₦airaland Forum

be careful on who lay hands on you
crusades are good but knw dt u exposing yourself unkowingly
not all gliter is Gold


pray for urself
never leave anywhere without praying
pray ,pray ill say
work with wat in you

some get maried for love while some for other reasons
mayb d patner who ask for disposal of sim cards hd experienced trust issues or feel threatened somehow but why marry someone who keeps you on your toes ?
i find it wrong
when you faithfull you can b surounded by so many things situations u find yourself doesnt change you if you true to yourself

nice write up
all d best

some never hv d courage to focus on positive healthy life

only an infant. will not understand d bitter truth. they will still cry foul n qoute you back ,it like something unimaginable was taken from them ,such unspeakable hate. has become their consolation May God bring Cure to it

MduZA:
you are ill informed,the only thing that most of you Nigerians are suffering from is seeing black and white south Africans living together,that's why you always come up with all this rubbish without having clue of what is happening on the ground...there are poor white people in SA who go as far as begging on the streets...if it is for slums,they are there even in America...for your information slums are regarded as informal settlements in SA created by people who leave their homes so that they can be close to their work places...SA belongs to both black and white ,if you Nigerians are not happy about this,unfortunately you guys will be unhappy until the end of the world...

vandalZA:
ma bra I'm always asking myself that who brain washed those guys .........they should come and visit in order to se the real south Africa

totally brainwashed is what i can think of

i wonder what makes people think so badly abt SA
i dont even know why or what transpired
or is it D constitution Law dt they have is for certain people n not all

all i know is dt theres millions of Nigerians in SA it a pity dt they still here n lots are still flooding in d worst part is when some are detained you will think someone has died ,pleading sorrowfull not to b returned back in their own country

we hv problems like any other country but that not our mentallity Rainbow Nation is who we are with a good constitution thou it may not b d best we hv but managing n handling d less we have shows progress

erunz:
if the first one was illegal, I assume the 2 second deal was also illegal. U will just die from h8.

until you realise dt Law in your counrty n d meaning of it
maybe then u wont scream this n dt country hates you ,even this website we are using theres rules n regulations which we hv to abide

make a change with your energy start inventing ,do research ,start with something small others on seeing positive creativity will glady join
,the blame game makes on takes 10steps back with realising it

erunz:
This is how we wanted to buy arms from our brothers in SA but they say it was illegal.. but they forget that today its Nigeria 2morrow might be anybody. Big thanks to Russia for helping and a big shame to the US government. God My Father's Land.

so use d window or back door to enter your brothers house

no wonder counrty is ds Lawless

then your topic shud hv been Hellen Zille D woman who spen billion to become d largest opposition party

why on earth in ds lifetime are being sexually active without takin test?

i dont understand d blame game
people shud value their lives

preferable for me is Winnie Mandela n all d women dt contributed in d past african strugle

Helen Zille's age leaves me to ask where was she? during d most hardest times

no offence @op
jst me

BluIvy:
Why dontt you ask your Goodluck Jonathan/Nigeria the Judas Iscariot who back stabbed Ghaddaffi. Nigeria is the one that railed most African states to sell Ghaddaffi to NATO becouse of the internal religious bigotry. While most SADEC leaders where kicking hardly against the idea. Why blame Obama for a decision taken with wide consultation of all World organizations?

leave them it will take them God knws when to realise dt Indlu yegagu iyanetha

@ u brave hey
such woman cannot b among human being
but all d best

Unibenstudent:
very bitter indeed ,that's u can say Jonathan is a he g#oat on nairaland yet he can't even insult his dad if his dad is even a womaniser..Nigeria is threading the path of dictatorship and our youths like me are smiling and insulting on phone like thaats where d real battle is

it has become a dailly dose
tribes,religious n political status had replaced humanity
d value of life level decreasing dailly
conscience ,compasion is slowly dying

bitter truth

GoodlifeNigeria:
The problem with some Nigerian girls is that some think they can trap a man with pregnancy to marry them by all means. That can never never work because marriage is by consent and not by force. So she has ulterior motives. It's by love you marry not by force or because of material considerations or because of money.

d moment you decide to have d unprotected u knw what
makes u guilty
hmmm some men mxm

judging by d op post
his family want nothing to do with d said girl nor even her family for dt matter
i find it weird dt they took responsabilities frm delivery which means as soon as d baby was born d mother was separated frm d child.
n op u said u were still dating when she got pregnant
so such a short times to delivere d baby n shes declared unfit n evil?

i hope d girls family is not frm a poor family n yours is well maintained
coz dt where d problem start
if u hv taken hold of d baby frm d very first day n want nothing to do with her i hv a question bt mayb not our cultures are different
dt girls parents deserve respect
in most cultures dt how it done

but it yourlife live it fully conscience aplied or ignored ur choice

ogawisdom:
D child is nt urs bc u didn't marry her. D child actually belong to d girl family until u do d needful culturally, dt doesn't mean u ll marry her oooo. They ie d girl n her parents can show up for d child in future if they want to. Also they probably dnt want to b associated wit d child bc of d cost of raisin d child so u can jst keep ur cool or go to their place to demand wat is required of u culturally to permanently own ur child. Giving her monthly salary doesnt change anything. She is d mother of dt child forever

MduZA:
tell your webmaster to unsubscribe few SAns on this forum...do you know how many Nigerians glue on South African sites on daily basis?expect my comment on any fallacy you and your people make about SA....you and me are just members on this forum,may I tell you that am accessing this site free of charge..

dont get all so worked up over this
it only on ds site people boast
brother u dont own shoprite n dstv whatever hapen to those busineses it wont affects

last i heard SA seized Nigerian money my brother u saw d insults dt followed
n whay is hapening now? SA among countries showcsn d declaration of Nigerian gorvement
so u see all dt is here is jst talk

i can say it been 3 weeks iv experienced dt
yet at home four times during d week n dt b coz i dont get distractions im a worshiper n im playing mykeyboard i cant even continue singing it uncontrollable n a soothing feeliing to d heart

while i was growing up it used to annoy me sometimes i wud ask my mom why do people cry in church n she wud jst say u will not understand till u experience it

shoes
first

Op are you dating for fun or for d names sake

it not abt physical apearance alone.
d answers u gave really defines being true to yourself coz they different n unique ,very rare answeres in a competion

with dt said i vote
Rozzay

we have two sunday service
so
on d 1st service i used to b in d worship team

n teach sunday school on d second service

generally im a solois gospel worshiper n sing with d choir as well until i was told im needed more in d worship team said i shud stoped teaching Sunday School kidz i wasnt happy i love kids i tried to reason dt i can do both
but had tobey d orders to join worship full time

now half of d kidz stoped coming to church they give so many reasons n asked me why i dont go back to Sunday school so dt they may come back
my problem is now when i raise this issue im told dont mind them
this has destroyed my interest in d worship team so much dt i feel guilty abt those kids n most of them are frm unbelievers family n changed iv seen in those families coming to service sometimes

n i dont knw what to do any advice plz

i set mine to advance myself
i take lot of time to prepare myself
forwarding my watch is d only way
i never tell myself my wath is 45min forward
dt only dawn on me when i hv to reach mywork n too early bt it gives me peace of mind knowin i hv time to prepare
coz i hate rush i
hate deadlines

how many times can one vote
info

on this one ill say brain

coz dt d only way ill knw d inside character

my vote to ROZZAY

@ op i lost interest d second you turned a tradegy into political theory

lives were lost let d law takes it cause

He failed to appear claiming he wasnt there.
a warant for his arrest infact he shud b by now

@op ur mixed writes up
we have Youth leaders there presenting SA
n we in full suport with d youth for refusing him visa. if anyone want him they shud go to Scoan n meet him there at their own risk

this hearing his dodging was very fair to him n very unfair to d deceased which are awaiting

but all dt wasnt enuf n now since hes hiding behind his finger
it one thing to knw dt lives were lost
n very disgusting seeing he only cares abt his image no remorse ,no compassion no humanity in him

frfrank:
Man of God vs The law of the land

after d tragedy this man failled to take responsibility as a human being he had perfect sleep while people's lives were at stake d very same people he was milkin by preventing trained workers went futher holding a service under same condition

im sure dt if other people were allowed entry they wud hv helped

this man replied to critics concerning d added floors --
replied again throwing threats--
WERE ALL D CRITICS DELIVERED TO HIM DT HE FELT HE HAS TO RESPOND?

NOW HE DODGED D APPEARANCE CLAIMING HE WASNT THERE WHEN IT WAS SERVED.

HIS LAWYERS WERE PRESENT ON D PREVIOUS HEARING N WERE TOLD TO TELL HIM TO COME.

A MAN OF GOD WUD HV APPEAREAD COZ IT BEEN WRITTEN EVERYWHERE DT HE MUST A APPEAR '--D LAWYERS TOO TOLD HIM

THIS MAN ONLY THINK OF HIMSELF
NO CAMPASION FOR GOD'S CHILDREN
HE SHUD THANK D GOD OF HIS DOOM DT HIS IN HIS OWN COUNTRY OR HE WUD B IN JAIL AFTER FAILLING TO APPEAR

[quote author=morpheus24 post=27613698]Addition:

and do.p.e the young populous up so they stay addicted, lazy and jobless while they sneek in and take all the big bum bum women and the jobs.

what a painfull reply ,so these are d qualifications they have mxm no wonder u celebrating Zuma's statement
one day you will wake up n reap ur sleepyness as you mentally paralised by your. owngoverment SA xenophobia SA Aids
it not even shocking coming from you a real hero celebrating d word lazy
when thousands of lives are lost some turning refugees in their own country d homeless children n elders

have you offered them at least a crumb of bread since you not lazy '

untill then
i reserv d rest

lyvin:
Look around you and tell me ur better than all those who do not pay tithe. Do this sincerely u will realise that ur being delusional.

Someone pointed out here that Catholic dogma/canon law does not emphasis tithe yet they were able to bring gospel here even building skols, hospitals etc. That's shows dt there are other ways d church can be sustained aside tithe but the greed of this modern crooks makes them preach these compulsory fraud to satisfy their quest for quick money.

B/w how much tithe does Dangote pay
Yeye dey smell

dt correct
infact dt reminds me of d history d first churches in SA they built churches n iin those chuches they expanded it by starting education. note dt d bible is for d broken souls n to free those living in bondage n
many profesions came out frm these churches yet no one was paying tithes
as to where it went wrong in todays churches it only greed. n more opresion making people be dependant on them

Oyetboy:
forgive? @op if you forgive that girl, that means you're the biggest mumu on Earth

well forgiveness is process of healing whether he decides to continue or end d relationship

if you dont forgive a person you tying yourself to them n it makes a person bitter