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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Timichael(m): 6:27am On Nov 19, 2014
Cho Yong Chu ki po, nchon chin pyo n taa..
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 19, 2014
SirShymex:


Well, masculine real men create their own realities, and if it happens to fall into the space where chics create fantasies. That doesn't diminish their masculinity. However, only manginas create fantasies like chics. grin

You can't call it lying, it's like a pseudo-hustle, but selling a dream is the name of the game.

Anyway, android, I don't know how to tell lies - I'm Muslim in my outlook and telling pork(ies) is haram. grin I just quoted that "women lie" from the tune, "Deuces." And most women live and die by lies...honesty is sacred amongst women folks. tongue

I agree with you on creating reality and if it coincides with chics fantasies its o.k to buy/sell into it.

These days there are cool names for lying just don't sell a dream you can't make happen.

A man who doesn't lie. Hmmm Interesting.
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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by franklil(m): 9:43am On Nov 19, 2014
oseiwe:
I have been used and dumped as a guy too! sad
you mumu na how gal go dump me rada I dothe dumpin
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Chilug(m): 11:00am On Nov 19, 2014
What kind of people dumps someone they once loved. Who ever does that!
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by wizmikelo(m): 11:36am On Nov 19, 2014
lalasticlala:
It's so common for women to make such comments whenever a guy decides to end an affair with them:
"You think you can use and dump me", "he used and dumped me"?

What do they really mean by" use and dump "?

Is it that the guy had sex with her and left her? If yes, didn't she enjoy the sex too? Is it only the man that enjoys sex? If it's because of it, I don't think it's right to claim that a guy used and dumped a girl.

More so, the girl must have enjoyed lots of money, outings, clothes, jewellery, including sex while the relationship lasted, so why cry foul when the guy decides to end the affair by claiming that the guy dumped her after using her.

I haven't heard where a guy claimed that he was used and dumped. Only women say that.

Babes what do u mean by being used and dumped?

Guys has a girl ever told you that you used and dumped her?
na only naija girls then dey use and dumped..Lol.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by seangy4konji: 11:45am On Nov 19, 2014
Ok.

God is able.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Sike(m): 6:43pm On Nov 19, 2014
We tire o
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 19, 2014
Pele tongue
oseiwe:
I have been used and dumped as a guy too! sad
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 19, 2014
andromida:

I agree with you on creating reality and if it coincides with chics fantasies its o.k to buy/sell into it.

These days there are cool names for lying just don't sell a dream you can't make happen.

A man who doesn't lie. Hmmm Interesting.

Well, if you're forever dreaming big, then you shouldn't be mad when folks sell you that dream.

So, you can't blame only the seller, the buyer is just as guilty in the act. grin

Lying a la pork(ies) is haram to me, I keep it real all the time...The Realist. What's there to lie about? tongue
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:42am On Nov 20, 2014
andromida:
Because most times the guys lie to get into their pants they promise them the world and don't deliver but they take what is on offer until they are done. Guys get used as well.

Story for the gods grin
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by wordbank(m): 6:05am On Nov 20, 2014
She said I dumped her, no problem ooo but she no gri dump d tins wey I buy for am. Abi dos tins can't be dumped too?
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by DaBullIT(m): 6:07am On Nov 20, 2014
Because they were used and dumped. At least for their mind
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Tomjazzy2: 11:00am On Nov 20, 2014
Just the low self esteem that is inherent in most ladies in this part of the world. Truth is an average Nigerian girl regretably feels that her body rather than her mind, is her greatest asset. Hence, she will always cry fowl whenever a partner leaves her for what ever reason, even when she was the sole cause of the melt down.

I dare to ask our ladies this: your body apart, what else do you think you can offer your man? If you find the answer to this question elusive, then be rest assured that you are not going to be worth nothin to any man. No man in his right senses WILL EVER DUMP any lady who offers him something which most women cant.

remember, finding a woman who can offer a man sex, is as easy as finding a church building in Nigeria. But finding that lady who prides herself as a real woman--who doesnt see her man as "an end" in itself, but "a means to an end"; who has set some feasible life targets for herself, which she must achieve with or with out the help of a man in her life-- is as difficult as finding the missing chibok girls.

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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:07am On Nov 20, 2014
Tomjazzy2:
Just the low self esteem that is inherent in most ladies in this part of the world. Truth is an average Nigerian girl regretably feels that her body rather than her mind, is her greatest asset. Hence, she will always cry fowl whenever a partner leaves her for what ever reason, even when she was the sole cause of the melt down.

I dare to ask our ladies this: your body apart, what else do you think you can offer your man? If you find the answer to this question elusive, then be rest assured that you are not going to be worth nothin to any man. No man in his right senses WILL EVER DUMP any lady who offers him something which most women cant.

remember, finding a woman who can offer a man sex, is as easy as finding a church building in Nigeria. But finding that lady who prides herself as a real woman--who doesnt see her man as "an end" in itself, but "a means to an end"; who has set some feasible life targets for herself, which she must achieve with or with out the help of a man in her life-- is as difficult as finding the missing chibok girls.
story..soem men dont care wat ladies hav upstairs, their long term goal is to get under her skirt nd ......... D rest is history
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Tomjazzy2: 11:18am On Nov 20, 2014
Cutehector4u:
story..soem men dont care wat ladies hav upstairs, their long term goal is to get under her skirt nd ......... D rest is history
that is very possible my good friend, but like I pointed out in my earlier submission, no man in his right senses will ever do such. If a man dumps the type of lady I described above, then who lost? the woman or the man?
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 20, 2014
Tomjazzy2:
that is very possible my good friend, but like I pointed out in my earlier submission, no man in his right senses will ever do such. If a man dumps the type of lady I described above, then who lost? the woman or the man?

loool i cant say...
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Tomjazzy2: 11:44am On Nov 20, 2014
Cutehector4u:
loool i cant say...
oh no you can. You just dont want to say it. If you meet those type of ladies, sex will be like an added bonus.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 20, 2014
Tomjazzy2:
oh no you can. You just want to say it. If you meet those type of ladies, sex will be like an added bonus.
lool..u dnt knw me.... My mind isnt occupied with sex largely, i hav other things too important to put my energy on
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Tomjazzy2: 11:48am On Nov 20, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lool..u dnt knw me.... My mind isnt occupied with sex largely, i hav other things too important to put my energy on
then you understand fully my argument.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 20, 2014
Tomjazzy2:
then you understand fully my argument.
wateva
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Nov 20, 2014
SirShymex:


Well, if you're forever dreaming big, then you shouldn't be mad when folks sell you that dream.

So, you can't blame only the seller, the buyer is just as guilty in the act. grin

Lying a la pork(ies) is haram to me, I keep it real all the time...The Realist. What's there to lie about? tongue

What qualifies as dreaming big?

You keep it real all the time? what about when you are selling dreams? grin
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Nov 20, 2014
Girls unintentionally give men power when they cry they have been used and dumped.....sex is something two people can enjoy without attaching strings to it.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 20, 2014
andromida:

What qualifies as dreaming big?

You keep it real all the time? what about when you are selling dreams? grin

Dreaming about the best things in life that they can neither afford nor possess the tools to get. Thus looking for men to give them the free tickets to those dreams lol.

Yes, I'm the realist and I don't sugarcoat things lol. Anyway, I told you I'm a changed man with a whole new game plan and I don't sell dreams anymore. However, you also have to be real to sell dreams cos selling dreams helps in creating ya own reality.

SirShymex is in NL jail - so I'm on this handle now. tongue
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Nov 20, 2014
shymexx:


Dreaming about the best things in life that they can neither afford nor possess the tools to get. Thus looking for men to give them the free tickets to those dreams lol.

Yes, I'm the realist and I don't sugarcoat things lol. Anyway, I told you I'm a changed man with a whole new game plan and I don't sell dreams anymore. However, you also have to be real to sell dreams cos selling dreams helps in creating ya own reality.

SirShymex is in NL jail - so I'm on this handle now. tongue

Those chics should just go into escort services makes more sense that way or who knows they may find men who want women like them or life will teach them what is what.

More power to the changed you to create the reality you want.

Sirshymex has been a bad boy.........................as usual? grin
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 20, 2014
andromida:

Those chics should just go into escort services makes more sense that way or who knows they may find men who want women like them or life will teach them what is what.

More power to the changed you to create the reality you want.

Sirshymex has been a bad boy.........................as usual? grin

Well, "those chics" are majority of the chics out there and they are more or less doing escort services cos they always offer their services to buy the dreams. The only difference is that most times they don't get paid - and they aren't registered with escort agencies loool.

Yes, change is the only constant thing in life. And everything always come to end.

Lmao...SirShymex was just doing "yo momma" banter with some guy. But e-police brutality locked the handle up for now.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 21, 2014
shymexx:


Well, "those chics" are majority of the chics out there and they are more or less doing escort services cos they always offer their services to buy the dreams. The only difference is that most times they don't get paid - and they aren't registered with escort agencies loool.

Yes, change is the only constant thing in life. And everything always come to end.

Lmao...SirShymex was just doing "yo momma" banter with some guy. But e-police brutality locked the handle up for now.

I don't believe majority of chics out there are offering services for dreams but perhaps majority of chics you know i can't say.
Chics doing that should ensure they get paid the problem is when you are pretending to be what you are not better to show ones true colors and go for the kill no point pretending to be a good gal and doing bad gals stuff then getting burnt or not paid.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by moneyrain: 10:25am On Nov 21, 2014
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by moneyrain: 10:27am On Nov 21, 2014
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Nov 21, 2014
andromida:


I don't believe majority of chics out there are offering services for dreams but perhaps majority of chics you know i can't say.
Chics doing that should ensure they get paid the problem is when you are pretending to be what you are not better to show ones true colors and go for the kill no point pretending to be a good gal and doing bad gals stuff then getting burnt or not paid.

Lol, majority of chics. grin

How many chics out there don't like freebies and comfort they can't afford? - very few. Then you have got the ones image of a perfect man that doesn't exist in their heads. And the groupies. All these are dreams...women hate reality.

So, it's always easier for guys to pretend to be what they're not and tell these chics what they want to hear. That's how you sell a dream.

Er, you told me you're a complete package, yet you failed to put ya money where ya mouth is. Women lie. tongue grin
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Nov 21, 2014
shymexx:


Lol, majority of chics. grin

How many chics out there don't like freebies and comfort they can't afford? - very few. Then you have got the ones image of a perfect man that doesn't exist in their heads. And the groupies. All these are dreams...women hate reality.

So, it's always easier for guys to pretend to be what they're not and tell these chics what they want to hear. That's how you sell a dream.

Er, you told me you're a complete package, yet you failed to put ya money where ya mouth is. Women lie. tongue grin

About chics wanting comfort they can't afford its a human thing to be attracted to what you don't have they are just aspiring for a better life and given the way they've been conditioned the easiest way is through a man and the other categories maybe they'll find what they are looking for. grin

Complete package matter cheesy cheesy cheesy. Humans lie.
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Nov 21, 2014
andromida:

About chics wanting comfort they can't afford its a human thing to be attracted to what you don't have they are just aspiring for a better life and given the way they've been conditioned the easiest way is through a man and the other categories maybe they'll find what they are looking for. grin

Complete package matter cheesy cheesy cheesy. Humans lie.

But when you "aspire" for a better life, you can't always depend on folks to be ya free ticket to that. Nothing is free on this planet, and everyone is trying to maximise whatever they can get. Once you do that, and you end up getting the short end of the stick, you need to accept it and not complain. grin Life's about survival of the fittest, luv. Utter competitive.

Nah, not all humanoids lie, android. Only women lie! grin Where ya complete package at?

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