Rapmoney:
Read the post again. The young man wasn't talking about the gum you buy from shops to chew!@Op, guy, u try! Oya, continue the matter; I dey feel u

guy no mind de chick,she saw gum n rush to bla bla her mouth.... u did what i intended to do..kudos

This is so on point!

Really

I complete agree with the OP. Show your interest on the first day. And don't do to much after that. You need to ignore the nonsense you see on nollywood or Hollywood! The way a woman reacts to you will determine the type or woman she is.

1. The woman that prefers a man that is persistent and looking for her attention.
2. The woman that prefers you respect and be considerate about her time so she can make up her mind about you.
3. The woman that will want to talk to you and see how things go.

As for me...I do not call women after I get their number. I may text them once in a while but I can assure you that majority of them eventually call me. As say something like

"hey! How are you? I know we chat alot....I just thought I call you today instead!"

Vickydera2:
hey I understand the op very well. am trying to say wat I hate abt some guys

do you chew gum?

Nori:
This is so on point!

Thanks, sweet. Yo smart.

I like thy hairstyle, tho, will ask my girlfriend to call you. Tell her the hairstyle's name. I want her to go get it.

Vickydera2:
I hate guys that chew gum in my front n blow it. #irritating

i don't mind a guy chewin gum, infact its kinda sexy depending on how he is chewing it o(some peepz chew like camels).. blowing d gum is out of d way.
d op is so on point

NUMBER #2 MISTAKE: SURRENDERING.

This is one major mistake most guys make when it comes to the girls they like and you know what? This one mistake is the main reason why most girls turn them down.

If you keep making this mistake girls will either keep looking down on you or would prefer to be just friends with you instead of dating you.

Let me make this clearer:

Every girl loves a man; a real man. Someone who is in control and not someone they can control.

A girl will not see you as a man who is in control if you keep struggling and trying to impress her all the time.

It's cool to try and make an impression on a girl, be caring on her and all BUT this doesn't mean you should become and act like her slave.

Alright; let me give you an example.

Some guys get offended by a girl they like, get tongue lashed by the girl and still beg her for forgiveness (even though they were wronged) - this is not romantic, it's foolish. And when you act this way, girls will never feel butterflies with you. Even if they date you, it would be out of pity - and bro; that relationship won't work

That's just one.

I have seen cases where a guy always tried to please a girl, giving in to her every request, basically worshipping her...

...And still he got dumped.


When you surrender your manliness to a woman and becomes her slave; it will put her off. Yes, she might like you as a friend but not as a boyfriend - no woman dates her slave.

You have to project value.

- If a girl makes you angry, tell her - don't just smile and act like you like what she did.

Be a man. Be in control. Don't go around begging her for love; because you see guys doing it in movies doesn't mean it works in real life.

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snowhyt:
i don't mind a guy chewin gum, infact its kinda sexy depending on how he is chewing it o(some peepz chew like camels).. blowing d gum is out of d way.
d op is so on point

Thanks for dah Last line.

You like chewing gum chopping boys? *smiles* hmmm, ok na

justmag:
I complete agree with the OP. Show your interest on the first day. And don't do to much after that. You need to ignore the nonsense you see on nollywood or Hollywood! The way a woman reacts to you will determine the type or woman she is.

1. The woman that prefers a man that is persistent and looking for her attention.
2. The woman that prefers you respect and be considerate about her time so she can make up her mind about you.
3. The woman that will want to talk to you and see how things go.

As for me...I do not call women after I get their number. I may text them once in a while but I can assure you that majority of them eventually call me. As say something like

"hey! How are you? I know we chat alot....I just thought I call you today instead!"

Confirm guy

snowhyt:
i don't mind a guy chewin gum, infact its kinda sexy depending on how he is chewing it o(some peepz chew like camels).. blowing d gum is out of d way.
d op is so on point

human chewing like camel! I dey fear o

talking from experience

All this just becos of girls...dats why i like myself i dont have time for all dis...if a girl does not accept me for who i am her loss ..

Blackvampire:
All this just becos of girls...dats why i like myself i dont have time for all dis...if a girl does not accept me for who i am her loss ..

I like the way you think.

Vickydera2:
I hate guys that chew gum in my front n blow it. #irritating

.cos of u...from today, I'll stop chewing gum

Jaycool18:
.cos of u...from today, I'll stop chewing gum

'Surrendering' even as d OP is still writing?!

Francman:

'Surrendering' even as d OP is still writing?!

lol

Francman:

'Surrendering' even as d OP is still writing?!

one of the pest op talking about

redcliff:


Yea, its a lovehate thing because she is only angry you are not taking her seriously but she reallly likes you.

hmmmmm..... so what happens when it extends for a long time?

nekaa:
hmmmmm..... so what happens when it extends for a long time?

Lol. you tell me

redcliff:


Lol. you tell me

then she really begins to believe you not taking her seriously...

Vickydera2:
I hate guys that chew gum in my front n blow it. #irritating

ur soo old school babe

nekaa:
then she really begins to believe you not taking her seriously...

owkaaay!

CharlesNneji1:


Thanks for dah Last line.

You like chewing gum chopping boys? *smiles* hmmm, ok na

yea, as long as he doesnt make it a habit, i'm cool with it

malonephill:
human chewing like camel! I dey fear o
talking from experience

yep

CharlesNneji1:


Thanks, sweet. Yo smart.

I like thy hairstyle, tho, will ask my girlfriend to call you. Tell her the hairstyle's name. I want her to go get it.

Charles wat kind of mind have u got?...its flawless... I love it

Oh well....a hot bath for geez, and after reading all dx sum virgin boiz will still b shakin after gals again loool.....nice one bruh, feeling zha nikka

Vickydera2:
I hate guys that chew gum in my front n blow it. #irritating

Are you serious?

Did you read the subject submission?

CharlesNneji1:


Thanks, sweet. Yo smart.

I like thy hairstyle, tho, will ask my girlfriend to call you. Tell her the hairstyle's name. I want her to go get it.

thanks.....waiting for the call

the only thing i'll say is dat be urself around girls u love and av it in mind dat u can be rejected. How many of these dos and donts do i need to cram to maintain my relationship.?

Lies, women don't even know what they want?one thing I know,they all love care,money and sex

Hmm,noted