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My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me / He Does Not Satisfy Me, Doesn’t Last A Minute In Bed —wife / 'my Husband Cannot Satisfy Me Sexually'..... Wife (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 4:01pm On Feb 01, 2015
notoriousbabe:
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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by notoriousbabe: 4:01pm On Feb 01, 2015
eskober:
so y r u complaining. U knew he doesn't last and u still agree to marry him
So deal with it
I'm sure the guy get money

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by btsnm(m): 4:02pm On Feb 01, 2015
U spoilt the whole thing wit ur last remark
sexyseun:
Try and make him relax before the main thing, pre-intimacy is most essential, learn how to stroke his D, suck his D, caress him very well, look into his eyes while you suck him, With this he's P should be erect very well like rock of olumo, during the copulation, learn how to make him pause for a while when he's jerking, you can gently shift your V away from his D so that he can pause for a while, engage him with lots of kisses then, bite on his nipples then continueeee.. once he's about to come or coming, push your groin against his, let him know you enjoy him so much. immediately after he come, engage him again with kisses and stroke his D again..

U spoilt the whole thing with ur last statement


If you still can't understand all these steps, Allow me to have him for just a Day
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by DEngineer(m): 4:03pm On Feb 01, 2015
I know am commenting late but this will work.

1. Give him time, don't initiate sex in like 2 days.

2. He knows he isn't doing so well in that department so his state of mind is not right so e will not last long in this mindset.

3. Most importantly, weneva e cums (round 1), it'll be like in 2 minutes or less, dont tell him why e came so soon.

4. After that short round 1, u wount be satisfied clearly, u will want more, lie next to him, kiss him and use ur lubricated hand (i mean lubricated please) don't use dry hand. E wound b hard in time.

5. Step 4 will bring him on quick again, avoid talking just get on with touching him.

6. Do different styles before e comes, pausing and changing position helps stay longer.

7. Avoid positions that makes him lie on u. Gravity affects ejaculating too.

8. Do the reverse cow girl, the sight of ur back and curves and butt will make him want more.

9. Take a very clean bath before u start, it's normal for vagina or genitals to smell after prolonged time so clean up and have a ventilated room.

10. don't tell him e is weak. This will totally kill his mind. Express yourself well, moan wen u feel him.

11. Ask in between sex how he feels, eg are u enjoying this baby, do u love this style? . Etc

12. Take agbo jedi once in a while.

13. Finally, tell him he is not in a competition to satisfy u. Tell him u have forever so e should take his time. He will improve gradually.

14. He might want to avoid sex with u for fear of not satisfying u. Give him time, touch his manhood and balls during thrusting, it works like magic.

15. Do doggie a lot.

16. Pray about this. God loves marriage so ask him to improve ur man. That u don't wanna lose him. Good bless u

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 01, 2015
Op. It's not a problem. I can help. He needs to learn the skills. grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by mystery01: 4:03pm On Feb 01, 2015
lefulefu:
wink
tell him to stop eating too much sugar and he will last long for bed with u wink
If he drinks he should cut it or stop it
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by kambah(m): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
my advise to you is that, tell him to stop breathing heavily while performing and he should distract himself while penetrating by pitching or bite hinself a little.

another issue is, let him exercise weekly and watch diet.

also, sit him down nd asked if there is anytin bothering his mind bcoz pschycologically thinking affect performance.
Also, he shouldn't be too desperate or a kind of anxiety for sex, dats why u need talks, smile, laughing, nd masturbate before sex.

Finally, masturbate till he release first then you can enjouy second round.

though the issue of sugar nd other stuff I dont much believed them nd he need to be de-worm nd toilet regularly.

Best of luck
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
iamord:
standard 20-30 mins is okay .. recess and prepare for round 2 grin
Yes o.. that's the way i like it!!!!
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by diportivo: 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex
ppl reject marriage proposals for diff reasons...lets assume u had rejected his proposal den,there wouldnt be any need for dis thread now....premature ejaculation has a cure...d earlier u guys see a specialist d better

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Justyce(m): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
osina1414:
just one tab of TRAMADOL backed wt any prefered miltivitamine will keep him on duty post 4 @least 45mins, no side effects. tested & trusted ......thank me later
Tramadol how many mg? Before the man go kolo.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by andyanders: 4:05pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Just ask him to allow you suck the hell out of him and he will come back for more and more as the second round would make him to stay at least 45 mins. Tell him not to rush you when he come on top.Ask him to work on you for a while and also try to discover where his turn on points are and now handle that area. You too must know how to work on him by trying to make him enjoy s3x.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Tunagee(m): 4:05pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

so you think this is where the solution would come from, right?

then go and use cucumber and banana or bottle since your husband can not be a machine.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ruggedtimi(m): 4:06pm On Feb 01, 2015
try and make sure u do more of romance for a long period, so dat the intercourse will help stimulate u to be reach climax...also take off ur mind for a quick climax and enjoy wat eva is doin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by omocalabar(m): 4:06pm On Feb 01, 2015
mixed fresh sliced okro wit juices extracted from white onions the mix it wit original honey....drink for two weeks and three times a day..sponfools...he should relax and stay off tight under wears or pants....shikena..works wonder
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by lyricalz: 4:06pm On Feb 01, 2015
After all my research and experience, I have found 3 basic solutions to pemature ejaculation.

1. Diet:- make sure u eat healty balanced food, rich in proteins and vegetables. Avoid sugary or carbohydrate food having sugar. Most important, being underweight can cause premature ejaculation, A real man needs to not to be underweight, eat well and exercise well.

2.Psychological:- The mind is the place where execute our plans, rape or adultery is not a sin someone should call "work of devil" because before you perform the act you must have though about it at least 5times. The mind controls sex, when the mind is not at ease premature ejaculation sets in, anxiety is the major cause of premature ejaculation. The moment u're anxious about ur bedroom performance I guarantee 100% failure. Calm down and watch ur breath, don't breath lyk u're being chased, stop watching porn it will dominate ur mind, n then piss u off in reality.

3 Clinical problem:- 70% of men have clinical issues for long, yet they don't know they have one. Visit a physician about ur problem, talk to him about it, he 'll provide a solution. Take a cleanser to cleanse ur entire body system, most of these herbal cleanser are highly effective, lastly do pevic exercise.

MY ADVICE TO HER
The moment u confront him with the problem he will be more anxious n thus worsen the problem. Since u love him n want to enjoy sex with him, if he can't handle the above, 1st sit him down n talk politely with him all d above I mentioned, from 1-3. Then next u're the one to help him become the man u want him to b, make sure he relaxes b4 u have sex, make sure he doesn't breath to hard, just let him know u love him, n let him relax, advice him to stop watching porn n face reality. Get an herbal cleanser for him, cook an healty food for him. U guys can as well try MouthAction, wen ever he ejaculates, using his tongue n fingers to satisfy you, may b an option for now and can build his confidence that he can actually satisfy you, till the time he gets himself back.
GOODLUCK.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by jum33: 4:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Encourage ur hubby to try TREVO,it contains everything that will restore him naturally .I am a living testimony.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chupcake(m): 4:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
You took the words out of my mouth. You mentioned he takes water a lot. That helps. Does he smoke or take alcohol? He shld stop doing those. A man shld know anytime he's close to 'erupting', he shld slow down, kiss you more then continue, it doesn't have to be 'fast jerking' all the time.
DPointMan:
Carrots & Cucumber could also help do the magic. And he should reduce sugary things. Also, you can help him changing positions during intercourse, try different styles, the momentary break in transmission can help in prolonging ejaculation. #MyPersonalOpinion.

All the best.
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by OilCabal: 4:08pm On Feb 01, 2015
Madam tell Oga to start working out especially cardiovascular exercises like jogging. It will help improve his stamina #testedandtrusted
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Defcon1(m): 4:08pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex

Complete man you say?

Well,on this evidence he is probably not complete.That is by the way
To the issue at hand;you should go to Google and search for treatment /solutions to premature/quick ejaculation.
You will be directed to countless websites offering professional solutions or tips
Forget Nairaland,most tips on here are basically old wives tales
Imagine someone mentioning kolanut,and quantity of maggi and sugar .lol
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by nkpommpko(m): 4:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
234GT:
Ask him to suck you down there and you will be satisfied.

Secondly, the next time he wants to bleep you, make sure you have sucked him and he has come at least once before he puts his cock in your punnany.

Funmi's coloumn in saturday punch will help you guys too!
gbam
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Finland(m): 4:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
Get Anafranil also known as Clomipramine. It is used to treat depression but used to treat PE that is premature Ejaculation. Check the link below for more info
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8808861
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by kabaka1: 4:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
Is he fat or overweight? If so, he needs to start eating healthier diets like more fruits and vegetable. he should also avoid eating fried foods and very sugary foods. Most importantly he should have a regular exercise regimen to build stamina like walking or running some mileage per day, pushups, weight training etc. He should start with small routines of this exercise, but should increase it gradually over time .

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Frankicent(m): 4:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
. For hours shocked chai I fear yu
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Ekeke1(m): 4:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
Give him enough bitter leaf nd banana. Dnt use bed 4 sex again, use mat.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by tit(f): 4:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
bring him to me let me try and see if this your story is true.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
the sugar intake is much if possible wash bitter leaf and let him drink the water at least twice in a week,
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by sonnel: 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
From ur post n comments,it shows u re a guy that has a sexual problem but cannot come out straight.Tell us ur problem as a man n we can help u instead of pretenting to b a female n asking indirect questions.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Obodo999(m): 4:13pm On Feb 01, 2015
@pummacy or punnyacy?

you must be a puss.y not to realised that while the ladies are symphatising with you; the guys are mocking you. :- lipsrsealed
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Frankicent(m): 4:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:



lol, i ensure i use little quantity of seasoning and he doesn't really take sugary things.

We'll Angel one of the prob z over weight. if he's fat e should go for excrise..... jogging etc it will help....3... let him try kegel... what I mean z when iz about to pee he should release it for just 3sec.and pause lyk 15sec.. for a start it's going to be tough
...am petty much getting use to it grin
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by evesdon4u: 4:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
prettyjo:
dear sis
I understand your plight .
1)you should open up to him,tell him how you feel and mind your choice of words wen doing that so that he won't lose his self confidence.
2)teach him,let him know how best to satisfy you.Its your right to enjoy sex.Teach him the act of pre-intimacy,with this you can reach orgasm as much as you want before the actual Penetration :you both can also watch pornography movies together.
3)the third cause of this might be his lifestyle especially in dietary aspect.he may not be getting the right food or nutrition. also Check the way he consumes sugar.
4)it might also be a psychological problem,prepare his mind and make him to be at rest.Anxiety can cause quick eruption.

You stole the words right out of my mouth... You simply nailed it.

all the best
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Obodo999(m): 4:15pm On Feb 01, 2015
tit:
bring him to me let me try and see if this your story is true.

... and how will you help him ? undecided
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by bliss750: 4:16pm On Feb 01, 2015
The truth of the matter is that enjoyment on women are varies some are not sweet at all, while some will make you speak in tongues. So you can come on top of him for you to come or let him play with your Virginia or is it clitoris they call it till you come then after you have come allow to come over so that he can come as well but the truth is that you can spend 1 hour while some some you can't spend 5 mins so don't blame him your own coming might be difficult too coz some women don't come easily.

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