₦airaland Forum

beardedboy:
Stop the fear mongering. The OP is probably from a polygamous home. I'm also from a polygamous home.

Yes, polygamy isn't without its challenges. But so also is monogamy. I have many uncles who have been abandoned by their wives at old age. These women abandon their sick husbands and run to their children's house.

Most people From polygamous homes don't want that shit for themselves or their children.

What does your uncles being abandoned by his wives prove?

Kobojunkie:
You responded to a post about panties being flushed down the toilet resulting in a clog.

Yes and??

Kobojunkie:
To what end would a woman do such? I mean you watched her do all this, so tell us, what was her reason for flushing her underwear right in front of you?

Who told you she flushed it in front of me? I found the panties in the toilet?

Did the struggling young man's father not fail aswell?

Kobojunkie:
So she took off her panties, flushed it and walked away butt naked?

No, she walked off w/o panties, not butt naked.

YOU are the red flag you're complaining about.

Kobojunkie:
Panties being flushed? Person go go public toilet go flush panties and left particles? This your cousin abi friend dey tell tales abeg!

In secondary school I witnessed that shit 🤦🏽‍♀️

I believe him

Johnn44:
Abuja semi big boy

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On a serious note, as Rosy Meow fine reach, man still dey beat am?

Yes. Men are greedy. Once, they've gotten the fine woman they've been coveting, they end up getting tired of her.

kurlz:
No he and the first wife already parted ways before Tonto came in. That's why Tonto and the first wife have no rift.

He now has 3 kids for 3 different women. I wonder these women see in him. He has a face you just want to slap

IconicR:
Churchill is a silent killer, the type that kills you slowly and makes the public blame you.

Exactly.👏🏽 Tonto is very vocal so people think she's the crazy one.

Churchill is quiet so his moves go under the radar.

I hope this news helps to vindicate Tonto.

Churchill is on his 3rd marriage so people can see who the problem is.

GloriousGbola:
If the mother had that kind of money, the daughter would not have gotten married at 21 and started spitting out children once a year.

Just an incoherent bs story from Andrew tate geng

Too much sense.

Rayban25:
ogbeni keep quiet.

omotola jalade got married at 18 and had her fourth child at 28 years of age. so what where you saying again that its not possible to have 4 kids at a young age?

Is Omotola the norm?

CuriousStudent:
So you assume most of this women are looking for marriage?

Most are in need of pennnissses to be serving them or a sugar daddy(ies) to help with the kids( for the broke ones)

Rarely a divorcee or widow or single mom of several kids will be looking committed relationships.

I'm responding based on what the mother has said, she said she can still get remarried.

With those 4 kids, that will set the daughter back.

uuzba:
She's a fucking lunatic.
And EVERY MAN will see that.
Never touch another man's wife.

Maybe if she had just one kid and she was very good looking. It's possible.

But 4 kids is too much of a burden for another man

CuriousStudent:
Read the full story,she will marry abroad not in naija . Only naija bred men hold prejudice towards divorcees.

Day by day women walk into their second or sometimes third marriage abroad with kids, not here in naija

What abroad are you talking about?

She cannot easily remarry with 4 kids.

Well well well!!!

DyingFetus:
You sef reason am why you go date black woman when you fit date better whitie and your pikin go come fine if you marry oyibo

Look at this one!

Once you get your white love and your fine swirly kids with the good hair and light skin, make sure you stick around to raise them.

Because the real reason you want a white woman is because of greed, not that you can get along better with them.

Bunkbars:
they shouldn't be bitter and take responsibility, because it was as a result of their actions.

Being a single mum, isn't bad, but they should take full responsibility of their child.

For dating someone irresponsible. You can't tell me, responsible men didn't come after her. Ko possible.

We should all learn to take full responsibility of our actions. Life is harder now, nobody should take responsibility of what he/she didn't do.

The guy that made them a single mum likely also told the woman he was responsible and "not like the other men "

There is a tribe in Nigeria that does this.

Bunkbars:
Nice, because there are a whole lot of them on this forum.

Their comments reeks of bitterness and regrets.

How do you know they're all single mums?

And if they are, why shouldn't they be bitter?

Because ice cream is the food of white people, whereas Nigerians borrowed it.

Have you guys actually spoken to any children from polygamous homes to know how toxic it is?

Omoawoke:
A responsible man will care for a woman he got pregnant irrespective of whether they are married or not

Lol. There is no incentive to do that if he didn't marry her before siring kids.

Haven't you noticed that men that get women pregnant often end up marrying a childless woman?

This can actually work. Reverse psychology.

Give them the reaction they don't expect.

Omoawoke:
What of men above average.
Some men can take care of a family of 10 comfortably. Three wives with two kids each… that’s 10.
There are also many ladies out there that are doing very well. You will see a lady in US or Canada earning 10k dollars or more per month yet no man. And they are many in that category. She can get pregnant for a responsible man, it’s all about understanding. I know some ladies that leave US to Nigeria to find man

A responsible man will make sure he marries her before getting her pregnant.

chatinent:
Well, I know the guy. And he didn't marry her cos of green card. He is already well established and resident abroad.

Happy married life.

So how comes that's the best he can do?

Gamesmart:
Are women honest about their past?

You need to read my comment again.

You can't be a hypocrite and complain that women aren't honest to you, when you aren't honest yourself.

Enice:
Madam! Polygamy is not a crime. Even Christianity supports it. Read your Bible, you will see that almost everyone mentioned in it apart from Christ and the disciples had more than one wife.

Never said it was a crime.

Have more than one wife only if you're capable. Remember that your bible says any man that can't take care of his family is an infidel.

Enice:
NIGERIAN women hate polygamy with a passion but when the conditions are right, she will gladly accept it. She will even be the one to suggest it.

The truth is that only rich men are entitled to be polygamous🥴

A poor polygamous man should be jailed for crimes against humanity.

Bunkbars:
Are you a single mum?

Never.

IconicR:
You don't like kids? They are so adorable. God instructed us to multiply.

Na una favourite be that.

He also said if you can't take care of those kids, it makes you an infidel.