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My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me / He Does Not Satisfy Me, Doesn’t Last A Minute In Bed —wife / 'my Husband Cannot Satisfy Me Sexually'..... Wife (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 8:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
iceberylin:
We could help sha grin
You again undecided
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by moststylish(m): 8:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
wish my lady has stamina like u
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by gbeseun(m): 8:24pm On Feb 01, 2015
He should take origin bitters before the action after pounded yam with egusi soup,
And get Viagra for him jooooo

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by jomoh: 8:32pm On Feb 01, 2015
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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by gnaira(m): 8:39pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

Hi dear, sorry to hear your pain. Kindly note, we all go through such sometime in life. About the vegetable, get some Asparagus and Celery.
Also you both should talk to a urologist/psychologist
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Intellime(m): 8:45pm On Feb 01, 2015
Not lasting long in bed is not a big problem (when there are no underlying issues).

Generally for men who were not exposed enough to sex before marriage they are bound to experience different levels of this anomaly before mastering the ropes.
Some get running on time before others, but running late is not a red flag yet until real issues are identified. (Though this is not a plus for premarital sex).

There are various degrees of not lasting long in bed.

1.) Lack of stamina
2.) Not being able to maintain an erect joystick for 20 minutes and above. This is mainly due to inexperience and lack of use.
3.) Its could be a combination of both, though generally lack of stamina sends a signal to your brain that this sensual contest cannot continue.
4.) Sexual Incompatibility is another point (This could also be resolved by working on the stressors when identified). One of such stressors could be body odour, even at trace levels.

Solutions:
The guy in question should identify this as a challenge and be ready to confront it.
He should download sex-training books and study them and practice the examples there. One good book is 'Penis of Steel'
The dick has a natural tap (layman's language). You need to identify how to lock it after filling the Penis with blood. This comes through practice.
Practice!!! Practice!!! Practice!!!

I will send in more solutions soon.
I am confident your Man will overcome this little challenge.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by jamest4real: 8:45pm On Feb 01, 2015
chidinwachukwu:
First of all give him a Mouth Action first,then make him hard again,let him try he will last a bit longer,but if it dosent work,let him were condom,condom has a way of making a man last longer,if he dosent accept the condom one,Let him suck you and finger you till you are half way or till you squirt,then he can start his.but immediately he comes the First one let him drink one full sachet of Pure water,he will get an errection faster than 2hours.and lastly some people when the come and continue stroking they can get a hardon again,but if the pull out,the will get a hard on after a long time.Or you have Patience,because when he continues to make love to you and gets use to your body, he will naturally last very long that's how men's body works.I have used each of those technique on different women depending on hw long they come,women are not the same so when I notice it I change method and I usually succeed because the keep coming back even when we separate.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Sarimah(f): 8:46pm On Feb 01, 2015
Rikidony:
WALK AROUND NA.KED IN THE ROOM TO ENABLE HIM GET TURN ON AND FINALLY LET HIM MA.STUBATE BEFORE THE MAIN ACTION. GOODLUCK IN ADVANCE cool
chai grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by jamest4real: 8:48pm On Feb 01, 2015
[quote author=jamest4real post=30338437][/quote] different women HIV dey oh
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by seyih2(m): 8:52pm On Feb 01, 2015
STOP USING TOO MUCH MAGGIE TO COOK FOR HIM AND REDUCE THE SUGAR INTAKE FOR HIM AS WELL.
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Fallacy!!! Sugar or maggi intake doesn't in ANY way cause early ejaculation. I'll advice the person in question to visit a gynecologist alongside her husband.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by khemisty(f): 8:53pm On Feb 01, 2015
That is why I don't support d idea of no sex before marriage, go and get a intimacy gadget.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 8:54pm On Feb 01, 2015
MzQueen:
I just dey look you angry
Boo..missing you oo kiss
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 8:55pm On Feb 01, 2015
RedBenson:


Seconded!

Madman grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by City44(m): 8:55pm On Feb 01, 2015
Na serious matter o. Op be patient with him, with time he will improve, but he should take more fruits & stop taking sugar or sugary foods.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Adaezeagu(f): 8:59pm On Feb 01, 2015
Ekeke1:
Give him enough bitter leaf nd banana. Dnt use bed 4 sex again, use mat.
The man kneel go peel finish grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by DeKasablanca(f): 9:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
I think there's a spray or something you use to delay ejaculation. U might want to google it. Btw, pray your husband doesna see this. 'Cause if he does......
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by kay29000(m): 9:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Just help your husband solve the problem. Read my signature.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Johnnyessence(m): 9:13pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
alot of good Nigerians av spoke on this issue. early morning sex is good Cos' d penis of man do rise early in d morning. but if it's in d night d man and u also will av been stressed all through d day. then prayer too is needed in this issue oooo pray about it oooo and ask God for his leading ooooo.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by btsnm(m): 9:16pm On Feb 01, 2015
U sound like a 50 yrs old woman. I like ur comment.
Juzzybabe:
IT IS SO ANNOYING WHEN SOME PEOPLE TRY TO MAKE FUN OF SOME MARITAL ISSUES IN THIS SECTION! IF U HAVE NOTHING REASONABLE TO CONTRIBUTE, WHY NOT SHUT UP AND PASS FAMILY SECTION IS BASICALLY TO HELP SOLVE FAMILY RELATED ISSUES AND MARITAL CASES ARE FOR MATURED MINDS I ASSUME, EITHER SINGLE OR MARRIED,AS YOUR COMMENT COULD SAVE A LIFE MARRIAGE ETC. IF YOU CANT HELP,JUST READ AND LEARN FROM EXPERIENCES IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW AND IF NOTHING INTEREST U, DON'T COMMENT!!!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by funshint(m): 9:17pm On Feb 01, 2015
Don't beat around d bush; just convince him to take the blue pill(viagra)...dats all!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by andyanders: 9:21pm On Feb 01, 2015
[b]Op, I think you have a very big problem considering your post and your additional responses to people's opinion. As a married woman, you explained that you knew his problem and decided to still went ahead to get married to him. Having said that, I took my time to go through your responses made here and I can ONLY deduce that you are comparing your legally married husband with your sexua-l escaped with different men you had before marriage. Because of the guy's maybe financial position and maybe also his physic, you decided to go ahead with the marriage without taking into consideration of his mode of sexUAL SATISFACTION on you.

Having gotten married as a married woman, you now started picking holes from your marriage when you knew you went in there For Better For Worse.

I can only see here a woman who will be having extramarital affairs in less than no time since she can not get that from your husband. Coming to this medium to ask question when you should have gone on your kneels asking God who joined you to heal this aspect of him and restore him for you, you are here seeking for a way to know what you can do.

Listen, you are very desperate for s3x than your marriage.When a woman is married, first thing is how to build your home when the children starts coming and remember when they start coming, s3s would only become something you have when you are relaxed. I can only see a woman who think ONLY of s3x than her life here.[/b]

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Laredojohn(m): 9:28pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
Hope u making self research on Google on natural tips,
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by hardeyeanc(m): 9:28pm On Feb 01, 2015
Abeg tell him to be taking any of this yoyo bitters,ogidiga,alomo bitters,baby oku or gnld fiber and tre en en. Let him use any of dis 4 at least a week or more den u thank me later
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Originalsly: 9:30pm On Feb 01, 2015
He needs to take nothing...he is healthy. The problem is he doesn't know you also need to be satisfied.....or he doesn't know how to achieve that.....how can a 100m sprinter and an 800m runner break the tape at the same time? ....he is starting the race at the starting point with you instead of at the 700m point. He needs to engage in pre-intimacy until you reach that point then he can ehmmm.....knock himself out and both of you would more likely climax at the same time. You madam should then be snoring instead of waiting for round 2.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by miredia(m): 9:32pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
Are u sure u aren't the one facing this premature expulsion in the guise of a female moniker grin grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by fixmykey(m): 9:34pm On Feb 01, 2015
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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by naijatruth: 9:46pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Plswhat do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
My dear, u pple should conduct a urine test called culture test because his problem might be infection.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 9:46pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by seuncyrus(m): 9:54pm On Feb 01, 2015
let him take viagra before any intercourse it works best ...or he can be on adam's desire pills the premature ejaculation will correct itself in abt 4 weeks
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ruggedlaw(m): 9:57pm On Feb 01, 2015
My dear whatever you do, DON'T ever encourage the use of drugs. I use to have the same issue with my wife. Stress is a factor, anxiety also. Like some folks have advised, let him practice delaying the ejaculation naturally by allowing his mind to stray, you have a role to play in this, when you notice he has stopped grinding stop also. I also noticed that I last much longer when the we have sex regularly...Don't give up to 3 days interval before the next act.Feed him with a lot of bananas and groundnut...
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by hizaya61(m): 10:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ALISMILE(m): 10:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
carbon1224:
sit him down and explain to me.there are different stuff that will make him stay longer and i am sure he knows what to do. one more time STOP USING TOO MUCH MAGGIE TO COOK FOR HIM AND REDUCE THE SUGAR INTAKE FOR HIM AS WELL.
She shud also drastically reduce d quantity of oil in his food!

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