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Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 10:43am On Feb 26, 2015
Richiy:


And that is how you wee keep attracting hoes. mtchew
Is dat all??
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by maryhaam(f): 10:58am On Feb 26, 2015
Pls tell them.......huh
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Richiy(f): 11:01am On Feb 26, 2015
gladpresh:
Is dat all??

Yes. When you grow up, we can now talk.
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 26, 2015
Richiy:


Yes. When you grow up, we can now talk.
talking tu u cud b a sin...so al pass
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Horrlah(f): 11:10am On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
I have just been a silent user cheesy
On bbm ni joor
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 11:16am On Feb 26, 2015
When u are arrogant and proud with an EMPTY BRAIN..! We dont like such dudes.
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by tosyne2much(m): 11:39am On Feb 26, 2015
Horrlah:

On bbm ni joor
Ooooooh !!!! U have me on ur BBM ?
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 11:45am On Feb 26, 2015
XBLadez:

You get mind, I swear
hahahahaha....na una make me get mind.
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Horrlah(f): 12:23pm On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
Ooooooh !!!! U have me on ur BBM ?
Oops sorry miskate tuk u for sum1 else
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Elvis506(m): 12:39pm On Feb 26, 2015
diddydiva:
Gosh !!!

Number 4,7,8 and 10 is a big turn off for me.

such guys disgust me




Nice one op
. Always trying to impress her by all means...I so love myself, I would bring myself to you the way I am its either u accept me or not...shekina
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Elvis506(m): 12:47pm On Feb 26, 2015
diddydiva:
Gosh !!!

Number 4,7,8 and 10 is a big turn off for me.

such guys disgust me




Nice one op
Always trying to impress her by all means...I so love myself, I would bring myself to you the way I am its either u accept me or not...shekina
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 26, 2015
Elvis506:
Always trying to impress her by all means...I so love myself, I would bring myself to you the way I am its either u accept me or not...shekina
undecided
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Geenickel(m): 2:09pm On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
repented as how ? cheesy
Female Bashing......
As some. Call it... grin
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by tosyne2much(m): 2:51pm On Feb 26, 2015
Geenickel:

Female Bashing......
As some. Call it... grin
Those are the ones who are not ready to change cheesy
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by prettymiss4433(f): 2:54pm On Feb 26, 2015
OMG I love dis post like seriously.thanks @ OP.Irresponsible guyz r a turn off for me anyday.
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by tosyne2much(m): 3:00pm On Feb 26, 2015
Horrlah:

Oops sorry miskate tuk u for sum1 else
Who can that person be ? wink
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by ArchEnemy(m): 4:59pm On Feb 26, 2015
dahreyM:


Dat sounded like u r tking shots@ the OP
lol
No o
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by quiet006storm: 5:06pm On Feb 26, 2015
there are actually more reasons why a lady may turn you down it even happens in marriage. this actually happened to someone i know. let me paint this pix properly for you, just read it. bolanlesnuptialtales..com
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Okwori12(m): 5:10pm On Feb 26, 2015
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Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Geenickel(m): 5:21pm On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
Those are the ones who are not ready to change cheesy
ah no follow u tok again.... lipsrsealed
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by StepG: 6:12pm On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
Not only money interest ladies. There are certain qualities you posses that can open the heart of a lady even if your pocket is empty, sounds awkward ryt ? it is about having style, utterance and taking care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them.

No time to waste. Let's go there cool

Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down

1. Irresponsible Username/Moniker
Do you know that you are sometimes judged by your username ? Sounds weird ryt ? When you use a username that portray that of an irresponsible one, you think a reasonable lady would reply you ? (E.g, smalldick, bigdick and many more irresponsible monikers)

2. You Are Fake
You don't need to form/change your ascent or speak like Honourable Patrick before you can attract a good lady. Having a strong vocabulary is important and better save it for rainy days, but do not aim at using it to impress a girl you like. This is because you can end up confusing the girl with your big grammar and vocabulary and consequently lose her. Use the words to communicate your mind lucidly. Equally, do not make a joke of their uses of English as no one is barely flawless when it comes to uses of Queen's language.

3. You Want to rule her with your money
Just like a Gresham law of money, bad ladies will drive out the good ones. The notion that every girl likes money has driven some guys into thinking that they can control any lady of their choice with money.
However, not every girl you see out there is interested in money or is money-grubbing. There are some ladies who are independent, self disciplined, have higher self esteem and whatnot. Those ladies are not interested in your money, which you want to use as a tool of manipulation. So stop thinking that you can employ money to control every girl. A good many ladies have their dignities; and if it happen you meet such ladies, they will turn you down in a wink.

4. You are an hypocrite
Not all ladies are gullible you know ? Some ladies are so sensible and can decipher lies from the truth. When she realizes that you have never been honest for once, she may refrain herself from accepting your proposal. We have so many dudes who try to be the ladies puppets just to portray an attractive image.

5. You are not presentable
Appearance matters most in life; the way one appears will define the way people will rever one. Your appearance, however, determines the calibre of people you would drive into your life. Display of a BIG BOY is not about sagging your trouser, or tattoo your body, piercing your ear and start bouncing around the streets. I'm sowi she would definitely, if she comes from a good Christian/Muslim home, turn you down and not to mention of taking you home cos her parent may disown her/ scold her angrily when she's caught hanging out with you, a vile guy

6. You want to intimidate her with your handsomeness
Many handsome guys always feel they are blessings to ladies. Just because you are tall, you've got a nice shape and six packs doesn't mean every lady would be running after you. Responsible ladies know that there's more to a man than height and 6 pack, and when you don't have qualities they crave for. I'm sowi your handsomeness may not get you a good girl

7. You Don't Speak calmly.
This shows politeness. If you talk
loudly, it will seem that you're desperate for
attention. Being loud in public isn't just obnoxious, it is also inconsiderate to the people around you. Listen to what people have to say and always make eye

8. You Talk Thrash
Your utterance causes disaffection in the lives of people. You talk about sexual immorality and other trashy topics. Rather, you may talk about intellectual topics (books, art, politics/current events) or fashion and travel. Increase your vocabulary, and stay away from slang terms.

9. The Calibre Of Friends You Keep
Many ladies judge us by the calibre of people we move it. Surround yourself with positive, polite people who encourage and live intelligent and responsible lifestyle. Walk with reasonable people and watch how people will value you. Never stoop to their level, and do not be hasty to make judgments of other people.

10 You Drink & Smoke
Statistics evidently show that responsible ladies can't stand smokers and those who are obsessed with alcohol

Written by: Tosyne2much

http://tosyne2much..com/2015/02/reasons-why-responsible-ladies-may-turn.html
wow
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Royalklins(m): 6:39pm On Feb 26, 2015
True talk
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Horrlah(f): 7:54pm On Feb 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
Who can that person be ? wink
Mario
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Minet16(m): 10:26pm On Feb 26, 2015
vislabraye:


I feel you. We need to define who a responsible girl/lady is.
I would say a working class, ambitious or career minded lady is responsible. But then....they do a lot of funny things.

For instance do responsible ladies use intimacy gadgets too?


LOL.. THEY MIGHT BE RESPONSIBLE CHRACTER WISE

BUT NOT INTIMACY WISE


for instance a lady might have those qualities you mentioned and still like sex before marriage
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by Nobody: 10:15pm On Feb 27, 2015
oshaosha2014:


Who are the ladies gan?? Any little thing happen you call yourselve ladies, is this how a lady behaves - like tout at the Lagos bstop, like omo alata, like shakiru. Come on!

Ok mr observer
Y dont u ask the girls y they behave like cave men

Itk
Re: Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down by oluwalewis(m): 11:31am On Sep 22, 2016
just passing by

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