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Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by enchantra(f): 2:49am On Jan 05, 2006
There is not fast way in getting over heartbreak!!!!!! JUST GIVE IT TIME
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by fancidiva(f): 3:37am On Jan 05, 2006
have never experienced it sha!!! rolleyes........ but i think junk foods and movies will do wink........... or just go out and get yourself another fine dude.... cool grin grin grin grin
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by fancidiva(f): 3:45am On Jan 05, 2006
but on a serious note... i think there's a lot of fishes in the sea so just grab yourself another dude..... and this time around make sure he got  the real thing.from the body, the looks and so on.......... cool cool cool
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by disney(f): 4:36am On Jan 05, 2006
the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.lol grin
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Oracle(m): 4:45am On Jan 05, 2006
disney:

the fastest way to get over a heart break is to work full time no shaking...especially with clients, customers.. . that way u go fassie the guy fast fast.cheesy grin
i somhow agree with disney
but itz not easy anyway u'll still remember it
no matter what happened, but with time u'll get ova it
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by ABIMBOLA77(f): 8:31pm On Jan 30, 2006
eat
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by florino37: 11:35am On Jan 31, 2006
i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter. just cry, that can help
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by florino37: 11:36am On Jan 31, 2006
i dont think there is anything like 'fastest way out' in this matter.  just cry, that can help
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by vichel(m): 7:51pm On Feb 07, 2006
The fastest way , probably there is none, but worst way to get over a heartbreak is not to cry. Have urselve a very good cry, then wipe ur eyes dry, u would fell much better
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Raedella: 1:53am On Feb 12, 2006
It's been 3 months since my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years broke up with me. It shook my world down to it's deepest foundations, because I believed he was truly 'the one' and all the other cliche's. I don't know how i'm doing in terms of getting out of it quickly, anything that touches your soul and is truly beautiful can't be gotten over in a matter of days. But I am getting better.
There are many pathways i guess to getting over someone.
The first thing is to surround yourself with people that care in whatever way you can. Family and friends have been so important to me. I've tried to spread myself around a bit because i didn't want to overburden anyone, but at the end of the day they don't mind me calling whenever. I got a doggie as well, and looking after something else has been a huge help. The other thing thats good is retail therapy..... but even if you don't have any money you have to be kind to yourself. Go for a walk on the beach, remember who YOU really are because however much you try and stop it from happening you do loe yourself a little in relationships. You become and US instead of an Me, and now is the time when it's perfectly ok to think about "Me me me" but only for a while. Just remember that you are an incredibly unique and wonderful person who needs time to heal. It's ok to cry for a while, eventually you won't want to anymore, and it won't be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning, or the last thing before you go to bed. It might seem really superficial but the betteri look on the outside the better i feel on the inside..... but i'm only doing it for me, it gives my self esteem a boost and leaves me feeling good inside. I changed my hair colour, got contacts and although not intentionaaly lost a heap of weight. I can't really take credit for that though, it's just when i'm stressed i don't eat, and i have to take my new pet for long walks, so the upshot is weight loss. The fact is you will be ok.....maybe not great for a while, but you will get there. I still cry a few times a week, but they don't last anywhere as near as long as they used to. Finally, use your heartbreak to make you braver. Like Robbie says, 'When a heart is broken there's nothing to break', so make new friends, beleive you are interesting and invite someone you don't know very well for coffee. Join a belly dancing class or something just as wild and pretty soon you won't be doing things to 'get over' your heart break, but just cos you can.

Good luck
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by babycute(f): 8:47pm On Feb 14, 2006
dis is not a way to get over a heartbreak its just a little experience i had once, some time along time ago i was totally devastated wen i found out my ex was cheating on me,and to add salt to the injury, he left me for the other gal, i wanted to die, i was devastated.i was crushed.i couldnt think of anyoda thing.,he was my first boyfriend.tot i would nevewr be the same, guess wat, that same week,the much awiated semester exams timetable came out.we all tot they would post pone the exams men they didnt oh, sharpsharp i forgot totally about heartbreak, for a whole 3weeks.i dint even for once think about it.much less depress myself or cry, wen the exams were over it started again, men i just shoved it to one side, my point exactly wen you have something more serious at ahnd believe me heartbreak would be the last on your mind, i think sha.

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Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by mobzy205(f): 5:57pm On Feb 15, 2006
date some u dont like or like most of time with that way u will bw able to mend ur broken heart
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Outkast(f): 6:37pm On Feb 15, 2006
bejout,
basically, you get 3 or more of your best mates for the weekend, on friday you can spend the day eating ice-cream and cake until you fall sick,watch old movies that make you cry and make sure there are no guys around.Have some kind of spa treatment for all of you and just have a good time with them, saturday, party till you drop.
That's what we did when my best mates b/f broke up with her(after we slashed his tires and wrote crude things on his screen)
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Outkast(f): 6:38pm On Feb 15, 2006
this is initially. but time heals all wounds.
Just make sure you distract yourself with different activities, make sure your not home wallowing in self-pity
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Rhodalyn(f): 5:31pm On Feb 20, 2006
i've no idea i've neva had ma heart broken
but i guess time will heal da wound as outcast said
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by julietnice(f): 8:45pm On Feb 26, 2006
i pray i should not come across ,heartbreak of a thing sha.there is no fast way in getting over heart break that is the truth of matter ,if u like go out 4 chopping with ur friends or spend the weekend with ur friends
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by reniks(f): 6:43pm On Feb 28, 2006
There are no hard an fast rules about these things.What i will do is think very hard about wat really happened,cry as much as i have 2,do something impulsive like eating chocolates,taking ice cream or go shoppin,if i av d money.Hang out with friends,engage in things dt wil make me happy.Its not d end of d world n am not gonna have a pity party.Infact i'd want 2 av him c me lookin damn good n happy.
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by 4Play(m): 8:10pm On May 09, 2006
The best way for a woman to get over a man is to get under another man
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by dominobaby(f): 8:26am On May 10, 2006
Lol@ 4 play: 'get under a man!'
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by lunafish(f): 12:25pm On May 10, 2006
Cleanse that person from your life and your system.
Get rid of objects that has negative emotional ties attached to them.
Erase their number, email and other forms of communication (so you don't backslide and set yourself up for heartbreak that's 10 times worse)
Be alone for a while so that you can regroup and remember who you are-not who you are in relation to that person.
Take the lessons you've learned about relationships to become wiser, not harder or cruel.
Try to refrain from making the same mistakes (i.e. dating an a*s hole)
Remember that you ame into this world solo and will leave as such so life is not about giving 100% to someone else or making them your everything.
Rembebr that's you're fabulous and uoi will find what you want in a relationship one day.
Thank God that you're not will with someone who caused you so much pain.
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by PLAYBOY3(m): 4:51pm On May 15, 2006
No amount of cry will solve the problem.
U should try the things that will make u happy,like partying/clubbing etc but dont smoke or got drunk
Mix up with friends and colleagues
Since its a thing of mind/heart try 2 force urself 2 sleep or if possible dose off
Travel for a vacation and meet new people
Tell some people u trusted about ur problem
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by gem87(f): 11:22pm On May 28, 2006
the basics:
don't blame yourself - cuz really it's not you, it's their loss
don't dwell on it, everything happens for a reason - they were not meant for u anyway
don't go into drinkin or eating to get over it,
stay strong and believe in yourself
it may help to start seeing other people but make it clear it's temporary so it won't mean u're using them, better if it's just a single date thing
don't give up on luv or you will be giving the dumper the upper hand
still keep your friends around and have as much fun as possible
get on with your life the best is yet to come!
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Oracle(m): 11:53pm On May 28, 2006
to get over heartbreak you have to simply mend the broken heart
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by sweetnini(f): 5:30pm On Jun 13, 2006
there is no fastest way for getting over a heartbreak
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by BigShishi(m): 5:43pm On Jun 13, 2006
drink guiness, watch pornos, l grin grin grin grin
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by sweetnini(f): 6:03pm On Jun 13, 2006
u spoilt spoilt boy i'll tell on u
well to think of it his kinda right u know
porns will cool u down,also weed, tequila,coke(not soft drink coke oooo),going out and looking for someone to have sex with,, and so on
or do u want me to continue?
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by eveseh(f): 7:27pm On Jun 13, 2006
listend to music
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by BigShishi(m): 8:51pm On Jun 13, 2006
sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by eslynera(f): 9:13pm On Jun 13, 2006
i think forgettin a heartbreak isn't that easy,
it'll just destroy you mentally & physically, especially for a person who can't forget things easily (like me.)
it'll be hard to get over it, maybe doin funs stuffs'll help but there are times you'll remember about the thing and it'll keep tearing you apart. I'ts kinda hard u know??
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by sweetnini(f): 10:03pm On Jun 13, 2006
CRAYOLA:

sweetnini, i'm heartbroken, can i try my remedy on u?
well, if u want to
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by Kadeejah(f): 4:36am On Jun 20, 2006
eat chocolate. . .get drunk nd do sumfin reckless wink
jk i duunno undecided
Re: Fastest Way to Get Over Heartbreak? by kemulala(f): 7:21am On Jul 07, 2006
For every door that closes seven will open shocked ( i bed don´t get me wrong, it doesn´t necessarily means that sen guys will ask you out)
Maybe this relationship didn´t work but that gives an opportunity to grow, yes is painful (some times extremely painful) but as time goes by you will be able to see the positive things that came out of it.
Remember that love is not equal to pain , love is something that adds to the happiness that you already have within you, never give the right to anybody to take away something that is yours and will always be yours.that´s:a happy heart, sound spirit and every good thing that comes from you.
So dust off look at yourself in the mirror and say. I choose to be happy!!!!!!!!!! and take it from there

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