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hammerFC:
IF THEY LEFT HER IN NIGERIA TO GO TO SCHOOL, WE WONT BE HAVING THIS RETARDED DISCUSION.

IT SERVES THE ABOKI IN THE NORTH RIGHT.

Lol. Why does it serve them right?

Kobojunkie:
The same applies as far as Nigerian men.

Sure. But black men are forgiving when it comes to looks.

Their standards are thr lowest out of all races of men.

White men are more picky.

Offpointng:
No husband/marriage wahala?? is this coming from a place of sheer ignorance or plainly inferiority complex??

This same USA that GBV is on the highest with husbands shooting dead their wives, GF or spouse?? emancipate your psyche from sturdy naivity

"Slightly more than 1 in 3 women have experienced
violence at the hands of a partner or family member in the USA. Nearly 40% of women who are murdered die at the
hands of their partners" >>> https://www.americananthropologist.org/deprovincializing-development-series/gender-based-violence-in-the-us

You guys are just hypocrites.

You want interaccial dating for yourselves but when you see a black woman moving on with a white man, you want to smear him.

Where were your statistics when team foreign women was trending on this forum??


I am happy that this news has made you feel inadequate, the same way you all have attempted to make black women feel.

You remember statistics when it comes to white men, but not for their women.

Kobojunkie:
Look around you. That is the same thing many of these blackmen on this thread are telling you. They too like you looking a specific way .. with big boobs and big yansh.

Yes, what's your point?

Geminita1:
White men are not attracted to black women yen yen yen.

Waiting for your new song today. Oh white men are serial killers and useless?
Okay conquered bottom of the barrel low IQued black kangzz

Lol they like black women, but they like us looking very specific.

Christistruth03:
Did Igala rule over you or not

Yorubas did more harm to themselves than outsiders

A Town like Ibadan was fighting 5 Wars at the same time against the Egbas,Ijebu,Ekiti,Fulani,Ijaye instead of them all just facing the Fulani
That is why their descendants prefer Peace to War

If you know the history you'll know that fulanis caused that chain reaction of wars.

Fulanis were responsible for the fall of Oyo Kingdom.

Team foreign men.

Here we go again!

DaChosenOne:
Yoruba people are docile in the face of these Sahelian muslim. So much that they feel emboldened to threaten Davido, son of billionaire.

Davido should have stood his ground.what do they want to do to him

Lol. Why Edo state?

WannaHowzit:
What's it about gay men that's threatening you?

Are you trying to say gay is the same thing as Trans

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Rayban25:
You're still arguing with emotions.

Admit you're wrong and shut up. If you dont know something seek knowledge. A village person person can seek knowledge about divorce laws and not say the bunkum you said

That's why where you live is irrelevant.

We know you dont live in UK for sure with your statement obviously

Seek knowledge. If you dont know something, ask questions or shut up.

Shalom.

Lol.

omooba969:
It's the assistance I need, why can't she do that for me? Mind you, this scenario can be contextual.

Well, what are you going to do for her?

omooba969:
What do you mean by this?

You're saying you want a lady to regularise your status why should she?

pocohantas:
He is the one without a passport, but somehow they think it is that easy to "throw" a man out of his house. Hehe!

Exactly. If the man's name is on the lease, it doesn't just happen.

DenreleDave:
1Sharon... Ain't you still an heathen enemy of God?

Are you now a believer?

I can't mention you directly bcox I think the last time I did, anti spam. Bot banned me

I don't know who is protecting you

You see. It is FSM that has been fighting my battles and protecting me, He has revealed himself to be the truth.

As long as you continue to worship false gods you will continue to face issues in cyberspace.

Turn to him today.

Rayban25:
Who cares where you live?

Seek information before arguing blindly. Low budget feminist

You don't care about where I live and you're very certain I don't know anything about divorce laws abroad?

Idiot.

Low budget red piller. You're bitter because your ugly and broke. You're not entitled to the affection of beautiful women.

omooba969:
@bolded - How's the man without papers a red flag? What if he's got genuine intentions? Is it also acceptable that a girl without papers is much of a red flag. Why the prejudice, why??

It's a reality that some people behave badly , just in it for the papers but stories abound of genuine couples as well. Come to think of it, it can be extremely impossible to be honest about intentions when in a dire straits. For example, I want to be honest and ask a lady if she can help me with regularising my status - do actually think she would find that reasonable? I can beat my chest that a man is more likely to help a sister in need.

Please let's stop the red flag prejudice, we destroy ourselves by doing so.

Yes a woman without papers is also a red flag.

I don't know why people without papers don't sort out their situation before jumping on the dating market.

If you're making excuses for your lack of honesty, don't complain when someone isn't honest to you in return.

Why should people take the chance? Why should people take your word for it?

Women can help you, but what is the catch with you?

Rayban25:
its always the low budget feminists. you know nothing about divorce laws abroad go and sit down. seek knowledge before talking

Fvcking idiot, where do you think I live?😂 you think I'm in a village somewhere?

If I'm a low budget feminist, you're a low budget red piller.

Rayban25:
have you traveled outside nigeria before? if you dont know something why not ask questions instead of arguing blindly what you know nothing about out of emotions?

Lol you have no idea..

omooba969:
You just dey cap 🧢 anyhow.

Where's the cap? Explain

DenreleDave:
1Sharon.. Always enjoy your take on things.. While I was on ban, you opened my attention to many interesting threads due to the fact that I'm following you


GeneralPula there is nothing to regret boss

Lol I thought I was a heathen enemy of God, okay

Revolva:
Nigerian women lol e don red.....they have know themselves to be rude and ingrates and selfish from.naija to abroad

Naija men no need una o make una de marry foreigner de go ....we naija men need foreign ladies now wey go bring peace of mind

Look at you. Go to the UK and learn. You are naive and ignorant.

pansophist:
Ok, so how else would he have married a woman that left him? You're holding John to an unreasonable standards.

Of course they might end up not marrying each other, but to assume that the reason have to be John's fault? Lol.

Ok so the strategy now is to leave a man because you're sure he won't marry you. So how will women build a relationship then?

It can also happen that john won't marry her because he believed she is a feminist and cheating in the UK where she is. Should the girl suffer due to John's prejudice?

If no, why should john then suffer from her prejudice? Because you assume negative about a person (John in this case), doesn't makes it true. It also doenst makes the person guilty.

This your logic sha. Anyways, she is single. Up till now. Let her keep playing smart, without patience, searching and jumping from one rich man to the other. Reality will always be waiting for you when you're done.

Why are you taking his word for it? Because he's your friend. You're also assuming positives about him.

Like I said before, you know very well that men say all sorts to women and never follow through.

Why shouldn't the woman leave if the man won't marry her? Most women desire marriage. If their goals don't align, why should she stay and waste time?

Afterall, men tell women to make better decisions and chose better. If shit hits the fan, and the woman starts complaining, men would say we were a poor judge of character.

Your post is giving the impression that the Nigerian girl really missed out on something when it isn't confirmed she would have truly gotten that something.

This girl is so tacky

Lol.

pansophist:
He intend to marry her. Okay lemme drop a few info about John.

John did his bachelor degree in Germany in German language. So he first learnt German for a year, then did his university studies in German.

John already lives in Germany for six years when he met her. She was a second year student in the UK then, on a student visa.

For john to become German, he has to satisfy residency, social and economical integration. If all these doesn't count as someone with good potential, then please tell me what counts as such.

John is a somewhat nerdy person. Those book warm guys with glasses. Fine boy, but not your typical vibes, party, rough guy.

Anyways, your submissions are somewhat correct, although, that's not John's problem. Johk should worry about John issues, not because other men out there are loosers.

You don't want to be judged or punished wrongly for the sins of others ladies out there. Her point for living John may be valid, BUT stick to it. If you leave him, don't come back. It's that's simple.

If a lady left when things are rough, then back when things are smooth, it simply means she will leave again when things are rough. There is no virtue there. You have to own up to your decisions and stay one place.

I'm not buying that! Just because he said he wanted to doesn't mean he would have.

Did his actions follow through from his words?

If that was the case, she wouldn't have left him.

Most women desire marriage.

I agree she should not have come back, it reeks of desperation. If this story is true.

ednut1:
the women get married to Nigerian men mostly men looking for papers or imported men from Nigeria 🤣

Look, no Nigerian woman born in the UK marries a man from Nigeria or w/o papers. We just aren't on the same wavelength.

It happens in rare instances but only if the woman is extremely desperate.

Dshocker:
Na wa for you ooO...

There are men that saved for like 10yrs, bought a house and got married later, only for their wife to take over the house.

Women have more power constitutionally, than men do in Europe and United States

Bullshit. If the property is in the man's name this cannot happen. Stop regurgitating what you aren't certain about.

ednut1:
place i lived in. And still have siblings and friends there 🙄. Most of them are married to white women lol

Most of who? Lol

I thought you were talking about UK raised Nigerian women

pansophist:
I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.

I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.

It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.

But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.

What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.

They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.

Whatever.

If the woman has papers and he doesn't, he is very much a red flag.

A man that is doing uber can very much do uber forever. Why do you guys always make it seem like upcoming guys always eventually make it? You know well life isn't like that.

Women should date upcoming men as long as she sees the potential in him.

Even the red pill teaches men to be the best they can be and not remain average.

John eventually got married to an Ivorian woman, does that mean he intended to marry the Nigerian woman that rejected him?

You know well that men can date women for so many years and not marry them, they meet another woman and marry her within a year.