Blackett:
It's capable of making blind people cry.

gracile:

dumb! again

CharlesNneji1:
I have been getting loads and loads of emails and messages from guys who want me to write on this topic.

And you know what, I am going to reveal to you 3 tricks that you can use to approach any girl, talk to her, get her number and leave and she won't know that you just toasted her.

I know, sounds confusing right?

Stay with me, you will get this.

By the way, if you've not read my article on how to talk to girls - read it here: www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

Now, to what I was saying:

One painful thing most guys pass through is seeing pretty gorgeous girls they would like to talk to but, due to fear of been insulted or embarrassed by the babe, what they do is to allow that fear make them not to make a move on her.

Sometimes these girls are not just pretty but friendly also, yet - the very thought of walking up to her and starting a conversation makes your heart pound, with sweat pouring down your face.

Then after you have succeeded in convincing yourself not to approach her, you go home and imagine all the things you would have said - if only you had approached her

It's absolutely normal, I know how you feel - every guy feels that way from time to time.

But you know what; using these secrets I am about to reveal right here you would be able to walk to any girl no matter how classy she is and get her number and she would be happy to give it to you, even if you two just met. With this secret you won't be afraid of getting embarrassed by a girl again.

Now, let's begin...

Forget whatever you've been told while growing up

The step by step formular to use in approaching girls is this:

#1. Approach with an Ice breaker
#2. Make a Rapport
#3. Inject player's conversational skills
#4. Take her number and leave.

Now; I will take number one first

#1. APPROACH WITH AN ICE-BREAKER:

THE BASICS: Most guys still approach girls with the same methods they used as teenagers.

They walk up to a girl, tell her they like her and expect her to drop her number into his phone.

Haba na, na jaz?

Here is the hard truth, bro...so far she is more than 18, no girl will type her phone number into your phone just because you told her you like her. Not unless you are micheal jackson or jayz.

Here is why:

One; Girls hear "I like you all the time". It doesn't work anymore; it worked when she was in secondary school - but after two heartbreaks, her eyes have cleared my guy.

Two; when you tell a girl that you like her, she will automatically begin to play hard to get - that is what she was trained to do from when she started getting her first toasters

If you don't use "ice breakers" when walking up to a girl she would either not take you seriously, or she would be rude to you or she would just plainly ignore you.

So what are ice breakers?

They are just tricks or excuse you use just to talk to a girl and to lower her defences.

Let me give you real life examples: when you walk up to a girl and say something like;

"hi, I will be quick with this - I was having an argument with a friend and he said girls are more interested in money than love, you seem smart, I think you answer would make sense - what do you think, money or love - which works on you girl?"

I know; it's long abi?

But guess what, it always works - every single time.

9 times out of ten, this simple question has always led to a girl blabbing about how love is more important or love is more important (it never fails for me).

After she has blabbed on a bit; here is the next trick - smile, say something like - "wow, that was so insightful, you be great analyser sha. My friend really needs to hear you speak - I would love to continue this conversation some other time, gat to run now"

Then bring out your phone and add: "call your number, please"

This is basic psychology - when you ask a girl for her phone number in this way she would have little resistance giving you her number.

This is why:

One; You have tricked her into believing you just want her number to further the conversation and If she says no, it would seem like she is taking the whole interaction too seriously.

Two; she doesn't have to play hard to get because you gave her the impression that you only need her opinion, and not her number so you can chyke her.

This is major trick of all these players who effortlessly get girl's number - there is nothing special about them, they just know these things, that's all.

If you just walk up to a girl you just met, sing "love poems" for her and expect her to drop her number for you then you go beg tire o.

(I gave more examples of ice breakers in my e-book, The Bang Rule, see my profile for numbers to reach so you can get the e-book)

Now; if she still refuses to give you her number after you have used this little trick what it means is that you didn't use the following during your conversation with her.

#2. Making a Rapport
#3. Injecting player's conversational skills

I will explain how to apply them in my next post here.

By the way: I explained how to talk to girls here: www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

In my next post here on this thread, I will show you how to, One - make a rapport with a girl you just met and make her feel like you two have known for ages.

This step would make her eagerly give you her number after you've used the icebreaker on her and finally ask for her number.

But getting a girl's number is nothing, the most important thing is making her fall in love with you afterwards.

In my ebook, The Bang Rule...ultimate guild of seduction for Nigerian Guys", I explained how to make a girl go crazily in love with you by just applying some simple powerfully effective tricks. (See my profile for a picture of the e-book's cover)

To get the e-book, add me on watsap for details on how to get it. (My watsapp number is on my profile - click my name to see it)

Watch out for the other two tips, right here.

Shalom, brothers. Stay tuned

gracile:
the latest trend now is how to woo a girl , how win her heart blah blah blah all bullcrap!
some peeps need to get a life seriously

Blackett:
But you changed it 10 minutes ago. . .



I win.

gracile:

okay
but I bet u don't like d new one

Frankly, this one is better.

Blackett:
Frankly, this one is better.

naijaboiy:

Bro! I agree with you that there are natural ways you can walk up to girls and collect their numbers without any hassle.

But there are stubborn ones also.

I believe that's the reason why these tips are here. It's just to help bringing down the girls defence a little to make things easier for the guy.

The exact words you'll use in talking to her will still come from within and not from any tip or guideline.

Don't also forget that we have extremely and chronic shy guys who can't even walk up to a lady naturally because they lack conversation start-up skills.

This could also be of help to them.

All i'm saying is let's not downgrade the efforts of the Op to help some guys out and also to discourage them by our words.

gracile:

aww!

Just kidding.

Blackett:
Just kidding.

gracile:

iamrealdeji:
Op always think fine girls are too scarce,come to Ilorin here,you go see fine girls tire

UniqueGem:
which ilorin are you talking about here? Is it the capital of kwara state I have been to? Mr. Stop deceiving urself, that city is dry, filled with ugly dark skinned things without pride. That city is dry even their campus that should be bubbling looks like a deserted land. No recreational park. Dry Dry land I tell you. Come to Lagos where choices are unlimited, Abuja is also a choice, Ph isn't bad either. Never ever use Fun/Beauty in the same sentence with Ilroin. The only good thing about Ilorin is that it's cool and calm.

Sexystella:
Thought I read something familiar but of a different writer.

gracile:
the latest trend now is how to woo a girl , how win her heart blah blah blah all bullcrap!
some peeps need to get a life seriously

AgapeCharis:
Reminds me of a particular guy in school way back 2008. The guy was in 400l then studying mechanical engineering. One day while we were all gathered in the hostel a guy said; come o chika! Since I don know you no girl don ever come visit you for this hostel! I never see you follow girl stand dey talk to am! I never see any girl greet you! Oga tell us your problem! Is it that you no sabi how dem dey yarn babe?? Trust everyone was already laughing excessively. Chika wanted to prove him wrong so, he started boasting and we were like ok suppose a girl walk pass us now, how will you start up a convo with her. Lemme not type chika's answer here cos you might just get ur ribs broken

Nice one op

AgapeCharis:
Change this one joor

p2t2r:
and some girls need to get laid seriously.

gracile:

haha, some one cannot bear to see how they'll look like in the nearest future
sorry sha, I no fit change am.

wristwatch:
Good one OP. Some guys don't want 2 learn. Do u think it's all about money. If you think getting a girl is all about money, then get ready 2 be a maga.

As long as u are presentable and know how to strike a conversation, getting a pretty lady will be easy.

As for me I play along the way situation is before initiating a conversation.

Yesterday I met a beautiful female banker and I initiated a conversation that has to do with opening a new account, d requirements, etc. To cut d story, I said few words appreciating her outfit not even her beauty. I told her when next I come I will love to see her on fringe hairstyle. Before I left d bank, she was d one that requested 4 my number.

I have attained tremendous success in taking a girl's contact when I meet them for d 1st time.

Blackett:
Haha. Women always pride themselves in being hard to get. But they all have a soft spot. All of them. Find that spot, make them laugh, and the rest they say, is history.

Keketu:
make them laugh? in 2015? ahha . you must be one of those local clown trying to use humor to replace nice steady romantic sweet talks

Blackett:
You must be an _idiot to quote me and say nonsense.