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Just say you aren't attracted to her anymore.

Kobojunkie:
You no read wetin I type?

So that is it?

OfficialDad:
Bro... You Are very stupid too. Two stupid people.

Now i see why most girls don't last in their marriage and relationship.

Lol. You will understand my comment when you grow up.

Cousin9999:
Human beings don't sh*t and copulate outside. Humans don't eat random garbage. Pretending as if it's valid to compare a human being to a wild animal is an absurd argument. And it's sad, gross, and uneducated for someone to somehow identify with an animal.

Are human beings mammals, yes or no?
Humans are high functioning animals. Your feelings don't change the facts.

kingjessy:
Very shameful thing.i don't find it funny when women or ladies buy food at the restaurant.did she fell from the sky or what

Once in a while isn't bad, but not all the time

Kobojunkie:
she can microwave stuff

Is that it?

Kobojunkie:
I happen to know a woman who doesn't really know to cook well. She is your basic level cook but she has a son who is about 13 now, who not only knows how to cook, but does it well and he cleans the house too. He does not complain as he prefers to do it than have his mum handle it. He says she disorganized the place when she cleaned and that maybe irks him too. His mum is a busy banker any who is wired well for her Job but not for domestic stuff. The husband knows to cook too.

Compulsory, it is not. A home can survive well without the woman as a cook.

All these things are really meaningless things that can easily be resolved without having to impose it on one member of the union or the other. We live in an age where more and more even single folks order over 50% of their meals. And this is becoming a thing even for the married, showing how meaningless these traditions we once had really are.

You said that she is a basic level cook, not that she can't cook at all.

OfficialDad:
So the only reason why she must no how to cook is because of the children. You Are a very stupid human being.

Yes now. The children cannot feed themselves. But the husband can

Maobichek:
All men likes good food, i was just wondering, was it that all through her life, another person will cook and she will eat? Also, is the would-be husband provide noney for food and still go ahead and cook or hire a chef?

This is a clear picture of lack of proper home training, most rich people will pamper their daughters but still teach them how to cook.

Even if they don't teach them, curiosity should take them into the kitchen and make them cook up something

But I don't believe there are women that can't cook, it's just simply a woman that doesn't WANT TO cook.

Cousin9999:
It's really not. Just because someone seems confident and secure doesn't mean they are. And I also said it's a result of mental illness. The problem may be a lack of normal, well-adjusted thinking and behavior. They may come from a violent home, have a chemical imbalance, have a fētish for violence, or be rētārded in a way that isn't obvious. There's any number of things that could be wrong. It's not normal behavior.

We are not wild animals or a forest. We think on a high level and act based on biology and social conditioning.

No offense, but you sound oyinbo. They always try to pretend that animalistic behavior is somehow normal to justify their sick thinking and behavior.

Why are you mentioning violence? Bullying is not always violent. It could be simple teasing.

As I said before bullies target people they perceive as weaker and vulnerable.
Bullies will always exist as long as vulnerable people exist. I already gave the example of colonization.

Whether you like it or not humans are mammals and humans have animal instincts and natural selection is real.

A woman who can't cook is useless

hupernikao:
Is this what you were taught the holy spirit does? To spy on your thoughts?

Shebi the holy spirit is what pastors use to prophesy about the future and people

None

Ifesinachi22:
All of them. Even after they marry

Then the husbands are not doing anything to stop it. They're also guilty

Rosement:
What has the Holy Spirit got to do with petty discussions like this? I don't blame you, it is not your fault, I shouldn't have started a conversation with such an irresponsible and immature human being like you. May God has mercy on me and forgive me.

You can't handle a simple conversation, you even have the guts to bring other people's faith to it. Anyway, it is your phone, you can type whatever you want to type, keep on type. I really don't have time for an uncultured human being like you.

I have disagreed with some of people on nairaland but none of them have behavioured so mannerless. If everybody was like you, then this world would have been a very violent place and people would have even be murdered for voicing out their opinions.

I am very sorry for speaking to you. Before now, I did not know the type of person you are, I will make sure this doesn't repeat itself.

You asked me how you're supposed to know my mind, and I said can't your holy spirit help you? Or of what use is he

Rosement:
Why would you want to ask a christard questions? it seems this question is for you, how I am suppose to know your mind? It is possible you directed it to me by mistake.

The holy spirit cannot tell you my mind?
Yeye.

Rosement:
When you are matured enough to handle conversations, you can come and ask me questions.

Why would I want to ask a christard questions?

Druss:
This isn't bullying. Sending junior students on errands or punishing them for not doing their duties isn't bullying. That is life.

That's the thing. They overdue it. That's when it become bullying

Rosement:
What will be the point of my explanation, when you won't understand? Our mentality is different, I cannot explain further.

Nah you're just slow

Lol not surprised. Most Nigerians are bullies.

There is a culture of intimidation in Nigeria.


Some of them have 10 year old girls cooking and cleaning for them, yet come online to talk about bullying.

Of course uche will deny

Rosement:
I decided to stop the argument because it was baseless. I could not continue moving around a circle.

I never said I was a Saint. Now that you have voiced out your opinion about me, I hope you are good.

Prove what I said was baseless. Address my points, you don't get to just call it baseless without addressing why.

Yet here you still are

Rosement:
You complained yourself that you are losing your brain cells, why are you doing this to yourself? See now, you are beginning to go off the point and you are bringing back old conversations that have already discussed. You have said enough, at least you participated, please go and rest, it is for your own good. This is only an advice, the decision is in your hands.

Dolt. I brought those old responses back so you could comprehend because you are slow and didn't grasp my reply.

Speaking of off-point, what does YOUR response have to do with my last response to you?

Classic hypocritical Christian.

Rosement:
Those are obvious facts that I just used to explain my points, when I was explaining to you that Christianity would have still existed, even without colonisation. I did not condemn other people's religion. It is just like saying Buhari is the president of Nigeria, isn't that obvious, even people that are not from Nigeria can browser on the internet and find out.

Did I say the religion with the highest percentage of followers is definitely the true religion? No, we didn't have such argument, that means you are going off the point. Everybody's religion is true to them, I don't argue with people about their faith.

If your head cannot take it, I will advise to stop questioning, so that you will not start complaining to me later that you are having headache or that all your brain cells is gone because of this discussion.

And In response to your initial mention I said this:

1Sharon:
Because the people that are keeping christianity alive have a high population than the people that gave them the belief.

British people are alot smaller than the people they colonized. Duh!

No, Christianity would not have existed without colonization. Christianity is a popular religion today because it was forced onto people.

Islam is also a popular religion because it was forced onto people.


You brought up Ethiopia, do Africans practise the brand of Christianity from Ethiopia or do they practise the kind gotten from European colonizers? Ethiopia is one country.

If you are not trying to appeal to numbers, why do you keep bringing up numbers and statistics?
Do you understand now or you want me break it down further?

I suggest reading my responses multiple times

Rosement:
Our initial discussion had nothing to do with faith. It had to do with obvious fact that both Christians and non-christians could understand, if they do their researches about it.

Had nothing to do with faith? So what is this?

Rosement:
Great Britain did not colonise up to 20% of the entire countries in the world, yet Christianity is the religion with the highest population of followers in the world.

Please be gone. The more I interact with you, the more brain cells I lose.

What is looking for ?

Rosement:
Can't you partake in discussions without insults? I thought you were responsible enough to understand that this is a forum not your father's house, we are all free to give our personal opinion as long as it does not violate the rules and regulations of the forum.

I did not insult you for your opinion, I only corrected, you could choose to ignore it or debate it, you don't have right to insult me. Next time try to be matured and have some manners. Insulting people only shows your level understanding. So when things don't go your way, you attack, you are very funny.

Personally I [b]don't partake in any religion arguments [/b]that will lead to religion wars or insult on my faith.

So why have you been going back and forth with almost 24 hours?

Classic christian

Rosement:
Whether you have a religion or not, you still have your beliefs and it is different from mine. I am not permitted to debate my belief with non-christians.

In China, about 18.2% are Buddhists, 5.1% are Christians, 1.8% are Muslims and 0.7% adhere to other religious organisations.

Christians are increasing in number every year in China and at least, there are few converts yearly in India also. The fact is that people are converting from no religion or other religions to Christianity. Some others religions for example Islam are also recording a large number of converts.

Now that the colonization era is gone, why are both the formerly colonized and never colonized countries, still having a large number of their population converting to Christianity every year?

Ethiopia was not colonized, yet the religion with highest percentage of followers in Ethiopia is Christianity.
Japan was never colonized yet Japan citizens are still converting to Christians every year.

I have provided the facts for you, you can choose to accept it or reject it. I am done with this discussion.

So why are you here!! Are you dumb?

Rosement:
You said if Indians colonized Nigeria, you'd be shouting about Krishna right now, so just pipe down.

I only tried to explain to you that your assumption about Christianity was wrong because Christians in some countries like China and India even suffered because of their belief, they were persecuted and punished but yet they stood their ground. Some Christians are even still persecuted, you can do your own findings about this.

You have left the initial discussion, it was not about which religion is true or not true.

Is that a lie? What is your fvcking point ? You are all over the place.

How many Indians and Chinese are Christians? Isn't it a small minority?

Yes if Indians were the colonizers YOU would be shouting about Krishna right now and possibly hate Christians.


Did I tell you I follow any religion? So why do you think I care which religion is true?

You're slow aren't you?

Rosement:
My dad's parents were muslims but yet he chose to become a Christian, my mother's parents were not really interested in any religion but yet she is a devoted Christian.

I am not interested in arguing about religion because as a Christian I am not permitted to partake in baseless arguments. We are not of the same religion, we can never come to an argument, as long as our religion is different.

Jesus wants us to love our neighbours and live in peace with everyone. To me my religion is the true religion, to you your religion is the true religion. My conclusion is that we are both right in our ways. Thank you.

So why did you quote me then?

What is the big deal

Rosement:
John 6:37, All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.

I was giving to Jesus by the Father (God). The colonisation was just the means by which Christianity came to Nigeria, whether Nigeria was colonised or not, I would have still heard about Jesus and decided to follow Him, my dad was not a Christian from birth but he converted.

There are countries that were never colonised but yet a large percentage of their population are followers of Jesus, does that not ring a bell?

Then in that case, how can Christianity be the true religion when it came through such a negative way?

Your dad is a Christian , that's why you're a Christian.

Name those countries.

Rosement:
We Christians are not surprised because the Bible has told us about these things already.
Matthew 20:16,
So the last shall be first, and the first last: for many be called, but few chosen.
Matthew 24:12-14
12. And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.
13. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved.
14. And this gospel of the kingdom shall be preached in all the world for a witness unto all nations; and then shall the end come.

Let's take a look at the five most populated countries in world.
1. China
2. USA
3. India
4. Indonesia
5. Pakistan

China - China did not receive Christianity through colonisation, yet today, it is estimated that Christianity is the fastest growing religion in China
The first documentation of Christianity entering China was written on an 8th-century stone tablet known as the Nestorian Stele. It records that Christians reached the Tang dynasty capital Xi'an in 635 and were allowed to establish places of worship and to propagate their faith. A lot of China Christians suffered because of their religion but yet they stood their ground.

India - Though India was colonised by British rulers, Hinduism still has the highest population of followers in India, followed by Islam.

USA - Though Christianity was introduced to USA by the European colonies, the right of religion was established a long time in USA.

Indonesia- Indonesia contains the largest Muslim population of all countries in the world.

Pakistan- Pakistan is a Muslim country.

Bla bla bla.

Madam you cannot be more Christian than the people that gave you the religion, calm down.

You are a product of colonization