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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by anthoniaz(f): 7:15am On Dec 07, 2014
Be rude to her .

Threaten to forward her messges to the hubby...you can send her screenshots so she can confirm you can send the whatsapp messages to the hubby.

Don't ever think of giving in to her, it's bad and risky.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by honourhim: 7:15am On Dec 07, 2014
You sure say you never chop her come here dey shout thief whereas na you be the real thief?
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Henrypraise: 7:18am On Dec 07, 2014
eminentme:
I got two questions bro; *i hope ur not the one who cooked this 'chat'? and secondly, is the 'lady' from Warri?

Wats wrong wit ur brain? Wat concerns warri n d chat?
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by felipemadero(m): 7:18am On Dec 07, 2014
Mehn...see full flashlight nah.abeg give her wet in she want and prepare to leave dat vicinity.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 07, 2014
It happens o. Mine is even a colleagues wife. Says im quiet and cool. She hasnt been explicit though but she has been calling and calling. It is well with all these girls.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by femi4: 7:19am On Dec 07, 2014
Like NIKE, Just do it!

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by adorable29(f): 7:19am On Dec 07, 2014
I think you like the attention. If not, you would have figured a way to tell her off a long time ago. She must be a little bit attractive, be sincere. Lol


Okay, my advice. Since its mostly thru chats you two converse, try ignoring her chats for hours or even days and then reply her thereafter. Make up excuses about ur phone. You can tell her your fon is having issues hence you are not alerted when a ping comes in. Or that the screen goes blank sometimes.


Or you send a threatening chat. Then later tell her it was your babe who sent those threats unknowingly to you. That she is threatening to go to her husband to confront him.


Or you can just stop the bull sh.it and totally tell her to FOOCK OFF! But make sure you have it in a chat msg so you use as evidence incase she decides to set you up.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by rawpadgin(m): 7:19am On Dec 07, 2014
kabasa77:
Bro,simple thing, if you have a girl friend, or even a gud friend you can trust ,just carry her come show the lady cme introduce her to the lady as ur swt heart, jst be talking abt ur babe dis, ur babe dat..Jealousy go make her leave u alone.
she knows my girlfriend
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Nobody: 7:20am On Dec 07, 2014
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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by felipemadero(m): 7:20am On Dec 07, 2014
Mehn...see full flashlight nah.abeg give her wetin she want and prepare to leave dat vicinity.





#I only comment when there ain't much comments.





happy sunday NL people.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Andrew3(m): 7:20am On Dec 07, 2014
I see trouble in the making. Be careful with her bro, She can easily turnaround and accuse you of
chasing her. keep all the messages for future sake and above all, pray about it also. Never let the devil
tempt you.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by myhero4eva: 7:25am On Dec 07, 2014
Please bro, dnt give in, honestly it culd b diffcult to contain but ask God 4 grace, read ur bible and pray always too. I am facing such a terrible situatn also, but God hs bn so gracious to me as i overcome. God hlp u

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by rawpadgin(m): 7:25am On Dec 07, 2014
Eyop:
OP, whatsapp has a facility that you can block the other party. So why not block her so she wouldn't have any more access to you?
& u think she wouldn't call
matter fact, she calls more than 10 times per day
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by mediachirps(m): 7:26am On Dec 07, 2014
You can fvk 100 girls per day if you like, But having an affairs with someone's wife, bro STAY CLEAR. Devil uses women more often than men.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Nobody: 7:27am On Dec 07, 2014
1. This are the things one experiences when living in face me I face you. undecided

2. You clearly started this and now you opened this thread just to find enough reasons to either go ahead with a decision you have already made. You care what people here say, you have already decided what you would do.

3. Just know that such an easy neighbour's wife has probably also been fvcked by other male neighbors too.

4. From her chats with you she is as classless as they come so ask yourself if you would sink that low to sleep with anything that comes your way, if that's the case pls I have a female rottweiler I want to get pregnant are you game?

Lastly take it from a guy who has been in this situation lots of time, it's never ever ever worth the stress. Tell her subtly to fvck off, because trust when I say married chiks bring drama that's best avoided.

And on a final note, if u have already been sleeping with her (which I know is what is happening) and u are just looking for a way to opt out because u have gotten tired of her or u can't bring home new chiks ? Well its best you move out, becos she would make your life a living hell.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Christta(f): 7:30am On Dec 07, 2014
Try havin an oral conversation wit her,record every thing thing she says to u,nd be very sensative of every respond u gave to her...with dat I tink she be able to back out by tellin her u'll show it to her husband!!lobatan!!happy sunday guyz.....I guess u all shud begettin prepared for church nw.!!
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Wemolat: 7:30am On Dec 07, 2014
1.Tell her to stop texting U

2. Get a phone that can block texts and messages that come from her line(s)

The disgrace and likely death in the hands of a jealous husband and appearing in hell fire for eternity outweighs a few minutes of pleasure from illicit sex
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Christta(f): 7:30am On Dec 07, 2014
Try havin an oral conversation wit her,record every thing thing she say to u,nd be very sensative of every respond u gave to her...with dat I tink she be able to back out by tellin her u'll show it to her husband!!lobatan!!happy sunday guyz.....I guess u all shud begettin prepared for church nw.!!

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by 53cur3m0d3(m): 7:37am On Dec 07, 2014
Advice is what we seek when we already know what to do.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by kandiikane(m): 7:38am On Dec 07, 2014
eminentme:
I got two questions bro; *i hope ur not the one who cooked this 'chat'? and secondly, is the 'lady' from Warri?
I am glad you asked this question because it corresponds with what was on my mind. The op seems to be encouraging the woman even if he doesnt mean to. How can you keep asking her a question when you know exactly what she meant thereby prolonging the conversation. Even manage to add kiss join. Op is encouraging the conversation, probably enjoying it too. If you really wanted her to stop, you would have seen to it from the onset.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by popcykaylah(m): 7:38am On Dec 07, 2014
guy if your Neigbour is a friend of yours please stop greeting her but if you guys don't have any attachments please give her the banana real and quick..she won't stop until you screw her and if you don't dude she will go as far spoiling you anywhere she knows ..you arent the first she's screwed behind her hubby believe me.but if her hubby catch you,lol.you'd be in front page ...the story will be man kills Neigbour over cheating wife ..

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by omokugbor4real: 7:38am On Dec 07, 2014
The best option is to avoid her.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Nobody: 7:42am On Dec 07, 2014
I tell u my brother.
changes1:
T0t0 is trying to get my guy into trouble... Problem is, my guy isn't seeing it... He's being beclouded with the sight if free t0t0.... Next thing we'll read on NL is " man kills neighbour for sleeping with his wife"

Guy flee...

The fear of t0t0 is the beginning of wisdom.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by kuntash: 7:51am On Dec 07, 2014
@ OP, if you are so hungry, as in very hungry to a state of near zero.... And all of a sudden you see a well arranged table with a presumably well prepared dish , covered exotically ..

And you ask if you could eat the food, and they ask you to go ahead to eat that's it's free .. And as you sit down, open the dish and all you find in the exotic plate is excreta ,....... Whence you are fermished .....WILL YOU STILL EAT ?


in your instance your aren't that fermished at least from your explanation....

FLEE FROM EVIL MY DEAR YOUNG MAN !

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by ultraGM: 7:52am On Dec 07, 2014
If you dont cook the story, you are not firm in your rejection, you seems to be simple to her liking and judgin from the chat you enjoyed her eCompany.
Firstly you stop the fantasies you get chatting with her. block her from that whatsapp, if she reemerge block her again dont respond to her online and offline. Infact stop greeting her or responding to her again.

She will leave you alone sooner

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Originalsly: 7:53am On Dec 07, 2014
You are already having an affair. Why encourwge her by running conversation and then be asking how to put a stop to her advances? Maybe if the husband lay his eyes on the conversations he will also lay his hands on you. Ignore her messages or be ready to face the music.

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Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Reference(m): 7:54am On Dec 07, 2014
MzPreshie:
Continue advicing her. Giving in shouldn't be an option.


Calll her goat or dog first. Or whatever you women call philandering men. Why the soft touch. Advice ko, advice ni.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Nobody: 7:56am On Dec 07, 2014
Reference:


Calll her goat or dog first. Or whatever you women call philandering men. Why the soft touch.
And why would I wanna go all insulting on a married woman I don't even know?
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by Marineetyon(m): 7:59am On Dec 07, 2014
this guy d use another guy acct lie here.
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by nazzyon(m): 8:03am On Dec 07, 2014
Freest:
You have adviced her? Then go on... Face the consequences later. Simple. Be a man, be responsible wink

Modified:
FTC? How does it feel sef? Have no idea...
Happy Sunday guys. Make una go church og! cool


If her husband kill the guy ... Dem no go see you for him burial .... Please don't encourage such
Re: Advice Please: My Neighbour's Wife Wants Me To Have An Affair With Her by PrettySpicey(f): 8:03am On Dec 07, 2014
This is a case of Portiphar's wife and you must do what Joseph did - Run as fast as your legs can, even faster ... and don't any evidence behind because hubby might be the shoot-my-rivals-on-sight kinda guy

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