euthanasia:
. You actually washed her clothes in just under 1 Month? ...hmmm interesting. I guess she left because she's been unable to see the real you despite her dressing you down" on several occasions and is scared of what she might discover when you get to your boiling point.

anitank:
I'm super curious to know about the boxes Bae thicked on op's list. Instincts tell me it's nothing beyond the physical features

Like someone said, you can do better!

mayapop:
bae!

euthanasia:
. You actually washed her clothes in just under 1 Month? ...hmmm interesting. I guess she left because she's been unable to see the real you despite her dressing you down" on several occasions and is scared of what she might discover when you get to your boiling point.

ATOB:
It is well with you OP.
If you will eventually marry one day then you have some growing up to do.

Never ever waste time on a girl who doesn't care, who gets angry easily, who deletes people easily and who likes money too much.
They are all bad omens men trust me. She will calm down when the time comes but she may have lost you by then.

So many weird boys and girls nowadays sef.

NickiRoman:
My Daughter how are you :-)

I'm fine, you? you just left your daughter not cool

mayapop:
I'm fine, you? you just left your daughter not cool

NickiRoman:
..Am awesome Didn't leave you love,Just being busy with your father and stuff

KingTom:

NickiRoman:
. Durty Durty Mind *in my sexy Jamaican accent*

KingTom:
Surxy surxy giyel **In my Hausa Jamaican accent**

airsaylongcon:
Hi guys,
I am really looking for candid advice. I have been dating this girl for approx 2 months. I met her off one if these social platforms and we seemed to hit it off immediately. I had just suffered a tremendous loss and she just seemed to walk in to fill thay vaccum. She had initially told me that she had a temper but I just laughed because as far as I was concerned her temper na apprentice were myvown dey. I had such a short fuse I had blown so many things. However, I have worked on taming it and find out that absolute silence prevents me from saying hurtful words (I get sharp tongue like woman). So I said to myself I will work on making this relationship work. We had hardly done 2weeks when she blew the first fuse. She had asked to be taken to a major retail outlet that had just setup shop whixh I tactfully dodged. She immediately deleted me from BBM to my astonishment. I called and she was combative but I calmed and took control of the situation. On her first visit to my place when I eventually agreed to take her out she made aome snide remarks that lit up some fuse in my head. In other not to say what I will regret I just cut d convo and dropped her off. We made up and had a very smooth patch until for some reason we had a misunderstanding. Again I keep my trap shut make I nor go over yarn. When we resolved she said she doesnt like it that I ignore her when I am angry and I explained to her that my silence was my coping strategy so I dont have a verbal diarrhoea. So o na so we dey do am dey sweet dey go. I must confess though that I am not a very good communicator. Calls and text nobi for me so we had constant running battles over this. Truth be told that I really fell heads-over-heel even if I didnt call per second per second. Anyway last Sunday, she was supposed to spend thr night at mine and asked me to come pick her from the bus stop close to mine. For some reasons I ran late and she had to go and wait in a fast food joint. When I entered to get her I know say water don pass garri. She gave me a very public dressing down (I really hate that and had told her once when we use play play do am). See me wey dey try pet am tell am sorry. I lost my famous temper but kept shut and just codedly ushered her to the motor. Got home and still trying to oet her she let out some more rubbish that I must pay her for all d money she had wasted because of me. She don buy food 1k2. Dats whats waste? Mehn una guy kolo I just gave her the 1k2 and locked up verbally no folloe am talk. In the evening I was so enraged I decided to clean my room. na dat time she decide to throw my pillow for ground. I gave her a SOUND warning. She go lie down for floor for parlor. I tint. cleaned up d room and went to bed. noticed she joined me in bed later at night but nothing happen. Only for me to wake up in the morning she said its over and she was out of my life that she had fallen out of love with me two weeks earlier and was trying to see if she could make it work. I wad shocked.! been pkeading with her since but she says her mind is made up that i am a proud person and I let my ego get in the way of our relationship by ignoring her when angry. I have sweet talked and honey talked but shes holdimg firm. Im at d point of walking buy my heart wants to give it a fight cos she checks many boxes in my list.

NB: I had a big issue with her about cooking. She NEVER cooked for me. NEVER! (I dont count Indomie as cooking). And I never said I LOVE U cos I felt she was punishing me with that. The Indomie sef I had to form deafness when she was complaining that she was hungry before she enter kitchen by herself. She never washed my clothes (I never demanded or expected it and actually washed her clothes on one occassion when she slept ovet).

So NL counsellors please advice should I continue to plead with her given het very stubborn intransigence bordering mockery or should I walk?

MimeeTee:
Ogaa,why would she cook and wash ur clothes for u...u don pay her bride price??..*take ur time ooo*

NickiRoman:
..Am awesome Didn't leave you love,Just being busy with your father and stuff

Tell my father to suck it , i need you around

mayapop:
Tell my father to suck it , i need you around

NickiRoman:
I'll tell him just that my dear,By the way where the hell is Xoxogirl

she deactivated a long time ago

mayapop:
she deactivated a long time ago

NickiRoman:
Awwww, That's so sad,Know the reason why?

Afrok:
Op the truth be told, both of U have the same temperament which is not good for partners. Ignoring her is totally not d best option but a counter temper to hers will definitely make her feel sober each time she acts like that.

Last words; leave her and look for a lady that's soft, my fear is that U sound like someone who'll take advantage of the gentleness of any lady.

folameme:
God bless you honey,someone sensible since morning

angelsing:
Did u say counter temper, this kind of counter temper usually leads to violence...She will say somethings she is not suppose to say the next thing u hear is "Gbosa" on her face...Its best the Op move on and look for someone else

Afrok:
what I meant by counter temper is " she's hot tempered while op should be otherwise (cool tempered). U know two people shouldn't be mad at the same time.

angelsing:
okay I understand you now...its best they look for someone different in character to theirs