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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Samabu07(m): 5:39pm On Feb 01, 2015
May be he has much sugar in his blood...he should desist intake of sugar diets, and chew lots of bitter kola nuts....sex would be more fun for the both of you.
Cheers!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by darkroses(m): 5:39pm On Feb 01, 2015
@ op u must be good wife, kip it up

Next u are making love wit him, try to be on top of him for a long time after little pre-sex romance.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by harry509: 5:40pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
my advice is dis. Tell him 2 stp thinkn wen he is makin love wit yu and also tell him 2 stp sugari stuff I head dat 2much of suga weaken man erection on time. And 4 yu 2 also enjoy ur sex, don't jst leav all d work 4 him alone so...dat Yur hubby wudt get tired on time. If posible try as much 2 stay on top him wen avin sex,dis wil nt make him release on time. Afta sum time ask him if he wana release den if YES try quickly 2 chnge position so dat he wil release nside yu. Afta 9mnths belt me bancin baby boy or gal on d way. Tank me later cool cool
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 360command: 5:41pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:



lol, i ensure i use little quantity of seasoning and he doesn't really take sugary things.
naturally, there are people like your husband that cums quickly no matter the medicals he has undergone or the food he eats... Sometimes things happens this way but I believe in "check yourself". What I mean is he needs to understand his body to know why he cums too quickly. My advice would be :

1)Use a condom.. With condom, one can tend to last longer. With more practice, it should be fine..

2) I would suggest you try sit ontop of him and ride him, this way it reduces the tendency of him cumming.. Be slow about it and increase... Ensure,it does not stop here but encourage sex position..

3)Since he cums often, he shud not release inside you.. Let him release outside... Trust me, there is no feeling other than releasing inside a woman making u feel satisfied... Its psychology which I cannot explain.... If he cums outside u, he feels not complete as to his pen1s wud b up(I suppose)... So embrace him for a second round by massaging the pen1s.... Keep practising this method and I am sure he wud get usedto it and before you know it, he shud be able last longer in the 1st round..

People are different, he needs to understand his body. I do not believe in drugs to do the trick for a man.. I see sex to be natural and he shud find natural ways to heal himself... Good thing he likes sex very well...

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Wealthycharles(m): 5:43pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
does he drink too much beer,stout or even soft drink?is he treating high blood pressure ?he needs more of watermelon,banana,garlic,ginsin,cucumber,carrot,bitterkola,vegetables.reduce salt and sugar intake,exercise more to burn out excess sugar,drink more water regularly befor sex and after sex,abstain from energy drinks,engage in sex more and more cos regular sex help burn out sugar n keep d heart healthy. If he does dis tins,his staminal will improve overtime.it is not automatic sha but regular doing will improve his staminal to last long,I'm talking frm experience.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by whao: 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2015
prettyjo:

I Dont believe in medicinal herbs unless its from a certified company,but how long will you dwell on that?
why not try watching pornography together,he will learn a lot from there.
lastly encourage him and Dont make him feel less of a man

What a funny advice ever!
Since you don't believe in medication, how on earth do you believe watching pornography can help? And for how long can they continue watching it and seriously what can they learn from it? And you think the lasted as portrayed on the movies? Pls don't drag this innocent couples in watching stuff that re not real.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by folhenrry4flizzy(m): 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2015
temitemi1:
He needs to be thinking abt other things when u guys are making love
this method works for me
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by unbrandedcosy(m): 5:52pm On Feb 01, 2015
U should not rush into making love immediately u remove ur cloths. Start first with pre-intimacy, don't rush it ,sex is not ment to be rushed ,is ment to enjoyed. Tell him to remove his mind from the sex and focus it in another thing, I bet u both of u will enjoy it.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ababanwoke(m): 5:53pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
You just need to make him relax,its psychological dear,all you need to do is to make him relax,I think he is scared of sex,and also if he drinks a lot,he should also reduce it too,I was once a victim,there other ways which I can't make public
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Agli(m): 5:54pm On Feb 01, 2015
FEMLAW:
advice ur hubby to try the "Start-Stop" Technique?

This is by far the most simple technique and can be done alone or with a partner.

The technique involves stimulating the penis and stopping just before you feel you are about to ejaculate. Stop the stimulation for 30-60 seconds and start again once you feel that you have regained control. Repeat this process 4-5 times, stopping and “resting” every time you feel that you are about to have an orgasm. Finally, let the ejaculation occur, so that you can identify the “point of no-return”.

Many couples and partners complain, however, about the inconvenience of this “game” and find it frustrating. Try to incorporate it smoothly into sex and take advantage of the pauses to focus on sources of pleasure other than the penis.

I will suggest the stop and start method. This is cos it worked for me, I cld hardly last 1 minute when making love but some yrs bak, a guy on nairaland sent me a book on how to cure PE and I used the stop and star method I saw in d book and I am can confidently tell u that today, I come anytime I want to.
Again some1 suggested you avoid the missionary position for now cos it makes a man cum faster and I buy into that.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by crackhouse(m): 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2015
All these issue of bitter kola, sugar, banana and whatever is rubbish. It only takes ur state of mind at that moment to last long, that's all.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by shepherdnoble: 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2015
He only needs a touch from God thru' Prophet TB Joshua or any other strong man of God to be free. Seek the face of God!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by bastien: 5:57pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
many of the guys here advising u can't even last more than 2mins,lemme just say I'm ur hubby kind,I don't last more than 3mins or even up to,but I do come back strong and last looooonger without waiting for 2hrs like ur hubby........ there was a day I made love,just within 30secs I cum, I was ashamed and she looks disappointed, I just told her to dress up I went out,thinking about my mistakes, I was warmed to stop sugary things, but refused. After so much thought I went back, she still looks sad, I asked her if she wants us to try again,Well this time she cried lol, that was when I learnt my mistake, learnt how to last long,the secret is ur man to man up,to try harder, he should take his mind away, thinking about something else eg "football match,Jonathan, Buhari, naijabet etc ", and when ever he feels like he wanna cum,he should log out,and use that opportunity to change style,doggy is one of the best longest sex style, he should know when to increase n decrease the tempo, going fast/faster will make him last long,but when he feels its about to cum he should reduce the tempo and log out changing position. .. lastly since u both are married, he should learn not to log out when he cum, he should continue banging, the dickkk won't fall,it will pick up from there, he should also not touch his diccck or diccck cap,when he cum, doing so will cause the dickkkk to fall instantly...... goodluck Hope it helps sha Happy married life dear

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chucky234(m): 5:59pm On Feb 01, 2015
sexyseun:
Try and make him relax before the main thing, pre-intimacy is most essential, learn how to stroke his D, suck his D, caress him very well, look into his eyes while you suck him, With this he's P should be erect very well like rock of olumo, during the copulation, learn how to make him pause for a while when he's jerking, you can gently shift your V away from his D so that he can pause for a while, engage him with lots of kisses then, bite on his nipples then continueeee.. once he's about to come or coming, push your groin against his, let him know you enjoy him so much. immediately after he come, engage him again with kisses and stroke his D again..



If you still can't understand all these steps, Allow me to have him for just a Day
Badt girl, my NL crush.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:01pm On Feb 01, 2015
U see? Disadvantage of not doing it before marriage.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Judie7654(f): 6:01pm On Feb 01, 2015
I am going to be sincere with you. Firstly, i think you've had many sexual escapades and you're kinda unconsciously measuring it with someone else. If you haven't and just love sex,then you should do something. Do you know what marriage is at all?. You had time to post this on Nairaland?. Then the problem isn't serious yet. Don't you have access to the Internet, or are you part of the major community that have phones just for social media. In talking to him about it,you have to be careful not to hurt his ego. I think you should do lots of research, talk to a doctor and probably pray... Yes,you heard me right,pray. I'm kinda one of those who believes we should pray about everything we need help for. May God give you the appropriate wisdom, strengthen and make your marriage wonderful. besides, i didnt mean to be harsh,i understand perfectly the importance of good intimacy in marriage.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
put ur picture let me see how we can help.*abi guys*
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by bukatyne(f): 6:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
koboko69:
IF HE WAS A VIRGIN BEFORE U GOT MARRIED. THIS WILL KEEP HAPPENING FOR A WHILE. HAVE SEX MORE OFTEN AND ENCOURAGE HIM TO MAKE MORE LOVE TO YOU. TELLING HIM HE IS NOT SATISFYING YOU COULD DEMORALIZE AND GET HIM THINKING WHILE TRYING TO GET IN THE MOOD OR SEX YOU HENCE THE ANXIETY FACTOR MAY SET HIM ( LIKE WILL I SATISFY HER NOW, CAN I SATISFY HER).
ANOTHER THING IS THAT I LAST LONGER WHILE BLOWING JUST ANY GIRL, BUT WHEN IM WITH WHO I TRUELY LOVE, IT BECOMES DIFF FOR ME TO CONTROL MY CUM. IN A NUT SHELL, TEASE HIM SOMETIMES, LIKE TELL HIM BABY TONIGHT, I WANT YOU TO MAKE LOVE TO ME LIKE NEVER BEFORE. WE AR NOT SLEEPING COS WE WILL KEEP HAVING SEX FOR THE NEXT 3 HOURS. STUFFS LIKE THAT. AND YOU TRY ALL YOU BEST TO SEDUCE HIM AS MUCH AS U CAN.

This would work for a husband not willing.

If she follows This advice, it would her husband cum quicker. During dunging, he should withdraw for a second and continue again... it will break the flow.

Goodluck @ OP
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by esiri4jesu(m): 6:05pm On Feb 01, 2015
With time you guys will certainly understand each other better most especially with the way you are going about it. Before he enters you, he should relax and do more of the fore play when he enters you he should not start digging immediately. He should purse for about two to three minutes, this will relax him. He should be involve in exercises and the kigal ( I think l am correct with the spelling) exercise too. Lastly, the bitter kola stuff is recommended. Do have a wonderful marriage life.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ak4God(m): 6:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
Yungas:
my dearie forgt all dis men they re jst hiding sumtin frm u,d only possible n fast solution to dis z TRAMADOL 120mg,jst get him to tk it bfr leavin fr wrk n d evn he comes bck d drug wil stil be runing in his vein nd I bet u he wil mk luv to u lyk neva bfr,u wil evn be surprise d way he lasted or evn stil u cn get him to jst tk d drug 2hrs bfr guin to bed honestly I'm teln u,u wil marvel u cn stil browse d drug it z a pain killer drug buh it hs bin observed dat it cn be used to manage premature ejaculation.after trin dis dnt fail to inbox me nd tnk me cos u wil be surprice...Enjoy ur love life

Tramadol have so many side effects.It CAN CAUSE ADDICTION, OVERDOSE, OR DEATH

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
Judie7654:
I am going to be sincere with you. Firstly, i think you've had many sexual escapades and you're kinda unconsciously measuring it with someone else. If you haven't and just love sex,then you should do something. Do you know what marriage is at all?. You had time to post this on Nairaland?. Then the problem isn't serious yet. Don't you have access to the Internet, or are you part of the major community that have phones just for social media. In talking to him about it,you have to be careful not to hurt his ego. I think you should do lots of research, talk to a doctor and probably pray... Yes,you heard me right,pray. I'm kinda one of those who believes we should pray about everything we need help for. May God give you the appropriate wisdom, strengthen and make your marriage wonderful. besides, i didnt mean to be harsh,i understand perfectly the importance of good intimacy in marriage.
hmm! sabi woman,your hubby go like u.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
sexyseun:
Try and make him relax before the main thing, pre-intimacy is most essential, learn how to stroke his D, suck his D, caress him very well, look into his eyes while you suck him, With this he's P should be erect very well like rock of olumo, during the copulation, learn how to make him pause for a while when he's jerking, you can gently shift your V away from his D so that he can pause for a while, engage him with lots of kisses then, bite on his nipples then continueeee.. once he's about to come or coming, push your groin against his, let him know you enjoy him so much. immediately after he come, engage him again with kisses and stroke his D again..



If you still can't understand all these steps, Allow me to have him for just a Day
chisos! u can have me,those one are married

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by deavicky(m): 6:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
this is why I'm on the opinion that u test b4 u marry.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by koboko69: 6:15pm On Feb 01, 2015
bukatyne:


This would work for a husband not willing.

If she follows This advice, it would her husband cum quicker. During dunging, he should withdraw for a second and continue again... it will break the flow.

Goodluck @ OP

i do not agree with u. from all indications the guy is willing, yes, but from what i can deduce, he hasnt been a sex person before now. the way a man feels after his first sex is quite different from how a woman feels. the explosive sweet feeling, wil make him want more of sex,cos he is new to the game, the feelings is too strong to control. but we frequent sex, and encouragement from his wife, he gets better. The reason for the seduction this is if he gets bored after a couple of shots. trust me, telling him, he is not satisfying her will kill his ego, and do more damage. no man likes the feeling of a woman telling u that. i feel with frequent sex and games like what i said earlier should help in a way. like hail him, when he lasts a little longer than usual..during like the 3 hrs match, and telling him u wish he could do more, boosting his morale, but deep down u know u are configuring him to what u want till you get there. trust me all men likes to hear a woman hail their sexual performance
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by makooma: 6:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
Try different styles of sex then u may be lucky to find one or two styles ok
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 01, 2015
one man's meat is another man's poison, me that girls and my ashewo complain that I don't cum quickly, sometimes it takes me 45 to 50minute to cum. ah am I normal sha.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chucky234(m): 6:21pm On Feb 01, 2015
sexyseun:
So you want a man who can last for like 5hours or more? I dont think i like that o! I prefer good sexx around 20-30mins which i can at least rest and later continue.
Men with High Libido are usually Jobless people, Find out from your research and see
Stop lying, who says men with high libido are jobless men, sure you did that research in Mars.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by deavicky(m): 6:25pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex
u ve seen it now. You knew u like sex and u did not consider it before u married him. now it's becoming an issue. I prey u manage the situation very well if not things like this end up being a problem.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:27pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


@lefulefu

He hardly take sweet things. He abstain from adding sugar to foods that doesn't necessarily need it eg yam. He is a water freak. He drinks loads of water.
Ok then...
Maybe he is not doing enough exercise.
Tell him to jog long distances twice in a day ,six times a week on a routine basis.In the morning and evenings.Also he should engage in kick boxing and regular boxing and also little press ups once in a while.I am tellng you if he does this he will be a super hero in the bedroom.Exercise always boost someone's sexual appetite.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by PLEXPLEX(m): 6:28pm On Feb 01, 2015
pre-intimacy SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY I.E TO MAKE U KINDA BE ON THE SAME PAGE AFTER WHICH U SHOULD TAKE HIM WITH U ON TOP & MAKE SURE EVERY THRUSH BRUSHES UR CLITORIS.....I AM SURE THE STORY LL B DIFFERENT TRUST ME
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by audiigee(m): 6:31pm On Feb 01, 2015
Does he last long in the second round? If the answer is yes,the he should get anti-anxiety medication that will produce the require amout of sarotin which helps blood flow to the organ and reduces tension. In two weeks u can come and give your testimony. fruits like Banana and water melon will help increase blood flow and make him stock more.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by joe4christ(m): 6:35pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


@lefulefu

He hardly take sweet things. He abstain from adding sugar to foods that doesn't necessarily need it eg yam. He is a water freak. He drinks loads of water.

What your hubby is suffering from is more of psychological, tell him i say he should quench every form of anxiety and he shouldn't put all his mind into it when banging, he should be slowly driving for a start, he can only increase the velocity with time as he get more accustom to it (A Pro)
Tell him also, i say he should stop staring at your pretty face whenever he's doing it cos that would make him loose control...
If he continually practice this steps, i can guarantee him lasting an hour non-stop with time...
Happy married life!

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