In the society today, there are several beautiful single ladies whose aspiration is to marry a good husband but due to their ridiculous demands, guys get scared and settle for the ones who understand their financial situation.

However, a responsible lady surely knows the best way to sell herself costly to a guy. The following points are often used by these ladies to get what they want

1. Striking Up Intellectual Discussions

In the era when many ladies are so dumb that they're always quiet during intellectual discussions while the responses you will always get from most of them is "nothing, "I don't know"; responsible ladies advertise themselves by striking up an intellectual discussion and by so doing, this will surely make a man want to get to know more of her.

2. Preparing Delicious Delicacy

An adage says "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach". To keep a man, a lady should be able to know how to cook delicious delicacy that will make canteen foods taste soar to the man. It's very shameful that some ladies read manual before boiling ordinary egg. Responsible ladies are not lazy, they help their mother in the kitchen which improve their cooking skills to suit their men.

3. Approaching Men Diligently

The issue of whether it is ideal for a woman to approach a man has been causing controversy for a long time. By the virtue of this, most ladies are filled with pride and overbloated ego that when you approach them, they will squeeze their faces as if they're drinking "jedi-jedi". Responsible ladies are courageous and confident. They know how to diligently approach a man without the man feeling like he's too special or something.

4. Perseverance and Humility

These are the watchword of responsible ladies which they use to advertise themselves to serious minded men knowing fully when that no matter how beautiful a lady may be, if her behaviour is like that of a thug or tout, no guy will want to approach her.

5. Eating Responsibly/Moderately During Date

I remember when my friend, Tosyne2much, said he once took a lady to an eatery only her to be feeding as if there's famine in Nigeria. He had to borrow transport fare from one of the waiters as he couldn't trek home. Many ladies are like this. Responsible ladies request moderately, they won't order for take-away, infact, some of them will order and will volunteer to pay. This act is such a big turn on for most guys.


6. Dynamism in Intimacy and Romance

I am not saying as a lady, you should have sex frequently but when that special moment comes with your partner, don't allow him to do all the hard-work while you will be lying down like log of wood. Learn several intimate positions most especially from experienced married couples and whirl your man during love making. There is no way he won't consider proposing to you except he doesn't genuinely loves you.

7. Rejecting Gifts

It is very difficult for ladies to reject gifts from guys in this Buhari administration especially if the gift is an expensive one. However, no matter how needy responsible girls can be, they don't show to men that they're money mongers. As a matter of fact, some of them will even reject your money even when they need it.

8. Dressing Responsibly

Another way responsible ladies advertise themselves to men is that they dress appealing and moderately. They don't dress half unclad, they don't wear tattoo, they don't sag their trousers, they don't wear anklets and waist chains that will give men the impression that they're runs girls.

God bless you oga Wristbangle for this wonderful write-up, may God widen your horizon

Since you have started the aluta, let me follow suite by adding to the points

9. They Reply PMs

Another way responsible ladies advert themselves to interested chairmen on social media is that they know how to spot opportunities, hence, they swallow their pride by constantly checking their mails and replying the PMs of the best of chairmen on Nairaland such as Cutehector, Mediapace, etc



10. They Don't Tax Guys For Money

A lady that will find a key to my heart is that who doesn't ask me for a penny no matter how much she needs it (not even N100). I have been dating my girlfriend for about 4 years and the love keeps on waxing stronger mainly because I like the fact that she has never for once asked me for a penny and if I give her, she will definitely reject it

I dey joke ni oooo

Hit like if you think more than 50% of females on Nairaland are proud

share if otherwise

So true

They do these only if the dude is loaded or very handsome and possess some attractive qualities.

Them no get time for ugly or broke guys.



BTW wristbangle, that number six is more like advice

[b]Wristbangle abi na waist chain , you are so so offppoints .

1. Striking Up Intellectual: So in order not to 'advertise' myself, I should 'Keep quiet' about what's on ground . That even makes me look 'dumber' which is a huge turn off .

2: Preparing Delicious Delicacy: I love cooking. It's one of my hobbies. If I don't show my 'proposed husby' my cooking skills, who will I show

3. Approaching Men Diligently: this one is IRONY


4. Approaching Men Diligently: Another IRONY

5. Eating Responsibly/Moderately During Date: mtcheWww . I hate 'Fat' . I don't do it for guys, I do it for myself .
My love for myself is the first step to love another .

6. Dynamism in Intimacy and Romance : Well, one 'sex style' gets boring . We have to change where and how we do it


7. Rejecting Gifts: I won't reject your gift BUT I will never ASK

8. Dressing Responsibly: I Love Fashion. I dress to satisfy myself not anybody .
If a guy don't like it, 3rd mainland bridge is available

Smellymouth, chairman awon werey .[/b]

I never knew ladies now have to advertise themselves.
So when a lady possesses all the aforementioned attitudes, it's as good as advertising herself.

Why would you even use the word advertising. What do some guys even take themselves for?

smellymouth wait ooo wen u reach here

Electricity is gradually becoming eclipse of the sun. Once in blue moon.
Very soon, children will start going on excursion to NEPA to see light

adewumiopeyemi:
smellymo.uth wait ooo wen u reach here

Smellymouth:
Wrist.bangle, pls note this==> Na ONLY Rich Dudes ladies dey advertise themselves give oo..

Iffa hear say ladies advertise sell their market give poor men..

Once you have the Naira, they be like ===>



But if na Dollars, it's like this ===>



But if na POUNDS, it is finished ===>

Lmao

Baba where u dey hijack all these pix na.

Beamborla:
I never knew ladies now have to advertise themselves.
So when a lady possesses all the aforementioned attitudes, it's as good as advertising herself.

Why would you even use the word advertising. What do some guys even take themselves for?

Is the word "advertising", a negative statement? It is only what you want to accomplish with your advertisement, that is where the question is.

adewumiopeyemi:
Electricity is gradually becoming eclipse of the sun. Once in blue moon.
Very soon, children will start going on excursion to NEPA to see light

It's been happening here.

When last did I hear someone say "up NEPA"
Am still thinking.... ;

All these Nairaland girls that can do shakara pass tolotolo

Smellymouth:
Wrist.bangle, pls note this==> Na ONLY Rich Dudes ladies dey advertise themselves give oo..

Iffa hear say ladies advertise sell their market give poor men..

Once you have the Naira, they be like ===>



But if na Dollars, it's like this ===>



But if na POUNDS, it is finished ===>

like the naira image tho

even children sef they don even forget say nepa exist

tempem:

It's been happening here.

When last did I hear someone say "up NEPA"
Am still thinking.... ;

Smellymouth:


Tosyn Wait o, how you take dey occupy FTC on all Wristbangle's topics?

Na coincidence bro

wristbangle:


Is the one "advertising", a negative word? It is only what you want to accomplish with your advertisement, that is where the question is.

Going by this submission of yours, it's looks more like pretending.

I'd rather you admolish ladies and guys to inculcate good morals rather than flashing the light on being responsible for the sake having the 'Mrs' tittle attached to her name in the case of ladies.

Smellymouth:
Wrist.bangle, pls note this==> Na ONLY Rich Dudes ladies dey advertise themselves give oo..

Iffa hear say ladies advertise sell their market give poor men..

Once you have the Naira, they be like ===>



But if na Dollars, it's like this ===>



But if na POUNDS, it is finished ===>

Where do you get all these pics from?

Laveda:


like the naira image tho

kaziblake:
Where do you get all these pics from?

Reaction Gif.com..

/ Evening kazzy..

Issorite

Smellymouth:


Reaction Gif.com..

/ Evening kazzy..

I will check it out

Evening smelly Nice diary

Noted