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Healthrelatedjo:
Don't cut ur hair pls,I dislike ladies that cut their hair...God gave you that hair for a reason which is to make u look good.

EdoFirstBorn:
Gave my 8 year old a switch blade and taught her how to aim for the arteries and stab pull downwards and outwards when removing the blade. I taught her all the vulnerable spots in an adult man's body, the armpit the lower inside thigh , the abdomen the neck, the diaphragm, the kidney, eye balls etc

My little princess is deadly and can protect herself. I told her how to breath deeply and take a hard punch .

As a single father I gotta make sure she can protect herself to an extent

ednut1:
Our culture of oppression starts from the home. They see how kids talk to maids and gate man . Disgusting lot

Kobicove:
Most bullies started our by copying adults around them

od501:
Ah! Are you seriously saying these? This hilarious

Saintmary:
Funny you, relax, okay?

Saintmary:
Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

Even your topic is body shaming, it reeks of ignorance.

Instead of accepting knowledge, you resorted to throwing insults.

Saintmary:
I'm supposed to laugh at girls that have this mindset that all female bodies have to be the same. But I find myself pitying them because they do not know that they have been mentally conditioned through mass media that all bodies have to conform to a particular standard.


There is no standard for the human body apart from the most basic requirement which is functionality.


Aesthetics is only an icing on the cake!


The funny part is that these influencers you're desperately trying to copy are desperately hiding their flaws from you.

The body is an organic system.

IT GROWS.


It means it will not maintain a particular appearance for long, it's not plastic.


Emancipate yourself from this dangerous conditioning before it's too late for you.

The disadvantage for you is that you are putting unnecessary pressure on yourself, and damaging your own mental health all by yourself.


As for us normal girls, we will keep reiterating and training our progeny:

As long as your body is fit and healthy, you're ok.

od501:
Have you head of the word "Teasing"? That someone is reading you doesn't mean they hate you. Please teach your kids that, it's part of emotional training.

Have you seen seen politicians engage in a debate before? Don't worry, I pray that boy will end up contesting for an election in the future, when his opponent tease him, he will then run back to daddy to cry. And lemme guess, daddy will then to the opponent to shout at him, abi?

You guys are just too funny to be taken seriously...honestly

JerryBizz:
Is you ilamina or nah?
Besides, look at your AA women. Can you see a difference in their navels? Don't lie.
Well, let me just spell it out for ya...Their navels don't look like the slender , vertical ones you posted with the ' whiter-lookong ' ladies.
The ones on the black women look slightly rounder. And not as clinically-purfect as the ' whiter-looking' ladies which the OP seems to prefer.
Back to my earlier stated opinion- I think it's genetic to some extent. Not just about the availability of good doctors to do the umblical cord cutting. Then I see a few mixed race girls up there having a similar navel to their white counterparts, still in those pictures. But they aren't pure black bloods. So, there a bit of correlation with my assertion...well, I hope

Now byeeeeee.. you just want to win this thing, Sharon. Leave me alone oooh.

It's a Holy day. Get a Bible or something! Read. Or play with a rosary. Go see a priest for confession...do something besides trying to troll meeeee.

Ciao

Saintmary:
Try and comprehend:

An outie is normal

But if an outie is bigger than a particular size, it's as a result of several factors, and one of those factors is umbilical hernia.

Having an outie does not mean you're having umbilical hernia, it might be due to other factors.

Do you understand now?

Now, as for body shaming:

The assumption that all bodies must be the same, and saying that only one type of belly button is valid counts as body shaming because you're telling everyone that has a different body that something is wrong with them.


I hope you understand now.

JerryBizz:
Because I spoke about dark skinned AA women. You decided to upload these?
Girl, is you alright, or is you alright??

Abeg shift jare .. Allow ilamina to do her thing. Not you.
Besides, what is there to be satisfied about??
You play too much hunny.

Abeg no reply again...na beg I dey beg you...just beginning my morning.

JerryBizz:
Unfortunately, I think he is right about you just chasing clout, albeit doing it cleverly.

Just seems like you just intentionally selected a certain type of pictures to upload here. All the women seem to be of the same virtue and kind. Hardly a melanin tone African American up there. Or a decently covered chick in your selection who doesn't look like am escort. Are you anm Instagram slay queen, yourself?? A Playboy bunny? A bad biatch wannabe? Or did I miss the memo, besides it being about you showing slender-looking navels?
They (the models in d photos)all seem alike. And a few pictures would have been enough. But I trust you to have wanted to go overboard to seem " woke " .and not like the average Nigerian who isn't exposed and all.
Some of us see what you did there. You might think no one understood.

WarriAproko:
Yeye Gistlover. Then what happened to the Teacher that was beaten to death by students. Is it because he is from a poor place. Why is no one talking about him

Apreecauts:
Yes, it isn't their fault entirely, but they should also take part of the blame. He told them when he got bullied initially, told them when he was asked to describe his sister's private parts, told them when they threatened to kill him. They could have done more, the father even said he considered withdrawing him but reconsidered because his sisters were in the same school. They should have taken the matter more seriously than they did but now it's too late, I hope they learn from their mistakes

Edusouls:
Chai I swear Yoruba parents are the worst and the most corrupt, see monsters they raise as kids, and terrible hearts they have, no wonder their men dream for Igbo women, tufiakwa unu.

GuyFawkes:
You are a fool of the highest order.
So the Governor owns Dowen College?
Your parents did a disservice in raising you or you just turned out unfortunate.

PrinceMajestic:
you idiot. The standard age a child starts boarding school is 11 or 12. I started boarding school at 11 from js1, your parents couldn't afford to put you in boarding school or were senseless enough to not know the importance of boarding secondary school doesn't mean you insult parents who are wise enough to put their wards in boarding school for good training

Ikegwuru:
What is this nonsense? Jobless people on the prowl, seeking daily to deprive hard working people their daily bread. What's the connection between the woman's place of work and her son's crime. This good woman has done her part. She sweats heavily and paid dearly to have her son trained properly and that's why he sent the son to the school. It's not her fault that the boy succumbed to bad influence in school. You want to wipe away an entire family because of sin of just a member. A minor at that? HABA, there is God.

And by the way we went to boarding school. We received terrible punishment from our seniors. Thank God I changed to a saner school.

BABANGBALI:
I was a real bully in boat primary and secondary schools, so much that some femail teachers were always afraid of me. I entered primary school at the age of 17 and my nickname then was Alhaji agba given to me by our headmistress.

Saintmary:
There is a measurement required to classify an outie belly button as a RESULT of umbilical hernia.

Umbilical hernia is a condition causing an unusually large protrusion of the belly button, not the name of a belly button type.


Which can still be corrected with surgery.


STOP BODY SHAMING.

tuzle:
I have a friend that I call big head sometimes, so will u call that bullying? What I am trying to say is that calling big head isn't an insult, it could even be a joke, although the child may take it as an insult. I was tall from my youth days and I have been called names like iroko, longitude and so on, will I count that as bullying? So refer to someone as big head isn't bullying to me.

Bunmhi:
There should standard on how teacher should dress especially female teachers. I'm not saying they should look dirty or unkempt or not looking smart buh very tight body con dress is a no no. Dress smartly in an appropriate way, you're passing a message to your students here

Saintmary:
There is nothing wrong with an outie belly button.

There are actually 6 types of belly button all over the world.


https://www.verywellfamily.com/why-does-my-baby-have-an-outie-belly-button-290542


https://www.thesun.co.uk › fabulous
There are six types of belly button… and here's what ...

okpmoses:
This happened to me in my sec school js 2 first term involving my teacher. Back then my maths teacher uses a small plank as substitute for cain.One day i arrived school late including other student as our vice Principal was about leaving for his office he asked my maths teacher to flog us.As soon as our VP left,man brought out his usual and flogged us. In less than 10 mins my dad arrived my school to give me money for lunch,he saw me crying and asked what was wrong.I explained everything to him he went straight to teacher and jokingly asked him,with the plank in his hands he confirmed it,my dad took the plank from him and started hitting my teacher with it.omo school scatter!!!!! Throughout jss 2 no flogging oo

od501:
Let me get it straight, soo... cos your child was called a big head by the teacher "his elder", you went ahead to embarrass the teacher in front of the child. You did all these just to massage the boy's ego and prove to him you are a caring parents, to the detriment of the teacher’s integrity.

And to worsen the situation, you are even proud of your action. You think it is easy? Why did you bring him to the school? You should have home-schooled him yourself, at least no nobody will get the chance to call him big head.

Oga...u no try oo..
This is how we end up raising scallywags, turn around and claim they are just being bold. All this out over sabi is not helping oo...that's why we see different shii happening in our society today. things that normally won't date happen 20 years back. You no try sir. You no try at all..

tuzle:
I am not trying to support the teacher but I don't really see big head as an insult. People have different tolerance level, so teacher should also watch what they call students. Sometimes they may just be playing with the student. For example I call my sister olodo, but that it is not like I truely mean it

observanc1:
Let us not mistake bully for discipline. It's students that often bully their felliw students. Most times, teachers discipline erring students.
I remember one time my cousin got 0/10 in a test and was canned for the failure. The boy ran home and told his mum and the woman went and waylaid the teacher when he was going home and rained insults on him. That boy, now a man is my village, very useless and constituting nuisance, his mum is there too helpless.
I was disciplined so many times while in school, from pri to sec, but cant remember a single incident of bully. I was fighting like a tiger, nobody fought me twice, because body go tell u. Dont care your strenght or built, i would inflict on you a very permanent injury.

Thinktwicemybro:
I didn't need my parents to take care of my bully back then. He arouse the beast in me one day and I fought him and almost paralyzed his hands. Not even my principal could remove my grip from him, he was later admitted in the hospital and left the school the next term. I would train my child to beat his bully.

Emperor2020:
madam wat do you know? Abeg u don win,juju no dey oowh