. Remember journalists are not experts and half the time they have no real understanding of what they are talking about or misconstrue their reporting for whatever reason. There is no way Nigeria is economically better than SA, it fails on so many of the critical factors eg infrastructure, efficiency, energy (we never run out of perol in SA unless there is an international crisis and our power is very stable), political stability, solid tertiary education (all our universities feature in the world list and not only do we dominate the top ten Africa list we also take up the first 3-4 top spots. There are so many SA companies in Nigeria (and other African countries - think Primi, Shoprite/Checkers, Woolies, MTN, Vodacom, Multi-choice, Truworths, Edgars etc.) and I can't even think of 1 Nigerian company in SA. You even watch our shows and we don't watch yours... We don't need to leave SA for anything because we get everything we want right here, even our government offices and police are efficient.

Last note, having one good economic year does not a strong economy make its all premature. Oh, by the way SA is wealthy and does have money. The average SA can afford more than the average Nigerian. And we are not lazy we just don't have to break our backs to put food on the table, clothes on our backs and a roof over our heads and that's how life should be - if you weren't suffering and struggling so much you would understand that life is to be enjoyed not sweated over.

hv wonderfull brothers too good
but i pray my elder brother will stop womanising i knw his galfrnds are cool with it
but i pray he changes

@op
nothing sweeter than families understanding n to suport each other
may God continue to do so IJN

Serenity22:
Women r following men's footsteps very closely. Every nasty practice women r doing today, they learnt it from men and then the children follow suit. The more reason why I advocate for men to live right because so many people are looking up to them as the head of the family. And family is the string that holds the world together. If men change their ways, trust me the world will change. It is going to be a long gradual process but we will get there.

i agree with you but i cant say it mens fault. women are guilty as well ,it takes two to tangle

this world we live in is full of errors
each indivisual striving n fulfilling their needs.

May God save our soul
n help us frm harsh reality of this

im not agaisnt any poligramy whether it involves dozens of men or women it their choice

id rather die lonely n miserable than comit such ,ds world jst temporaly anyway