I was woundering why a lot of ladies deny the fact that they have lost their virginity
to their one time lover when they meet another guy.this lady claim she was a
virgin but after dating for a while and we decided to explore,i found out she wasn't.when
i confronted her with the issue she said she doesn't know how she lost it.Could it be she was not
born a virgin,since she said she had never had sex before.
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guy, u need to apply common sense once in a while abeg!!!
. . . besides how did u find out she wasnt a virgin since ur not even smart enof to know that all girls are born virgins!!!

Usually, girls (the immature ones ) start by declaring that they are virgins to "earn" your respect, hoping they can string you along for whatever reason. Then when things begin to unfold, you start to hear stories about how they were raped by one uncle or the other.
Boring.

u make sense.

Sad part is, they use these stories too often, so the ones that did get deflowered by these means, its hard to believe again.

@spikedcylinder
you are right,i met this one girl who claimed to be a virgin at first and then she started telling me this kind of boring story but in her own case she was raped by a guy she dated for two years!Can you believe that? I mean she bored me to speechlesness!

Hey!!!! Mind you Virginity can not be lost only through sex with the opposite partner. Girls who attended Girls's school and probably practised lesbianism can also loose their virginity if either finger and candle and the likes are continually pushed into her, ok?. So the point am trying to make is that it can be lost through several ways.

ifyhope:

Hey!!!! Mind you Virginity can not be lost only through sex with the opposite partner. Girls who attended Girls's school and probably practised lesbianism can also loose their virginity if either finger and candle and the likes are continually pushed into her, ok?. So the point am trying to make is that it can be lost through several ways.

In that case, such persons have no right to keep calling themselves virgins.

How would i know?

first fact the poster failed to realise was alot of girls lie alot believe me or not. . . . wev been there and seen them

in my hood we call girls who form like that DISVIRGINED VIRGINS! get that

thats who she is ok!

If ur talking bout the haemen(sp?) not all females r born with it! or can be broken from sports, tampons or mastubation with toys() so it might be easier for U to enter, Im really not intouch with my biology so,

PoohBeer:

If ur talking bout the haemen(sp?) not all females r born with it! or can be broken from sports, tampons or mastubation with toys() so it might be easier for U to enter, I'm really not intouch with my biology so,

No you're exactly on point. The hymen (the usual tangible idenifier of virginity) CAN be broken not necessarily by sexual intercourse but from sports, tampon use, masturbation, or even pelvic exams at the doctors. The latter is common especially if the girl gets pap smears etc and the doctor is not particularly careful.

drfun:

I was woundering why a lot of ladies deny the fact that they have lost their virginity
to their one time lover when they meet another guy.this lady claim she was a
virgin but after dating for a while and we decided to explore,i found out she wasn't.when
i confronted her with the issue she said she doesn't know how she lost it.Could it be she was not
born a virgin,since she said she had never had sex before.
allstudentforum.com

Are you a virginity specialist as to conclude the girl is not a virgin? For posing this question and pretending to know about the girls’ virginity or lack therefore, you must be totally naïve.

She might be a virgin but u may not know becos ur finger went in straight without any obstruction. I have met some asian girls here that are truely virgin but I didn't belive it becos when I tried my finger it went in but very tight then I asked the girl about the jojolo thing and the girl said it can easy breakaway due to daily excercise which I later confirmed from other pple.

why lie or pretend,  for sure u can run but u can't hide, but funny enough some girls don't actually know whether or not they are v's

Working out could cause a woman's hymen to break. So if a girl dont bleed it doesnt mean she wasnt a virgin.

Also, there is no doubt that some women lie but there are considerate amount females who broke their hymen from exercise, hard labor, tampon use etc

spikedcylinder:

Usually, girls (the immature ones ) start by declaring that they are virgins to "earn" your respect, hoping they can string you along for whatever reason. Then when things begin to unfold, you start to hear stories about how they were raped by one uncle or the other.
Boring.

Always, ALWAYS one uncle. I feel it is just silly. Do they not know that even if you are, the moment you aren't any more, the eye the the same boy who disvirgined you was using to look at you will change,

HELLO TAMPONS disvirgin no one for pete's sake

wat were u trying to say kunbee?

Get educated. Although it's very rare, some people were not born with hymen