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Jovialjune1:
Has nothing to do with tradition, back in the day polygamous men are upfront with it, their wives knows, but these days, they sneak and cheat, when caught, some women will defend them or endure the marriage, which gives them more guts to keep cheating then call it nature.

deewhydoski:
Lol
For you information I don't drink and i don't judge people based on what they do...their life their choice

GO0DHardDick:
QUICK ONE

OP, A rich man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

If you can answer this then you've gotten the answers as to why men cheat

GO0DHardDick:
Damn!

Naturally men are considered providers. So therefore if a man can provide for you, what makes you think he shouldn't provide for others to get what he wants? If you claim because he cheats you too wants to cheat, then Madam become a provider yourself and take care of yourself by yourself. Pay your bills, house rent, data sub and do everything yourself with your own money.

Kobojunkie:
Yes they do.

Kobojunkie:
A male has both X and Y chromosomes. So it is feasible to clone either a male or a female from an Adam.

omooba969:
It's our tradition and I don't see those gluttons abolishing it any time soon.

Kobojunkie:
I would need to ask you same.

DenreleDave:
Women are padlocks 🔒... They are supposed to be secured and not let any key 🗝 open them.

Men are the key 🗝 while some men are the master key 🗝

Kobojunkie:
What rule is there that a clone can only be of same gender abeg?

omooba969:
He who pays the piper dictates the tune.

Kobojunkie:
Correction.. Adam did not choose Eve. Rather, Adam was given no other choice but Eve, his clone.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
In their culture that is how they trained them in their upbringing

talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

LINSAR:
I'm irresponsible because I said anybody can be spiritually stronger?

Do you lack comprehension skills or it's behavioral etiquettes you lack?

Since spirituality won't stop fate from happening to us, are you suggesting we should all stop being spiritual? We should stop praying, stop reading the bible/quran, stop worshipping God?

bdon12:
In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

Okestra01:
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Right005:
Says a woman who look like this 😂. Women smoke weed I swear. Not women fault. Men rarely let y’all know how ugly u look cuz naturally men just want sex. So they gas u up. If men are as visual as women and judge women based on how they look, most of y’all will be depressed by now since y’all thrive on validation and gass

deewhydoski:
So what are you now saying
Sometimes being drunk doesn't mean a man is irresponsible o. Anyone that wanted to feel ashamed should feel ashamed about it. Your sis know what she saw that makes her to pay half of her bridepride.....If they are living in peace and harmony that is all that matters.. what had happened in the past will remain in the past..

jmoore:
Coming from an atheist that spends so much time in religious section. Who dedicates so much time in what he doesn't believe in?

pocohantas:
Your dad should have learned to pray for himself if his life is important to him or at least, stop going for late night journeys. Only a Nigerian man would put his own life at risk and expect his wife to pray for him to stay alive. While she gets older than him. Goodluck to your parents. My own father didn't go out late at night or have police cases, so my mum didn't have to do vigils praying. Maybe that is why she doesn't look old.

LINSAR:
There's nothing wrong with a woman being on a higher spiritual level than her husband. Infact, it is desirable that way.

All the times my dad will make late night journeys against my mom's wish, have police cases, family issues, health issues e.t.c, it was my mom staying awake to pray for him. If not for her, my dad would have been long gone.

A prayer warrior is one of the desirable qualities of a good wife. Men are stubborn and adamant. They know how to put themselves in dangerous situations. We need a spiritually stronger wife!

etrange:
You banned your wife from listening to her preferred prêcher and her preferred song? You said "not under my roof"? I can't tell if this is a joke or not, but it's on the front page, so I assume it's real. And it's pathetic the breed of men Nigerian women are left with.

Samantha124:
Apparently it's for his own good because he can't manage his own finances.

He was even the one who suggested in the first place that my sister should take him to children's court and demand for child support from him.

The judges were surprised when he agreed to everything without a fight, not knowing that he was the Mastermind behind it...

Samantha124:
Nope, but apparently it has decreased... She only allocates him a small amount of money as his monthly allowance from his monthly salary.

Sometimes he'd have to ask her for some money if it happens that he finished his allowance before the month end...

talented321:
Some people has that midset which is right''
But i have witness so many marriages where introduction' traditional wedding and white wedding wasn't perform yet the same thing happen.
See sharon'' men just want to be head the house no matter what'' i believe u might witness or see that same behaviour in relationships too na.
As far a man is the one taking care of all the expenses in the house he will always let u know that he is the head.

Samantha124:
So far she's the one managing his finances...

Samantha124:
He was busy praising her and you know how drunk people can't keep a secret.

He then talked of how she helped him raise the money for the bride price by paying half of it... Everyone just went silent upon hearing this..

Puss360:
That is for the elders of the tradition to know...
If they abolish brideprice, that's fine..
But the main purpose of brideprice is more or less like "the man buying the girl"...
So if anybody add #1 join, meaning say you both bought the girl...

talented321:
I don't think so